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Posted: 6/4/2009 3:26:13 AM |
its a little bit like looking at the painting the mona lisa,its the intrigue that is more attractive than the nudity.
Be careful where you go with the Mona Lisa. It could very well be the painter in drag. I bet you just went limp, didn't you.  | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 3:12:06 PM | I'm 43 and my drive is higher than ever, the only difference being I don't get the rogue erections like I used too at 18. When not seeing someone regularly I self-service daily, less so when I am seeing someone.
I haven't had sex in 8 years and don't get around to the substitute sport that much either
This at 30? Holy Cow!!!
A girlfriend of mine was married to a guy who was a once a month performer, tops. He had even less interest after their child was born and they spent the last 3 sexless years of their marriage in separate rooms. When we started dating we did our best to get her cought up! | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 3:30:14 PM | | From my experience, it is us women who love our lingerie and not the men. It makes us feel sexy, sensual, passionate and a goddess when we wear it. Men love the affect it has on us when we wear it. Majority of men would rather have us strut our stuff NAKED! Any time I have worn lingerie it has not been on long, as the men just wanna get it off and get to the foreplay naked. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 3:42:03 PM | | Just wondering, if men don't care about or like to see lingerie then why are companys like victorias secret and fredericks so popular? | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 3:48:58 PM |
A pelvic exam by an unlicensed practitioner?
I an wondering now if women tear off their clothes in front of you so often that you are now a tad bored by it. Heh.
Women who just drop their clothes are not nearly as much of a turn on as women I undress, one piece at a time.
Presumably they'd be doing so cuz they think it's time for a little somethin.
but some guys(myself) think of it more of a game
It's a little like working for nudity. Men are supposedly goal-oriented. Since there's a couple of goals in undressing a woman, I think the keenness starts to become obvious when you look at it that way. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 4:30:30 PM |
Msg: 1 -- ok are men really that horny where they have to be
masturbating every day, looking at porn and jacking off or having sex
on a regular basis?
The posing of this question is invalid. All men are different, as, I
presume you will admit, are all women. That said, this response comes
from ME, and I consider myself an ordinary man who speaks for MYSELF
**ONLY**. I am horny ALL of the time. I DO "jack off" to relieve the
PAIN, and BELIEVE me, it IS a PAIN, an AGONY to be endured by the
unattached AND the trapped/endured. I truly PITY the
"trapped/endured", because they TRULY suffer without merit or reward.
These are the DEPRIVED, CONDEMNED and DAMNED to a life without even a
SEMBLANCE of a LOVE'S REPLY from the one to whom he is devoted. OK, I
agree, it is HIS fault he has devoted himself to such a WORTHLESS
woman, but that does not alter the fact that he LOVES her and lives a
DEPRIVED life because of it. I have no reason to exploit this beyond
the fact that the MAN is IGNORING his LIFE to honor hers. THIS man is
fY
DISRESPECTING **HIS** WORTH as he simultaneously SACRIFICES his most
disturbing desires on HER altar. Hey, I have BEEN there. I have DONE
that. The T-SHIRT wasn't worth a sh1t, but I wore it anyway. I have
seen that women, uhh, MOST, but NOT all, DEGRADE the desires of the
man as being of NO consequence. READ these words and STATE them
THROUGH your LIPS: "A MAN'S desires means NOTHING in terms of what the
WOMAN desires."
OK, did you READ it? Did you SAY it ALOUD? If NOT, say it ALOUD
**NOW**!!!! Now, rest this in your nest egg if you have already done
so, -- a woman's GOAL is about HER gratification, NOT of the man she
CLAIMS to honor. It is quite RARE that a woman HONORS the desires of
the man she CLAIMS to honor. She will trundle him UNDER in preference
to a man who may seem to be PREFERABLE to her "INTENDED".
and i've always wondered but why does lingerie turn on guys more than
a girl naked?
HAH?!?!?!?
I have been curious about that oddity myself. Lingerie is an
OBSTRUCTION to my desires, NOT a lure. A woman who DROPS **ALL** and
REVEALS herself to DESIRE, REJECTION, and basic ACCEPTANCE is FAR more
appealing than one who has OBVIOUSLY notched herself into common
acceptance. One so "notched" has EXCLUDED herself from my view simply
because of her political positioning. Political positioning,
REGARDLESS of the TENDENCY, EJECTS her from my consideration.
Yeah, now what do **I** want? I want a woman who TRULY desires ME,
STRIPPED of politics or ANY other politically visitable impetus.
you would think that a woman would no clothes on would
do it more for a guy but in my experience, having sex in lingerie is
hotter to them, any reason why?
Hmph! Because of the MISLADEN believability that would have uncle at all times, releasing explosives at this time would be inappropriate. Don't push this any further,
In short, my stamina can NOT survive more FAKES. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 5:38:23 PM | | Hmm...Actually, if it was up to me, I would prefer to see her naked all the time, but that's just me. The less clothes the better. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 5:45:57 PM | Presumably they'd be doing so cuz they think it's time for a little somethin.
