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 TruthinessIncorporate

Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 26
What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/26/2009 12:22:02 AM
Balancing a bucket of KFC on my stomach...gravy in one hand...the remote in the other..while I watch my girl doing light yard work in some SCANDALOUS Daisy Dukes..a white tied up tank top...and I'm going to have to go with her doing all this while barefoot....MMMmmmmm...

I wish I could somehow put this to music...*wipes away a tear*





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 forumnite

Joined: 5/8/2009
Msg: 27
What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/26/2009 12:33:28 AM
hahaha Dave! I do have the crew as part of the fantasy but only that they are allowed to touch me and do everything except penetrate! That is only for the capitan!

Oh and never EVER do any of the men smell in my fantasy...hehehe...they are all handsome and look like they just came out of a GQ mag.

And gay...bleh...no fantasy of mine would include a willy licker!
 DJRQLD

Joined: 5/3/2009
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/26/2009 12:39:43 AM
To finds someone that love you for what your are not who. To have that one persons when thay ring you your heart skips a beat .To not wake up a lone . Guys just be cairful what you wish for in a fantasy because if one day it comes tru it mite all go pear shaped very quickly .
 countrychica

Joined: 1/11/2009
Msg: 29
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/26/2009 2:05:58 AM
I will say I have only one left to fulfill and not sure I will ever get the chance to. I plead the fifth to what it is as it will incriminate me. And I like to keep some surprises for the right man. Come on you knew this was a no brainer. Who would share intimate thoughts like this? honestly?
 joanne1357

Joined: 9/20/2008
Msg: 30
What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/26/2009 4:01:34 AM
very good Dave

my fantasies shall remain...mine
 13karat

Joined: 3/7/2009
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/26/2009 6:24:12 AM
Several of the posters only answered the original question in the thread title... and I meant for this thread to become more of a discussion as to people's attitudes toward fantasies, rather than discussing the specific fantasies. I just thought that if you put out the general idea that fantasy, it might help spark discussion.

1 - What is your number one fantasy?
MFM - but I fully realize it is destined to remain a fantasy... for a few reasons, and I am good with it.

2 - Or is there more than one, depending on the "emotional climate?"
There are a few.... and yes, they vary on the "emotional climate."

3 - Do you want to pursue this fantasy, or are you happy with it remaining "just a fantasy?"
It will remain a fantasy... in fact, I am more comfortable with it remaining a fantasy than I am with enacting it.

4 - Have you or would you share your fantasies with your partner?
Verbally...... yes.... beyond that... hmmmm...... time will tell.

As for there being other forum threads on this subject... yes, there are threads on fantasies, but none with the depth of what I was looking for .... or with more than just one question.
 MikeM1968

Joined: 11/3/2007
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/26/2009 6:46:14 AM

1 - What is your number one fantasy?

MFF - I already tried the MMF - wouldn't do that again. I didn't even stay for the whole session (back when I was drinking too - I'm sure being drunk off my ass influenced that decision also).


2 - Or is there more than one, depending on the "emotional climate?"

One at a time please - not too many others except the MFF one left really - maybe a woman that enjoys anal? I guess that's another one. Other than those - not too many left really. Why woukd it depend on an emotional climate? Who said I was in a relationship with this / these women? Maybe it's just a one time deal or a fling. Probably the only way it would work to be honest. I can't see the kind of woman I could have a relationship with being that open and into something like a threesome. Hell, that would bug me out a bit.



3 - Do you want to pursue this fantasy, or are you happy with it remaining "just a fantasy?"

If it happens it happens - I'm not pursuing it otherwise. I've come close once or twice already which leads me to believe it will happen soon enough. It's probably gonna be a one time deal just to say "yeah - I was in a MFF" - then I won't even want it anymore. It'll be like "been there / done that" - I could also go the rest of my life without ever having lived it - but it's not looking like that's the case.



4 - Have you or would you share your fantasies with your partner?

