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 lucilou

Joined: 3/18/2006
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Posted: 7/29/2007 9:31:33 AM
ORCAANA???
You are so bitter and mean and very judgemental to asian women. Before you say something look at the mirror first and look at your self or your picture even, for the love of human kindness you are a such a__________, go picture what I meant, ah!!! "where is my glasses " thats why you cant see the difference between you and asian woman.
 ace1955

Joined: 7/15/2007
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Posted: 7/29/2007 9:33:02 AM
All I know is they are beautiful petite and sexy and I hear they are very loyal to their men. Plus they stay that way their whole lives. Wish I had one or knew how to find one can anybody tell me?
 lookinbill

Joined: 12/26/2006
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Posted: 7/29/2007 9:34:37 AM
I have a few neighbors and one very close friend who are all married to Asian women. They all say the same thing: One, the women actually from Asia are much more interested in the welfare of the family than their own " I am woman hear me roar" agenda. Two, the women of Asian descent they happened to marry who are not "westernized" seem to actually want to be wives. Third, they claim (the ones I have discussed this part with) that the women they are with are 'tighter' than Caucasian women they had been with before. Before someone blasts me for stereo typing, it is certainly possible that women of Asian descent are indeed more 'tight'. If genetic differences can cause one to have a certain color and consistency of hair, a certain skin tone and be more susceptible to disease than people of a different genetic makeup, then it is certainly possible that genetics could play a role in "that" area as well.

The only man I know who is dissatisfied w/ his Asian wife, complains that she does several things, ALL those things are what I hear a lot of guys complain about in their Westernized Caucasian wives.

Finally, I have been TDY to Japan on several occasions. On one trip a few sailors and I were talking and I asked them if they had dated the Japanese girls there near the port. All except one began to immediately speak very highly of the Japanese women they had dated and some had married. They instantly said that they would never date American women again and certainly wouldn't marry one. I did notice that there were very few obese Japanese women in the area I was working around. So few in fact that they stood out like a slender super hottie would in most major American cities, slender attractive women were everywhere, common almost. The same could be said about the men, all the people where I was in Japan were small and slender. I also noticed that the people were more polite overall and things were more clean and neat in general. Two of the guys I worked with came to the States TDY to work on the same project. I asked them what they wanted to do. One of them instantly asked if there was a Hooters in town. He wanted to eat there and when I asked him why he said there were no hooters in Japan; the restaurant and on the women.

All that is my experience, based on being TDY and asking men who have married Asian women. I have no first hand knowledge because I have never dated an Asian girl. Not because I find it objectionable but because I have never had the opportunity. Would that culture have flaws also? I am sure of it.

At the end of the day, what does someone care if a certain group is dated by another certain group?
 mai-ling

Joined: 7/3/2006
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Posted: 7/29/2007 11:41:10 AM
this thread still exist ? OMG!!!!...thanks "lucilu"..you are an angel..you're such a woman with a strong determination..you rule babe !!!! about the subject,i don't see anything wrong with caucasian men dating asian women..
 lucilou

Joined: 3/18/2006
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Posted: 7/29/2007 12:02:45 PM
Thank you Mai-ling!!! I hate people who judge others without looking at themselves. You have a great body and have a good sense of humor, good luck to you!!!
 likethat

Joined: 7/14/2007
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Posted: 7/29/2007 12:23:08 PM
I can speak for most of the black women we are notbitter that black men are dating the white wowen because the ones that dating white women are our throw backs.. we dont wantt them anyways..thats my two cents.. anyways
 lookinbill

Joined: 12/26/2006
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Posted: 7/29/2007 12:43:13 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^6


Self fulfilling racist prophetic thinking to me. Something about Aesop, a fox and some grapes comes to mind.
 thaskateguy

Joined: 1/30/2007
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Posted: 7/29/2007 12:43:45 PM
I like tha Gals on my block just fine, thanks---long as they don't go up on their prices.---Peace out my little Hommies.
 fencerooster

