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 johnnynoname

Joined: 5/21/2006
Msg: 651
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 10/16/2006 3:36:51 AM

Because the black guys are taking all the white women


most of the white girls they are taking, they can have!
 MDNinja

Joined: 1/9/2005
Msg: 652
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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 10/16/2006 5:22:14 AM

"WHAT ONOTHER PERSON LOOKS FOR IN A PARTNER,BE IT EMOTIONAL,PHYSICAL,FINANCIAL,OR WHATEVER,IS NONE OF YOUR BIZ.....""""


I AGREE WITH YOU "MDNINJA" YOU ARE SMART KIDDO....MAYBE I SHOULD SEND YOU FLOWERS FOR THAT.....WILL THINK IT OVER.....A "SMASHING DAY TO YOU"...

CAUCASIAN MEN+ASIAN WOMEN=: :



Why thank you. I'd love to get some flowers from you, mai-ling.
 walteria

Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 653
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 10/16/2006 5:52:52 AM
I personally would date an Asian woman in a heartbeat! the Caucasian women always turn me down as they think they're too good to even talk to me. So if an asian woman is available Id ask her out because they dont value money or looks and are definitely not materialistic. I even told myself the next woman I date may be a foreign woman because I know they won't stand me up on dates, and when they actually set a date to go out, they actually go out and make no excuses whatsoever! American women are starting to turn me off big time, unless I meet one later today that would like to give me a chance I wont be so down on them.
 DSB.

Joined: 2/23/2006
Msg: 654
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 10/16/2006 6:01:37 AM
Because Asain women will always love there partners and be faithful. There main goal is to find a man that will respect them as they will. Asain women are raised to beleave that faimly comes first over everything else in life. Happiness is what is most important.

But don't get me wrong I'm not saying that caucasian women are not like that.
 johnnynoname

Joined: 5/21/2006
Msg: 655
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 10/16/2006 6:04:24 AM
^^^^^true, but white girls are more likely to leave you because a bartender she just met has a nicer car.
 andromeda33

Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 656
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 10/16/2006 6:04:42 AM
I love to be with Asian women if they are truely Asian...not american born asian looking women , you see any American woman is truely breed and schooled as to what can she get from the guy!!! a car , clothes , money , and why not a piece of his house too as long shes at it , where as the asian woman is more content and less demanding ..
Not to mention they are not Fat like most americans , they are petite and have pretty long hair , and sex is a big bonus ! Americans have not begun to figure it out compared to the Asian women !!!....
 hootnhowler

Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 657
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Posted: 10/16/2006 6:19:04 AM
Wow, an awful lot of anger towards us American women. I love when people group everyone together as if your sex, skin, religion or nationality make us the same. Really? Do you people ever go back and reread what you wrote and say to yourself "Damn, I sound like an idiot?"
 Yahh ROO Giddy Up

Joined: 9/1/2006
Msg: 658
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 10/16/2006 7:05:03 AM
Ive never even spoken to an Asian woman in my community - i tried a few times but as they are generally small and petite i must come across as a giant to them. None have ever spoken to me

They dont do much for me physically as a whole but there are rare exceptions

now slavic eastern european women --- wooohooo
 tishtash

Joined: 2/15/2006
Msg: 659
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Posted: 10/16/2006 7:51:44 AM
Well said Grea SEa

"I can't help but notice how bitter some people are towards Asian women--THEY'RE TAKING ALL THE MEN!!!

Also towards black guys or guys with bigger****--ASIAN WOMEN LIKE THEM CUZ THEY WANT BIG****..something I DON'T HAVE"

its besides the point what's wrong with you people in here! get over yourselves you might just not be what that individual is looking for = stop generalising!!
 mai-ling

Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 660
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 10/16/2006 11:06:49 AM



WELL,WELL, SO, MDNINJA MY BOY !!! YOU SURE LOVE FLOWERS HUH ????? I DO LOVE FLOWERS TOO !!!!! BUT YOU GUYS CANNOT SEND FLOWERS TO SOMEONE WHO LIVES IN EUROPE..THIS IS UNFAIR....ON MY NEXT PAY DAY...YOU SURE GONNA GET ONE..HÆHÆHÆHÆ.... WELL,ABOUT THE SUBJECT,,,I GUESS..IT'S TRUE WHAT MOST OF THE MEN HERE ARE SAYING ABOUT ASIAN WOMEN....SO PLEASE LADIES, DON'T HOLD GRUDGE ON ME... AND TO ADMIT THE FACT ....THAT ASIAN WOMEN ARE SOOOOOOOOOO INN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEY ROCK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 sxt_toronto

Joined: 1/1/2006
Msg: 661
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 10/27/2006 9:33:16 PM
Hey listen first of all who does not want to be appreciated for who they are all of us do , race has nothing to do with it the way i see why asian women date outside of their race is because of attraction alot of them are attracted to other man Black , Hispanic , White or whatever the case might be. Me i am attracted to asian women because i see them not being aggressive and controlling like majority of white girls i meet , it doesn't mean i would make my girlfriend my slave or some stupid crap like that. Asian girls are polite and most of them raised in the right way can't say all of them and they make really good friends not only girlfriends.

