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 darknight48
Joined: 1/22/2011
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i think your spot on,more so in younger generation
 brian19755
Joined: 12/16/2009
Msg: 52
9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 12/13/2011 2:18:19 AM
Whats sex? (I am married lol)
 susanh1955
Joined: 4/29/2010
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 12/31/2011 2:35:44 PM
i think 9 out of 10 MEN just want sex...i think women need something more...and then sex!!!
 RATHLINLIGHTHOUSE
Joined: 2/10/2009
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 1/13/2012 4:41:26 AM
malasam >>> If 9 out out of 10 want just sex, why so are there so many couples in the world that make us single people feel like lepers???

What about ex lepers. youtube : Alms for ex leper
 IouIoubelle
Joined: 9/16/2011
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/9/2012 4:30:12 AM
9 out of 10 want sex only, that's my experience on this site
 johnniefrank60
Joined: 8/20/2011
Msg: 56
9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/9/2012 5:34:13 AM
Sex is the driving force of the world. For someone like me who gets nothing at home, been married for 35 years and sex is not an option for her, finding friends with benefits has been a god send. I am very happy and in love with my wife but need what she can not give.I am sure there are many men and women out here that have the same problem so yes I believe a site like this gives us a place to find what we need. Thank god for free sites.
 Autumnlover58
Joined: 7/7/2010
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/11/2012 8:36:50 AM
BitsNTackle has hit the nail on the head!! Couldn't have said it better.
 ayerightmate
Joined: 2/19/2009
Msg: 58
9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/15/2012 1:05:27 PM
I'd say 9 times out of 10 men want sex but not just sex. By the same token you could say that 9 times out of 10 women want love but not just love.
I'm really tired of hearing this. Men can (if they choose to) control themselves and be faithful sexually and emotionally to one partner. That is fact yet all men are tarred with the same brush.
As a result cheating for example almost becomes accepted as an occupational hazard for a woman in a relationship with a man but why should it be? I can honestly say that I think a man having an affair with a woman less attractive than his partner could be more acceptable to her than a friendship with a woman who is more attractive than her.

Thats due to the crazy world we are living in and the sort of men that live in it.
 IouIoubelle
Joined: 9/16/2011
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/16/2012 1:03:20 PM
who would it be more acceptable to?
 tamarasita
Joined: 11/5/2008
Msg: 60
9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/16/2012 5:11:59 PM
They might be very disappointed indeed if what im hearing is anythig to go by A couple of women I know have met guys for NSA and had awful experiences of men who didnt even shower, wouldnt use protection, had terrible bedroom skills were very rough had smelly breath, were unfit stank of sweat wore no aftershave, among other things. As well as this they were small in size or just average so they can want but not get great action.
 loadsadosh
Joined: 2/12/2012
Msg: 61
9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/16/2012 5:12:15 PM
No men dont, its just that men are so scared of rejection that they grab , while the grabbing is good, because they know that tomo, it might be snatched away, . . thats wisdom for you Ladies
 IouIoubelle
Joined: 9/16/2011
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/16/2012 5:41:02 PM
what a load of nonsense! ^
 loadsadosh
Joined: 2/12/2012
Msg: 63
9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/16/2012 6:52:22 PM
Shame you are so screwed up ( excuse the pun ) that you cant see whats in front of you (whoops , another pun )
 IouIoubelle
Joined: 9/16/2011
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/17/2012 1:24:02 AM
ooh, really...and what, pray tell, is right in front of me? haha
 loadsadosh
Joined: 2/12/2012
Msg: 65
9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/17/2012 2:40:15 PM
Look out your front window ......... Only kidding ....LoL... I'm up your tree , (metaphorically speaking , what is up with Women these days , if I'm on a date and her hands start to wander , and I say ..NO
I mean YES cos I'm desperate ! ! !
 IouIoubelle
Joined: 9/16/2011
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/17/2012 5:47:09 PM
because...no means yes? jeeeze desperation is SO unattractive lol!
 loadsadosh
Joined: 2/12/2012
Msg: 67
9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/18/2012 6:23:24 AM
Desperation so " passe " I know, but having appealed, to your, kind, sensitive, and nurturing side ,,got you hooked already .... its worked, beside if NO means yes, then imagine what YES...YES...YES might mean LoL
 IouIoubelle
Joined: 9/16/2011
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 2/18/2012 8:12:53 AM
I suppose it would depend on the circumstances, although I've always been of the opinion that NO really does mean....NO! Hooked? Me?...on what? :)
But we digress....
 hairymoo
Joined: 2/21/2012
Msg: 69
9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 3/4/2012 1:25:47 PM
Wow. For the first time in my life I find myself one of the 9 out of 10. Sally, despite all three female profiles declaring a desire for intimate encounters, there don't appear to be many ladies looking for uncomplicated sex.
 ChancesRMD
Joined: 4/11/2009
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 3/10/2012 3:21:23 PM
It may be more like 9 out of 10 people want the dream relationship, but are willing to settle for just sex.

