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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/9/2006 6:34:34 PM | To Protest all the male bashing and unequal laws favoring women. It is the only way the white man can fight back. We know the white girls hate it when we date and marry Asian women.
True it helps that Asian women are feminine and sexy, but even more we are sick and tired of all the male bashing that white women support. Every time a white guy marries an Asian that's another white woman that does without. So the more the white women win, the more they lose.
If white women that somehow have all the power wish to punish white men, then don't marry them. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/9/2006 6:50:49 PM | Spider women
i dont generaly go for blondes, i prefer dark hair , i think your generalizing too much.
Black people are'nt one person with one mind, black people are many people in many different countries with many different cultures languages and preferences, not to mention blacks split into different sub-cultures. I would like to go for an asian women, theres even a website dedicated to this called, asian black unity with many pictures of black and asian couples | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/9/2006 7:06:54 PM | | I will speak from experience here. Growing in Canada there really was much choice, now we have all cultures, so there are options. I find the asian ladies very attractive, I love there small frames and usually long hair. However, they are just the same as any woman they have their moods and swings, so the small frame and long hair wears off pretty soon. It still comes down to personality and common interests. For me I like the look, for buddies of mine they like blonds, red heads whatever, more choice is good but not necessarily better. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/9/2006 7:10:17 PM | | Because that is what you are looking to see. Why waste your life energy on racist ponderings about others' personal (& private) relationships, rather than tending to your own business ? | |
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| Biggest loser eh. This is of course coming from a guy who is single pushing 40
Posted: 8/10/2006 9:39:22 AM | | didier775: Admittedly I had not read any of your posts from other threads that I can recall. I was judging more from your statements in a point blank fashion. I'm guessing your statements were geared more toward a particular individual as opposed to Asian males as a whole, so I apologize as far as my accusation that you have something against Asian males in general. However I still believe that in a society (as a whole) that proclaims a principle that racial prejudice is wrong, we've allowed a level of acceptance with it among all non-white races, but specifically for the sake of the thread, Asians. In fact to be even more specific...Asian males. I don't think anyone here can dispute the fact that 'overall' it's the Asian male that's plummeted in the media with degrading jokes. So when any type of anger is expressed, in light of everything, it appears to me very understandable. Yes to some degree Asian females are subject to a certain amount of media ridicule, but realistically, not nearly to the extent as the Asian male. The Asian female has somewhat of an open door into the white man's world not because of love for Asian's in general, or Eastern culture, but because the females are viewed as exotic and sexually alluring. The situation is similar to the 'tragic mulatto' of the turn of the 19th/20th century. We hated the black man but in similar fashion found light skinned/mixed women exotic, so they had that same open door. However in their case their was a stronger sense of betrayal, thus the term 'tragic'. To many black women, latina women, and American Indian women, us 'whites' are takers (stealing land, etc.). So the IR mixture between whites and these ethnic groups are far less. To many woman from 'some' Asian nations the signal has been historically given that white 'Americans' are givers (liberators or restorers). The large number of Asian females who marry white males has much less to do with our looks than we think. The whole "we're packing, and they as a rule are not" (yeah, our rule) is absurd. God didn't mess up when he created the Asian males and females. The Asian male as a whole is preportionally perfect for the Asian female. You get the occasional 5'2" Asian woman who thinks the average Asian male is too short for her (and justifies it by wearing high heels), but among the many reasons why AF's will marry a big WM is to produce taller children. It's clear that by seeing the many white males who date and marry Asian females that they (white males) are not chosen for their looks. Typically the white male is usually very average looking at best. There's exceptions of course, and I realize many AF's here are looking for 'handsome only'. But many are very average, and in alot of cases pysically too large for some of the AF's they marry. They probably even cause physical pain (in bed) at times. | |
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| Biggest loser eh. This is of course coming from a guy who is single pushing 40
Posted: 8/10/2006 1:20:58 PM | Senor Spode,
Your apology shows class and it is heartily accepted. I'm not here to bash any one (perhaps a few individuals who are just too tempting to ignore) ,
any race or any gender, but to share my experience, observations and to learn from others. I do agree with you that
society tends to stereotype races, nationality, gender ...... It is unfortunate that people as individuals
base their perceptions on others on a few bad encounters or from what is being portraited by the
media. Regrettably, it is human nature to categorize and generalize on things that we are not
familiar with. However, I believe that it is much more constructive to alter those faulty perceptions
and generalization through individual achievement rather than through finger pointing. We like doers
not whiners. On a personal level, I can relate on the unpleasantness of minority individuals in dealing
with the ingrained prejudices and stereotypes from the majority due to ignorance. While working and
living in Asia and South America, I was constantly annoyed by the natives' assumption that I was a
clumsy, loud, graceless, violent and sex-starved (due to all the stupid sex tourists who are mostly
white males) American. While visiting my relavitves in Europe, I was subjected to the same
treatments for living in America most of my adult life. Prejudice comes in all shape and form, my
friend.
