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Posted: 7/5/2009 2:20:38 PM |
Men are very, very similar to women, except that their triggers can be a little different. I don't see anything wrong with a person wanting to have sex or masturbate every day. Nor is this limited to younger men, or even just MEN for that matter. A man is a visually-triggered creature, so he may look at porn and think about sex. What do YOU think about when YOU masturbate, laundry soap?
Lingerie creates mystery. This means that a (visually-triggered) man's imagination will fill in what he doesn't see. When imagination and reality are in conflict, imagination wins, every time. Therefore, his imagination will make whatever is under that seductive lingerie (or clothing) even hotter than what is actually there. YAY!
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Posted: 7/5/2009 2:35:24 PM |
slowed it down???????? most people have a job during the day to do???
I'm completely broke and living in my parents basement, so of course I have all the time in the world. My gf, my left hand, loves it. We make a happy couple.
I reckon since people are going to harp on such a trivial thing that I might as well feed their jealousy/insecurities/curiosity.
What I find interesting though is why people are so...fixed on the subject of someone elses masturbatory habits when it doesn't affect them in any way, yet they feel the need to strike out at the person, not just comment, but try to hurt them, as the person who posted this was attempting.
Does it scare some of you? Are you so insecure you can't allow it to exist? I suspect it's a combo of the anonymity of the internet mixed with a group mentality: None of us are as mean as all of us.
As for this posters other question- when you make your own schedule, you know, own something and be successful with it, then you have time. Clearly it's not something you understand- success, making your own time, being your own person. You're asking the wrong questions, or rather, more generalized questions- you're questions are loaded, and give in to the group mentality. Be yourself, not what you think will score you points with peers. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 2:46:26 PM | Just how much time do some of you think it takes to masturbate? Jobs... pff. They don't get in the way.
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Posted: 7/5/2009 3:25:11 PM | | if i get too horny i can always come to these forums and read about "female ejaculation on food" and it's an instant boner killer. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 10:32:07 PM |
The "lights off only" kinda gal. FAIL
haha. I had a girlfriend like that before. I honestly cant remember ever seeing her naked fully. It really turned me off badly though. Anyway bid daddy as usual is on point. It's not socially acceptable for women to talk about masturbation and being horny etc as opposed to when guys do it. Thats just the way it works in the real world..women aren't suppose to talk about sex and say they enjoy sex and that sort of thing.
But the reality is that women masturbate just as much as guys do and think about having sex with all the hot guys they encounter on a daily basis on the streets or wherever. I generally masturbate about 2-3 times a week..but usually its 2-3 times in one day of the week lol | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 12:16:37 AM | Darlin', I'm gonna ignore the first part of your post, not somethin' I desire to talk about with a stranger. However, I will relate a tale about the first time I had a lady in lingerie entice me.
It was a long time ago, well, actually, I think it was even before that, and there she was, a lovely young thang draped in this little number from Frederick's. She was as the most dear and beautiful gift one could ever imagine finding under the tree at Christmas. And I did what I always did. I gave thanks and proceded to pick up that lovely gift and turn her this way and that and then I commenced to shake her. Then I proceded to rip that pretty wrapping off'n her and ...
it was right about then I got to figurin' I'd done somethin' wrong.
TK
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Posted: 7/6/2009 1:31:54 PM | | at 31, if I had no gf, I'd masterbate everyother day- in my teen years, prolly 3 times a day... I like a fully nude woman- I have found in my experience a lot of woman are uncomfortable totally nude so they like wearing something ( it takes a while for them to just get nude and have sex) I'm talking women with hot bodies too- they are really self conscience.. Craigslist has taught me there are a LOT of weird men out there... | |
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| men's habits....
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:33:48 PM | | I am with you, nekkid is so more enticing and sexy!!! As for the constant masturbation thing, guess it is just inherent in males, lol. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 1:37:23 PM | | Come on OP...You are just jealous.. Men have a pull toy and they mean to use it...LOL | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:54:54 PM | Some men have higher levels of testosterone running through them and may be more horny as a result. Seasonal changes play on a man's chemistry, too. Not all are the same, not all need porn or jack off all day long, every day.
I'm on a loading phase with supplements and protein shakes with my workouts now and the sun is really elevating my mood. During this time of year with all these things added to my body, my libido is through the roof. When winter comes, it's more stable.
As for lingerie, Ipersonally can't stand most of it. It's too average. It's too expected. If a girlfriend brings home a bag from Victorias secret, I pray it isn't the typical lace thingy. I hope it's a combo of things, not just a one-piece teddy like everyone expects to see on the sex kitten in a love movie.