My partner(s) for the MFF? Never said they'd be anything more than a one time deal though. Not women I'd be introducing to the family or anything like that - Yes - I'm sharing it here too aren't I? LOL
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/26/2009 7:37:17 AM
At this point, just waking up next to the one I love.

Once I have that, I'd be into various "role-playing" scenarios, like student/teacher, employee/boss or something along those lines (and I'd be open to playing either character).

I suppose the two girls on one guy is every man's fantasy, but I know from my brother's experience (he did that) that it gets weird...one person always feels left out, and it just might be me (lol), so that one is perhaps better left a fantasy.
 ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/26/2009 7:42:57 AM
Number one fantasy? That's so easy...



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 SirSpankaLot7

Joined: 2/17/2009
Msg: 35
What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/26/2009 9:02:23 AM
1. Guess
2. More then one total and yes it depends.
3. "Ride boldy ride", replied the shade, "if you seek for El Dorado."
4. Sure why not?
 LakeCountyGal

Joined: 9/4/2008
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/26/2009 9:10:35 PM

1 - What is your number one fantasy?
Someone who is open to other types of fantasies from time to time an not afraid of mind. I do have a kinkier side from time to time


2 - Or is there more than one, depending on the "emotional climate?"
Duh. Daydreaming about sex would get kind of boring, if you didn't have more then one fantasy


3 - Do you want to pursue this fantasy, or are you happy with it remaining "just a fantasy?"
There are some I'd love to pursue if I was dating someone who was open to some of them, but only after we've gotten to that point. I want an emotional connection first, not just physical intimacy. Some things are ok just staying fantasies though.


4 - Have you or would you share your fantasies with your partner?
Just tell them. I tend to be pretty open when it comes to my sexual interests, once I'm dating someone regularly.
 Excellent_Guy

Joined: 2/21/2009
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/26/2009 11:12:48 PM
Fantasy? To find the right person to have a fantasy with.
 windloverr

Joined: 2/29/2008
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/27/2009 1:43:07 AM
I guess my number one unfulfilled recurring fantasy is to join the "mile-high" club. Other than that there are fantasies that should remain exactly that; simply mental stimulation that is never meant to come to fruition; and fantasies the change depending on your partner, and the sexual/emotional climate at the moment.
 e-Mancipated

Joined: 11/24/2007
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/27/2009 3:46:32 AM

I was thinking on what my number one fantasy is.... and I haven't really decided

Hmmm... is it still a fantasy if you have to think about it and "decide"?

As for my #1 fantasy - probably a scene involving myself and [n] other women, in which we can all do whatever we want with eachother's bodies.

And I've come close to fulfilling it by having a hooker threesome!
 catman50

Joined: 9/9/2008
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 5/27/2009 4:32:35 AM
the fantasy of my imagination . tell it here and someone COULD use it for porntext . porntext ? what is that . something new . when a guy breaks up with a woman he texts everyone there sex life . some things are better left alone . IF , you ladies have a fantasy of a guy with a good job . well , that will never ahppen . each minute . 5,000 are being laid off .
 in69out

Joined: 6/5/2009
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 6/24/2009 4:10:15 PM
there are no rules. No-one can accuse me of being right or wrong, nice or nasty, because (thank God) no-one has yet invented a device to read minds.
 Ssongbird

Joined: 3/19/2009
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 6/24/2009 4:42:40 PM
I don't have sexual fantasies. I know this is not typical but someone PLEASE tell me it's OK not to. I always felt abnormal. When I start thinking of sex it's just the normal stuff that I think about.
The fantasy I have heard from 2 different men is simply waking up to find their woman going down on them.
 2Irish1

Joined: 9/1/2008
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 6/24/2009 4:55:33 PM
hmmmm....how's about...hmmmmm.....well shoot...how about sex with a woman I love..
 hellgremlin

Joined: 5/23/2009
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 6/24/2009 4:57:35 PM
My number one fantasy: Sex with Halle Berry.
My number two fantasy: Sex with Halle Berry, again.
 pro-filer

Joined: 5/9/2008
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 6/24/2009 5:08:10 PM

I don't have sexual fantasies. I know this is not typical but someone PLEASE tell me it's OK not to

Hey, me neither for a lot of years ... till I was 40+ and yeah, I felt atypical. But then had some other stuff happen in my life, which seems to have kick-started my fantasy-creator, and now I have plenty of them. No pirates for me though; their dirt and smell come through for me, even in fantasy.

