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Posted: 6/9/2009 9:33:47 AM |
All I can say OP, is that it's a good thing you were blessed with looks.
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Posted: 6/9/2009 10:36:44 AM | Most amusing OP how did your meek of brain rationalise this callous individual still cares for you- given that he abandoned you completely - jesus take the fooking hint.
Given that he as at a loose /ish end then its within the parameters of these creatures of habit to leech from one, or many, persons who pro actively allow them on account of them being gullible and not without a self amazing ability to rationalise black is white...says the voices in wickeds heed. (head)
Creatures of habit like many options and indeed prey on it.
So erm , sure get back with him, rolls eyeballs on account you still care for this caring individual...and live happily ever after with a white picket fence in an arbitrary location of his choice. | |
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Posted: 6/9/2009 3:54:34 PM |
Given that he as at a loose /ish end then its within the parameters of these creatures of habit to leech from one, or many, persons who pro actively allow them on account of them being gullible and not without a self amazing ability to rationalise black is white. Yee speaketh with the tongue of a wise man.
Creatures of habit like many options and indeed prey on it. Indeed, wise sir.
So; fair maiden.. taketh this male of the dark horse and enjoyeth the pleasure of his evil sword if yee must (we council nay to this way of thought) ... But be forwarned; do not giveth of your heart to this rogue.
(I just had to answer one of Wickeds post in his native tongue :0) | |
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Posted: 6/9/2009 7:51:12 PM |
So erm , sure get back with him, rolls eyeballs on account you still care for this caring individual...and live happily ever after with a white picket fence in an arbitrary location of his choice.
Wicked desires...sigh...your command of the written word is...sigh...commanding!!
And damn, normally I can't read your stuff without a translator but even YOU are saying the girl's a whack job. But in a civilized manner.
Tee pain...DUDE...I'm glad you're trying to be classy and all but call it what it is. And she ain't all that pretty...pretty women ain't crazy--we ALL know this (yes ain't was used...twice...it's called for). | |
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Posted: 6/9/2009 7:57:25 PM | Well first off, any man who tried to throw me and my stuff out on the side of the road would be a dead man, I mean really, I would not be in that situation for any reason. Second, any man who would do that, would not be someone I would bother to spit on if he was on fire, I sure wouldn't ever be talking to him or thinking about going back to him. I place my bet on you both being nuts.
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Posted: 6/9/2009 10:25:32 PM | I know he still cares very much for me and I still care very much for him, and a few weeks later he called me telling me he missed me and wondered if he did the right thing. He's completely torn up about it.
WTF??? how in the hell does he *CARE* for you? hell i wouldn't even dump my dog or cat on the side of the road in the pouring rain and he did this to you, someone he allegedly *CARES* for?? if that's caring, then i want no part of it. sounds like you need some therapy. where's your self-esteem? where's your respect?? | |
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Posted: 6/9/2009 10:32:37 PM | | so what happened after he dumped you on the side of the road?? you miraculously found a place to live while having no money?? and wow, you even have internet access so this means you have a computer??? most of this makes absolutely no sense. | |
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Posted: 6/9/2009 10:45:07 PM | Don't get too excited about getting 20 emails a day, there are plenty of women here who get that. Don't count too much on it.
actually i know a way that ALL women on this site can easily get more than 20 emails a day. change your profile to say you are looking for an *intimate encounter* and see how many emails you get, lol. just something i've observed. | |
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Posted: 6/9/2009 11:02:48 PM | someone on the last page .. used the term Chainsaw Massacre and they aren't far from the truth... this guy is a clinical copy of Jesperson.... " The Happy Face Killer"
He started out leaving them on the road .. and then later ... he made sure they were not breathing on the side of the road...... if you want more dangerous drama in your life .. stick around because eventually your reconciled love affair might get you your very own autopsy and coroners report.. what part of this "lack of conscience" does not evoke fear in your mind,.. stop making inane excuses and stop telling everyone that this is going to change.. yeah it will and I guarantee for the worse..
You did not do this to yourself .. it is not behaviour that you own.. however what you now do for your own self preservation will easily reveal whether or not you care about your life,... if you are not afraid... as YODA said to Ben Kanobi.. "you will be". | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 5:56:24 AM | this crazy assed post just proves what i've thought for a long time...
its a contrived troll post from an approved fake profie. used to make the forums look and seem active as an advert ploy to get people to join who are undecided about joining a social network and use the forums as a deciding factor.
think about it for a moment..ever wonder why it is that you keep seeing the same mug shots over and over from your area with no real new meat in months??? | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 11:36:53 AM |
fake profie. used to make the forums look and seem active as an advert ploy to get people to join who are undecided about joining a social network and use the forums as a deciding factor.
Yup!!
There are only 3 real people on here.
