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 Author Thread: Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?[Closed/Mod Review]
 Bugsy39

Joined: 5/8/2006
Msg: 1326
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 5/21/2007 3:40:41 PM
Japanese folks are the most soft spoken race of people I have ever met!! Their humility and politeness towards foreigners in Japan, cannot be found anywhere else on this planet....by any nationality!!! Of course certain other Asian countries are friendly as well, like Taiwan and Singapore.
 Bugsy39

Joined: 5/8/2006
Msg: 1327
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 5/21/2007 3:44:38 PM
A friend of mine here is married to a Korean lady. She plays golf, all over the world, and they run a simple convenience store (family money). The wife is in her late fifties and doesn't look a day beyond maybe 32 or 33. Almost impossible to believe that she has even crossed her 50th mark!!!
 rmu337

Joined: 12/28/2006
Msg: 1328
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Posted: 5/21/2007 3:46:18 PM
It is my opion having dated all races that the Asian women are more appreciative of what is done for them. I think it is simple manners, thank you, what would you like and you are welcome go a long way.
 Bugsy39

Joined: 5/8/2006
Msg: 1329
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 5/21/2007 3:50:57 PM
I was in Tokyo last October. John Lennon, was, and still is 'revered' there. They have built 'musems' on the Beatles theme. And its true what you say! He could have chosen any women, any where, then why Japan? It is also said (although, I have no idea what the truth might be), that she was his strength during all his down turns with drugs and depression. Beatles, in Japan, is like Elvis to the United States. Even the english in UK haven't given that much credit to the Beatles, as the Japanese have. In downtown Tokyo, there is also a Beatles 'look alike' band, which I was fortunate enough to see, which play three sets every night.
 xenafrog64

Joined: 2/16/2007
Msg: 1330
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 5/21/2007 3:55:42 PM
Okay -
Here are the 2 main obvious reasons
caucasian men prefer to date Asian women...

1.) The Caucasian man in question may have a smaller than average "u-know-what".

2.) The Caucasian man in question finds the Asian woman to be more submissive than a Caucasian woman. And they are usually quieter and more agreeable as well.

Aside from those 2 major influences: size and temperment - the
rest is simply a matter of taste.
 not1butTHE1

Joined: 4/25/2007
Msg: 1331
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 5/21/2007 4:05:30 PM
I think that the last message was aiming towards a good point, but missed the mark: There ARE a lot of "mixed couples" these days, because the barriers are breaking down, as people realize that race is less important as far as compatibility goes than many other things. So the asian/white thing is just part of a greater trend.

However, (as has been mentioned previously) the appreciation for family, and moral values that characterized most asian cultures are very attractive, as well as their tendency to stay thinner (on average) and sexual appetite undoubtably contributes. (I would be lying if I denied it)

But seriously: submissive and demure??!! not the ones I meet!! WOW! Have any of you who posted responses like this actually got to know an asian woman!! They can compete with a Latinas for fire, let me tell you! Its just not so public.

PS: Latino women are hot too, there are just less of them (here in Canada, anyway)
 lucilou

Joined: 3/18/2006
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Posted: 5/21/2007 4:15:45 PM
Oh!!! Xena!!! what a mean to say about caucasian men, Its not the size it's how one use it lol. Agreeable? not really, we have our own principle too lol. Every one has the right to voice thier opinion and we Asian doesnt always agree to get a man. About obesity is almost quite right, try to go in the mall and sit and watch people walking and you will find out that what those guys saying are true. I have a best friend who is caucasian and I love her , I help her to eat healthy and to work out, now she is athletic and real happy how she looks, she lost 50 lbs with my help. I have to drag her to the gym even if she was not in the mood, now she work out more than I do. See? We Asian dont hate caucasian women, its not about race its all about what kind of person you are.
 WonkaBar

Joined: 2/3/2006
Msg: 1333
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 5/22/2007 12:13:49 AM

People in the Far East usually take two to three showers a day.


Not in China. They had to make special arrangements for me precisely because I required a daily shower or else I'd stink. My ex often didn't wash for days, because she didn't perspire very heavily and it didn't smell when she did.


Their simplicity in diet, along with plenty of seafoods and natural foods, shows in the "freshness" of their skin.


There is a belief 'round those parts that westerners smell bad, and it's because of all the meat in our diets.


Their humility and politeness towards foreigners in Japan, cannot be found anywhere else on this planet.


It's an act. Especially towards foreigners. They want your money.

It's been drilled into them by centuries of rigid role expectations. It wasn't that long ago where samurai were allowed to put any peasant that didn't show respect to the sword.

It's getting better... my boss (I work for a Japanese company) doesn't expect his employees to use the honorific forms of address when they speak to him in Japanese, but it was noted to me that he's fairly unusual in his down-to-earth behavior.
 talista

Joined: 10/11/2006
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Posted: 5/22/2007 10:34:22 AM

Their humility and politeness towards foreigners in Japan, cannot be found anywhere else on this planet.