So i don't have Asian fever and i am also not some perverted old guy with bangkok fetishes , or a rich guy with half of my hair missing. i am just a normal guy that's capable dating any race but i am simply attracted to Asian women , thats how i feel nothing i can do about it.
 sxt_toronto

Joined: 1/1/2006
Msg: 662
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 10/27/2006 9:39:37 PM
Ohh i wouldn't say Asians rock i dated some big time asian stuckups:) they are ok! :)
Hispanic girls are better tho because you get a girl that has the full booty , the full breasts and knows how to dance but asian girls are cute also white girls remind me too much of my mom and let's see black girls? they always have that big brother Tyrone that wants to kick your butt for dating his sister
 somethingcool

Joined: 8/28/2006
Msg: 663
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 10/27/2006 10:24:36 PM
I find alot of validity in much of what has been said here! Did anyone mention that ignoring hispanic women may be a result of anger over illegal immigration? It may seem logical to consider Asian, may percieve financial benefits in absorbing work/family ethics of Asians.
 GypsyEssence

Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 664
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 10/27/2006 11:00:19 PM
Ohhhhh so ALL Hispanic women are illegal, are they? Hmm Asians illegally migrate also and despite the so called 'model minority" thinking they're not all sweety pies just ask ANY Asian Crime Task Force in the US.


People really need to stop coming up with cow manure to justify IR dating one particular group over another if it's based on racist ideology instead of just loving someone for who they are.



What tickles me about this whole thread now that I think about it is I know some Asian women, some are even Eurasian who will not date WM. LOL!


 heracles

Joined: 9/18/2006
Msg: 665
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 10/27/2006 11:23:24 PM
well i saw 666 posts and thought it was ominous so i figured i'd post.
Maybe I have posted here before? I don't know. I am a caucasian australian. I live in China and so if I want any kind of dating pool larger than a backyard pond I must by default date Asians, which here equal Chinese girls. There are 5 times as many Chinese in the world as Americans. We must not forget the potential diversity this offers. It is more correct to say all Americans are stuck up arrogant fools than it is to say all Chinese are subservient hardworking pianists.
 nightfly

Joined: 7/20/2004
Msg: 666
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 10/28/2006 10:30:16 AM
Wow, 27 pages of posts, I feel the same way as the last person. But anyway, one thing I really like about asian women is lots of them have long, silky, straight hair, and that's a big turn on for me. Also, for whatever reason, so far they all smell good to me. Pheromones are important too.
 Hottest_of_the_Hot

Joined: 9/8/2006
Msg: 667
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 11/5/2006 5:28:50 AM
I'm an Asian woman who has dated black men, white men, mixed men, etc...but I have not dated an Asian man ever. I don't know why that is...maybe the opportunity never came up where something romantic between an Asian guy and myself have developed. But to be honest with you, it's all about WHO I AM ATTRACTED TO ( physically, mentally or character-wise )...and not necessarily their looks based on their ethnic makeup.

I can say though...now that I am living in Japan, LADIES, you should see the Japanese men. They are unebelievably tall ( over 6 feet ), and just absolutely stunning ( facial features etc ). I am pleasantly surprised at how handsome the Japanese men are...for real.
 dcx10

Joined: 9/13/2005
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Posted: 11/5/2006 7:35:53 PM
^^^^^ Anyone who despise their own race has serious issues.
 Just_JoJo

Joined: 1/22/2006
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Posted: 11/6/2006 12:10:38 AM
You know what really grinds my gears.
Everytime I start talking to a caucasian man I always get the " you know I've never had a chinese girl before" like wat the hell is this dealing of "having" one.

Asian guys have never been attracted to me, I'm probably a little more ample than they like ( but they have no problem with my bosoms though!)

Alot of asian women are goldiggers (I didn't say all, but alot), if you go downtown you see these GORGEOUS asian women with these pinner looking asian boyfriends of there's and they are all rocking the prada and guccis, yeah they really like you for your personality. I have friends like these, I know how it works.