Joined: 7/21/2007
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Posted: 7/29/2007 1:04:08 PM
I work with Asian women and they are totally different than American Caucasians. I have also dated Hispanic women but prefer Asian women for one main reason. Their culture. If you want a dependable relationship you must study a person's culture first. Sex is only one aspect of relations and very shallow at the most. Most are interested in getting off. Sex is not love but a biological factor of being here and now. Sexual expressions of love or hatred...rape for example. Some cultures have loud mouth women and men who are hung up on the past, slavery, social welfare handouts, self centered & self serving issues, crime and many aspects on the non thinking lower class that feeds itself polyunsaturated fats, sits on the couch and gets as fat as shamu the whale and then complains and does little in regrad to discipline. Alternately you see the Irish laying claim to temperment...that is a cop out and lame excuse...this is 2007 and not the Dark Ages.....Completely the opposite prevails in most cases of Asian women. I am not interest in American or Hispanic woman...they are greedy, ruthless, shallow, vain, attached to issues, angry and regard sex as a candy stick for most any dude who emits the proper hormones. Control, control, control. This is only a small text; shallow in itself via simple explanation. Most men I know are not interested in domestic women and prefer foreign women as we are businessmen and have clues to pre nups and the awareness of attorneys and frivilous divorces and lawsuits....so why leave yourself open for misery. Love is paramount....,.Asian women are taught love & values of the relationship and family unit....not tainted by capitalism & sexy clothes..they are moslty modest, speak in a normal human tone not displaying the passion of anger and they attempt to control their emotions....very little mood swings. Mostly they do not cheat. It is all simple. Good luck.
 steve326a

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Posted: 7/29/2007 1:38:01 PM
Hi Luci Lu, nice to see you here again. I guess I'm starting to get a little nervous as my departure day grows nearer (44 Days) I guess because I've never left the US before. My passport finally got approved but it did take 13 weeks. I just need to get my paperwork authenticated at the RP Embassy so I can receive my CTM certificate in Manila then we will file for the license in Bacolod. Counting the day and soon the hours til im in her loving arms! Keep in touch.

Steve & Myrlita
 lucilou

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Posted: 7/29/2007 2:32:15 PM
Steve,
You are one of those caucasian that prefers asian woman, good for you . Is she meeting you in Manila airport? please be careful there. If she is not be sure you get the cab liscence or work for the manila international airport. Let me know if she is not picking you up in Manila. I have some friends that can meet you in Manila to get to you way to Bacolod. Keep in touch, I am worried if she not meeting you in Manila. Take care and be safe
 singlemaninMD

Joined: 3/21/2007
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Posted: 7/29/2007 3:29:24 PM
Around where I work and live it isn't the throwbacks dating the white women. They are the ones who drive the BMW's, lawyers, football players etc. Many evry refined so there is a hole in the throwback theory.
 bucsgirl

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Posted: 7/29/2007 3:33:10 PM
steve I just flew internationally earlier this year. As soon as the plane gets in the air, they pass out the immigration forms and you fill them out on the plane. When you deplane, you head straight to stand in line for immigration.

I flew to Bermuda, so the Philippines may be different. I'm sure you've gotten the info you need.
 Made in 1960

Joined: 7/15/2007
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Posted: 7/29/2007 4:52:30 PM
I have dated hispanic women as well as asian and love both.My last girlfriend was hispanic and very special.I've heard it said that white guys are dating asian's because they are submissive and white guys are whimpy.Speaking for me this is not true,Asian's still enjoy being a woman and demand the respect they deserve.As far as white guys being whimps,,Never confuse politeness with being a whimp. Keith
 Christian seeks Christian

Joined: 4/20/2007
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Posted: 7/29/2007 6:08:19 PM
I met a limo driver in Indiana, he was a swedish irish guy, his swedish wife divorced him because he was a drunk and would not pay the bills or be a good role model for his kids. So after he got dumped, he sobered up, went to AA and ordered an asian bride from a matchmaking company. He paid the madame 2000 dollars, then he had to pay another 2000 for his asian brides flight fees, plus another 1000 for her personal expenses, after paying 5000 his asain bride got here and he married her. She ran away from him in his home and puked on him when he tried to molest her for exactly 17 or 18 months, the legal time needed to establish residency in USA via marriage. All the while his asain bride had been in contact with the asain women connections at the shopping mall. After 18 months she fled this old fart and ran to the asain women contacts at the shopping mall, who had an american job lined up for her and a local Indiana divorce atty. who specialized in helping captive asain brides divorce old american men. The old fart guy was sued for 75,000 plus, half of the net worth of his house by the asain brides atty, as compensation for the 17-18 month hell she endured dealing with the old child predator and sex pervert. The old fart guy went screaming to court it was a set up, the whole deal was a set up to rob him. The judges and other attys laughed at this old fart child predator cradle robber and awarded his now ex asain bride 75,000 dollars plus court costs and attys fees.
The now divorced asain bride got her job at the mall with the other asain ladies who helped her ,and she is now free to date young american asain guys her own age. The old cradle robbing child snatching fart died of a heart attack last August at age 53, his son said he was a shame disgrace and embarassment to the family, his kids, who had to clean up thier fathers mess after he died.
My friend Kim, a chinese man, said foolish american men try to steal asain brides from asain men, he said the fool american men think asain brides will be submissive to an old american fool, they will not, Kim said. I agree with Kim. Men that no american women want have to prowl for mexican children in garbage cans or steal chinese mens brides or crawl around refuges camps to steal bosnian children to rape because no american woman wants the putrid old fools.
My next store neighbor, a chinese man, has been supporting his chinese wife and 2 daughters 10 years now, he would never ask his wife to work outside the home, he is a good chinese husband and he is home every night to have dinner with his chinese wife. I never once saw him not be the best husband to his wife and father to his 2 daughters. He is the best neighbor also. Why would an asain girl trade a devoted asain husband and provider, for a fat putrid old cradle robbing american man?
Some female hater men will do anything to get laid, even kidnap forgein children. Such men get what they deserve in the courts and after.
 singlemaninMD

