| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 9/20/2009 10:25:07 AM |
Intimidation is mostly in the eye of the beholder. People are intimidated because of what they think, not necessarily because of what one actually does or will do
...Exactly. I have had a number of people (in the workplace) tell me they felt intimidated by me the first time they met me.... but by the second or third time they wondered why they felt that in the first place.....hmmm, wonders if that carries over into my personal life?
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jbogie
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 9/20/2009 4:29:01 PM | i suppose i might be being somewhat unfair but this thread sounds like many on this site. in this case trugold, you're question, "are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy woman?" can be translated as, "hey, look how sexy i am as an older woman". fine to be confident in your sexiness, i am too, but just because men your age are slow to respond is not necessarily a fault (intimidated) on the part of the men themselves. and what if it were? how would asking the question here help you? you can't change those many men can you?
i don't think i've ever met a man my age who is intimidated by sexy women. we're mostly beyond such adolescent emotions by now. if men our age are not coming on to you, look within for the reason. if you find none great. but if you do find a reason, only you can change the situation. hope you take this in the spirit inteded. | |
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jbogie
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 9/20/2009 4:33:10 PM | | one more thing for everybody. a person cannot be intimidated by another person. a person might feel intimidation but that's but that's an internal emotion, not something one can throw at another. you cannot be intimidated people. you can only feel intimidation if you allow it. so quit blaming others. | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 9/20/2009 4:35:03 PM | I was reading some gals profile, a decent looking 50 something and in her profile she already has the rules spelled out with regards to pets being on the furniture!!
I know EXACTLY what you're talkin bout Mr.Pitbull Pete ...
I spotted a lil cutie-pie just 35 miles from me..
Looked good, similiar intrests/education/status, etc. as me..
Had a profile about six pages long..(with the words "I" or/and "me" 74 TIMES!!)
I still was very intersted.. but when I got to the line::
(copy and pasted EXACTLY)
you must be willing to do YOUR share of household chores, groundskeeping, etc. with no complaing and with a proper attitude.......
I almost fell out of my chair..!!
So I wrote her, and among "other things", I told her
that Criripes.. I just want a darn wife.. not a MISTRESS...
but I'd consider her IF she'd do HER "household chores" nekid and with a smile..
Well, she wrote me back a note full of profanity, blocked me, and
went to another date site..
I am also there (at 13 other)..
so since this place's forum section is WAY more lax
and not so strictly moderated..
I identified her there with a list where else she "frequented"..
I posted her POF profile, my letter and hers..
Me..?? Intimidated....???... 
If you wanna run with the big doggies..
you can't whine like a pup...
I just luvss those that can give.. but just cannot take...
(hey, maybe this belongs In that thread "No Games please"..)
Anyways.. all I want is a halfway decent woman...
Ladies.. i is waiting..and am NOT intimidated...
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 9/20/2009 4:37:47 PM | jbogie; I'm not looking for help. How very odd that you would get that from all that I have said.
I think you're posting without reading. Or you're not understanding what you read.
Explain to me where I indicated that I need help, or that I'm blaming anyone for anything? Or that I have anything to blame anyone for??
Sounds to me that you actually are intimidated by women having the unmitigated gall to be self confident and whatever else that seems to be ticking you off about this thread. I have no problem with you saying you're sexy. So, whats the difference? You can say it, but if women do, they're saying "look at how sexy I am?"
I am taking it in the spirit it was intended. But it didn't work! I still stand by all that I have said. You sound like a man who hates the fact that an older woman would dare to think of herself as sexy. I wonder why?
Not one single time have I said that I am so sexy that men are intimidated by me. I posed a question. I removed my photo so that no one would get the idea that I was saying that, or trying to show myself off as a sexy older woman. So, what can I say that would make you happy? That there is no such thing as a sexy older woman? That people are never intimidated? What?
Thanks for your opinion. | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 9/20/2009 5:07:14 PM | Trugold, I don't think jbogie was having a go at you. I think he was saying that if a man doesn't respond when a woman tells him how sexy she is, it doesn't necessarily mean he's intimidated. It could easily mean he doesn't agree but doesn't want to be rude and tell her... | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 9/20/2009 5:13:44 PM | ================================
What woman would tell a man how sexy she is???
