Jim978
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 12:12:45 PM |
As for kissing yes the therapist did say that because I do love to kiss and often can't wait till the second date, I should wait till the second date.
IMO, this is a key bit of info that you probably should have included in your opening post. While most here have responded to the general concept, your therapist knows significantly more about the specifics of YOUR situation. The therapist's advice is custom tailored to YOU. If someone else asked him they might get an entirely different response from him. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 12:23:49 PM | kay I can see some love to mock others who go for therapy and yet others like to make fun of people just for the hell of it. What is it with the people in Quebec who seem to have very mean dispositions? I hope everyone is not like that in Quebec but on the forums it is a bit obvious there is something wrong.
I take my gloves Off for this one:
OP:
- So on your initial post, either you are lying your teeth out by stating that your therapist said"all men bla bla bla" or he is NOT a therapist at all....and YOU take it as "mocking people"; right? Are you brain dead? But now I know it is NOT your therapist who said that: it's your invention.
- On your second post, you use RACISM and b! an entire province as a pathetic defence and seeing that you got caught, tries to smooth angles and add data to pass the pill.
- all of your other post in other thread claim that men cannot remove their hand off your body (you sure it wasnt just around your neck?).
I add all of your things, post etc etc and arrive to two simple conclusion (and I will put them in words even you can understand):
Madame OP:
1) Either you are a complete psycho who believe her own delusion and need to register herself back to the psychiatric ward she must have escaped from.
2) You are a compulsive liar (and a racist) who doesn't have a life whatsoever and need to INVENT drama to get any form of attention from anyone, and should anyway register herself to a psychiatric ward in order to see a REAL mental health professional.
One way or the other: 5 out of 6 of your statements in this thread are LIES and INVENTION and you know it. The 6th (claiming battered..) will not surprise me at all to find out that it might be one of your other lies and inventions (at a level or another).
YOU'RE BUSTED!
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 12:49:03 PM | No your busted Lack of commonsense cause your the one calling me names and you think some how your so much better than I am. Your not and nothing you say or do will change that. I could say all kinds of derogatory things about you but why lower myself to your pathetic level.
If you want my therapist Name and phone number to confirm what I said was 100 % true be my guest. I know you won't do that because you would have to admit your wrong and that would be a tragedy lol. Get over youself. Be a man and stop cutting people apart cause they are not like you or live where you live.
It so easy to sit behind a computer and spew rotten lowdown immature remarks when you are not face to face with the person.
And yes as a matter of fact my ex did try to strangle me and I passed out so me thinks you must do that to your women or you would think this kind of behavior was appalling. True colors coming out ha? | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 12:52:52 PM | | I never do it until i get to know the person which is usually around the 2nd or 3rd date. By then we both know we have mutual interest. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 12:58:31 PM | YES I WANT YOUR SO CALLED THERAPIST NAME AND PHONE!!!!! and do not forget to send it with a information divulgation authorisation (PDRIMA) as needed in such case.
1) if he said what you claim he said (and it is all printed on this site): that a big professional no-no...and he should be exposed and taken out; but also, since I know you are lying, to recommend to him (if he even exist) another treatment in your case after he will have read this thread.
2) your infantil reply simply follow the psyc profile you have displayed (yickes), and guess on what page(s) of the DSM IV you fall in?
3) your last line was especially interesting, it display YOUR true nature and do not even realise it. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 1:01:24 PM |
If you want my therapist Name and phone number to confirm what I said was 100 % true be my guest.
If your therapist talks to *anyone* else regarding what you spoke about in confidence during your session (barring a subpoena), he should lose his license and be barred from practicing. So no one can "call him and ask." Which you probably know. If you don't, you should.
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 1:03:32 PM | | Commonsense unless you have the facts and know me you have no right to ridicule me about my life or my situation. You can comment on kissing or not on a first date but to bash me for going to therapy and needing help for being battered, and calling me a lier and a psyco is so uncalled for. You have no idea how despicable you sound. i do Plan on showing my therapist your responses and I am sure he is going to have some very interesting comments about your attitude and demeanor which btw stinks so bad I can smell your meaness all the way down here. You may need anger management bud. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 1:09:35 PM | | Your right Estrella he is a professional and can not share my personal information with anyone. So I have no defense other than the fact that I know in my heart what he said and I know he was just looking out for my best interest. This has once again turned into a bashing constest and I refuse to be in because I grew up. I don't need to fight or argue. Being nice is much less work and more fun. I feel particularly void for mean people who have nothing better to do. I don't understand mean people. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 1:10:05 PM |
I know you get off coming down on me, but I assure you I am not in anyway looking to bash anyone.
