| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/1/2009 6:09:15 PM | You're entitled to your opinion and like ***holes everyone has an opinion. I am way way past 45 and don't begin to consider myself to have lost it in the looks department. I get viewed by tons of women in their early 40's and some as young as in the 20's. Furthermore I have seen many many women in their 50's that I would jump on in a New York minute. They obviously have taken good care of themselves and also look classy as hell. Some are right here in the forums and some I have just found on the site. I will agree a lot of older people just don't have it anymore with regard to looks but there are those who made the commitment to keep themselves looking good and it shows. If you younger people think you have some kind of monopoly on looks you are just fooling yourselves. There are lots of 20 and 30 yo women I would not give a second look to.
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/1/2009 6:20:00 PM | | geezus, for pete's sake, pete! it's all relative. when you're 20, 30 looks ancient. when you're 60, 50 looks young. physically, i do, however, think people do lose their a lot of their physical attractiveness around 45. some manage to maintain some vestige of it, but it's never quite, yeah, red hot, baby! that doesn't mean you should let yourself go, but at times, people need to be realistic...too many live in their own mind's eye from 10 yrs ago...sigh........................................ | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/1/2009 11:37:49 PM | | By this age I really don't think any of us are intimidated very easily. There are sexy older men and sexy older women. I just find that the ones that think they are sexy, or tell me they are sexy, or that they look younger than their age... well are a big turn off. | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/2/2009 9:04:09 AM |
By this age I really don't think any of us are intimidated very easily. There are sexy older men and sexy older women. I just find that the ones that think they are sexy, or tell me they are sexy, or that they look younger than their age... well are a big turn off. Agree. | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/2/2009 6:53:12 PM | | Personally, I don't think sexy older women are intimidating to older men. What is a turn off is if she knows it and and is stuck on herself. I would assume the same goes for a man that women think is sexy. If he is stuck on himself it's a turn off to women. It goes both ways. | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/2/2009 10:47:31 PM | A couple, sixty, decides to take separate vacations, and do.
When they return home, they compare notes. He found a twenty year old and the two of them had a grand time. She found a twenty year old and the two of them had a grand time. Still, he insisted he had more fun. . . . She said nope -- it's a matter of math. Math? How do you figure? Well, everybody knows that twenty goes into sixty more times than sixty goes into twenty. . . .
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/3/2009 6:03:00 PM |
I have often felt that older men are slow to respond because they think they are not still sexy and desirable. To me, that denotes a lack of self confidence. If an older woman appears to be sexy, why is it that mostly young men are attracted to her? Ummmm, not sure I can agree with that assessment at all. I don't think it's because they lack self-confidence as much a I think they've been brainwashed by their....EX wives and mothers!!!! LOL!
why is it that mostly young men are attracted to her? Because they have the good sense NOT to listen to their ex wives! LOL!
Isnt "sexy older women" a misnomer? Same as a misnomer for a sexy older man. Noooopppeeee!!! I've seen some damned sexy older men.....and some damned sexy younger ones who think I'm still hotter than a lot of women their own age. LOL! who am I to argue! | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/3/2009 7:26:04 PM | | I would be of some of them. Have seen a few in the mid to upper 50's and they really look great. Problem is they are so damn****, act as if they "know it all" and did I mention so damn****? They are well educated but so am I. To me they are unapproachable. | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/3/2009 8:51:56 PM | geeez guys...
are we having lots of fun pointing those fingers?...
so much generalizing been going on...
as for all the crappy, ageist attitudes being displayed here?...
no matter our age there's surely always going to be someone either younger or older than us...
personally,
i'm very happy to be a "sexy older woman"...
actually,
you can call me whatever you like because i don't really give a damn...
surely our lifestyles, attitudes and luck...or otherwise...with our genes reveals more about us than the number of years we have "been around"...
btw..."people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones"...
viva la differences!... | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/4/2009 5:36:42 AM | Attitude is everything!! Sexy comes in all ages just like ugly. I don`t care if a woman is 108, if she is smart and still looks great mission accomplished. By look great i don`t mean perfect but i do mean not letting herself go. I don`t have the patience for young girls so bring on the sexy older babes!! | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/4/2009 6:00:23 AM | Sexy is being willing to participate in the mating game. It has nothing to do with age, looks, condition or anything but that interest in being a participant in that aspect of life.
Is it intimidating? Only if you don't want to get caught. | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/4/2009 8:58:56 AM |
I am a realist. I dont see any older men or women as being sexy.
I would have to agree 100% with this.
Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
from Desiderata
Beyond a certain age, striving to be "sexy" is just silly. It reminds me of the 40+ yr old women who describe themselves as "hot". It's a real turn-off. Overgrown boys and girls who just can't let go of the past.
Some of the women posting in the over 45 threads are pretty. None are "sexy".
As for the men, I don't look at their profiles, but I doubt any are sexy. | |
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/4/2009 10:37:50 AM |
As for the men, I don't look at their profiles, but I doubt any are sexy.
OMG some of them are very sexy indeed.. There is one man that is 61 that is probably the sexiest man I have ever laid my little beady eyes on.
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| Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/4/2009 6:08:46 PM |
Some of the women posting in the over 45 threads are pretty. None are "sexy".
As for the men, I don't look at their profiles, but I doubt any are sexy.
Just a thought that is kind of mind boggling.....something is just bothering me with your postings on here just a weee little bit.......
Your posting in the over 45 age group.......and your 43 yrs old.....
So are you to old for your age group? Or won't they play with you?
But my friend just to let you know.....since you aren't as old as most of us...you too will be this age. And you to are closing the gap as not being sexy.....just you wait and see. Now go home and play nicely with others.....and they might let you back in..... | |
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