| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 2/15/2007 8:44:19 AM | strats4
I am sorry to hear of your loss and the woman was probably an angel.
As a woman who is adept and willing to exhibit true kindness and consideration for others I take offence to your comment. There are lots of women who have the attributes that women from other cultures exude. Maybe you are setting yourself up for failure? Should you perhaps be seeking Asian women as life partners and forget the Caucasian women?
To me it seems unfair that you would date a caucasian woman knowing that you really don't want to be with one. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 2/15/2007 8:54:11 AM | I've dated more caucasian women than anything else, but I've also dated several hispanic, asian and mixed women and I gotta say... people are people. I dated some super-uptight snobby asian girls and some super selfish hispanic girls and some really nice, submissive white girls.
So all this stuff about "asian women are submissive", "caucasian women are too independent" is just stereotype, IMHO.
I date asian women that I find attractive and interesting.
I date caucasian women that I find attractive and interesting.
I date hispanic women that I find attractive and interesting.
Love to date a black woman, but they don't seem to like me.
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 2/15/2007 9:00:38 AM | In response to your post, well said!
I find it amazing that we still stereotype individuals according to ethnicity in a world that states it is "culturally accepting".
Attraction is the root of individuals hooking up (no pun intended), some look for intelligence, values, educational achievements, family values, morals, community involvement and a variety of other assest. When we find the person we are attracted to and who is mutually attracted to us we do not consider color, ethnicity or handicaps. They are the light that makes our souls sing, they make our world a more complete place to live in, they bring experience and value to our limited world views.
Thank goodness we are not all alike, how drone the world would be.
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 2/15/2007 9:05:25 AM | | When you notice how much time is wasted on defining the differences between black, white, yellow, or pale green humans, its no wonder half the world is trying to kill the other half. Everybody wants to knit pick over these petty little differences, and here i am wasting my time as well. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 2/15/2007 9:10:42 AM | excempt,
I was thinking the same thing, this discussion is like a urinating contest with a skunk, you will never win nor will you change the minds of others. Sad though in all honesty, we must pick apart others choices and make remarks that they have the right answer to the questions that others are not interested in pursuing for an answer.
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 2/15/2007 9:46:13 AM | | I'm dating a Mongolian woman...she's 48, looks 34, 5-6, 130 and seems as honest and sincere as any women I've ever met. She has morals and I feel she's being honest in her desire to build a relationship, However, her visa ran out 2.5 years ago and she wants "good husband". Any comments on Mongolian women? They seem a bit different than a typical Asian woman. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 2/15/2007 11:10:35 AM | What a jacka$$. You are calling someone else homo while you claim to have fu**ed another guy in jail. hmmm? Then he can't talk to you unless he's sucked off at least 5 guys (in one day!) in order to get into your league. hmmm. Sounds to me like you're the one waking up on the wrong side of the gender bed. Just my opinion...and I know I have no right to talk because I dont have a 9x7 or a steroid enhanced body. All I have going for me is a brain that keeps me from sticking my foot in my mouth (not to metion those 5 guys). My guess is that you're going to come back at me with one of those "who gives you the right to comment when you've never had fist crammed in your a$$?". One last thing, the x7 part of your unit is probably just the swelling you get after putting that thing in over 2oo smelly women and a few hairy a$ses in jail. Sounds like you should be a little more selective in your partners of any race or sex. Again, just the opinion from a heterosexual man.
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 3/20/2007 7:22:41 PM | | I am a WM who has dated asian women pretty much exclusively for the last 5-6 years and have been lucky enough to know maybe a dozen really exceptional and beautiful asian women. Earlier I started to notice more asians in my business and that the asian women that were aften there showed unusual interest in me for some reason. I am a man of a certain age as they say but in the past was a very handsome man now a "distinguished" man accustomed to being with beautiful women but of late until I met these asian girls I had not been blessed so. Before I get into this too deep let me say asians are like any group with all sorts of variety so what I say is in general and with respect and often true. At least one aspect of this AF/WM thing is that very unlike caucasian women, who tend to the very superficial, many asian women actually seek out more mature men and see then in a different and very respectful light result of their culture. They tend tend to see the bigger picture looking for the total man and are very good judges of men my experience and are not superficial. As I came to experience this I was stunned by the difference in these women in their attitudes. They are so very elegant and stunning in their appearance so very stylish in their dress and so respectful toward mature people. They have a very nice way of acting being so anxious to please the man who is their priority and they try very hard to earn the man's respect and his attention. I have talked to many of these women both the ones I was dating and their friends and so forth at parties and dining out and many of them having had contact with a caucasian man will tell you they only date caucasian men. Oddly very many explictly seek tall WM sometimes over 6' and more when the majority of these beautiful girls are barely over 5' tall--later on this. I have had several unsolicted tell me that once having had a caucasian man there was no going back. I might take this with a grain of salt but for the simple observation of seeing these girls seeking only "white" guys! They tell me that WM treat them so much better and that there is a unique compatibility between WM and AF that the two cultures have created and when they find each other and just are drawn to each other in a way that must be experienced to be believed. For myself I love the way the AF looks and the beautiful small slim bodies and the almond eyes, long black hair and exotic look. They look so good in their clothes so slim and such nice butts. I have always had a preference for smaller breasts and that is usually the asian look tho many of them want bigger breasts and many(too) have had implants trying to be more western looking--a mistake I think unless she is very small. As for them they tell me they like the way WM treat them and take care of them. An asian woman wants to hear from her man