| | 9 out of 10 people just want sexPage 2 of 4 (1, 2, 3, 4) | How very refreshing reading the last half dozen men has been for me, it is an eye opener.
Such sensative honest and deep things said by them is very heartening to see that there are men out there that think like that.
If more women were aware of those sentiments I am sure they would not hurl themselves at men believing they have to 'put out' to find someone decent and this in turn would generate more respect for themselves.
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| 9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 7/5/2009 11:15:53 AM | | Sex is a natural element of the human body. But like anything it can be hazardous (diseases) at times. Life is merely nothing but choices. For every action is a reaction so unless your in a committed,monogamous relationship your taking a chance and thats a choice you make. Unfortunately you may have to live with that choice to your own demise. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 7:14:46 PM | | must comment i know how you feel and that its not just the people you know its the medi,tv and everything around us that says that its supposingly not normal.......to be honset what is normal now?do they know or do they follow sheep | |
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Posted: 7/11/2009 7:05:16 AM | That's where the use of condoms needs to be enforced, although it's not 100% effective against diseases, it's better than nothing. Just remember, when you have sex with someone, you're also having sex with the others they've been with, and so on.....
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Posted: 7/14/2009 11:18:20 AM | | I like your answer...if there is no connection...then it is pretty devoid of any meaning on an emotional level. However....sometimes the physical aspect is just like filling an empty stomach...simply, filling the void. Then, it is only a temporary fix. | |
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Posted: 5/13/2010 12:14:01 AM | I have a friend who is 43 and a real lady, and neither of us want sex, more important, good honest friendship, that would make us 100% who don't just want sex  | |
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Posted: 6/7/2010 10:43:17 AM | Sex without a relationship is like a dinner without food.
I dont believe ya can have great sex if you just use someone for that alone.
It gets better , as you begin to attach more meaning to a person , and the better you know that person , the better it gets.
I prefer monogamy because i want great sex with someone i care about , that gets better and better. and that takes time. | |
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Posted: 5/1/2011 12:51:05 PM | I always thought pof got it right by asking every profiler what their intent would be....either dating ,long term, intimate encounter etc and i have to admit when i see intimate encounter i dont reply. But i have realised that men have copped on to the fact that most women wont reply and now state their intention as dating.
I cant tell you the amount of guys i've talked to whos written intention was to date but whos actual intention was sex..
I don't think that 9 out of 10 is a right figure, but 6 or 7 is definetly nearer the mark. By the way im not saying theirs anything wrong with just wanting sex, we are all normal after all..... But you should state truthfully what your after :p | |
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Posted: 6/6/2011 10:06:50 AM | I think its important to remember that we are going through a sexual and spiritual revolution in Ireland right now. Action/reaction and all that.
Personally I would like to meet a woman I can have a meaningful conversation with before we have sex. Of course a stimulated brain is open for more sensory pleasure so its a win win situation.
But its more than that.
I guess its connecting with someone you share wavelengths with, or something.
Saying that, I'm not against animalistic sex. Just sex!!! But there still must be some kind of spark for me. And if it turns out to be great sex then that could be a good foundation to build upon. | |
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Posted: 6/15/2011 2:15:36 AM | I agree that 9 out of 10 men just want sex! Not just here but in general.Social networking and dating sites have made those statistics higher.if we banished these I'm sure we would socialise more and meet people and get to know them the old fashioned way which I think is much better  | |
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Posted: 6/15/2011 4:42:40 AM | i have heard that they dont have sex in Bray and Blackrock whereas there are swingers all around Howth
Can anyone explain if this is true | |
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Posted: 6/25/2011 3:50:58 PM | | I agree with you, but I am finding it very difficult to find a guy on this site who is looking for something deep and meaningful. They all seem to be just looking for sex no matter what age they are. | |
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Posted: 6/30/2011 12:45:20 PM | | I only want sex, Women are my jizz buckets. I like to give the impression I want more and then never call back. | |
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Posted: 7/1/2011 9:03:01 AM | | 9 out of 10 is a little excessive so maybe 7 out of 10 judging by the emails and chat requests sent to me? x | |
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Posted: 7/2/2011 8:30:33 AM | I think the ration between PPL who JUST want sex is lower, much lower. I don't believe NOONE cares about sex and if you don't, you must be from outer-space. I believe there's seven out of ten people would care more about a serious relationship and/or leading into a long-term relationship but still consider casual sex or want a meaningful sex life with their partner.
That's just numbers and more more women are looking for casual sex rather than men so it's really hard to keep up.
IMO, women are really looking but at the same time NOT looking ... because of seriousness of the game. | |
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Posted: 9/15/2011 8:03:24 PM | | I for one believe that of the majority of the people on this site but there is always that one person who really wants a relationship. | |
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| 9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 9/16/2011 5:00:10 AM | | I want it ALLLLLlllllll ... I want it shallow, I want it deep ... errrrr I take that back, I don't want it deep like you're thinking. I'll settle for shallow. | |
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Posted: 9/16/2011 8:02:14 AM | | agree with saying, but women are not as up front(not social acceptable) you have jump through fewhoops 1st lol.thats why women being competitve with one another,hate so call sluts(they devauluing sellers market lol). but for evey so called slut theres guy equivalent sleeping with them . | |
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Posted: 12/6/2011 6:56:48 AM | I'm always amused by the effort to pigeon-hole people into one camp or the other. Amused because it's such a pointless activity. I think we can all agree that everyone has a sex drive of some sort (although obviously different people have different libidos), so it's fair to say we all want sex to some greater or lesser extent.
That being the case, where's the problem? The rub seems to be that women assume men only want sex for purely selfish reasons, while men assume that women only want sex as a means to lay some emotional roots (sorry ladies I'ma guy and that was the best I could do with my limited grasp of the female mind ;] ), so the difficulty is that women don't want to be used and men don't want to get dooped into a relationship.
The reason I have such a problem with this whole conflict is that it's completely redundant. Can we all agree that a person who only wants sex within the confines of a healthy relationship will experience wanton lust from time to time,a lust that in no way bends to their usual appetite for sex. At the same time a person who generally wants sex only to satisfy their own physical needs is likely to feel the longing for a deeper more intimate connection like the kind you tend to have with your sexual partner within a healthy relationship.
WHat's my point? Simply put; people do not exist in discrete static sexual and emotional states. Yes it may be reasonable to talk about a persons attitude to sex as being a certain way in 90% of situations but that doesn't change the fact that they will also drive on the other side from time to time.
So if you encounter someone who only wants to have sex with you to pass an hour of life with more colour than the last where's the problem? If you're not interested no big deal, we've all been there, or we will all be there.
So what I'm saying is resenting people because they don't want sex for the same reasons you do is stupid because you may as well hate yourself on the days you want it for the same reasons they do.
Also, unless we're talking about assault (which I shouldn't need to tell anyone is about the shittiest thing you can do), if you're not interested in having sex with someone you can just say no and walk away. You're not obliged to take it as a negative commentary on your person and you certainly don't have the right to judge someone else because you don't agree with their views on sex/relationships/the easter bunny.....unless you're a fascist in which case go nuts at your party-for-one.
I'm out! | |
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