| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/2/2009 2:22:52 AM | | role playing? depends on what it is, but yeah sure... if anything curiosity about exploring new and exciting things with a trusted partner.... | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/2/2009 12:25:09 PM | | Turn on only if you both can get into character....that only happens if you both are interested in role playing and in the characters | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/2/2009 6:23:17 PM |
All leather...vest, chaps, boots and an Electra Glide...............
Moondance,
Boots just get in the way. But, chaps, (not those restrictive motorcycle pants), a tight fitting studded vest and an Electra Glide Classic.....
I'm lusting for you, umm I mean having warm feelings toward you. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/2/2009 8:58:50 PM | some people are kinky...if he is not hurting anybody what is the problem?
i do not find it a big deal...i would have to be comfortable with the person...to go down the road...but each has their own choice and happiness and sense of comfort
i would not judge...if you are not hurting the person...that is okay | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/10/2009 7:49:19 AM | | There is one role playing scenario I would like to try. Its a pretty tame one actually. I would like to go to a bar separately, and have my guy send me a drink , and then approach me like we have never met. Then after a significant amount of small talk, I want to go out in the parking lot and neck. Finally, I want to invite him home and get naked. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/10/2009 8:03:59 AM | Role play IS a turn on to me...
and I have played nanny to a baby BECUZ it turned him on..it was a thing he wanted and we had a relationship based on respect and love..
The mommy-baby role play is more common than anyone knows...there are sites for it..people who have nurseries etc..and I beliwve we cannot JUDGE anotehers kink as good or not...just becuz it is not OUR KINK.
IF you were NOT comfortable then you were right for you..if he WAS comfortable then it was his right to find someone who can do this with him if he wants.
YOU will find as many ewwwwwwwwwwwws on here as yesssssssssssssss!
to support either VIEWPOINT
I have also enjoyed. .......in role play....Queen and slave...werewolf(outside)..trapped in old building...Teacher-student..mad trapper in the woods...kidnapped....phone booth babe........parkade naughtiness....and more
yummmyyyyyyyyyyy
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/10/2009 12:08:58 PM | I've only got to do the role playing thng once. It was really an attempt to get my girlfriend at the time to verbalize.
When I came to her apartment, that evening, I handed her a note. Basically the note said that I was an experimental robot (ala Westworld) built to be a 'pleasure model'. The only drawback was that I had no speach capability. I could not talk. (Thus, I couldn't ask her to do "this" or "that".) She would have to tell me what she wanted me to do. (It also gave her full control over the evening.)
All-n-all?
Quite fun. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/10/2009 1:45:41 PM | | To each their absolute own, but for me personally I can't get into stuff like that. Generally speaking (and this is going to make me sound definitely NOT very sexually adventurous even though I'm hardly some prude), I don't even care much for any 'paraphernalia', such as play handcuffs, or any other faux (or real) BDSM-type of 'gear', or any 'costumes', etc. For me, when it comes time for real intimacy, I like a dark room, candlelit, some atmospheric evocative music, a large warm bed, and just that other person and myself sans clothing.... I don't want any costumes, role-playing games, etc etc.. But that's just me. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/10/2009 2:27:14 PM | damn I miss my werewolf play partner..
Chasing him naked thru parks..pinning him and biting and eating him alive...mmmmmm
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/23/2009 8:13:06 AM | Well I finally made it to the end of this thread, I have picked out all posts that were based on lies and mis-information and have set the record straight. Infantilism IS ROLE PLAY, it is NOT a FETISH. Anyone who says it is from here on out is a liar, I am an infantilist, I should know. All messages are in the order they were posted. I did not deal with much of the bigotry/prejudice in this thread, of course keep it up and I will, you better be ready with proof to back those prejudice claims like "I'm whacked" or "I need therapy". I have plenty of proof, as I am sure you know based on the other threads I participate in.
MSG 3:
What you're refering to is a fetish... baby, shoe/foot, sploshing, etc.
Not if he was an infantilist, which is what it sounds like to me.
MSG 4:
It is not an unheard of fetish...
Not if he was an infantilist, which is what it sounds like to me.
MSG 5:
i had no idea he was into this im not sure if it was a fetish
If all he wanted was to be dressed/treated as a baby then it was not a fetish. It was a lifestyle, one that you are perfectly able to dislike. He should have told you sooner.
