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 Masked_Hero

Joined: 12/14/2003
Msg: 76
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/6/2005 12:37:42 PM
I think its becasue.. Most white dudes like very peitite women and its very hard to find an over weight asian girl. And in today's society its get'n harder and harder to find an American girl not only in shape but confident in her shape. Plus most Asians do like the Dorky dues with money... U know like the Bill Gates's of the world .
 bunomatic

Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 77
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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/6/2005 1:00:38 PM
Blastkist,I hope you're not refering to me having puritanical standards,what a joke.Believe me,there's nothing you could do that would shock me.I just like woman to have class and respect who they are which is'nt too much to ask for.If you enjoy wearing the plumber butt and thong look thats your perogative,enjoy.But I can almost guarantee that you'll grow out of it one day.
 CountIbli

Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 78
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Posted: 7/6/2005 1:54:03 PM


Where are these people getting these submissive/demure type ideas about Asian chicks? First of all, the traditional submissive types from Asia rarely mix with Caucasians


I met lots of these kinds of women in college. You're right about the Americanized Asians; they've lost this submissiveness.
 rr9x7

Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 79
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/7/2005 2:31:45 AM
Well by writing another pathetic message with me as part of the subject matter you have admitted to being a homosexual which doesn't surprise me in the least. As for being a little boy you might want to look at yourself in the mirror because your body is a joke. And it would be more likely that a woman slaps me then a punk **** like yourself. You have better odds of being bitten by an albino alligator right now in your little low rent apartment or parents house then ever surviving an encounter with me you little queer. I used to **** guys like you in prison. If you want people to take you seriously you need to learn how to spell and use proper grammar because your writing is below middle school level. Now if you have sucked off more then 5 guys in one day write me another message. If not then don't because you are not in my league as my intelligence has clearly surpassed yours. You really should consider suicide or steroids at the very least. Well have a nice day and go suck your dad's small**** gargle his cum, then spit it in your fat mom's face. Lol punk. RR
 rr9x7

Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 80
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Posted: 7/7/2005 2:32:56 AM
Oh and in case you are too stupid to realize it yes that last message was to TEAMGREEN SMALL**** ARE US!
 rr9x7

Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 81
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/7/2005 2:40:29 AM
Oh and to FELLDOWNSTAIRS you must have fell on your head or your dad fell on his sister which is why incest is a bad idea. Judging by that pathetic body on your profile you are a cess pool of genetic defects and should jump off what ever you are climbing once you suck the little****of your boyfriend on top waiting for you. And what does age have to do with my big****or your little****or the smell of your stinky mom's vagina. You should hook up with TEAMGREEN as you are both obviously fags. Now go eat a****and write something else about me if you admit to being a****sucker. If you actually don't suck****then stop writing. Either way you lose.
 wireddd

Joined: 5/25/2005
Msg: 82
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/7/2005 2:49:47 AM
mate your a hero u think someones gona read what u got say and take it personally buddy keep talkin theres one thing that i know about tuff guys like you,when u get em face to face there not so tuff anymore,so u keep goin buddy,and il keep at ya
 Looreine

Joined: 6/28/2005
Msg: 83
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/7/2005 3:06:02 AM
haha thats just too funny....
 Looreine

Joined: 6/28/2005
Msg: 84
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/7/2005 3:07:45 AM
true true...but its not all bout the money......it depends for all types of nationality in my opinion..
 Looreine

Joined: 6/28/2005
Msg: 85
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/7/2005 3:33:48 AM
and one last thing..i think that all types of woman are beautiful in their own way..all types have that certain attitude..mean, nice, respectful..whatever it may be...Lets end this with Some Peace and Love!!!.heheh
 eternal_grace

Joined: 3/7/2005
Msg: 86
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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/7/2005 7:50:14 AM
[Oh yes, pwease take my frower *bows*.

Yes, I've noticed the whole, ASIAN+CAUCASION thing. Almost every cook at my work LOVES asians. The reason is --I can only say this bluntly--- "cuz their TOIGHT!" Asians also tend to age slower...I mean if you meet a 30 year old asian, chances are they look 15 still. Which I think is gross. But I'm not a man with a penis!

Sometimes I forget I'm Asian...only because no white dude has hit on me yet. I do like caucasion men but only because I don't find Asian men attractive AT ALL--not initially, at least.

I know if I was a guy I would go for a hispanic cuz they have nice bums. Whereas, Asians have flat asses..I hate my flat ass.]