For me it's boring hint at being naked. If my girl wants to tease me without being fully nude to start out four play, she'd get me going much faster if she walked in the room with a bra on, Brazilian shorts and high heel sandals. Or a really short mini skirt, heels and no top. This keeps the hot zone hidden with that element of wonder, while still giving my eyes an instant preview of good things to ... hehehe 
Some of my other guy friends agree with me on this, as they are not too big on the typical lingerie thing, either. We all agree that seeing just part of the shape of our girls in mini skirts or panties, then some of the body is a bigger turn on than holes showing very little in lacy lingerie.
Then again, let me add something I think many guys will back me up on. Regardless of our taste in Lingerie, if a girl doesn't bring the fire in her eyes and a strong sense of self-esteem while wearing any kind of "teaser" goods, no amount of lace on earth will do it.
Sure, some men lose it over the idea a girl is unbuttoning her clothes. But I think most want more than the visual of lingerie - they want the kick-ars attitude of being taken by a minx, whatever she's wearing.
In fact, that might answer your question as to why you've experienced men being more turned on with lingerie than naked. Girls who wear anything to tease, usually are going to take their man through some kind of play time before getting "down" to business.
If women think they are the only one's that like some kind of four play, they're crazy. Granted some men want their four play to last 4 minutes (or 4 seconds), but I think most would like a bit of teasing other than nekked girl just walking in and spreading the eagle.
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Posted: 7/6/2009 10:06:01 PM | OP, I'm going to turn this one back at ya. Do YOU get more aroused seeing a man in jeans and a t-shirt, or walking around the house in his boxers; OR looking at pics of naked men in Playgirl? The brain is the largest sexual organ; and lingerie is one of the ultimate ways of triggering that rascal, . Besides, seeing her in lingerie TELLS you that she is thinking "naughty AND nice"; tells you that she WANTS to arouse you; tells you that she went to the trouble to go shopping, and buy it for explicitly THAT purpose; which tells you that she has also been thinking that way for a while, AND anticipating your reaction to it; and WAY jump starts the foreplay!  While seeing her naked requires no thought or imagination, and simply says "I'm naked." Also, FYI, there are LOTS of women who ALSO masturbate daily; and lots of men who don't.  | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 10:19:45 PM | This is an interesting post. My boyfriend and I visited our first two porn shops together this past weekend. While sex with him is amazing, I am always looking for ways to go the extra mile and please him even more. While looking through the store, he confessed to me that even though I wear lingerie every evening pretty much, it really is not his thing. That was a surprise to me, as all my past lovers were really turned on by lingerie. I also found out that he enjoyed role playing, I have a sexy nurse's costume, complete with garters and stockings, and that drives him wild! Yay! There's something I've got going on right! Then we went into the movie section. I found out that he had only watched adult movies twice in his life, once when he was young and it was on satellite and one of his buddies and he laughed at it (they were about 10), and then once with his ex-wife, and he was humiliated and uncomfortable and it was more of a traumatic than a pleasurable experience.
We spent quite a while looking through the movies and talking about what HE liked. It was very hard for him to open up and tell me what turned him on, and I took great care in being very gentle and accommodating with helping him make his selections. In the end, I think he was much more comfortable talking about what turned him on, and that it was not something to be ashamed of, and that nothing that he chose would be ridiculed or wrong. H ended up selecting three movies, and now we have a choice of three movies to watch together next weekend. I am ging to have to be very non-aggressive, and let him take the lead, which is fine, and take care to make sure that he understands that his reactions are normal.
He was raised in a home where sex was considered dirty or perverted, and never talked about in a healthy way. Since becoming an adult, he has always had overbearing, aggressive girlfriends who treated him badly and ended up cheating on him. I love him dearly, and we are going to work this out, slowly but surely. I have all the patience in the world, and he is worth it. he treats me like a queen, and He is my king. That is what love does!
So not all men are horndogs who stick it to anything laying down or bending over. Men are human too, and some need help with getting through their problems. As grown women, we learn to work with these men, because behind these problems sometimes we find the most wonderful men in the world!
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Posted: 7/6/2009 10:25:17 PM |
The same way that hormones can make you really cranky, they can make us men really horny.
Maybe this is why guys so often think a girl is "so cute/hot when they're angry".  | |
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Posted: 7/7/2009 10:00:35 PM | I think I read somewhere that, on average, men masturbate 5 times a week. I could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure that's what it was. Sounds right to me. Each guy is different though.
Lingerie is a type of underwear. It's not something that is supposed to be seen, so it's kind of got a taboo appeal. Most people have little imperfections on their bodies. The lingerie covers them up, but still looks VERY sexy. Kind of like the way a push-up bra can make a woman's boobs look more appealing than they might be were she bare-chested.
I don't know if that makes any sense, lol. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2009 6:07:36 AM | | I had to put down a Victoria Secret catalog while I was pleasuring myself to reply to this post. You are wrong. Men are NOT that horny and lingerie has no effect upon us. | |
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