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my ex wives (there are five for ya)
the witch that got banned for flaming me.. that's another..
I can go on and on...
Is it me...?
why do the crazies and "bunnie boilers" gravitate to me..???
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 9/20/2009 5:16:24 PM | Any woman who would tell a man that she is sexy deserves whatever she gets. 
How would that go? You meet a new man and say, "Hey, I'm sexy." ???
Maybe that would work with a blind man. But any man I've ever met can see for himself and make his own judgement on that.
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jbogie
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Joined: 9/30/2008
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 9/20/2009 5:27:03 PM |
Any woman who would tell a man that she is sexy deserves whatever she gets.
actually i was refering to your op as addressed to this forum, not any particular man. if you're going to laugh just forget i mentioned it and i'll forget that i took the time to respond to YOUR question. likewise and for the same reason i'll take your "thanks for your opinion" as disengenuous. so why say it? no need answering. the question was rhetorical as i won't be returning to your thread. | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 9/20/2009 5:39:40 PM |
i think you're a cutie...
but...
does that mean i'm a "crazie?"
Ahh Ms. "D"...
You are not a"crazie"..
but you ARE lucky you got that pond between me and you..
otherwise .. by now..
I'd be lieing on your couch watching Jerry Springer
waiting for you to bring me another beer while you were wearing
that cat-suit with the kangaroo pocket..
That my girl.. will drive anyone crazy..!! 
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 9/21/2009 5:41:13 AM | I suppose that a man or a woman can think themselves sexy, but I also believe that only someone else can actually perceive one as being sexy. To me, for instance, there is nothing as sexy as a woman cooking me a nice dinner after she has cleaned my house, folded my laundry, and scrubbed down my bathrooms.
I suspect, however, that others may have a different idea of what is "sexy".
Now, if one of the POF ladies feels the need to message me that she is "sexy", I will run right out and pick up some Lysol, latex gloves, and some knee pads......
OOOPS! This should have been on the "Kinky" thread again.....javascript:smilie('') | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 9/21/2009 6:06:50 AM | So true! Nothing sexier than a man coming over and fixing a nice dinner for me!
The sexiest man who has been in my life did that a few times for me. However, what followed the dinner was even sexier.....
Nothing kinky, mind you!!
I still have visions of him (with that sexy body! WOW!) standing at the stove and the heat in the kitchen becoming almost unbearable....
It was not coming from the stove....
I specifically remember one Valentines Day, and he asked me "What do you want first? Food or me?"
I digress! Sorry! But Rearguard's post made those memories come flooding back. :   | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 10/1/2009 12:15:43 AM | i think not, but then again it takes all types to make up this wonderful world. so sure some men are and some are not and then i'm sure there are those who sometimes are and sometimes not.
Me, i would love to meet a woman my age range who thought she was sexy, the problem i've had is that some older women think they need to take it to an extreme and come across almost vulgar and that i do find intimidating or actually just plain unappealing | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 10/1/2009 8:40:38 AM | I'm not intimidated by a sexy older woman.
Grey hair ? If it's attached to a great smile = Hot.
Ample butt ? Love that, something to hold while I'm being bold.
Big Breasts? Yummie
Knowledge? Nothing beats an older women, when the deal's being closed.
I like older women, always have, always will, they have quality, a well developed sense of humour, are easy to talk to most of the time and are just damm great in bed ! | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 10/1/2009 8:59:28 AM |
Hey great attitude...we (woman) don't hear that often enough.
Oh Ms maeflowers,
If you gals would just give me half a chance..
I'll tell yous ANYthing you want...
And I'll MEAN it too..
(at least at that moment)
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 10/1/2009 9:58:13 AM |
What woman would tell a man how sexy she is???
Back when I was meeting women over the internet this happened to me frequently in many ways. In fact the last woman I met emailed me some "glamour" shots. She even sent me a photo of herself in her cheerleader's uniform from back when she was a very slender but very well stacked high school cheerleader (she was 45 at the time I met her). Her face had not changed that much in 28 years but the slender bod had grown into a barrel on her still slender yet shapely legs. She had an "apple" shape. | |
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