ROFL!! hahaha..as u can see in my pic, ..im asian too! hahaha...yeah..but ppl tend to tell me that they think im a few years older lookin than i really am. lol. oh yeah, and the flat ass deal, oi, i hate my ass too! lol.....hahhaa...yaay. fellow azn grl on pof to talk to! yeah...why is it that alllll the caucasian guys i kno have thing for asian girl? and then lol, that makes it so that half my guy friends partly notice me in the beginning just only cause im asian? aiya ya ya....
 eternal_grace

Joined: 3/7/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2005 7:57:40 AM
[But what they did have that few North American woman have is grace.Never met an asian woman that swore like a trooper or acted like one of the boys.]

- :D teehee..but what about both sides of the coin? lol. i may not swear like a trooper and not need any lavasoap in me lil mouth, but hahaha...i was sucha lil tomboy growin up. and totally acting the lady all the time can get quite dull sometimes. blarf!
 eternal_grace

Joined: 3/7/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2005 8:10:32 AM
hey, whitechokolat...
[women with fine, feminine features, but who are also strong willed, intelligent, grounded, and classy. ] - hahaha...get those comments off and on.

hahaha..to those ppl who think asian women submissive..hahaah..nah! no way! that is pure movies and hollywood! lol. want proof? i think grey_sea would agree with me when i say if u want proof, come find either one of us. :D

and as for the aging thing..haha...sometimes my mom and i will go out to the mall...and then they'll mistake my 48yr old mom for an older sis. as in like..me the baby of 4 kids older sis.lol.

[I was either hidden from them, or not accepted since I was white. On the other hand, my family always respected who I chose to date and never said a word. But that may also be a gender thing, not many parents tell their sons who they can and cannot date. The family strain on her side usually spelled the demise of all my relationships. Widdletezer maybe I am the so called nerdy type that these Asian women are attracted to but hey I ain't complaining :)] ...sigh..oh so true...:( i havent had a bf yet. yes, i kno, kinda hard/pathetic to believe...isnt it? im friggen ..how old? 19. and no bf yet. all cause my parents are and can be so intimidating. and plus i have one older bro. it's us two kids. and then the one time he diiid have a gf...which only lasted 3 months...truly..it was my parents who were the demise to these two lovedoves!! :(:( and now, i find myself on here. cause my superduper overprotective parents wouldnt even let me out of hte house much in hs. and so, im kinda at times overly/super shy and kinda awkward in social situations. tho, two semesters at college and away from home haaaave helped me out immensely. and now im coming to my senses and seeing the tiny unspoken things between my mom and dad that say: no, she's that age now, and we have to shelter our girl! - mom dad, please! let me grow up! ive already gone past u guys! and yet u are still stuck on holding onto the image of that lil girl in overalls and helping dad with the car! and here's another asiany question...why is that it seems to be that asian parents are so friggen overprotective and sheltering? we caaan stand on our two feet ya kno, and can and will brush ourselves off and get up again. and again.

ps: sorry i went on for so long...oops...
 mitgrad00

Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 89
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/7/2005 8:29:34 AM
Everyone:

There is a discussion thread "Asian Man/White Woman" in "Dating Experiences" section. I suggest that you check it out. There are also some references in "interracial dating" thread.

There are certainly social economics and media stereotype behind the phenomenon. Also, I think the equation is has two sides: Caucasian man and "Asian" woman. (I think by "Asian", most peopel meant "Sinic Asian".) It is also the preference of some "Asian" women, who, particularly those with self-identiy issues/inferiority Syndrome, are attracted to White male.
 Stephanos Primus

Joined: 7/6/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2005 10:36:29 AM
>> Because Asian women are very submissive

See, you nailed it, blastkist...well sort of. I was expecting this response from someone, and couldn't believe it took so long to find it!

First, I think we need to define 'Asian women'. I'm going to assume we're talking about Asian women who haven't been immersed in western culture.

Most of it is about Asian women seeming more 'feminine', which is not the same as ‘submissive’, though the two are no doubt related.

Asian women give the impression of submission, but they are not particularly submissive. They just pick their battles better... meaning that as a rule, they’re not as confrontational as western women. I think people interpret this as being submissive, but it is probably more passive-aggressive.

The pendulum seems to have swung to the opposite end of the scale in western society, where the culture has apparently (and as mindlessly) accepted that men are fairly pitiful creatures who need to be directed in everything, and who deserve whatever ill treatment they get from women. So, part of why Asian women are attractive to western men is because Asian women tend not to be ‘in their faces’, confronting them, and therefore don’t appear to be running the relationship. So yes, there is a ‘submissive’ connection, but I think not quite in the way you’re looking at it. Also, Asian women still tend to see themselves as responsible for looking after the house (which, admittedly, is probably very much about submission).