Back to the thread, I do agree with you, Senor Spode, that an imbalance does exist when it comes to
IR between Asian females and white males versus Asian males and white females. Historically, a
society tends to be more opened to absorb female members of another race or culture than the male
members. Females are also more adaptable, more easily influenced and more forward looking than
males. Thus, Asian females living here and in the EU are more apt to be in relationships with native
males. Ultimately, it is a number game. There are many more native (white) males to chose from
than those of their own race or culture, so, the Asian females opt for white males instead of their own
brothers. It is also not too far fetched to assume that these females wants to have children who
would fit better into the main stream of the society that they are living in. Thus, the forward looking,
mercenary nature of women. I'm not so deluded to think that "we're packing and they are not".
As far as the white men that these women pick being average, Senor Spode, most of us are
"average" on the bell curve of physical appearance (based on facial symmetry). So, it is no surprise
that these men represent an accurated sample of the general population. Also, when it comes to
height preference in women, there are plenty of white females in our country who are barely over
5'5" but wouldn't care to give the time of the day to a man under 5'8". So, it is not an Asian
phenomenon. Women's lib. or not, women still prefer a bigger man to feel protected.
DD | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/10/2006 1:31:59 PM | I find Latinas very exotic and much more appealing than Asian women. I suppose a lot of guys want to hook up with Asian women because of the myth of them being shy and submissive.
I prefer Hispanics because I am familiar with the culture and language and love the food, the music and the close familial ties. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/10/2006 2:10:05 PM | | I would say its almost enitrely physical. Altho there are quite a few overweight asians the majority are very small built which appeals to people who arent into the more heavily padded women so to speak. And for people that this is important to its a logical choice.. I personally like all races of women hispanic being a particular favourite. Not to many round my parts tho and they generally stay within their own little niche. Mind a lot of the asians do as well. And im guessing the way the western world woman is going soon they will all be blimps cept for the few lucky ones so i guess u will see more and more white men going for asian women. The joys of western civilisation lmao. Could also be all the propaganda advertsied today i guess.. About thin is in and stuff like that.. And a lot of the time asian women are portrayed as being loyal and "homely" which will appeal to a lot of men who dont like the whole "professional" women thing going on nowadays. Maybe they feel threatened. But at the same time ive met some very high powered asian women but alas they dont date much either. There thats my tuppence worth for the month lol.. So i say its a whole body type issue. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/10/2006 2:33:00 PM | It all comes down to the body. Many white men prefer thin woman. Most Asian woman are thin. Sometimes you hear becuase they are submissive ?? I don't particularly think so. All though I did meet one who was very accomandating. But I also had that through all types of woman. I really think its
the thin thing. I like Asian woman particular South East Asian woman. But one thing I don't like is that they have flat asses.
I on the other hand prefer Latin woman, and Again woman.
I hope this helps. Its tough to talk about the "thin" thing. But its our cultural that makes us fat and ironically our cultural that makes us idealize thin figures. Go figure
John M
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/10/2006 8:26:27 PM | Oh!!! John, I dont have flat ass, just kidding, its ok if you prefer latina, we all do have our own preference and one should not condemn one for sharing what they like on a woman lol. to each its own guys.  | |
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| Biggest loser eh. This is of course coming from a guy who is single pushing 40
Posted: 8/11/2006 8:43:44 AM |
I was constantly annoyed by the natives' assumption that I was a clumsy, loud, graceless, violent and sex-starved (due to all the stupid sex tourists who are mostly white males) American.
Yep! I know exactly what you're saying bro!
Also, when it comes to height preference in women, there are plenty of white females in our country who are barely over 5'5" but wouldn't care to give the time of the day to a man under 5'8"
True! Even Tom Cruise is getting flack nowadays! | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/12/2006 9:56:39 AM | | Electric, I believe its because Asian women treet men with respect more than European black or white women. There language tends to be more clean and not full of swearing. In my area of town men like Asian win because there most likely not to prejudge. And most asian women have a high standard of moral values. Where are you from you must not know many asian women except the ones you view on tv, I think asian women are very materialistic, you never see an asian girl with a broke white guy they are all about the money,you never see an asian girl driving a sh*tbox, they are all driving top of the line Lexus,Toyotas, Hummers, Mercedes..... ( memiors of a geisha)they teach the girls to use men for money. asian women are more respectful? I was friends with a girl whose mother was from china she swore like a sailor, did drugs and was mean as hell, all she cared about was her husband's paycheck. Their game is to play dumb and decile to rile all the suckers in. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/12/2006 2:51:00 PM | On another note, in view of the fact that some of the posters on this thread (and the forum as a whole) 'are' honest enough to 'admit' that their prerequisite does include physical attractiveness, I think some of the posters in this thread are being somewhat dishonest. Not so much the males who say things like "respectful, well-mannered, educated, etc.", although it could apply to them as well. But the males who make the statements refering to physical traits, (skin-tone, size, eyes, etc.). Where I personally feel the dishonesty lies is the flat out statement "Asian women are", and "ANY Asian female is welcome to email me".
