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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 8/2/2009 7:22:52 PM | Adult babies or "littles" is a well-established fetish, but it does absolutely nothing for me. I'm open to almost anything but this is one of my hard limits.
At least he brought it up early on.
Role playing - now that's a whole 'nother ball game - and it's way hot. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 8/2/2009 7:23:38 PM | Role paying? Yes, most definitely, teacher / student, boss / secretary, warden / prisoner, as long as you both are in to it, what's the harm? But dessed up like a baby? That's sick!
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 8/2/2009 7:31:18 PM | a baby? hahahhahaha  I had a good laugh with this thread!
Guess now a days there is a fetish for pretty much anything. To answer your question not only would it "turn me off greatly" but also feel sympathy for this poor man..that request has *issues* written all over. LOL!
In regards to role playing, I LOVE IT...one of my favs.. dress up as the bad girl, my bf the cop. ;-) | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 8/2/2009 8:48:13 PM | A dude that needs to act like a baby has serious inner child issues and should get some therapy A.S.A.P.
But for role play that doesn't involve such strange idiosyncrasies, I think it's great! Gotta love a guy with an imagination. If I ever have a sex life again, it'll be nice to engage in some role playing fun. | |
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Posted: 8/2/2009 9:25:42 PM |
Some people are good at making fantasies come true - some are NOT!
Daayymm, Leeane!! You got that right!!! (Details omitted.)
~Puts on his robe and wizard hat~
LMAO!!!! I think this guy is one of the few who can bring fantasy to life!!! Lol. I can actually see him with the pointed hat and oversized robe that Mickey donned in Fantasia! With all those dancing broomstick wannabe anal intruders closing in.  | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 8/2/2009 10:33:50 PM |
I like it when a girl pretends to be the librarian and I'm returning a late book and there's a huge fine but I don't have any money to pay it so she accepts payment in other ways than money...
. This one is exciting !!!
I also like the one where you go to the bar because you just have to get a drink...and you have no more money left ....so the bartender works something out with you for "payment"...
This kind of role play is very healthy and very exciting.
As far as the baby fetish...I can see where this is a major turn off...I could just imagine a woman wanting to be the baby with diapers and me to be the daddy....ewe...
This kind of fetish, as with many bazaar fetishes stems from something happening in early childhood. Many times the one with the fetish either viewed something sexual or molestation occurred.
Often times the one with such a fetish has to act on this fetish to have sexual arousal and also often times can not sexually function without the fetish.
Fetish is defined as - a form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 8/2/2009 11:19:33 PM | How your date approached the issue was just plain wrong, which makes me wonder if he also gets off on surprising women. . . anyone with such an extreme fetish should know better than to approach you on the second date out of the blue - I am so sorry you were made to feel uncomfortable (what a weird situation!)
Personally, I get immense satisfaction from watching someone else be gratified (was that obscure enough?) so if my partner had a baby fetish, by all means. But he had darned well better be experienced and able to communicate - if I can be nonjudgmental and open, my partner can be honest in return.
P.S. Having a sexual fetish does *not* in any way, shape, or form imply that you were molested as a child or 'something happened'. Scientists have no idea why the brain goes a little wacky and fixates - good guesses, but nothing concrete. And honestly, what could be more charming? Your partner has something that will always make them happy - hello? What could more wonderful than that? Just buy the stilettos already :D | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 8/2/2009 11:54:03 PM | There is nothing wrong with role playing, kinks or fetishes...as long as it is consentual and involves no harm to either party.
If you like something, be honest with your partner and don't hide it. But wait until you have dated someone for a bit before you go discussing your sexual odds and ends. No need to throw the whole BDSM thing on the table before the drinks get served. Sometimes a partner, if approached in a mannerly and gentle way, will become interested in a new way of pleasuring both their partner and themselves.
And never demand that a person you are involved with become a part of something they do not feel comfortable with. Emotional blackmail is wrong.
OP, this guy did a poor job of approaching you. You barely knew him, yet he was sharing a very personal part of himself with you. You were unaware that such a fetish existed, much less that you could ever be in a position to participate in it. That was wrong of him. TSK TSK to him!