Sure, but stalling them until they think it's way past time makes for a more frenzied frollic. Going straight to the main event is not so much fun unless you're in a situation where having to do it in a hurry adds to the excitement.
It's a little like working for nudity. Men are supposedly goal-oriented.
I am. My goal is to get my partner really worked up so the actual sex is more aggressive. Making her wait a little by not getting naked too fast works pretty well for that. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 6:01:06 PM | | So there it is. Lingerie makes the whole thing into a goal. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 6:16:59 PM |
ok are men really that horny where they have to be masturbating every day, looking at porn and jacking off or having sex on a regular basis
Don't some women do that too? | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 6:30:05 PM |
Guys come in all different varieties, OP. Some guys have posted they prefer full nudity, some prefer the mystery. BigDaddyJinx doesn't like women who have any degree of body modesty
/or shyness. Lots of men don't have a problem with women wanting the lights out. I've even met a few (very few LOL) men, who prefer the lights out.
Just had to stop by and correct you for an errant remark you made there...
The "lights off" kinda gal gets a huge FAIL from me not because she lacks body modesty or has an innate amount of shyness...it's because we ALL know that pound for pound they are trying to HIDE something from plain sight. That sucks and is so juvenile to me. You like me enough to wanna get naked and have sex, but you expect me to do it in the dark? Hell, just hand me a friggin' blindfold then and save the hassle...
If you like me enough to have friggin' intercourse with me, then what are you trying to hide? WE'RE F*CKIN' NAKED for Christ sake...if you're THAT worried that I may "see" something you don't want me to see, GET OVER IT. If I don't get to see my girl naked, full on in all her glory, she ain't worth my time. I have hangups too, like most do, but I'm gonna be there just as naked as you are. So what's the holdup?
The body modesty and shyness bit gets stale after 24 hours or less...beyond that, it's just a crutch.
Get. Over. It.
Back to your thread people...nothing more to see here... | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 6:48:13 PM | Don't some women do that too?
Only the honest ones, Darlin'. Lol
Lingerie creates mystery. This means that a (visually-triggered) man's imagination will fill in what he doesn't see. When imagination and reality are in conflict, imagination wins, every time.
Sooo, just following your logic, a burlap back would suffice, at a fraction of the price, and I could probably just blow on it a little to move against her skin, and she'd be stripping herself!! LOL!! Wait, what about one of those tarps for cars, a car cocoon?!! LOL!! Detroit uses that same trick for their not-ready-for-prime-time super secret new models.
What do YOU think about when YOU masturbate, laundry soap?
LOL!! Hey, Marilyn Chambers was the soap cover girl before she got reeeeeaaaalllly frustrated with squeaky clean and bubbles and launched a remarkable porn career!! She was kinda cute, too.
I think she endorsed Procter & Gamble products. They must have felt much like Yale did when Dubya started appearing on tv. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 6:57:43 PM |
The "lights off" kinda gal gets a huge FAIL from me not because she lacks body modesty or has an innate amount of shyness...it's because we ALL know that pound for pound they are trying to HIDE something from plain sight. That sucks and is so juvenile to me. You like me enough to wanna get naked and have sex, but you expect me to do it in the dark? Hell, just hand me a friggin' blindfold then and save the hassle...
Actually, having the lights out and being in complete darkness can be much more sensuous because you have to rely on your other senses, especially your sense of touch. Not being able to see what you are doing gives you a different experience. | |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 9:43:56 PM | Guys who grew up looking at catalogs have the lingerie fetish. I don' t have it. For me, it was music videos. So when I see 'clubbing' clothes like bebe dresses or something, I get turned on. Lingerie does nothing for me. It almost turns me down a tad.
Most women look better clothed than naked, I think. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2009 4:46:55 AM | not gender specific,
some women admit quietly, they just aren't themselves unless they have spent some alone time with their shower heads, toys or vibrators (on a daily basis.)
o/p: at your age, i would say to give 10 or so years -you will be crawling the walls in your peak...
male or female, its a natural thing to love sex -i would be questioning people who say they haven't had sex or masturbated in months -whether they are lying, too embarassed to admit it, or have completely lost the urge to get down and freaky
the only thing i'm thinking when i see a gal previewing her lingerie...
-how fast can i get her naked | |
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Posted: 6/5/2009 5:01:22 AM | Masturbating every day----No, not all men like that...I don't think so anyway..
Having sex on regular basis--Yes, please!
<div class="quote">and i've always wondered but why does lingerie turn on guys more than a girl naked?
Like other posters said, it's all about what you can't see, but you know it's there, and you want it.