It's an act. Especially towards foreigners. They want your money.


I agree. I met this Japanese man who manages the Canadian office of their well known international trading company. Everyone told me (caucasian people) "he's really nice..." when I talked to him he was very rude and had this superiority complex.

Of course, I am an Asian woman (who appears younger than my age), so what I see will be different from what a Caucasian older man will see.
 Weznut

Joined: 11/13/2006
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Posted: 5/22/2007 10:55:12 AM
White guys are generally more sexually attractive than asian guys...which is what it's all about.
And as other people have said, Asian girls tend to get to 40 still looking like they're 18 then BAM they age overnight. It's nothing to do with personality.
 talista

Joined: 10/11/2006
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Posted: 5/22/2007 11:01:26 AM

Asian girls tend to get to 40 still looking like they're 18 then BAM they age overnight.


Only the ones that haven't found the fountain of youth...but *Shhhhhhh* that's my secret.
 dbz77

Joined: 12/5/2006
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Posted: 5/22/2007 2:42:26 PM


However, (as has been mentioned previously) the appreciation for family, and moral values that characterized most asian cultures are very attractive, as well as their tendency to stay thinner (on average) and sexual appetite undoubtably contributes. (I would be lying if I denied it)

But then they would tend to go after men who share those same values.


Michael
 lucilou

Joined: 3/18/2006
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Posted: 5/22/2007 2:54:02 PM
Oh!!! Wow!! Weznut? I hope I dont wake up tomorrow old and wrinkled, BAM!!! I am as old in numbers as I look. Hope you look the same when you get to 60 yrs old Weznut???!!!! Which I doubt
 vampire_darc

Joined: 4/1/2006
Msg: 1339
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 5/23/2007 12:41:49 AM
This thread is absolutly retarded... Spare me, please... it's just plain dumb; I mean, why ask "why"? If someone is dating someone from a different race, who the hell are you to criticize or to even try to explain "why"? Who the f*ck cares? Are you jealous or somthing? (that was for the OP) And now for the rest of you (well, for those of you who are are talking sh*t anyway)...

First of all, I think most of the "explainations" given are just plain absurd. I don't think it has anything to do with Asian men in general, so I fefuse to let anyone make "assumptions" as to who we are and what our place in the world is (you **stards act like you know us enough to speak for "all" of us). You people are not "me" and you will never be able to truly see through my eyes, who are you to tell people who "I" am? It's not like I'm going around preaching garbage about Westerners now am I? (oh and don't give me that crap about how the West is so much greater than the East, blah, blah, blah, because you're NOT perfect either). Go on and preach your prejudice bull sh*t, you stupid f*cks have shown me nothing but ignorance, so please, for the love of god, stop talking out of your asses! Your assumptions make me sick to my stomach, I'll bet I'd start a flame war if I told you what my assumptions of you were (so I won't; I don't even have to name off any names, anyone who has followed this BS thread will know who you are). You people do not (I repeat: DO NOT) know what it's like to be "Asian" (just like I don't know what it's REALLY like to be White) so STFU ok?

Second, to all you guys who think that you're the $h^t (because you have an Asian woman), well, I'd hate to break the news to you, but you're NOT. You all sound like a bunch of insecure douche bags who think you can one up an Asian man by going out with an Asian woman. Well, gloat all you want, show her off all you want, and tell the world that you're the sh*t, but all of that means nothing to me, because I know a lot of women who are attracted to me so what do I care? I don't care if a half-Ogre dates an Asian woman, but I do care if someone is talking shit about Asian men and constantly trying to rub sh*t in my face, and expect me to just "take it", because I'm not going to take it (you ****ers can have it back). Have you ever noticed that it's only the insecure white male who talks shit about the Asian man (and the occasional insecure female who talks shit about the Asian woman). Just look at their posts.

Oh, and it also doesn't impress me, that you can say a few words in "my" language because I can speak "yours" quite perfectly (that's probably why you douche bags always make fun of those FOBs with accents; I only wish you could hear yours in "my" language). You idiots are just jealous, insecure, and you need someone to step on to make yourselves look "superior". (once again, just look at some of these posts and you can tell).

And third, I feel sorry for you guys who think that you "have" to have an Asian woman, because the ones you do "get", are probably the ones no one else wants (I think it's true). Most of the time, those women are insane (and will probaly drive any self respecting man insane, Asian or not).

Yeah... and for the record... my last three girl friends were Caucasian, but I wasn't with them because they were "White", I was with them because we had common interests and mutual attraction. I wouldn't have cared less what ethnicity they were, they just happen to be there at the right moment. My first girlfriend was actually "Asian" (well she was East Indian, so close enough LOL). Women who email me on here have been mostly White (but then again, I don't see much of anyone else here). I'm probably only the third Asian man to actually respond to this, so what does that make "this" thread? "One sided" if you ask me.