Better luck next time! Hopefully your next date will appeal to you, emotionally, physically and sexually!
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 8/3/2009 3:36:56 AM | This kind of role play definately NO ....as if any woman could be turned on by putting nappies on a grown man ??????????
but other roles can be good fun ....as we all know ..x | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 8/3/2009 8:55:39 AM |
I also like the one where you go to the bar because you just have to get a drink...and you have no more money left ....so the bartender works something out with you for "payment"...
C.mon people... share some of your role playing fantasies using using your best
sex organ... - you mind and your imagination... | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 8/3/2009 9:07:07 AM | It can be but you both should decide on what to role play.
For me, a baby and a nanny role play would be dumb and I wouldn't of cared for it. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 8/3/2009 10:50:32 PM | | It depends on the role-playing scenario, personally i'm not into adults dressed in diapers but there are many other scenario's that I've fantasized about, and that I think would be really hot. I guess it's all up to perception. | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 2:33:52 PM |
I love Roleplaying...
~Puts on his robe and wizard hat~
Now let's roll the dice to see if I get a blowjob.
You roll a 20!
Critical Hit!
Lemonade... thru my nose... but so worth it!
Hey i've role played a Jedi Knight, Supergirl and Wonder Woman. I'm a huge nerd and so was one of my exes.
I'm down with role playing but I have my limits. I'm still potty training my toddler, I have enough diapers in my life. I'm not about to wipe a grown man's tushy and I do NOT find it arousing in the least. I know it works for some people, but i'm not in that group. | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 2:52:14 PM | I like role playing - the baby thing...it's a fetish that I don't share.
The best role playing is when it isn't planned at all, or just one partner plans it and the other is suprised. For example, on a recent mini-holiday, my guy and I went to see a movie. As we were walking out of the cinema, I said something like "Hi, how are you? I've never been to this cinema before, have you?" he immediately caught on that I was pretending not to know him. We walked outside and chatted like strangers. I said I was a lonely woman in town on business and I'd had too much to drink and wasn't sure where my hotel was. He played the 'local' quite well, and offered to walk me there, then up to my room...we ****ed like we didn't even know each other's names. It was a TON of fun.
We've also played that he is a friend of my teenage sons (I don't have a teenage son, my kids are little) and he comes looking for his friend. He calls me Mrs. so and so and I give him lemonade and cookies and give him his 'first' sexual experience. (That one is fun because it's all about me...touch here, do you like that? Why don't you taste it? Yes...lick a little faster Johnny)
The only thing is that my guy loves spontenaity, and I don't think he'd want to do the same role-play twice, so we will have to get creative as we plan to be together for the rest of our lives. (well, perhaps he'd be willing to do the Mrs Robinson one again...it was really good...) | |
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Posted: 9/1/2009 4:28:12 PM |
The best role playing is when it isn't planned at all, or just one partner plans it and the other is suprised.
I did this for my boyfriend this past Sunday. We never role played before. Since I have both an MD and a PhD degree , he often affectionately will call me Dr. This week he suffered from a cold. I made a pot of vegetable beef soup and a loaf of homemade bread, comfort foods from my childhood, because I thought they would be good for him since he was under the weather. I had often toyed with the idea of greating him dressed in my "physician" attire , but never found the right time. About fifteen minutes before he was due to arrive, the light bulb went off, "Aha! What better time than now!"
I stripped off my clothes and put on a black bra and matching g string, six inch spike heels, my white lab coat, with sleeves rolled up and only two buttons buttoned, and my reading glasses.
When he arrived I just hollered down the stairs to come on up to the bedroom where I had the table set with a crock pot of soup, bread and butter, and something cold to drink. He came in the room and took one look at me, dressed in my medical garb, and the smile on his face told me more than words could ever say. That spontaneous gesture on my part did more to make him feel better than anything else I might have done. Later that evening he said we would have to do that again, repeating the doctor role. He also suggested it might be fun with a school girl or cheerleader theme.
