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Posted: 6/7/2009 10:27:20 AM | She doesn't like you that much or she wouldn't put you off. If you like someone, and you make plans you'll meet that person. Something is wrong, she might have another guy in the picture. Cut your losses and chalk it to a learning experience.
To your orginal post, I have too much self-respect to allow myself to be blown off a second time. So, no call, no show, no explanination, no second chance. period. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 10:34:10 AM | And the last person I foisted my present slippered presence upon is not entitled to reject me...god knows why as i had mapped out eternity of a togetherness with her of which surely she would lurve even if i had to wrap her noggin(head) in tinfoil and brainwash her into worshipping the slippered ground I flight over fleeting of slippers whilst demanding corsets and boots and a never ending supply of muffins fashioned in the manner known as chocolate
perhaps you get my point
perhaps you dont
you know where you stand.
which is nowhere, or upon the precipice of truthfulness - which is rare so i suggest you forget this lot and no whine as its unmanly
totters of to tweezer wickeds overly lush nose hair
brings a tear to my een (eye) | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 10:39:40 AM | Someone blowing you off usually is a non verbal sign that they have no real or serious interest in you...
Don'T wait for the second door to slam in your face.. move on | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 10:55:51 AM | The phrase "Blown Off" already assumes quite a lot. It implies a thoughtful decision to avoid, ignore, dismiss or disregard. And that implies the person isn't interested in you at all.
In such cases, the answer should be "ZERO"!
We should distinguish between "didn't show up" and "blown off". A date might not show up for many reasons, including "blown off", but also for valid reasons such as "had an emergency", "felt ill" or "got stuck in traffic" and many others.
If you don't sense the, "I want to make it up to you for missing our date" attitude, you got "blown off". If they call you with in short period of time, definitely with in the same day, but the sooner the better, give a valid reason, apologize, and schedule another date, you know they wanted to show up, but couldn't. In this case, I might let them off the hook once or twice. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 10:58:06 AM | And here I thought that someone "blowing you off" meant that you have not gone to bed yet, but they are taking care of you orally........ Guess I am of the glass being half full type of attitude........
OT.........People that are interested will find the time to be with you, and if they can not, they will keep you informed with what is happening, why, and offer other times to make it happen.
If none of this applies to you, I agree that you should not let the door hit you in the ass on the way out, because if you do not, it WILL slam you in the face yet again.
Just my opinion........   | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 11:03:42 AM | | I would say once with a good reason ie...kid got sick...car broke down..etc...If there was no call to explain her absence then I wouldnt give her a chance to do it again. It is a self respect thing , you need to have respect for yourself or no one else will. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 11:43:45 AM | This happened to me the other night after a first date.
Some people give the impression right away that they know what they want when they do not.
Don't waste your time trying to figure her out.
What is meant to be will happen.
Don't wait.
Move on. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 12:00:52 PM | She's not interested. Move on.
If you make a date with someone and they call in advance to RESCHEDULE to new firm date/time due to something important coming up - that's fine, poop happens.
If they don't call/show and stand you up, or call at the last second to cancel with vague "next week sometime" kinda stuff - that's them being stupid. Next!
If they don't commit to a date, and you sit around all night waiting for them - that's you being stupid. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 1:12:25 PM | | I wouldn't put up with it. The sort of girl that blows you off is typically a flake or not interested. Either way, move on. | |
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