| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 8:55:38 PM |
Just because you're in bed with someone and even if you are close, doesn't entitle you to potentially violate their wishes. It's THEIR body
Under this pretense, you need to ask a woman before doing ANYTHING to her body, because it my POTENTIALLY VIOLATE THEIR WISHES.
Him: Can I kiss you?
Her: Yes, please.
Him: Can I gently run my fingers through your hair, and pull you ever so slightly closer to me?
Her: Uh, I guess so.
Him: Can I place my hands on your hips?
Her: No!!... go away you freak! | |
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 9:26:37 PM | LMAO - ok boys, here is the deal
in a relationship their is suppose to be communication...if there is, then these things have already been discussed in an open, honest conversation: likes, dislikes, have dones, never dones, dont ever want to dos, want to explore, doesn't want to try this but yeah that, intriguing, no way...that's to freaky for me...etc.
if this has not happened in conversation - you shouldn't be in the bed! | |
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 10:39:33 PM |
Under this pretense, you need to ask a woman before doing ANYTHING to her body, because it my POTENTIALLY VIOLATE THEIR WISHES.
Keiper, don't be so dense. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to understand that something as specific as anal play need be dealt with having just a bit of discretion and respect. If the question bares being asked, the respect bares being offered to the one who will be accepting.
And I STILL maintain that to finger a woman's a$$ without her permission is wrong. Got it? | |
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 11:04:12 PM | The hole ( ) discussion sounds like a one nighter. If you've never met her before and having sex for the first time and likely the last then asking her every time you move or roll over, lick here or poke there is going to turn her off faster than a bank bailout. Just do stuff and see what happens.
Havin said that I find it personally UNappealing to be in a position in bed with a woman who you have not had extensive conversations with prior to having sex for the first time. In the course of natural conversation sexual likes and dislikes will (should?) be discussed so that a lot of the guess work when you do make love later will already be known. Disliked actions can be avoided. Actions that are either turn-ons or as per discussions, illicit feelings of curiosity ... well explore them slowly together.
Certainly if you are in any kind of RELATIONSHIP a question like this is moot to the extreme. With emotions and trust comes a natural progression from mystery to knowing what turns her crank. Unknnowns can be explored. No-Nos avoided. Communication is key and just HAPPENS in a relationship. | |
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/4/2009 11:29:19 PM | This works both ways...I'm a guy and it's been done to me -finger up the ***- by several girls (I've also sometimes received a bit of analingus from some girls...I'm very clean there and if a girl really wants to do that then by all means).
A man/woman may like it while a woman/man is giving him/her oral...(I guess as long as she/he doesn't put it in too deep).
This is a tough one to ask, unless you've been intimate with each other for awhile now...and you're both quite open.
For those who have only slept together a few times, well...it's probably more awkward to ask "is it ok if I insert my finger in your behind while I give you oral...do I have your permission?"
My solution: try in gently...gently try it, and...be ready for a "no! not there", or it may be ok...she, he may like it). | |
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/5/2009 12:51:09 AM | | Not to sound too nasty... but french kissing the anus and giving it a wet tongue bath and then, eeeeeasing into it with your wet finger while you move back to pleasuring her vagina with your mouth might be better. Sometimes asking and slightly insisting might might help as well. | |
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/7/2009 9:44:37 AM | have you tried "the triple"?
One hand on her clitoris
Your c+ck in her pus+y
One finger from the spare hand in her an+s
slow, all of it, and wet/lubed
she can play with her breasts and come in buckets
it's a joy to watch
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/7/2009 9:48:25 AM | I find that most women that enjoy anal in some fashion, will bring it up first, and that is what opens that door to talking about it.......so to speak.......and then doing it, if both enjoy that particular part of sensuality.
Asking what turns the other on, will, more times than not, turn you on even more as well, and offering to please as much as being pleased will help the both of you make sure that it happens.
