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 goldblade84

Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 1601
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/3/2007 12:10:04 AM

Good thing the country has a surplus of sensitive new age kinda guys that don't mind jumping through hoops for their Barbie.


Mtn. Dweller: (or anybody)
Can you clear up this for me? I don't understand.
- Thanks.

PS: Features we prefer in looks and values are sumed up by the stereotypes, thus the point of this discussion, no?
 thaskateguy

Joined: 1/30/2007
Msg: 1602
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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/3/2007 3:38:40 PM
One day we will maybe all be kinda "tan" --then we won't have to worry about things we have no control over, such as Our race.---I was never asked what race I wanted to be--tha Good Lord just did it His way---and I'm Cool with that.
 TheRiverRunsThroughIt

Joined: 6/6/2007
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Posted: 7/3/2007 5:49:26 PM
Someone mentioned the topic of asian men.

Lol. Al Gore's youngest daughter is marrying an American who is of Chinese descent next month.

"The groom is Chinese-American businessman Bill Lee, 36, who met Sarah, 28, a medical student at the University of California at San Francisco, in Los Angeles. It's the first trip down the aisle for both. "
 downforit2007

Joined: 12/12/2006
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Posted: 7/3/2007 7:43:07 PM
Jeez-us, is this thread still going on about prissy women complaining about their catches leaning toward Asian women?

Well, let me end this thread once and for all...if that's even remotely possible.

American men can date whoever the hell they want, without any complaining from their female counterparts, who most likely would have never given them the light of day in the first place anyway. And the facts are, Asian women are more attractive and don't work so hard on getting fat and ugly like SOME American women I know. They're not so quick on the trigger to judge and have strong family values, which would lead to the feminists to bit*h about how foreign women are submissive, servants to American men, only dating them for the chance of a green card, etc, real BS crap because they're very jealous.

Feminists, give it up, you lost! And the American men who have chosen BETTER types of women are the winners. So tuck your butt off the computer and feed your cats because that's the only companionship you'll ever get for the rest of your pathetic lives. It's YOUR fault that you can't find any good men, not the foreign women.
 sparda9

Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 1605
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/3/2007 11:42:46 PM
If I was a white boy I'd probably go for asian females too (if I could find one, they tend to be a lil rare) because asian women are like an easy gold mine for white boys. Half the time all a guy has to do is be white to bag one of them. No game nowhere.

Now for brothas on the other hand.... may as well just hang that up and go for one of those ghetto trash @ss white girls that only date brothas instead. And hope to find one that isn't fat
 Mtn.Dweller

Joined: 2/11/2007
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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/4/2007 8:51:45 AM
If the Birkinstock fits wear it, if it don't toss it aside. We hear what we wan't to hear, see what we want to see. So simple....
 lucilou

Joined: 3/18/2006
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Posted: 7/4/2007 3:13:43 PM
Downforit?!!!
You could not have said it better, most of white women who downgrades Asian Women are all just a matter of jealousy, because they cant accept that there are some women of different race who beat them in culture, looks and attitudes. Most of them dont have class, mean, rude and nasty, they have to look at themselves before critizing asian women. But then white men!!! go for it, asian Women loves you all!!!
 mimi1230

Joined: 1/11/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2007 8:09:42 PM
As a newly single Asian woman I would hope the man I date (Caucasian or otherwise) is dating me because of me, not my ethnicity. I'm not naive either, the initial attraction was looks, but there has to be more beyond that.

With that said, society also factors into the equation. Why not? It tells us everything else... What in, what's out. What's hot, what's not. What's attractive, what's acceptable.

In high school I've had crushes on a few jocks, but never pursued it. That could have been because I moved from SoCal to ATL, Deep South (can I say- Major Culture Shock!). In college, I didn't want to feel like the "mail-order bride" or the "me-so-horny" chick! So I dated Asian guys. (Or older men = "gold-digger" but that's another topic)

Now I decide what's acceptable & appropriate & hot!

lucilou
Ouch Gurl! Tres harsh...
 sparda9

Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 1609
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/4/2007 8:19:00 PM
^^^Mimi knows that society dictates that Caucasian is the standard of beauty, intellect, and what is percieved to be perfection! Other races in between are "ok", but on the reverse, blackness has been seen as ugliness, wickedness, stupidity, and all manner of inferiority.