Many, maybe most, fantasies are better left fantasies, imo. I've experienced a few that I had or he had, and while fun enough at the time, I didn't come anywhere near getting off at the time, only in anticipation and retrospect do they contribute to climatic results.

Like some others have said, my biggest fantasy is meeting someone to share my fantasies with! That's one fantasy I'm all good with experiencing.
 DemonDingleBerry

Joined: 6/7/2009
Msg: 46
What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 6/24/2009 5:22:07 PM

1 - What is your number one fantasy?

To receive an email that said "Hey, I just won the lottery so quit my supermodel and humanitarian work, want to go see the new transformers movie in my private theater and then tell me if my new cheerleader or nurse outfit looks better on me, as I grill up a couple of 4 lb Iowa corn fed beef fillet wrapped in bacon? I have chives AND sour cream for the potatoes. The smell of onions and garlic turn me on. Plus I accidentally left my air conditioning on all day. And I swear I am not your mother, brother, or friend playing a joke on you."


2 - Or is there more than one, depending on the "emotional climate?"

Oh. Okay. "emotional climate." I guess it would change to meatloaf on certain days. Maybe a (patent pending) Big-A*ss-Salad on other days. Maybe even a cop uniform.
Sometimes I fantasize about making out in a park.


3 - Do you want to pursue this fantasy, or are you happy with it remaining "just a fantasy?"

I like pursuing parts of the fantasy at different times. If I don't fulfill the entire thing at once it means I still have something to look forward to.
Sometimes I like to live vicariously through others...what did you have for dinner last night?
I think I should stop posting to forums when I'm hungry.


4 - Have you or would you share your fantasies with your partner?

Only if I thought they had a chance to fulfill it, or if they asked me to tell it to them.
 Accidentally In Love

Joined: 6/28/2008
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 6/24/2009 5:43:55 PM
I'll have what forumnite's having minus DAVE632's nasty suck-the-wind-out-of-my-pirate-sails dose of reality!
 rhodax

Joined: 6/11/2009
Msg: 48
What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 6/24/2009 7:09:34 PM
First a qualifier - the cool thing about fantasy is that you can do whatever you like regardless of whether you'd ever even consider doing it for real. Many fantasies are best left in the realm of imagination; some because you'd go to jail, some because you just couldn't do that to another person; and third because fantasies always work out exactly how you like and real life rarely does so why ruin a great fantasy?

1 & 2) I have many but long ago realized that they all have a recurring central theme - that I'm an excellent lover. Whatever the fantasy my partner(s) always end up completely satisfied and wanting more (once they recover).

3) Pursue #1 no matter what. I've already lived out several of the more common fantasies, some turned out great while others were removed from my repertoire due to reality not living up to fantasy (which is how I leaned that some fantasies are best left as is).

4) I have and still would but to be honest its mostly been the women that went into their fantasies and I got mine fulfilled by default.
 medchick911

Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 49
What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 6/24/2009 10:40:47 PM
I cant narrow it down, i'm sorry. but top few...

1. handcuffed to the bed, he strips my clothes off, cold cold room. and he takes his sweet time teasing me. and uses and abuses me to his delight. and leaves me handcuffed til we're done sleeping it off, and we have work the next morning. helps if he has a whip
2. would love to do the above to the guy, cept would make him have a tiny tiny gag for a while, and sit in a chair.

3. have a fireman, wearing nothing but his fireman suspenders.
4. club bouncer , sex, standing-enough said
5. sex against a large window, in a public place.
 2Irish1

Joined: 9/1/2008
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What is your number one fantasy?
Posted: 6/25/2009 6:10:30 AM
Sex with someone else in the room....yes....a woman...smart a$$
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