This kind of role playing is harmless fun, and is the kind of thing to keep the sparks alive in the relationship. I agree that the baby thing is not role playing, its a fetish. That would not be my thing at all. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/1/2009 5:43:00 PM | | different roles for different strokes for different people. I do love to play little things with a woman who is willing and wanting to make some fun games. we often played a little silk scarf stuff, blindfolds and a spanked bare ass. all without pain all with just silly fun but the illusion of being tied down and taken drove her up the mountain sooooo fast and hard. as for a baby, that seems creepy, next you'll be changing diapers. yuckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/1/2009 5:48:03 PM | | dayum...I was thinking the uniform and handcuffs...and I'm like , sure why not..if you trust each other and you're comfortable. a diaper???? baby powder??? SERiously?? WTF. That's a bit out there for me...I guess to each their own. But yeah, I would like to say to all those who enjoy partaking in this particular fantasy ...that you may want to get that out in the open early in the game. Lol. This would be a deal breaker for me , too...better for all concerned to know about deal breakers before hand. I think. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/1/2009 6:33:01 PM |
a diaper???? baby powder??? SERiously?? WTF.
Gotta agree with you there. Had two daughters, and that toxic waste that resides in those diapers when the child converts from breast milk/formula to solid food is emblazoned on my memory banks, and I ain't going there, ever again. Lol
dayum...I was thinking the uniform and handcuffs...and I'm like , sure why not..
Dayum!! Lol A good sport! Irresistible. Sigh. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/1/2009 7:47:55 PM | All leather...vest, chaps, boots and an Electra Glide...............in the middle of nowhere.
Geesh, sure do miss them days! | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/1/2009 8:01:00 PM | The age play wouldn't go with me either......not into changing diapers. Although it's primarily a male fetish there are supposedly some females into it.
Otherwise, I absolutely LOVE role play.  | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/1/2009 9:43:15 PM | Love roleplay; especially anything revolving around the domination/submission theme: prisoner and hunky prison guard, sexy princess captured by barbarians, harem girl warming the bed of the sultan, barbarian slave girl at the hands of a tormentingly dominant man. Anything where I can be naked, collared, leashed, and put beneath a man makes my little heart flutter.  | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/2/2009 2:01:47 AM | Well at least this "Diaper Thread" is going better than the other one.
With that said, I am an Infantilist. Furthermore, it is NOT a fetish. I explained this in detail in that 'other thread' (Men in diapers, is the title). If the ignorance continues to reign supreme in here I will explain it in full again.
Now, on to the insults! This is going to be a ride, but I have to set some key points straight. Remember, I am an infantilist.
florida32835
Msg: 28
Role paying? Yes, most definitely, teacher / student, boss / secretary, warden / prisoner, as long as you both are in to it, what's the harm? But dessed up like a baby? That's sick!
So, what exactly is 'sick' about it? Since you state it as such "fact" could you please enlighten me? Could you explain just how 'sick' I am?
seeks-advice
Msg: 33
This kind of fetish, as with many bazaar fetishes stems from something happening in early childhood. Many times the one with the fetish either viewed something sexual or molestation occurred.
Often times the one with such a fetish has to act on this fetish to have sexual arousal and also often times can not sexually function without the fetish.
Fetish is defined as - a form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body
Well, this post seems to be very informative! It even has a definition! Well not a 'real' definition, but a "fact". Since we are fond of definitions, take a look at "Weasle Words".
Furthermore, I am not even going to begin to refute your unfounded claims. It is obvious you know nothing of my lifestyle, why you even chose to comment in such a way is beyond me. Needless to say, this ENTIRE post is FALSE.
miss_contemplative
Msg: 16
...Then I'd dial 1-800-you'rewacked so he can see a shrink because...you know...babies don't know how to dial phone numbers.
miss_contemplative
Msg: 30
A dude that needs to act like a baby has serious inner child issues and should get some therapy A.S.A.P.
These had to be the best insults yet! Again, just how 'whacked' am I? Since you have such a great armchair, why not hook me up with some therapy? That might be more constructive than dishing out unwarrented insults.
Again, FALSE posts. I am neither 'Whacked' nor do I have serious 'Child Issues'. Please folks, if you are going to make claims do a little research first. Anyways, nice to see that my lifestyle is still beaten down...at least the 'normies' are being nicer to the transvestites. I remember when they were 'queer' for dressing as women, now not so much. | |
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