that he is going to care for her, keep her safe, protect her and love her--I think the over 6' thing is related to this desire to be protected and kept safe. In turn if she feels that from her man she will lavish attention on her man like a WM has not ever experienced. I have had my girlfriend give me a bath, wash me in the shower, massage me often, loves to try new things and has so many new ideas about how we can have fun together in bed and otherwise and just generally loves to please me and make me happy. She will feel her man is so nice to her and such a prize she will do everything to please him. I have noticed that most AF as soon as you have a close relationship with them are so very attentive and will always sit up against me and in bed sleep cuddled against me or against my back and will be in my arms in a second if I just touch her. She brings me coffee in the morning naked always touches and caresses me and puts herself so that I am touching her just so, she loves to please me. All of these girls were very into healthy ways and keep themselves in top shape some are real gym rats. The AF(Chinese) I am with now is 33 yo and her body could pass for 17 yo in a second and she is so toned and firm it is amazing. She gets carded regulalrly. Myself I love the coffee with cream color of her skin which is like a babies skin it is so soft and smooth. I could go on and on about how wonderful this lovely women is and how I have enjoyed being with her and how I will not go back to WF who are so spoiled, self-centered, often out of shape, don't take care of the man in their life and have lost the game to the beautiful asian woman we have all around us here. I have come to the conclusion that here in NorCal we are so lucky to have these lovely women here who are so open to WM who show interest in them and who are so uniquely suited to each other by culture and attitudes--we just match so well! A lucky man who is in love with a lovely asian woman who loves me, TC | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 3/20/2007 8:41:57 PM | | i do believe in what u say that filipino's are really nice people...im not saying all filipinos but atleast most filipinos...goodluck to you and have a happy ending...im filipina by the way... | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 3/21/2007 10:05:13 AM |
...how I will not go back to WF who are so spoiled, self-centered, often out of shape, don't take care of the man in their life and have lost the game to the beautiful asian woman we have all around us here.
Amen Brother... | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 3/21/2007 8:06:57 PM | I live in Asia and see on a daily basis how men fall for this stereotype of the submissive Asian woman. It is true to say that they are generally more petite, and a high proportion are very attractive physically. Submissive they are not. These women live in an environment where women's rights are non-existent and are hardened by it. Consequently they use sex as a weapon and emotional blackmail, especially where children are concerned, is frequent. Fail to "provide" for the little beauty, and her myriad relatives, and she may sleep with your best friend out of spite. There are good ones but you are talking needles in haystacks.
Most Caucasian-Asian relationships I have seen here have ended in total wreckage for the male, financially, emotionally and career-wise. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 3/21/2007 8:47:42 PM | | Englishman- Very enlightening. I'm currently stationed in Central America where the women are touted as having the same disirable attributes that Asian women have. As you've unveiled the reality of the Asian/Caucasian relationships, the same could be said about the women in any third world country. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 3/21/2007 9:04:25 PM | I am Asian and older lady on my almost 60 yr old, but I do take good care of myself, My skin is still smooth and I dont have any sagging butt. I am also Filipina and I do prefer caucasian male to date, its not because they are white but there is always an exception in any race. Thank you to all who do not insult us. I also have a lot of wf friends and I do love all my friends, so? caucasian females? please dont insult our ethnicity. Lucilou | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 3/22/2007 4:58:01 AM | Lucilou wrote:
I am Asian and older lady on my almost 60 yr old, but I do take good care of myself, My skin is still smooth and I dont have any sagging butt. I am also Filipina and I do prefer caucasian male to date, its not because they are white but there is always an exception in any race. Thank you to all who do not insult us. I also have a lot of wf friends and I do love all my friends, so? caucasian females? please dont insult our ethnicity. Lucilou
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I couldn't agree more. I have hooked up with a Filippina woman. She is 52 and looks 32. As a rule, I was always into heavy set girls. But when I met my honey, we both looked into eachothers eyes and it was all she wrote for both of us right on the spot. She is the 1st skinny girl I've ever been with. She is true and genuine as well as God fearing. We have many things in common as well. My only question is why couldn't I have met her years ago? My life would have been so much different. I've never been so blessed by such an angel as her. God willing, I will grow old and gray with her. I've had many friends and family 1st tell me I wad out of my mind but after they started to know her, they quickly changed their minds. If I had listened to their disbelief and not followed my instincts and my heart, I would have missed out of the best thing that ever came into my life. She & I will be hopefully married by end of 08 God willing.
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 3/22/2007 8:12:07 AM | Touchy...
A lucky man who is in love with a lovely asian woman who loves me
Apparently this Asian "love" of yours also doesn't mind that you are on a dating site advertising for more of the same?
I will not go back to WF who are so spoiled, self-centered, often out of shape, don't take care of the man in their life and have lost the game to the beautiful asian woman we have all around us
I think I speak for all us sagging, egocentric white women here when I say "THANK YOU'!!!!!! We can stop worrying about being hit-on by men twice our age with serious self-esteem issues. Whew! | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 3/22/2007 9:45:36 AM | Morality has a great deal to do with it . The USA and some European countries has lost its morality . Asians are more feminine , more loyal to their men . Now I do not imply that ALL Americans are immoral but take a look at the divorce rate in this country . China is very rapidly catching up with the U.S divorce rate , and it is my educated guess that we will see less of them with American husbands . Other Asians countries are so far , maintaining their morality .
Most men want a wife with great moral values and since the USA seems to be lacking
where are we to turn to except Asia ........
I suppose this will get the ire of some women , mostly the ones that I personally would not be looking for anyway . | |
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