Think about nudist beaches..Guys don't walk around with a hard on, because, for one thing it would be rude, and they are not there to look at naked women, and women's aren't there to show there "stuff", I know all that..BUT...If the women would walk around in a Victoria secret underwear on the nude beach, just for experiment....that would be different...guarantee you that..
All the guys would be in a water...
I love it when my women puts on something sexy, yeah, I know it will be on the floor shortly, but still... | |
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Posted: 6/5/2009 5:05:56 AM | | Men are visual creatures - the tease sexy panties and bras provide is tantalizing- yippy for us! People are sexual creatures - I think there are just as many women masturbating everyday and having sex on a regular basis. Well sexually healthy people anyway! | |
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Posted: 6/5/2009 8:00:15 AM | | It's called having a healthy sex drive. I swear you can't win with women if these threads are any kind of guideline. Most women in here constantly put down men (usually older ones) if they DON'T want sex 3 times a day. If you DO want sex a lot then you're some kind of deviant. What the hell is wrong with people? | |
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Posted: 6/5/2009 11:14:27 AM | | Girl, send that man my way, you should appreciate a man with stamina. And remember this...women love to dress men and men love to undress women. Also, men are stimulated visually so give him something to look at and to undress. ;) | |
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Posted: 6/5/2009 1:05:29 PM | Most women in here constantly put down men (usually older ones) if they DON'T want sex 3 times a day. If you DO want sex a lot then you're some kind of deviant. What the hell is wrong with people?
I'm wondering if you noted that those are different women that are saying the different things.
Not one wishy-washy woman.
So, nothing is "wrong" with people. People are just different, and express their views.
In any hoo, all I saw from this thread was lights off=prude and I have to strongly disagree with the sentiment! You get a huge FAIL from me if you always want the lights on! I love the sneaky aspect [Oooh, no one can see us and we're being naughty!], I love the more sensual aspect, and the surprise [What's this bit here? Where's his hand going next?]. Nothing better than waking in the middle of the night to a man running his hands over my body. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2009 1:26:48 PM |
Msg: 38 -- having the lights out and being in complete darkness can
be much more sensuous because you have to rely on your other senses
If I can't see, I can NOT be aroused. Never has happened, never will.
I suppose if I became blind I would also become celibate. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2009 4:46:18 PM |
I'm wondering if you noted that those are different women that are saying the different things.
Not one wishy-washy woman. Through the magic of the internets, all women blend into one. Whatever one says represents all. There is only one woman online and she frequently contradicts herself. It makes it confusing for us individual men as we perform our habitual rituals. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2009 4:56:23 PM | This doesn't just apply to men you know. We have hormones too! 
You seriously don't know the answers to these questions? Men have more testosterone then us (lots more), so they think about sex more then us (usually), and therefore, want it more then us (usually). In other words... DUH.
As far as lingerie, for many men it's a turn on, because it signals that we are ready for sex. Or they like the way our bodies look in it. Or some enjoy it as part of the fantasy, etc. Or some even enjoy wearing some of our lingerie. 
Is this really that hard to figure out? It's not rocket science.
Men like sex, period. And lots of it! | |
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Posted: 6/5/2009 6:27:38 PM | Men are funny, but a lot of them show decorum around women. Some of them don't.
I have noticed that a lot of men that I work with will unzip their pants and tuck in their shirts even if their are women in the room. Can you imagine if I stood in the middle of that room and nonchalantly unzipped my pants and tucked everything in, what they would be saying about me?
I think on my last day that is what I will do (not really because I have more class than that).
The guys are humorous, because they will put Girls Gone Wild on the television, and just watch and stare with a mezmerised look across their eyes, and they drift off into a zone. I am glad I know these things, though.
It is actually kind of refeshing to experience guys like a man named Gary that told them to stop being raunchy because there was a Lady in the room. I wound up leaving the room to give them the privilege to be raunchy, but Gary earned a whole lot of respect there.
On the other hand, one of our "ladies" brought in a Christmas cake that was inscribed "Merry Christmas F*CKERS!"
I was conversing with a male friend on the job, and we both got on at thirty instead of twenty-one. I learned today that his twenty-one year-old son is surviving from Hodgkin's Disease. He asked me how I find out so much about people, and I told him that I am a people person, and apparently that is my specical stupid niche that I am very good at; I take the time to talk to people, and sincerity and a smile and validating people go a long way.
Sometimes, people just need to talk, and many machismo men think that talking to a shrink is only something that women do.
Regarding the lingerie question, men are visual and so long as they get to the ends the means are exciting. | |
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Posted: 6/5/2009 6:36:51 PM | | My gf masterbates on days when we are apart, like everyday, she loves to call me and tell me. As far an lingerie goes, I wan total nudity- I am atrracted to large bewbs, love to see 'em swaying during sex. As a man, I prolly masterbate, 5 out of 7 days( barring no sex), I am 31, when I was younger, it was multiple times a day. U ought to try it. | |
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