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Posted: 7/11/2009 9:21:10 PM | | This story really doesn't align in any way shape or form with the profile data.... It reads more like a fantasy or fiction -- beyond the geography and dates -- there's personal traits that don't appear to fit the scenario....but then -- what do I know. Anyone who starts their profile with three lines of bold text underscored as a warning might have panic attacks in Tallahassee and get dumped on the road penniless with no explanation in Alabama. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 5:34:03 PM | Ok you want the rest of the story. Here it is. And yes, my dumb ass DID go back. Never make THAT mistake again. We met back in april of o8. And everything was good. In the beginning. And then he got laid. And after a little while getting laid became a regular thing for him. And so he got comfortable. And THEN he decided that it was OK for him to have a routine that looked like this, day in and day oamut, for years.
6am go to work
6 pm come home, either drop stuff at door and go play guitar, drums, or bmx flatland riding
8 pm come home, demand sex
8:30 either back out door to bmx, drum, guitar, or on pc, cant even answer a question when asked how day was UNTIL
BED (maybe demand sex again)
Grand total time spend with me? 2 hrs, 1 watching farscape and 1 having sex, mostly, maybe 1 more hour of demanded sex later
Which of COURSE i complained about this schedule thing, this life situation, i was open and communicated, suggested couples counseling, the whole 9 yards.
HIS response was I TALK TOO MUCH
And of course when you are being USED this way and HURT this way, you DONT WANT TO F*CK.
Which only pissed him off more. And made him leave, ignore, damand, and degrade more. Which led to less sex. Which eventually led to his temper tantrum.
And I AGAIN forgave, went back, ect. And he was the man I fell in love with again. For a WEEK.
As soon as the sex started back up, so did the behavior. And so I bought a bus ticket BACK to michigan, packed my stuff, stayed in a homeless shelter until my bus left, and went BACK to michigan, never to talk to, see, or hear from the sex addicted pet rock equivalent with a penis again.
And never to be forgiving and giving of my all for love in a relationship again. Unless it is PROVEN that it is EARNED.
why is it that woman are punished for loving unconditionally, giving their all, forgiving endlessly, and all the things that everyone says they want but cant handle having when they get? | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 5:50:10 PM |
there were other stresses on our relationship, but nothing major.
After reading your above statement...there was major things wrong.
You need to find someone to treat you with "Respect" we all do! | |
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Posted: 10/26/2009 6:45:20 PM | Hun I'm not gonna dump on you. Your a young lady who has the rest of her life ahead of her, so muster a smile. Might I suggest you find your way home to loved ones. Six months with some leveled headed parents/grandparents/aunt or uncle might be very helpful at this stage.
Talk their ears off and find a new road or two in your life, maybe its time to exam your own life and do some revamping.
I do beleive people are able to do such a thing as you have experinced. There are men and women who have been killed by their so called mates. Think of it this way. Would you take a dog or cat and place them on the side of the road?
He has incredible creep factor. Although you may have done things to antagonize him, the resulting outcome is beyond normal comprehension and behavior.
Please stop talking or communicating with this man. I know you loved him and it hurts to let go but some things are for the best. Ask anyone that has had to have a root canal .
Best Wishes | |
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Posted: 10/27/2009 9:46:36 PM | He wanted sex. You wanted love. A classic case of mismatched intentions.
May I ask: Do YOU work? If not, then you have no idea of the pressures and BS he has to deal with from 6am-6pm. When he comes home, he wants to relax, have fun, and, yes, imagine this, have sex, and I don't think it's unreasonable of him.
YOU work 6am-6pm, pay to keep a roof over your own head instead of fleeing to the homeless shelter, and then you'll have some idea of the big picture. As succinctly as you wrote your profile, your attention to detail is astounding, and I'm sure you'd be more than qualified to handle some boring data entry job or whatever else is available in AL. | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 1:45:23 PM | Wow, I don't understand either. You, young lady, are sending off so many mixed messages that make no sense whatsoever. What the hell are you doing on here (and five other dating sites by your own admission) if you were with this guy for over a year? And what do you mean by your point that you "have to" answer 20 emails from each site each day? Should we feel sorry for you?
I call BS. But maybe that is how you get attention - if so, you reap what you sow. | |
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