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OP what you are describing is not role playing.
Yes it is.
Role playing is like.... my girl dressing up as a french maid and cleaning the house before I come home so I walk in on it, and her playing the part. . .calling me Sir.. ect. . Instant turn on. That's role playing.
Role playing is like.... my girl dressing up as a mommy and doing mommy/baby activities with me...calling me baby.. ect. . Instant turn on. That's role playing.
See, told you so, it even fits your sentence perfectly!
What you are describing is a fetish. There's even a name for the baby fetish.
No it is not a fetish, it is called paraphillic infantilism. It is a lifestyle.
Fetishes go beyond normal kink.
No such thing as normal, so this is not a fact just your opinion. ;)
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That's not role play--that's a fetish as others have said.
The others were wrong, and so are you.
Role play...me being the domme and him being the sub for a Halloween party (yes...I did...with a whip!!!) is role play. Damsel in distress, knight in armor, boss and secretary (male or female secretary), Ross and Rachel on Friends--he loved Princess Leia from Star Wars so she dressed up for him...THAT'S role play.
Role play...me being the sub and her being the dom for a Halloween party (yes...I did...with a diaper!!!) is role play. Baby being punished, going to the park, mommy and baby (male or female baby), Ross and Rachel on Friends--he loved Princess Leia from Star Wars so she dressed up for him...THAT's role play.
See it fits your sentence too!
Diapers is another realm. And believe me...by asking if a guy would like that and POSTING it will only get you mail from men who do. Or at least realize that the first guy's approach didn't work so they'll wait a bit before asking about it.
No they are not. And how rude of you to assume that I would do something like that! That's kinda like saying all women [blank] isn't it?
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I agree that this isn't conventional role play OP.
It is conventional, good thing role play isn't defined by your/others opinions!
Sounds more like fetishism to me.
It's not.
MSG 27:
Adult babies or "littles" is a well-established fetish
It is not a fetish.
Role playing - now that's a whole 'nother ball game - and it's way hot.
Same hot ball-game.
MSG 28:
Role paying? Yes, most definitely, teacher / student, boss / secretary, warden / prisoner, as long as you both are in to it, what's the harm? But dessed up like a baby? That's sick!
So it is okay to pretend to be a teacher molesting a student? But I can't pretend to be a baby? That is some odd double-standards.
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Guess now a days there is a fetish for pretty much anything. To answer your question not only would it "turn me off greatly" but also feel sympathy for this poor man..that request has *issues* written all over. LOL!
Not a fetish. And don't feel sorry for me, it is a waste. I am spending all of my 'feeling sorry' for people like you, with prejudice written all over them.
MSG 30:
A dude that needs to act like a baby has serious inner child issues and should get some therapy A.S.A.P.
Really? Are you a therapist? Didn't think so.
MSG 33:
As far as the baby fetish
It's not a fetish.
This kind of fetish, as with many bazaar fetishes
It's not a fetish.
Often times the one with such a fetish
It's not a fetish.
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the baby thing...it's a fetish that I don't share.
It's not a fetish.
MSG 43:
I agree that the baby thing is not role playing, its a fetish.
You are wrong, it is not a fetish.
MSG 48:
Although it's primarily a male fetish
It is not a fetish.
Well, there you have it. All of the opinions based in ignorance, at least they have a chance to learn now. But something tells me I am not the only baby when it comes to "accepting others", at least I know I am not the biggest baby! | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/23/2009 10:59:53 AM |
I love Roleplaying...
~Puts on his robe and wizard hat~
Now let's roll the dice to see if I get a blowjob.
You roll a 20!
Critical Hit!
Better hope she don't roll a one! Twice.
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/23/2009 8:06:01 PM | eeeeks i wouldn't like the baby thing:(:(:(:( the robot thing was very creative and hilarious:)
if the guy wanted the baby thing so bad, why didn't he ask before the first date? if you have to have a similar minded partner you would do better to just ask before the first date. and try to locate somebody who might be similar minded. however, i'll probably just only ask a guy's preferences instead of suggesting anything he has not already suggested. no need to make a guy think i'm too different for him, unless he's into the baby thing of course, lol. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/23/2009 8:44:22 PM | | Role playing is way hot and lots of fun. Roleplays and fetishes are not necessarily mutually exclusive (i.e. ponyplay). | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/23/2009 8:50:08 PM | As has been pointed out, a diaper fetishist and an infantalist is not the same thing.
what is sad about this thread is how most posters were so quick to band together (doesn't it feel good to know that others share your disdain for this activity? Does it make all you of feel "normal"? sad how we all want confirmation that we're the same as others), while at the same time saying that their kink/roleplay fantasy was okay. Talk about hypocritical, folks.