I think there's a stigma attached to asian women, that we are submissive, a great fu k and us being toit as a tiger, I guess they just want to see if there is any truth to that.

Caucasian women don't really have much of a stigma attached to them
Neither do really any nationalities that I know of.

My girlfriend who is caucasian actually said to me, "Stop taking our white men jojo, keep your asian boys to yourself"

Hey its not fault that's whom i mostly attract and black men.

*shrugs*
 chris_75

Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 11/6/2006 9:30:36 AM
cos they are fit as !!!!!!
 Alex89

Joined: 12/13/2004
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Posted: 11/6/2006 9:55:18 AM
I agree with jojobeans. There is a common misconception regarding Asian women especially those originating or native to the respective Asian countries. The idea is that Asian women are traditional, loyal and the famous adjective for them, submissive. With the increasing progress of capitalistic culture in Asian countries and the influence of western values on North American Asian women, these ideas are only believed by those who have little interaction or exposure to Asian women. It's mostly middle-aged caucasian men who are declaring these misconceptions of the submissive Asian women and a lot of it is probably wishful thinking. They are striking out, perhaps, and like to believe in fairy tales.

With the influence of westernization and capitalist values, both abroad and at home (in North America), many Asian women are becoming more independent but not all the "changes" are positive. Like Jojobeans asserted, many are also becoming extremely materialistic and superficial. Since these ethnic groups are becoming a larger portion of populations (everywhere), I think it's safe to make special reference to the cultural changes with their communities. You only have to visit any larger metropolitan city let alone cities such as Toronto or Vancouver to notice the influences on these so-called traditional Asian citizens. Submissive doesn't come to mind. But, you may notice a lot of department store goods and other material items in their possession. The attitudes and values held by some of these women will seem very similar to any other woman of the superficial type in North America or any other Western nation.
 tommyboy1962

Joined: 2/25/2006
Msg: 672
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 11/6/2006 10:05:42 AM
well i am personally married to an asian woman from the phillipines and i have dated women from many cultures and colors as well. In my opinion hispanic women tend to stick with their own culture with their men frowning heavily on their women dating white boys where as asian culture except perhaps chinese are very open to dating white men plus they are great wives excellent homecare givers and make a man feel loved and appreciated i have not datee a white girl in over 3 years they tend to swear too much drink too much and argue and fight wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too much for my taste and yes i can say this because iam white myself i actually forget what white girls are like in an intitmate way because maybe outside of their selfish and independent ways white guys like to be treated with kindness and respect
 AdvisorX

Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 673
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 11/6/2006 10:25:47 AM
Asian women have maintained their femininity and maintain a sense of what pleases their male
partner which includes softness, pleastness, respectful communication (not f this and f that),
they maintain homemaking skills, they are not caught up as much in the materialism of the west and instead value human life at the top, you will not hear them say I love my cat and if my cat doesn't like you then I will not go out with you as I have had happen several times,
they go further to please their man and divorce in most of these families is unacceptable so
that they do not run off when the relationship gets rough as it does during many periods within a 30-40 yr marriage. Look at the sloppy immodest dress of the younger females and
look at how fast the NAmerican female ages compared to the asian women. This was not
always true of here, NAmerican females are burning out prematurely and they might look at
what keeps Asian females younger whether that be attitude, diet, love, values, etc.. Materialism has not served the NAmerican people well, especially the females. Jim
 Greyymatter

Joined: 1/30/2005
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Posted: 11/6/2006 10:51:56 AM
^^^ I hear alot of similar responses to this, and in a way I can see where these people are comming from.

These aspects aren't as true (or simply don't apply at all!) to asian women born and raised here, who have more or less adopted western culture into their lives.

I suppose I fit into this latter group with respect to asian guys, and I can say that I don't find the features listed above particularly compelling, in terms of a person I want to date. I can't even say they are things I keep an eye out for, though I recognize it when I see it.

What do other western-asian guys think?
 Cattilac

Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 675
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 11/6/2006 1:11:09 PM

you will not hear them say I love my cat and if my cat doesn't like you then I will not go out with you as I have had happen several times


Sorry, had to post after this one, I have spent a few days posting on another thread more or less saying exactly that.....lol My cats come first.

I've been kind of following this thread because it always alarms me when someone contacts me because they "are looking for an asian woman". I've never really been able to get a clear answer from them on exactly what criteria they are seeking and always feel I'd probably disappoint them.
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