Mark and I do the rest with bot programs that generate auto-posts.
Did you ever notice how similar the posts are from thread to thread and forum to forum?
That's because there are really only 27 original responses that are randomly thrown up to make the forums look active.
I want to go on record here, with my apology for the responses that coincidentally match the question posed.
We try not to allow that to happen, but with all the forums and such a limited supply of responses, it's bound to occur.
We're heartily sorry. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 8:07:11 PM | think about it for a moment..ever wonder why it is that you keep seeing the same mug shots over and over from your area with no real new meat in months???
I'm real, and I'm not Pinocchio! Some people are simply more involved in these forums, than others.If your refering to match searches, try altering some search options.
Otherwise, I'm sorry your part of the country is so stagnant, I'm seeing new faces all the time. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 5:41:03 PM | Blind love out the door, light bulb turns on.
yes my dumb ass was actually believing that crap about him caring for me.
And so yes my dumb ass DID go back.
and here's the REST of the story.
Never make THAT mistake again. We met back in april of o8. And everything was good. In the beginning. And then he got laid. And after a little while getting laid became a regular thing for him. And so he got comfortable. And THEN he decided that it was OK for him to have a routine that looked like this, day in and day oamut, for years.
6am go to work
6 pm come home, either drop stuff at door and go play guitar, drums, or bmx flatland riding
8 pm come home, demand sex
8:30 either back out door to bmx, drum, guitar, or on pc, cant even answer a question when asked how day was UNTIL
BED (maybe demand sex again)
Grand total time spend with me? 2 hrs, 1 watching farscape and 1 having sex, mostly, maybe 1 more hour of demanded sex later
Which of COURSE i complained about this schedule thing, this life situation, i was open and communicated, suggested couples counseling, the whole 9 yards.
HIS response was I TALK TOO MUCH
And of course when you are being USED this way and HURT this way, you DONT WANT TO F*CK.
Which only pissed him off more. And made him leave, ignore, damand, and degrade more. Which led to less sex. Which eventually led to his temper tantrum.
And I AGAIN forgave, went back, ect. And he was the man I fell in love with again. For a WEEK.
As soon as the sex started back up, so did the behavior. And so I bought a bus ticket BACK to michigan, packed my stuff, stayed in a homeless shelter until my bus left, and went BACK to michigan, never to talk to, see, or hear from the sex addicted pet rock equivalent with a penis again.
And never to be forgiving and giving of my all for love in a relationship again. Unless it is PROVEN that it is EARNED.
why is it that woman are punished for loving unconditionally, giving their all, forgiving endlessly, and all the things that everyone says they want but cant handle having when they get? | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 6:53:59 PM | | ^^^ OK, so don't be such a "dumb ass" again. It's over, you now know better, move on. Sorry that there's not as much drama to be gained by learning that lesson, but...oh, well. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 7:04:26 PM | We each make our choice and once made and put someone out, we have to live by it. You were put through a terrible experience, abandoned litterally in every aspect of the word. It was a callous move by a human being to do what he did. I dotnt understand how anyone can treat another as such. It was inhumane, like dropping a stray dog in the middle of the country with no way of fending for itself, no food, water, ect. In no way shape or form would or should anyone consider this perons again. I find it insulting for even asking what to do. You move on, be glad this creep is out of your life.
Someone should take this guy and drop him off but naked 100 miles in the woods away from civilization and see how he likes it. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 7:29:16 PM |
I know he still cares very much for me and I still care very much for him,
He sounds like a nut. You sound like a nut to care for him still. I don't understand. What he did to you was horrible. You are better off to go find nicer people to be friends with and not nutcases. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 7:29:40 PM | Msg #10 is one of the funniest I have ever read on these forums......
You said what I was thinking..... | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 7:32:26 PM | op
if the man read your profile, he can not claim that he was not forewarned of the disaster ahead....... | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 7:43:59 PM | You might want to put that great imagation to work and write for True Story. And I bet you never thought about this gift of yours as a possibility of making money while you are at it.
I will almost bet that this "man" was considerably older than you and was your Sugar Daddy! He found the sugar a bit too expensive for his liking and got tired of the eye candy, dropped you off at the nearest airport and a ticket tucked in your purse. Awaiting the next "great story"
In 2008 you posted ......."Yes people it does happen, I was almost kidnapped by someone off of the net once after talking as friends for 4 months." DRAMA DRAMA .... attention seeker. | |
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Posted: 10/27/2009 8:18:13 AM | Sounds like your partner had a panic attack...fight or flight.
Since you didn't fight prior to his sudden departure...and he's a loving sweet guy...then maybe he chose the flight.
He needed space...to decide if he can handle the relationship...after all you are having anxiety attacks. Maybe he's having trouble understanding your behavior.
A licensed therapist could put things into perspective. | |
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