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Posted: 6/7/2009 1:48:33 PM | I work in a field that exsposes me to the national media.
The odds of such a thing as a STRANGER pervert getting ahold of your child and molesting them are small.
The handful of cases you freak out about are the ones they place in the news...sensationalizing it. How many stations are running the case of Neveah Buchanan currently? I know I (as a news monitor) see it blasted on most TV news channels I watch.
The chances of a parent or relative or TEACHER/Pastor molesting your kids...MUCH greater but, still small.
But, do you hear ANY parent stating 'I'm not gonna send my kid to school' or 'I'll NEVER go to church where those perverted pimps push their perverse passions onto our prepubescent children.'??? No.
It is true that some parents make false accusations too. Old trick that works because 'mens is teh bad guy'.
My advice still stands. KNOW who your children are around. Be a RESPONSIBLE parent.
And remember, the chances of your kid being ran over by a drunken teen in front of your house...are far greater than some dirty old man you met through the interweb touching them inappropriatly. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 1:50:15 PM | | Probably because HER parents complained... i have a friend in similar perdicaments | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 2:04:03 PM | | Your kids are probably 1000x more likely to be killed in a car accident than to be molested by someone on the sex offender website who just got out of jail. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 2:48:06 PM | "perverted pimps push their perverse passions onto our prepubescent children"
That's just WAY to Sesame Street for the subject matter under discussion. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 2:57:13 PM |
If POF hasnt deleted him yet you could try calling the local law enforcement in wichita. His being on this site might be a violation of his parole as it gives him potential access to minors. Just a thought.
Possible that this site alone is a violation, but remember when you come on here you have to check the "over 18" box. But if they tell him, then he could be violated. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 5:36:28 PM | I am really surprised at some of you, seeming to defend the registered sex offenders out there! Yes, most all of the registered sex offenders WILL tell you they are innocent and a casualty of the legal system.....the same way an inmate will cry FOUL when he gets 10 years for being 'framed' for something he DIDN'T do.
Seriously, give me a break. I do not claim to be an expert or have a doctorate on this issue, but I DO work with sex offenders daily (my career) and I can tell you that 95% of the sex offenses that I see occur WITHIN families & relatives, not strangers.
I have also worked with adult male sex offenders in prison and they will be the first ones to tell you that they NEVER did anything to deserve the title. BUT....ask their cellmates about them and they will tell you all the intimate details of the guy's actions when he molested a kid (since the guy told him everything when you weren't around).
I agree, there are those that get pulled into the system that shouldn't be, but those are few and far between and for the most part--the registry WORKS! It is meant to be a safeguard and is a very good tool to have for those who want to be safe.
Anyone who has kids and is looking to date seriously NEEDS to do the sex offender registry search (man or woman) just as a safety precaution. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 10:50:18 PM | I agree with zardoz451. know who your kids are around. and know who you are bringing them around.
and I still stand firm on this: sex offenders pedifiles still have the same rights we do. people may not like it.. but that's how it is... many systems were put in place after zacheries law was passed in 1994 in indiana.
and if you really want to feel like a sex offender. put these initals into the web search engine.. IMBRA. and read that. that is a law passed in 2005 pretty much stating that all american people. weather it is a man or woman. are considered sex offenders. and you must if wishing to contact any one beyond the us boarders. submitt to a criminal and sex offender backround check... and the information must be given to the person or persons in other countries out side the us in there native language. and they must sign off on the paper work before any communication can begin... it is a one way law.. and it was passed on 2 cases. pushed by an all women's men hating group... and the law is not a gender discriminating law. It's not much fun when your own people think you a pre convicted sex offender. and you have done nothing of the nature ever... and welcome to the other side of the law.. and the law does not protect the american people. this is how much you are truely valued as an american.. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2009 11:01:19 PM | | here's something else I forgot to mention. and know what a sex terrorist is??? or who it describes??? it is not a word heard in america any where... it is used to describe the american or western people. in the rest of the world... | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 9:16:45 AM | Dude we're all sex terrorists. If that's the case then I'm the bin Laden of you all.  | |
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| registered sex offenders
Posted: 6/8/2009 9:25:39 AM | Just as long as he doesnt have a van with a bed im pretty sure he's legit  | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 10:14:25 AM | here I go again...this subject really gets under my skin.
A guy is 19, he meets a girl 16...but looks 20. They become intimate. Her parents find out. He is charged with statuatory rape. He is now a sex offender. Before you say, he should have made sure of her age, how many of you check driver's licenses to see if your date is old enough? Yes, if she looks questionable, you ask for proof. But some women lie about their age when they are younger, saying, and presenting themselves as older. Then later in life they lie about their age and say they are younger than what they are.
While I am on the subject...a woman has sex with a minor boy, gets a slap on the wrist. A man has sex with a minor girl, gets the book thrown at him. This has been shgown over and over again in the cases of teachers having sex with their students. The males always get harsher penalties.