What I have learned over the years is that people think that whatever it is they do sexually or find sexually stimulating is okay. What others do (and they don't) is sick.
I have also learned that human sexuality and desire is incredibly varied. And as long as it is between consenting adults, I say, enjoy.
And for all those of you who mentioned that you like schoolgirl/teacher type scenarios, would you like to know that there are many people who think you're sick f*cks? People who would say that you should be locked up because you obviously have pedophilic urges?
Personally, I can tell the difference between a middleaged schoolgirl (or for that matter, a middleaged man dressed as a schoolgirl) and a real one. It's called roleplay. But there are many people who would condemn all of you here (who are condemning the chap with the baby fantasy) as being in need of counselling.
So I think that most of you need some cornertime until your behaviour improves. Mummy says so. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/23/2009 8:56:50 PM |
Role playing is way hot and lots of fun. Roleplays and fetishes are not necessarily mutually exclusive (i.e. ponyplay).
And infantilism is a form of roleplay, it is not a fetish.
The bf should have told her about his roleplay/lifestyle sooner. But that doesn't make infantilism not roleplay. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/24/2009 7:41:49 PM | | Yes, you've said that before, several times. I think everyone got the point. I was answering the question in the OP's thread title, not referring to your preferred roleplay. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/24/2009 8:21:38 PM |
Yes, you've said that before...
I apologize, I didn't realize you changed your stance on it being role-play.
Although, I will agree with many of the opinions in the thread.
Infantilism is defiantly not a "turn-on" for me. It is best considered as a "security blanket" (That is super dooper layman). Also, the way this person brought up the lifestyle to the OP, that was not proper (IMO of course). When I was active on AB forums I would do my best to keep this type of behavior from happening.
The worst ones, people either married or in a long-term relationship, and they still have not told their mate. But look at how people respond to the lifestyle, I can't put too much blame on them from hiding. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/24/2009 9:00:08 PM | | Op.....Now I think I've heard it all.....sounds like he's got some pedophile tendancies that he might be too scared to try....That's just way out there and believe me I'm open minded. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/24/2009 9:04:33 PM | sounds like he's got some pedophile tendancies that he might be too scared to try
Nope, absolutely nothing to do with pedophilia:
Pedophilia
Confusing infantilism with pedophilia is a common misunderstanding.[11]...In contrast, infantilists have a desire to be infants themselves, and those with a diaper fetish have a sexual interest in diapers....Neither paraphilic infantilism nor diaper fetishism include a sexual interest towards children.
Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paraphilic_infantilism
Also, I don't appreciate being hinted as a child molester. I am not the guy the OP is talking about, but I am an infantilist.
The main issue is that he didn't let her know what she was getting into, that is a bad practice; one I obviously do not participate in. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/24/2009 9:51:29 PM | | Spagett....remember this is a free speaking forum. I've just never come across this and it was a thought that came to my mind. I have not done any research on the topic because I've never had the desire to...but thank you for enlightening me. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/24/2009 10:00:08 PM |
so my question would you be turn on by a grown man dressed up powerder and all in a Adult Diaper's?
lmao! 
I had enough kids of my own, the last thing that would turn me on would be a grown man in diapers. | |
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| role playing..is it a turn on or no?
Posted: 9/25/2009 6:31:27 AM |
There is one role playing scenario I would like to try. Its a pretty tame one actually. I would like to go to a bar separately, and have my guy send me a drink , and then approach me like we have never met. Then after a significant amount of small talk, I want to go out in the parking lot and neck. Finally, I want to invite him home and get naked.
I'd be more than happy to help you with that widowsdesire!
(I'm surprised that no one else offered! haha)
OT: as long as it don't involve pain or emotional trauma. Whatever makes her happy! | |
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