| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/8/2009 12:45:29 PM | You are welcome to the esteemed title of "kissing slut", but why would you thank me for the idea when you are the one who came up with it?
Why yes, I am a ****. Thanks for stating the obvious.  | |
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toy09
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/9/2009 12:40:26 PM | | I DON'T THINK WE KNOW THE WHOLE STORY ON WHY YOUR THERAPIST WOULD TELL YOU NOT TO KISS ON THE FIRST DATE. KISSING IS A VERY STRONG AND SPECIAL THING THAT "SHOULD" HAVE FEELINGS ATTACHED TO IT OTHER THAN SEXUAL. IF YOU KISS ON THE FIRST DATE HE WILL WONDER HOW FAR HE CAN ACTUALLY GET YOU TO GO. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/9/2009 1:49:05 PM |
A kissing slut is someone who kisses just about anyone for fun and enjoyment. An "easy" gal to kiss, if you will.
*tries to hang head in shame*
...*gives up*
kissing is just too darn fun
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/9/2009 1:52:16 PM |
A kiss is an invitation to sex as much as:
A beach is an invitation to drowning;
A beautiful starry night is an invitation to insomnia;
Combs and hairbrushes cause baldness;
Pencils and keyboards cause illiteracy;
I could go on and on, but you get the point.
i like this
well said, go rin | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/13/2009 1:17:16 AM | I have to call complete BS on your post and your Bi Polar profile.
Maybe troll at one of your Flea markets or yard sales for sex .
Me thinks you are your own "therapist" and should be fired now. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/13/2009 1:28:45 AM | Afashionedlady can read your profile as the rest of us can and your BS post.
You do not need to "date" or anything that subjects another to catch what ever illness you have going on with men or sex issues.
Your profile screams "I want sex"
Your post screams It better be "great sex "and that you are a complete female tool.
She makes sense as usual and so do the others you bash, that took time out to respond to this crapola.
You claim to have joy in your life? Must be the brand of dish liquid you use. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/13/2009 8:56:58 AM | NO, a kiss is not an invitation to have sex but you shouldn't be kissing someone unless it is someone you would like to have sex with at some point or a possibility Kissing to me is a type of forplay! With the right person and when the time is right to kiss I assure you it just comes naturally as does anything that follows afterwards.
I had a second dinner date with a guy recently. (The first one we were on was a blind date and he was so nice that I thought okay lets see if there's a spark on the second one) When he came to pick me up he brought me a flowering plant and a teddy bear for my daughter because he knew she was sick recently. Ok, that was very sweet and I meant it when I thanked him. We went to dinner. It was plesant conversation at times but he has issues with breaking up his sentences and not finishing a thought before adding more to it. Even though he was a very nice guy, I couldn't find the tiniest spark....no connection...so, I did not flirt...I did not gaze in his eyes...none of the things you would naturaly do when you are attracted to a person. I told him I wanted to pay for dinner because he had paid the first time and I would be uncomfortable with him paying again, mostly because I didn't want him to pay because I was not interested and I didn't think that would be right. But, he wouldn't have it, he insited on paying...he was quite passionate about the topic.
On the way home I said thank you for dinner we laughed over a couple that was there and this couple had fed eachother their entire meals in between kissing!!! So I thought, good opportunity to let him know that I didn't feel a connection with him. He stated that I needed more time to get to know him!! So, after he brought me home he asked to use the bathroom. I stood by the door and waited!!! When he finished...mind you he is 6 foot 5 and just under 300 lbs....so he is a big guy. He told me how he had a great night with my company. I'm thinking this man is so sweet why can't I find myself attracted to him? Anyway...he hugged me...he had to bend over to reach me. When he proceded straighten up he strongly cupped my face and kissed me, honestly, I had no idea it was coming. It was awful.
I backed off...out of reach. I told him that made me very uncomfortable and had explained to him in earlier conversations that kissing is very personal to me and I asked him to leave. He acted surprised and stated that he hoped that we were going be intimate. Holey cow!! No dating is not always easy. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/13/2009 7:41:58 PM | Depends on what kind of kiss you give. I suggest no more than a kiss on the cheek on the first date; a quick peck on the lips at most on the second. No one can be a good kisser if he is not "feeling" you, and you can't really know that if you rush into premature physical intimacies with some chump you don't even know his middle name!