There are those that enjoy a finger, and those that enjoy beads, or other toys as well. Why not just find out BEFORE you try to do something that just might not be appreciated.
If more would just communicate about likes and dislikes, when it comes to sex, many of these topics could be eliminated.
Just my opinion.......   | |
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/7/2009 1:46:56 PM | Yes, I do and I definately love it. Its true. It DOES increase the intensity.
And, of course- if 2 people decide to have sex already, then why not experiment doing different things, right?! 
I think : The more/the BETTER!  | |
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/7/2009 2:09:17 PM | Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
I can't answer for all women. So I will answer for myself.
No. Don't do the oral part either.
Find out if she likes anal.... most girls really do
SOME really do. Because you like something you shouldn't make the comment that most do | |
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/7/2009 2:38:50 PM | I'd say if it hasn't been previously discussed.....
then the suggestions you've got to slowly work your way towards her rear...
and gauge her reactions.....is your best bet.
Slight pressure w/ your finger first.....if she is totally against it....she'll tense up and sound like a dolphin (un-uh un-uh) real quick...
if you don't get any "negative" response"....then slowly slide just a fraction in.....
and once again......pay attention to her response!
Some girls like it......some girls don't.......and sometimes the girls that like it......only like it when the "moment" is right.....
any man experimenting with anal play should take their time......and pay attention to her responses. | |
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/7/2009 2:39:44 PM | There are spots you can stimulate (small circles, or gentle come hither motion) with a finger that can't be reached any other way than from inside the A$$.
If a guy is experienced with the technique, a girl can really enjoy it. The problem is that most guys have a genetic predispostion to assume that in/out, in/out is what girls want. This is usually not the case, especially in the anal department.
I agree 50% with the "ask" opinions. The reason is that if a guy WITH technique has been preceeded by guys WITHOUT technique, the answer will usually be no.
I suggest playing around the outside first and then working your way inside, should you receive welcome signals. Be gentle as you make your way around and inside. If you are being "rough" then you will be doing the same as a previous "NO TECHNIQUE" guy and probably be shut down.
The goal should be to provide a good experience for her. Assume all before you have done it incorrectly and know that it is YOUR responsibility to make sure she enjoys it.
As for the guys who have no interest in a girl's booty, you will never send her over the edge in regards to pleasure until you learn the ropes. I am obviously speaking in reference to the girls that DO want you to have interest. | |
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/7/2009 2:49:35 PM | I want to add. Even if you think you have technique, there is a good chance you don't. Spend some time reading about how to please a girl in these ways. No, porn is NOT a place to learn lol. That's as far from reality as it gets. Girls generally like be treated with gentle, but strong care. Be in control and be a man, but remember, prison sex is not what most girls are pleasured the most by.
Pounding sex acts are only good on rare occassions, and should only be incorporated after many weeks/months of being together with someone. They are to mix things up and should not be the norm. If you can't show a girl an intense and naughty time while being gentle, then more research is needed on your part. | |
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/7/2009 4:24:42 PM | caz2009 said:
forget about a finger in the azz, get it in the front and massage the g spot at the same time, that does the trick without having to ask your new date if you can stick your pinky up her bum! if in doubt, drop the tongue action further south, and that'll tell you if shes into anal games!
Caz2009, these three words will say it all..
You Naughty Girl!?! | |
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/7/2009 4:31:06 PM |
Pounding sex acts are only good on rare occassions, and should only be incorporated after many weeks/months of being together with someone.
This is not universally true. Personally, I love being pounded, and if I'm ready for sex with someone, I'm ready for a good, hard, vigorous f*ck.
This is why communication is so important--we all have different needs and desires, and only by communicating with your partner will you know what theirs are. | |
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| Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral
Posted: 6/7/2009 6:12:08 PM | 'Well how would you want a woman to ask you about a lubed finger or two in your ass during oral?'
Some men that I have known absolutely love it. A couple even came close to passing out the O was so nice and intense. Not everyone is uptight about a.s.s. play. | |
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