What they 'really' mean is "any ATTRACTIVE Asian female". Not every Asian female is attractive by any stretch of the imagination. Just as is the case with males or females of any race or ethnicity. To take it a step further, I would surmise that there are 4 specific categories they are looking for.
1. Skinny magazine cover girl look alike. These magazines generally hail from Japan and HK as I understand it. Basically the school girl look.
2. Porno-S&M queen lookalike.
3. Big haired Asian Barbie newscaster look-alike.
4. Miscellaneous.
From what I hear Japanese Anime is practically like porno to some guys. So along with an/another attractive Asian female to compete with, in extreme cases one may have to compete with a cartoon character. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2006 8:18:29 PM | I feel like clarifying an earlier statement I made about God and the creation of Asian women.
It's not like I'm young. I've dated a lot women over the course of my life and the pursuit of finding the right person. I've dated women of every ethnicity and from a lot of different parts of the world. If you've done a lot of dating this is the common outcome of a long, repetitive process; it's not a mark of promiscuouity.
I can say that as a white male with a lot of dating experience that somewhere along the line I developed a clear preference for Asians. I know that some of it is because of their physical attraction. Asian women tend to have "baby" faces; that is to say, they usually possess as adults the same facial qualities that attract us to babies. Babies are genetically programmed to be "cute", so we will be attracted to them and want to protect them. This same dynamic applies when I look at an Asian girl.
Asian women usually come from families or societies or environments where they have been given the motivation to properly educate themselves and tend to be quite intelligent. I realize this is a stereotype but it is a stereotype with a valid reason for existing. While it certainly isn't universally true, when I meet or speak to an Asian girl I can have a reasonable expectation that she's halfway intelligent.
Asian women, on an average, smell better and feel better in my arms or against my body than any other average ethnic type. Don't ask me why. That's just the way it is and it's an answer to the question asked. I'm not saying that I don't find women of other races appealing to my senses, I certainly do. I think that this expectation may come from the fact that I was never with an Asian that I didn't find myself pleased and rewarded.
These are things that just make Asian women more attractive to me. If I'm like other men and they think like that, then it explains why you see what you see. All women are the same, and real attraction is built on a lot more than first impressions and stereotypes, but there are valid reasons why we might be quicker to allow an Asian girl into our lives than someone of another ethnicity.
All of this of course is speaking strictly from a personal perspective. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2006 11:17:29 PM | When white men see asian women, they see the exotic, young-looking-for-their-age, slender, must-be-a-demon-in-the-sack temptress.
Unfortunately, this does not apply in the reverse....when white women see an asian male, they see the goofy martial-arts movie guy, a tailor, corner store clerk, IT guy, or the rude waiter in the chinese restaurant who couldn't speak english. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/16/2006 2:10:34 PM |
Asian women tend to have "baby" faces; that is to say, they usually possess as adults the same facial qualities that attract us to babies. Babies are genetically programmed to be "cute", so we will be attracted to them and want to protect them. This same dynamic applies when I look at an Asian "GIRL".
Alot of this has to do with why Asian girls are adopted far more frequently than Asian boys.
There 'is' an irony in what you've stated. Like most things there 'is' historical significance. Of course in early Chinese civilization, girls from aristocratic families wore tiny shoes without removal for a period of years so their feet would not grow. This was done so they would 'always' appear 'dainty'!
In ancient Japan, particularily the Kamakura era, young 'cute' boys were desirable to the samauri soldiers. Young girls emulated the boys to ensure their attraction to men. This has passed on throughout history to this day. This has alot to do with why Japanese prefer "cute" (high pitched voice, quick/sporadic movements) instead of "sexy" (sultry voice, slow sensual movements) among females. This is not 'text book' history, but you got to take the bad with the good. However it's quite evident that Asian males commit a 'certain' sexual violation far less than males of other races. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/16/2006 2:27:13 PM | What are you alluding to, rape? just say it then no need to tip toe around the word like it can't be said in public.
R A P E
There, It wasn't that difficult was it?
The whole discussion borders on pointless. So white men are attracted to asian women, white women are far less attracted to asian men. White women are attracted to black men, white men are far less attracted to black women (american ones anyway) and on and on I could go...
Who cares why? It is what it is... | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/16/2006 3:26:57 PM | For the record nothing I've stated is in reference to 'anyone' here when refering to "history".
indy38: I wasn't referring to Rape in the sex crime reference. I was refering to ch ch ch chi....ch ch chil.....nope. Can't say it. | |
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