And they said that blacks shouldn't have a chip on our shoulders. N!gga please!
 mimi1230

Joined: 1/11/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2007 8:44:22 PM
sparda9
In no way did I ever say Caucasian is the standard of beauty, intellect, or whatever! If that's what you got out of it, I apologize. I'll delete my post. I was talking about inter-racial relationships. You kinda scare me!
 mimi1230

Joined: 1/11/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2007 8:55:52 PM
sprada9
Oh... Sorry! I take it back. As I read this to my brother, I see you were just trying to make your analogy, but my goodness! My reaction was to jump on my soapbox & protest! Still I never thought any race is superior & even if society dictated it, I never gave that an ounce of validation. I just went by whether mini's were hot this season...
 bucsgirl

Joined: 5/13/2006
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Posted: 7/4/2007 8:59:37 PM
" most of white women who downgrades Asian Women are all just a matter of jealousy"
Granted I haven't read every post, but I DID post in response to your other post about white women degrading Asian women. I read that and was shocked, and even moreso by your post that it's a matter of jealousy. I've read your other posts and thought you were a wise woman, I have to say that's changed.
Maybe you're just ticked at some "white" women's attitude, but whoever downgraded any Asian women as another female isn't representative of ALL white/Caucasian women.
I have friends, male/female of very diverse backgrounds and many dear female friends who are Asian. I don't think of them as Asian, just wonderful ladies, dear friends, that I share a lot with and relate to.
I hope for your sake you aren't really caving into finding a great person to share your life with as a competition, and women as being jealous of each other and catty.
"And I have read a few other posts here, some men don't like American/Caucasian women, that's their preference and I'm fine with that. If a man prefers to date Asian women, then great.
I am honestly just a little disappointed to read this from another female.
I'm out of the dating pool, so not about to compete for a man. But then again, didn't when I was available...and NOT looking.
"Caucasian is the standard of beauty, intellect, and what is percieved to be perfection!"
UGH...hand me a bucket I want to hurl. As a Caucasian woman I couldn't disagree more!!
"Other races in between are "ok", but on the reverse, blackness has been seen as ugliness, wickedness, stupidity, and all manner of inferiority."
I'm truly sorry you'd even think much less feel that. I am almost stunned...don't know what to say, but if this "standard" came from reading or talking to any Causcasians, again please know they're not representative!
I'm almost embarrassed to be a white woman and even post on this thread. But I shouldn't be, who the heck is perpetuating this crap!

Sorry but reading this does get me a bit steamed. I know it's not me, but it does get a little frustrating to read this BS. Just know that talking to a handful of people doesn't represent a true crossection of a gender, race, religion...ethnicity...or anything else.
If you prefer to date Asian women, then just say so, it's a preference we all have them, and I wouldn't put anyone down or God forbid JUDGE them for doing so!! We all like what we like and attraction isn't always logical. Just be honest in your preferences, and if you can find it within you be kind in doing so. No reason to be hateful or hurtful to anyone who may fall outside your preference.
And Mimi...thumbs up...couldn't agree more!!
 lucilou

Joined: 3/18/2006
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Posted: 7/5/2007 3:32:08 AM
Bucsgirl? Sorry if i put you down, I know you are not one of them. Maybe you missed to read the rest of the forum who called us names, even part of our anatomy was humiliated by caucasian women, called us yellow, have little pu---- etc. Downgrading us to this forum really made me really mad, I do have a lot of caucasian women but they are not like those women who downgrade us here. Like you I do have a lot of friends of male and female caucasian. I would advice you to read all of them and then you will understand my attitudes on this forum. You seems to be a nice woman , if I upset you I apologized for my action, but its true, some are mean nasty and cruel. Men and women loves you maybe because you never said anything bad to others, and I dont either till our cultures got humiliated in this forum.
 ImaStayerNotaPlayer