Oh, and one last thing, for all of you guys who choose to date a woman because you like her for "who" she is, and not for "what" she is; congratulations, because you're probably really cool (unlike some of these other douche bags on here).

OK, I'm finished... (finally)
 WonkaBar

Joined: 2/3/2006
Msg: 1340
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 5/23/2007 1:24:21 AM
Yeah... and for the record... my last three girl friends were Caucasian, but...


This always cracks me up. Asian men/women who rant and rave and foam at the mouth about how Caucasians who dare to date (or heaven forbid, prefer) Asians must be some kind of hideous racist loser - and then go on to say they date mostly Caucasians, but of course it's not the same thing, so don't you go calling *them* a hypocrite, 'cause THEY'RE different. It's like clockwork - first the condemnation, then the justification of same in reverse.

By the way... Who's making fun of Asian men? Who's mocking your accent? And I'm sorry my Mandarin isn't up to your standards; I didn't have the privilege of either being born into a bilingual family or foreign language schooling like most of my Asian family members did. I took up the language in my spare time, of my own volition in order to better relate and communicate with my relatives, who didn't speak any English at all. Sue me for caring.

Oh, and in closing... the worst things I've ever heard said about Asian men... came from Asian women.

Just something to think about.
 steve326a

Joined: 2/2/2007
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Posted: 5/23/2007 6:18:44 PM
Myself, I never set out to fall for a Filipina, but it happened. As I said earlier on this forum, race does not matter. It's the person themselves. You know within minutes if not seconds if there is any chemistry or not. Merlita's & mine are off the scale.
Lucylu, nice to see you on again.

Steve
 JordanMardan

Joined: 4/22/2005
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Posted: 5/23/2007 8:22:46 PM
Bugsy: "Japanese folks are the most soft spoken race of people I have ever met!! Their humility and politeness towards foreigners in Japan, cannot be found anywhere else on this planet....by any nationality!!! Of course certain other Asian countries are friendly as well, like Taiwan and Singapore."


Jordan: What type of person or people would find that pleasing?
 missfoxtrot

Joined: 12/25/2006
Msg: 1343
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 5/24/2007 10:07:53 PM
Well, thank you for including East Indian women in with Asian women. Asia is a large continent including other countries besides China and other oriental countries. Being born and raised in Canada but having an asian, more specifically, east asian heritage, I must admit I sometimes feel a little left out of topics that include "asian" women, whether from asia or asian decent. It almost feels as though when I man says they find asian women attractive, it's specifically oriental women. Where does that leave someone like me? :( Butt ugly and non-existent. :(
 city480

Joined: 5/12/2007
Msg: 1344
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 5/24/2007 10:31:41 PM
Well said,only sensible thing i've read on this thread.
 city480

Joined: 5/12/2007
Msg: 1345
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Posted: 5/24/2007 10:33:03 PM
my above post was in relation to horseraddish comment.
 rockinrandall109

Joined: 5/29/2006
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Posted: 5/24/2007 10:36:37 PM
Hi Grey Sea! I was wondering where can a white guy meet Asian women? Where's the best places to meet them? I personally think Asian women are the most beautiful! Are you available? LOL I'd love to meet some. It would be fun to learn other cultures & have a beautiful woman to be with too. I'm looking for long term too. Any advise is appreciated. E-mail me if you want. I would welcome your comments.
 Ms.Petite

Joined: 2/8/2007
Msg: 1347
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 5/25/2007 4:44:53 AM
Oh well, personally, I only like 2 types of men: domestic and imported. So I guess white men is right on my preference.
We date Caucasian men not because we have problems with Asian men.
Caucasian men date Asian women because, according to what I have been told (not in particular order):
1. Great sex
2. Petite body
3. Great mind
4. Not a player
5. Patient
6. Family oriented
7. Sexy accent
and so on...
This does not mean Caucasian women don't have it, just a list what Asian have lol

Cheers,



 ChilledD108

Joined: 5/1/2007
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Posted: 5/25/2007 4:49:05 AM
who cares, fine woman is a fine woman...regardless of race
 sweet_pot1967

Joined: 7/21/2006
Msg: 1349
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Posted: 5/25/2007 7:13:24 AM
hi i really hope this helps answer your question. But as an Asian woman myself I can personally say that I much prefer Caucasian men. I feel from MY point of view and personal experience Caucasian men treat me as an individual and but also as an equal. And the most important thing is that its prob to do with love. Here in the UK there are not that many Asian women dating Caucasian men as their family and culture prob wont allow it. The man I am seeing is Caucasian and is a fantastic person and is great with my kids and I am glad I have made the choice to choose who I want.
 dbz77

Joined: 12/5/2006
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Posted: 5/25/2007 11:24:59 AM

We date Caucasian men not because we have problems with Asian men.

What problems would those be?

The fact that they keep dating Caucasian (and other) women?


Michael
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