I don't... and although one may not feel that they're bashing anyone, that doesn't mean that they're void of falsely stereotyping in a negative light (ie bash guys in this case). If a goodnight kiss on a first date is giving a wrong idea by implying an invitation for sex that night, then that bashes guys... and double-standard accusations can be taken to be called out as bashing if they're far off the mark and make a gender look bad. And I'm sorry, but I don't see his point that it would be like that. I'm sure if you talk with him again about it, he'd clear things up, and if there is no clearing up and that's the way it is -- I suggest getting a guy who has better stereotyping. :) | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 1:10:31 PM | he he he he
I knew you will NOT do anything YOU offered and claimed to do; why? because you LIED, then you tried to LIE some more in defence, and then LIE again to escape as you start to get some pressure and realise the whole implications of your lies
Compulsive liar is what you are.
Inventing drama is your game.
Racism, stereotyping and deroagation is your only defence under pressure.
caught, busted and unable to escape you are.
so go ahead...bla bla some more if you want to; the little pressure I placed on you to reveal yourself worked like a charm. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 1:24:35 PM | | azureorb if I am putting down men please show me where. I just asked if kissing is an invitation to have sex. What if I were a lesbian what would you say I am bashing another woman? Please stop grasping at straws to find fault with my posts At least I have the courage to put myself out there and be vulnerable. That takes guts and confidence to share on a public forum. I don't run and hide after people mock me for things I do like going to a therapist. I have no reason to run and hide. I did nothing wrong. There for I am not ashamed of my post. I am hurt and bewildered by some of the posts but so what . I will get over it. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 1:27:12 PM | You should only kiss after 6 months.
(the above comment was meant to be funny, but obviously this thread has escalated to a flame war between participant so the humor that it may have, is all but gone. So people. Just chill. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 1:30:15 PM | For those that posted and gave sensible non threatening responses thank you. I should just ignore the rifraff. Infact i will. lol. Let them stew in their own ick juice.
I am off to have fun and enjoy life.
When mean people surface and show their ugly selves turn the other way and pay them no mind. Cause mean people have no mind just seething anger. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 2:20:40 PM | ^^^^ as long as you're not kissing your therapist, what's the big deal? I could tell you a story....a long juicy one.
[Edit: OOPS!! Flame war!!! Grab the weiners - we're havin' a cookout everyone!!] | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 3:28:57 PM | i'm intrigued by the word "therapist" (the rapist)
-anyway back to the post,,,
-not saying my intentions are to drag her back to my cave and have sex with her on the first date, however, if i dont want to kiss her on the first date -i most likely don't want to have sex with her -ever.
"a kiss is just a kiss" -you turn it into whatever you want | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 5:28:29 PM | its only a kiss or it depends what kind of kiss both parties will give.
A simply short kiss on the cheeks on the first date is okey and it wont lead to sex.Probably long torrid kiss on the first date is an invitation for sex.It just depend on you.
Sex or no sex on first date youre the one who will control the situation.
Men are just ready to anything what will happen..so its up to you what you want to happen..including the kiss. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 5:55:38 PM | lol luck that is funny about the word the rapist. Never thought of it that way. I am intrigued by words too.
I have this hang up if you will about kissing. It has to be over the top good or I will not be turned on ever. Some people are turned on by what ever and thats cool but my thing is kissing. So if I kiss a guy on the first date and its great I look forward to dating him again cause chances are other things will be good too. I am usually right. On the other hand if a kiss is not good it is a turn off. Not that someone can be taught but there is something about a great kiss. Of course the person has to have a great personality too. Plus common interests.
I like to kiss so much I was wondering if maybe I was going for the kiss too fast. My counselor agreed. Btw I meant to say counselor not therapist. Not that it makes a difference. I was wondering if others also wait till the second date. Didn't think I would end up being called "stupid" " psycho" "liar" " and a slew of other derogatory names. Wow amazing how some people can be ready to attack at the drop of a hat. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/29/2009 9:10:26 PM | | I don't know about everyone else but if I like the guy, I will kiss him goodnight - long enough and deep enough to make it memorable. I think "kissing is an art form" and there is a lot of emotion in a kiss....so go for it if it feel right but don't if it doesn't. Enjoy! | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/30/2009 12:30:41 AM | Depends on the quality of the kiss.
OH God I just remembered one date I had. Sigh...
Some kisses just make you say "call me easy and late for breakfast!" | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/30/2009 5:23:01 PM | If I like someone, and I'm attracted to them, I might want to kiss them on a first date. I think more women should wait on the sex part, but what's wrong with a kiss? Your therapist makes no sense.
All guys are going to want sex, no matter what date it is, if they are attracted to you. So, when you kiss them, doesn't really matter. They key is to stop it at kissing if you're not ready for more than that yet.
Besides, sometimes I want to know if a guy is a good kisser sooner then later.  | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 5/30/2009 5:27:12 PM | A kiss is a kiss, it doesn't need to be more than that.. If you are attracted you may want to kiss the person, doesn't mean that you are interested in sex..
That comes later if both parties want it.. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/1/2009 4:35:10 PM |
What is it with the people in Quebec who seem to have very mean dispositions? I hope everyone is not like that in Quebec but on the forums it is a bit obvious there is something wrong.
LOL, yeah, screw Quebec!!! | |
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