Combine the above with the fact that most Asian women are smaller in stature, still seem to prefer their hair longer, and often speak more softly than men, and the attraction (for some men) becomes almost irresistible.

I say that this feminine element is the operative force, though, because once involved with an Asian woman, it doesn’t take a man long to realise that her submissive nature is not what it seems. He is also aware (and it bothers me that this is still the case) that he can still find plenty of western women who will do the housework. Yet he remains attracted to the Asian.
 Rocky444

Joined: 3/29/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2005 11:14:53 AM
well my last threedates were 2 oriental women and one black. I find that The Asian women tend to be less judgeful of a man who is over weight.
white women want a rich skinny good looking man with no personality so they can get a divorce later
I just find that the Asian women look more inside of a person than the other races.
 Truebeautycomeswithin

Joined: 5/25/2005
Msg: 92
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/7/2005 12:03:09 PM
@ rr9x7.wow you are the first person that has gotten me mixed up with a caucasian woman.maybe because the light was shining on me or something.lol.That night the lights were shining bright on everybody.but Im a Nubian Mamma for sure.chow.
 rr9x7

Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 93
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/7/2005 12:18:57 PM
To WAVRYDR or is that MALEASSRYDR? First off you should probably learn how to mind your own business and learn how to write. You're right about face to face, I would probably just start laughing at your receeding hair line and that pathetic body! I'd do the majority of this laughing after I pimp slapped you onto the dirt like the little girl you are. If you doubt my capabilities you might want to go rent some UFC fights and look out for the body you see on my profile laying down ass whippings to over 10 opponents with zero defeats. Yes you would be a joke you skinny little punk. You say you lift weights 6 times a day? Are you wondering when it's going to start making you grow? Being from New Zealand myself I know a thing or two about fags like you from Australia. They all suck Kangaroo**** Now go ahead and try to redeem yourself by writing something as pathetic as your previous message and realize that everyone will be laughing at you and your futile attempt at redemption. Eat a**** RR
 downtownboy

Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 94
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/7/2005 1:46:01 PM
DUH

Because Chinese food is the BOMB!

(some of you take this sh*t waaaaaaaay too seriously, lighten up! You'll live longer)
 yan612

Joined: 2/18/2005
Msg: 95
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Posted: 7/7/2005 2:18:52 PM
Is it the big Penis, fighting, or steroids which brings out the aggression?
 therod

Joined: 4/27/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2005 2:41:42 PM
as others have put it why do more white guys go for asian. because the asian outlook from the women view is .they will do what is needed to make there men happy, in a nut schell. now as far as black guys taking all your supposed white women. that is probably because, and this is fact. 1 out of six white guys turn gay everyday. guess we must blame ourselves for that.i out of11 black men turn gay. we are the minority, and we will continue to be as long as guys turn gay,and now they can even get married. two guys or two girls. we jacked up big time. that should not happen.
 DECBAR316

Joined: 6/12/2005
Msg: 97
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/7/2005 7:46:05 PM
Hey, ElectricBarbarella,

I don't mean to sound rude, but what does it matter? There are people who would ask the same questions about black guys with white girls. You are right to ask these questions, however, the reason why anyone dates someone else with a different skin color is variable. The ethic appeal could also vary. But don't forget that this could also depend on the past experiences. For instance, as a black guy, I tend to get along better with white girls - white people, in fact - than I would with my fellow blacks. I know it sounds racist, but it doesn't neccesarily mean that I don't like my own kind. It's the experiences I've had with them. Maybe this would apply to the white guys with Asian girls.

I must add that anyone's free to date whoever they wish, because the inside counts, not the outside. :)
 rr9x7

Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 98
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Posted: 7/7/2005 8:05:42 PM
All of them! Lol!
 rr9x7

Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 99
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Posted: 7/7/2005 8:07:38 PM
DVB, Excellent response. I feel the same about my race, especially the females.
 therabbitt

Joined: 8/13/2004
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Posted: 7/7/2005 8:59:04 PM
Because asian chicks are smooooooooooookin hot. They know it too, there are probably a long list of things I could say about asian women. Lets just say,I've talked to caucasian girls and lemme tell you asian women are so much more approachable than your typical caucasian girl. In fact in here in the Los Angeles area I've been noticing the same thing. Lots of white guys are dating asian women. I don't blame them I've seen some of these LA white girls in action, and they are pretty tough, in fact they can be downright ****y sometimes. Thats not too say that all white girls are like that, but where I live it seems to be the trend.
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