Otherwise, people would rarely be having sex.
 ControlledFolly
Joined: 2/17/2011
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 3/13/2012 6:02:48 AM
This is one of those areas that is too easy to generalise but all of us have our own interpretation.

No where is the gender divide more obvious than sex and the motives for it. Speaking personally i am able to seperate sex for emotion, but that doesnt mean i prefer sex just for the sake of it.

Finding meaningless sex is so easy its not funny, and thats fine up to a point, but there always comes a time when the emotions have a need to be fulfiilled too. Over all i think men are much better than women at seperating the two.

Also i guess hormones play their role very differently too although i am no scientist just observant.
 fineoil
Joined: 1/24/2012
Msg: 72
9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 3/14/2012 3:47:58 PM
fair play, your the only one here that actually knows the difference between sex, and making love,
 IAMDAN9ie
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 73
9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 3/22/2012 12:23:13 PM
when a women says no she means no ! When a man says yes it means he have not been listening eg : women = "are you listening to0 me"
man = "yes"
women = "really what did i just say"
man = "me"
women = "before that "
man = "too"
women = "before that "
man = "listening "
women = "before that "
man = "are you "
 kindhearted4
Joined: 11/22/2010
Msg: 74
9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 3/24/2012 4:48:03 PM
Agree 100percent. Was dating a guy from here for a long number of months. He had constantly told me he loved me and the ground I walked on. I never told hime same as was too afraid of frightening him away but one day when he had told me he loved me a few times I let it slip that i was in love with him too. What a stupid mistake as since then I knew we were drifting and he always had an excuse, either work or studying.
We are both in our 40s and I was totally honest from day one when we started dated I was not a one night girl and was looking relationship. Unfortunately he lied and told me same. Tonight I found out he was a way to Dublin to singles night not through him but through my pal who is in Dublin at pof night out. Did try to ring him at least a dozen times but he has blocked me for night as phone just going into answering and this is not like him since we have been dating for a while now, longer than a few months. I had a very difficult week and also have the stupid old bug so havent been out since yesterday. I need everyones help and advice on what I should do. Do I let him explain or just dump him now? Help
 romanticannie
Joined: 6/17/2010
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9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 4/24/2012 8:28:24 AM
my experience is exactly this ,i am sorry to say.i met a man sometime ago who after a few date sdeclared he was falling for me.i was not falling for him.he was a couple of years older than me.i did though find him very interesting as he had travelled worked abroad and was very intelligent.he just refused to even try to understand me.i didnt want to tel him i didnt fancy him as i didnt want to hurt him but there was a certain attraction.i needed time for feeling to develop but he wouldnt give it to me.my idea of a relationship at my age is very much company and very little about sex.we met up again in the recent past but after a few meetings the same issue arose .so i walked away.all the other men i have met on dates seem to be focused on sex.i find it frankly repulsive that older men in particular seem incapable of working at love.then again are there any men out there who really want to be with a lovely,loving woman?my experiences say no!
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