| | 9 out of 10 people just want sexPage 4 of 4 (1, 2, 3, 4) | Agree 100percent. Was dating a guy from here for a long number of months. He had constantly told me he loved me and the ground I walked on. I never told hime same as was too afraid of frightening him away but one day when he had told me he loved me a few times I let it slip that i was in love with him too. What a stupid mistake as since then I knew we were drifting and he always had an excuse, either work or studying.
We are both in our 40s and I was totally honest from day one when we started dated I was not a one night girl and was looking relationship. Unfortunately he lied and told me same. Tonight I found out he was a way to Dublin to singles night not through him but through my pal who is in Dublin at pof night out. Did try to ring him at least a dozen times but he has blocked me for night as phone just going into answering and this is not like him since we have been dating for a while now, longer than a few months. I had a very difficult week and also have the stupid old bug so havent been out since yesterday. I need everyones help and advice on what I should do. Do I let him explain or just dump him now? Help  | |
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| 9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 4/24/2012 8:28:24 AM | | my experience is exactly this ,i am sorry to say.i met a man sometime ago who after a few date sdeclared he was falling for me.i was not falling for him.he was a couple of years older than me.i did though find him very interesting as he had travelled worked abroad and was very intelligent.he just refused to even try to understand me.i didnt want to tel him i didnt fancy him as i didnt want to hurt him but there was a certain attraction.i needed time for feeling to develop but he wouldnt give it to me.my idea of a relationship at my age is very much company and very little about sex.we met up again in the recent past but after a few meetings the same issue arose .so i walked away.all the other men i have met on dates seem to be focused on sex.i find it frankly repulsive that older men in particular seem incapable of working at love.then again are there any men out there who really want to be with a lovely,loving woman?my experiences say no! | |
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| 9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 7/7/2012 8:21:44 AM | | I have personally found this to be true....some folks obfuscate by saying they want a relationship, but by and large everyone wants sex. | |
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| 9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 7/7/2012 8:27:02 AM | | you are wrong. Perhaps the Laws of Attraction are at work? Personally I have found women to be every bit as bad as men in this department. | |
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| 9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 7/7/2012 12:09:41 PM | | Agreed, but some aren't looking for sex. (Some look for love first they know/understand sex cause along with that but only want it if its with someone they care for) | |
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Posted: 8/5/2012 9:54:52 PM | | i happen to agree to some extent i mean do you realy think that thereisnt any chance that a man or woman aloke to feel that there is more to a relationship than sex i am one of those people who feels this way ...does the even equate to the 9 out of 10 peole eveeyone is talking about | |
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Posted: 8/5/2012 10:07:31 PM | | dump him why would you even consider to let him explain.my opinion that would just give him season ticket to playing around.there are too many damn diseases out there to allow explanations | |
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Posted: 9/25/2012 2:36:28 AM | | Isit me that is shocking ,to all the posts i jsut feel people are scared in general these days,we must bring about circumstances in our lives that suit us,never regret anything cause at one time thats what we wanted hope this helps everyone,have a great day and smile kx | |
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| 9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 9/25/2012 9:21:12 AM | | women are more covert about wanting sex due to social conditioning/expectations.whereas men with 20% more testosterone than women, always want sex lol.also women have more choice/picky when it comes to men(they give women power by being****lead).except power shifts when women get old.men are visually stimulated women more cerebral/emotionly stimulated.give you example no matter what woman looks like (after few drinks especially) so guy mount her.this only works with guy if a) hes famous b)plenty money c)looks like brad pitt can lick his eyebrows clean lol. like old joke when little girl and bot naked he says: i got one of these you havent girl: i got one of these and when i get older my mammy says i can have as many of them as like lol. | |
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Posted: 10/21/2012 9:34:20 PM | | I couldn't possibly tell you anything about statistics or anything else as far as dating goe's. I've been out of the loop for a very long time. | |
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| 9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 10/27/2012 9:54:19 PM | | what source are you getting your information from? Also, you must consider what age group you're talking about... for example that may apply more to the 20-something age group versus the 40-something age group. | |
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| 9 out of 10 people just want sex
Posted: 10/29/2012 3:42:38 AM | | My point of view on this, I think both women and men are after sex, but for a woman she has to find the right guy for that sex, guys don't seem to mind who or what they bang, well for the most part anyway, have met a few genuine guys on here, very hard to find, but it's the same in reality, but a little easier to tell in the real world, after two years on this site, I reckon 9 out of 10 is a pretty good description of it lol | |
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Posted: 11/15/2012 3:11:09 AM | I find that age makes no difference - In the past year on POF I have met some very determined ladies ranging from age 30 to 57 ..my very first date off here came by train and deliberately missed the last train home as she had no intention of returning the same night. One lady in Dublin ....... enough!!
And what perecentage of people are just window shopping with no intention to buy? | |
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