Joined: 9/13/2006
Msg: 1614
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/5/2007 3:41:21 AM
cause ASIAN WOMEN ARE EXTREMLY BEAUTIFUL AND THEY KNOW HOW TO TREAT THEIR MEN WELL.
 thaskateguy

Joined: 1/30/2007
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Posted: 7/5/2007 10:29:37 AM
After hundreds of years of so called Civil Evolution---and this is still the best we can do. Kinda sad really---but what do ya expect from People.---I don't like nobody---equal opportunity disliker
 sparda9

Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 1616
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/5/2007 12:53:08 PM
I have heard that those females from overseas know how to treat a man, though. But hey, it could be just because they want American citizenship. Never know.
 thaskateguy

Joined: 1/30/2007
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Posted: 7/5/2007 3:50:24 PM
Ya get what ya pay for---just take yer time shoppin. the right Gal is out there. --Just be sure to get everything in writing, up front.--Trust no one.
 Sugar*Daddie

Joined: 6/25/2007
Msg: 1618
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/5/2007 3:59:48 PM

Black guys only take the blondes.


mostly overweight bottle blondes?
 thaskateguy

Joined: 1/30/2007
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Posted: 7/6/2007 12:07:17 PM
I feel it is less about Color, and more about attitude. Some Folks feel good about themselves, and feel they deserve the best. Others, for what ever reason, feel they should settle for what ever comes their way.---Kinda like just jumpin on the next bus that cames by, rather than waitin for the one headed to where ya wanna go.---It's the "any port in a storm syndrome"---Beggars can't be choosers.
 joanne1711

Joined: 6/6/2006
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Posted: 7/6/2007 12:21:59 PM
I know one man left me after 10mos for an asian woman went to china to married her he saids asian woman cattered to there men he wanted a asian woman so she can take care of all his need including bathing him.now Ive heard everything he met her on this site going into china and she answer him through an interpter she cannot speak a word of english.by the way she not here shes still inchina hes back home without her.I found out it will be 1-2yrs or more before she comes here.I wish him luck and never spoke to him again.now u know why asian woman appeal to caucasion men this is what they tell me.don't know if its true or not
 ladydove

Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 1621
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/6/2007 12:29:57 PM
I think the men with shaky masculinity gravitate toward the Asian women, as they seem to be more meek than their Caucasian and Afro counterparts. They are usually small boned, which is another sign of white men's preference for smaller women. Any man who wants an Asian woman is no man is probably dominant and insecure. So let them have 'em, I say.
 Sugar*Daddie

Joined: 6/25/2007
Msg: 1622
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Posted: 7/6/2007 12:40:45 PM
^^ stereotype time?
 thaskateguy

Joined: 1/30/2007
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Posted: 7/7/2007 9:02:05 AM
We need to put labels on Folks, so we can try and figure them all out, as one unit. We have not reached the level of takin folks as individuals. --Takes to much work.--We are not all the same, any more than we are all equal. that is a Myth.---Now Pass tha pipe, and a cold brew, if ya please.
 Michael is in Orlando

Joined: 3/24/2007
Msg: 1624
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Posted: 7/7/2007 10:25:47 AM
Lady dove...'I think the men with shaky masculinity gravitate toward the Asian women, as they seem to be more meek than their Caucasian and Afro counterparts. They are usually small boned, which is another sign of white men's preference for smaller women. Any man who wants an Asian woman is no man is probably dominant and insecure. So let them have 'em, I say.'



Are you for real?
 *Jay

Joined: 1/26/2007
Msg: 1625
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/7/2007 10:50:36 AM

^^ stereotype time?


more like the "angry white woman" who is mad that white men are no longer desiring them....you've heard of the angry asian man who doesn't white men taking their women lol...well she's an angry white woman, as I suspect others who have responded to this thread as being GOOOODDDD...well will EVERYONE truly start seeing each other without color
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