You never go wrong with waiting. Sex bonds a woman to a man, and generally you don't really want to be bonded and attached to the majority of the men you come across in life. Most of the time I find that I am so happy I waited, because the guys turned out to be a knucklehead by the 5th or 6th date if not sooner. And I saved myself the heartbreak and drama by not worrying about kissing or sex with a man I know nothing about. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/14/2009 6:39:56 AM | | angelic your more like a demon than an angel. You spew venom like no other pof person I have come across in the time I have been on here. I read your other forums and you seem to make a hobby out of telling people off as if your holier than thou. Oh btw you like happy hearts? You sure don't have one. Your one bitter angry woman. I don't claim to be an angel and I dare say you are the farthest thing from an angel I have ever seen. Have you ever heard of anger management? You need a life time of treatment there girl. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/14/2009 6:49:10 AM | | Your right thump dating is not always easy. I have come to realize that although kissing is fun it should be with someone I feel that there is a future with. I give out my kisses too freely and that is not good. I try to find out if they are good kissers if I am attracted to them yet I don't know them well enough to be kissing them. Its kind of a catch twenty two. Even if you wait till the 5 th date to kiss you still don't know them well enough to kiss them. So whats a girl to do? Your dammed if you do and dammed if you don't. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/14/2009 10:24:53 AM |
angelic your more like a demon than an angel.
Lucifer was the most beautiful Angel of all.
Angelic likes the movie "Freeway". If she likes the one I'm thinking of with Reese Witherspoon, I'm impressed. That's awesome. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/14/2009 1:00:20 PM | at your age asking this question is kind of ridiculous;
there are no rules; you are sounding very anal retentive and over thinking in my opinion;
No a kiss doesn't mean you can have sex; if that were true, rape would be legal; foolish question.
I am glad you are doing well. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/14/2009 1:10:46 PM |
Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Oh gawd I hope not! Or else I'm in big trouble or the guys I date are in big trouble cuz there won't be any kissing going on lol! | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/14/2009 1:24:55 PM |
Even if you wait till the 5th date to kiss you still don't know them well enough to kiss them. Really, why don't you know them? Are you emailing them? Are you talking to them on the phone? Do you talk to them when you go out with them? Or do you only see them going to and from a movie? I know that when I went out for like the 3rd time with my bf, I went to his place and we didn't even turn the TV on! We talked and talked and talked! It was wonderful! I still don't feel like I know everything about him and we talk and email every day. Point is, it isn't necessary quantity as much as quality when it comes to getting to know someone. There is a point where you know that you are mentally attracted to them, not just physically and you have to act on the physical! If ya hear bells, you have a winner 
I do think the OP missed out some mommy lessons when it came to dating. This would account for her seeing a psych. and asking on here. I know I don't show much empathy on these threads, but is what she asking that horrible? Yeah, my kids know about kissing and what it means, but somehow the OP missed these life lessons. | |
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Joined: 5/28/2009
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/14/2009 4:35:03 PM | It is obvious the forum is lacking in maturity and human kindness. Guys calm the hell down for Gods sake. Its a discussion about kissing, not killing someone. I feel like I am talking to a bunch of 15 yr olds. Sarcastic pompous immature responses are not becoming.
infact its down right nonsense. Funny is one thing and rudeness and mockery is another. Many may run and hide when the ugly meanies come out to play but I don't. I have no reason to run or hide. Bullies have to group ups sometime. Loud mouths and showoffs have to face the music some day. So ramble on and make fools of yourselves. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/14/2009 5:36:31 PM | Why thank you. I was wondering why I had no friends or dates. Hmmmmmm
I am mending my demonic ways as we speak.
I hope this post/thread gets you all the attention you crave and type of men you deserve.
Please forward your therapy fee to my people.
Truth hurts........ | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/14/2009 5:41:11 PM | Fi Fi
That's the one.
Awesome is right. Isn't Reese a hoot in it?
We are the "few" in the know on that one.
You must be a fun gal. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/14/2009 6:02:46 PM | | yes the truth does hurt dosn't it lucifer. Your the one on stage entertaining yourself and the ones who think your infantile humor is funny. Yes you do have friends and I dare say they think like you and talk like you. Scary. | |
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/15/2009 1:02:13 AM | Oh gosh,
When Sutherland is wheeled into the court room and that sweet little face turns around and starts cursing with the foulest language in that little girl southern drawl and talks about his $hit bag..I loose it. Yeah top 100 of all time.
I have never seen her acknowledge that film in any interview and she was fantastic in it.
I will shoot you soooooooooooo many times!!
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| Is a kiss an invitation to have sex?
Posted: 6/15/2009 10:55:21 AM | If I were an actress, this would be the top line of my resume. Oliver Stone produced it, and that's a big deal for anyone to link their name to. I'm assuming because this film came out the same year as "The people vs Larry Flynt" that it received no advertising dollars. Maybe they thought it would be seen too much in the vein of "Natural born Killers". Too bad, because it is by far the best film of the three. The script and pacing are as good as it gets.
I suppose Reese wanted to dissacociate herself from this type of role, what with the "Legally Blonde" stuff and all. Shame, because she was indeed fantastic in it.
Sometimes a kiss is an invitation to get your @ss shot sooooooooo many times!
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