I would think that the owners of this site would have checked out the accusations made, and MAYBE found them to not be accurate. They would be leaving themselves open to lawsuits if they received this information and did not act upon it...I would think. Again.... JMO | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 10:36:28 AM |
While I am on the subject...a woman has sex with a minor boy, gets a slap on the wrist. A man has sex with a minor girl, gets the book thrown at him. This has been shgown over and over again in the cases of teachers having sex with their students. The males always get harsher penalties
Not Mary-K Letourneau! She pulled some good time for her stunt.
Deb LaFave didn't get time because the kids family asked to end the trial so their son wouldn't have to testify. But of course she'll be on the sex-offender registry forever.
But she's blonde, thin and beautiful so I'm sure many guys will overlook it. | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 10:52:49 AM | | this is why single moms/parents have to be concerned with protecting their children first always....i often tell people that i'm a mom that happens to be single....my children don't meet them until i know that i know that i know things are ok | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 11:06:42 AM |
Not Mary-K Letourneau! She pulled some good time for her stunt.
Her first sentence was suspended!! Only parole! It was when she broke parole and was with the kid again, did she serve her time!! A man wouldn't get that option!
...JMO | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 11:17:58 AM | | really what are the chances in meeting a sex offender, i think this post is paranoid | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 11:34:56 AM |
really what are the chances in meeting a sex offender, i think this post is paranoid
You'd be surprised! As for my yung'ns, I don't let them meet ANYONE until at least 3 or 4 months after I'm in an exclusive relationship. And THEN its only briefly. My daughter won't let me have a boyfriend right now anyways so I'm not worried about the peds, just interesting convo. Rightly so. | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 11:46:34 AM | | you are so right. they are the predators of the worse kind and they are so smooth. dealt with them for 18 years as a corrections officer in the canaian federal system . they totally incurable. they will do it even if they go back to prison. once they are out watch out. he probably has stipulations regarding women with children. go to your local authorities with the info on him that you have they will do something maybe even get him off this site. but then all he has to do is change his handle and he is back. its very hard for law enforcement to curb these guys. , hope this helps you out | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 11:46:41 AM | | i dont think its a good idea to introduce your children to every man that comes along,but really what are the chances that your going to come across a ped pervert | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 12:01:21 PM | | you never get off that registry. that is over your head until you die | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 12:05:12 PM | OP - just playing devils advocate... how do we know the guy you are targetting isnt your ex who you are mad at? And you feel like trying to ruin his life because he 'wronged' you in some way? When people break up there are many MANY immature childish people who will do anything to get back at their ex, including making false accusations.
With the thousands (millions?) of profiles on PoF, do you think the Admins have the resources to track down every personal complaint like this? You cant keep sex offenders out of bars, dance clubs, hiking groups or church functions, so you cant expect to keep them off the Internet.
I know you are trying to do the right thing, but part of the price for being 'free' is that we cant be protected from everything. Parents should (MUST!) be extra vigilent about who meets or spends time with their kids. | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 12:05:32 PM | | you in the hell are you trying to kid or make a media spin unless you have an ulterior motive. worked 18 years with these peices of crap from priest to protestant ministers. the cathaloic church finally apologised to aboriginal population of Canada for the sexual abusses the children suffered under the residential school system. do your research befor you do your media spin | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 12:20:13 PM |
dont think its a good idea to introduce your children to every man that comes along,but really what are the chances that your going to come across a ped pervert
Look at the registry where you live and THEN come back and ask that. I agree kids do not need to be exposed to every "Uncle So-and-So" that mom brings home. That can be traumatic. I know because my aunt did it, I never knew I had so many uncles! | |
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Posted: 6/8/2009 12:24:01 PM |
Anyone on a sex offenders registry is not acceptable for PoF or to have any relationship with anyone. The PoF administrator should be notified and the person should be deleted ASAP........ If the person ever resolves the reason they are on the registry and is removed then it's another matter. But as long as they are actively on the registry, they shouldn't be in any kind of relationship. Well, that's what I think anyway...
this is true and I am not sure POF has the right to punish this guy ..and I m almost sure you are breaking the law by harassing him ...even by outing him on POF
I use to work in corrections and know a guy who got 5 years and registered as a child molester for sleeping with his wife
he was 17 and she was 15 they were high school sweethearts ...and her mom knew they were sexually active and condoned it .. then he turned 18 and they had a fight and broke up ..the mom got pissed at him... ..and went got a warrant for statutory rape ... then they made up and the mom signed for them to get married which they did ...and the mom went and dropped the warrant ...but like any case involving a minor the state took it up and picked him up ....some hot shot DA scarred the piss out of him and got him to plea to 2nd degree sexual abuse ...with the promise of no jail time ...but the judge had a hard on and over ruled it giving him 5 years ...his wife the one he had sex with came to visit him every Sunday ...he is still on the web site as a child molester
dont appoint yourself judge unless you have all the facts ...
if you can explain to me how you can get placed on a sex offender list without being convicted of a crime.
i just did | |
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