Joined: 3/21/2007
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Posted: 7/29/2007 6:38:38 PM
Wow now that is as about as harsh as I have seen!
 Larry6953

Joined: 2/13/2006
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Posted: 7/29/2007 7:36:04 PM
Because they seem to be more exotic, usually they want to please a man more because of their background, asian womaen from birth are brought up to please men.
 almondcookie

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Posted: 7/29/2007 7:58:58 PM
Larry....this is just plain not true. There is no need to make things up and create stereotypes. Just curious. How many Asians do you actually know and how many times have you been to Asia?
 lookinbill

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Posted: 7/29/2007 8:06:09 PM

Men that no american women want have to prowl for mexican children in garbage cans or steal chinese mens brides or crawl around refuges camps to steal bosnian children to rape because no american woman wants the putrid old fools.


Psychotic . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . babble.
 sunnyshane

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Posted: 7/29/2007 8:10:24 PM
Because the age so gracefully.....very beautiful.......Most american women let themselves go....Do not treat their men with respect.....I dont blame them....Just like black men dating white women,Its a status symbol like a cadillac or something(look at me! I gots me a white girl!)
 sunnyshane

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Posted: 7/29/2007 8:14:17 PM
Such a beautiful woman......I rest my case.............
 Made in 1960

Joined: 7/15/2007
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Posted: 7/29/2007 9:23:59 PM
We all grow old in time,,I do not know of anyone like queenprincess described but if i did i wouldn't have anything to do with him.My advice is always date someone closer to your age because you will have more things in common.Asian women is where it's at! Most are very femine and act like a lady and don't feel the need to compete.After working all day what a blessing to get home to someone like that.
 lucilou

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Posted: 7/29/2007 9:44:42 PM
Made1960!! you are right we do cook for our husband when they get home tired from work. We all eat together and talk about what we did for the day. Our family values we learn form our culture. We respect our love one take good care of them. Good luck to you and take care.
 TheRiverRunsThroughIt

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Posted: 7/29/2007 11:16:16 PM
By the way, that's one reason I happened to have dated more Asians. Regardless if they're Caucasian, Asian, and they're s-l-e-n-d-e-r, attractive, educated, pleasant attitude, other qualities, I would consider them a possibility. The reason there was mention of h-a-p-p-e-n-e-d to have dated more Asians is simply for my qualifying factor of slender, that there simply exists more slender Asians females than Caucasian females.

I ran across something about the food eating champion one time, who happens to be a female, this tiny Japanese female, 5'4" and only 95lbs who can eat around 16 pounds of food in one sitting!! This girl can out-eat a quarterback!! Heavens, where oh where does the girl put it all?

This got me thinking about how she stays so slim when Caucasian women many times will get obese with intake of that much food. I chatted with my friend who is in medical school right now, and this was his answer, medically:


"This isn't just about fat. It's also about bone and muscle size. Asians have half the bone size as the typical Caucasian. Therefore Asians carry more weight on their frames, which includes muscle and of course fat. A typical Asian has a very spindly bone structure. It's good for running and cardio, but their typical frame cannot carry much muscle or fat. "


I'm sure there are some exceptions to the above as nothing is carried in perfect formation throughout a group, but by and large, I don't see many fat Asians. I have actually been to some of my Asian dates' parties of gatherings of her relatives, including her parents, her grandparents, etc., Their parents, aunts, uncles, grandparents are 50, 60, 70, even 80 years of age, and I have yet to see a fat Asian among her generations of relatives. The above medical summation is probably why they don't get fat in mature age of 50, 60, 70, 80+ years of age . As mentioned, to be sure, there are exceptions, yet they are not prevalent in my experience.

Yes, what someone else mentioned, in my experience, in some, notice I said s-o-m-e, Asian men can be very chauvinistic if they have the regular Asian mentality. I am sure there are other drawbacks to the Asian culture as well.
 steve326a

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Posted: 7/30/2007 3:12:45 AM
Luci Lu Wrote:

Steve,
You are one of those caucasian that prefers asian woman, good for you . Is she meeting you in Manila airport? please be careful there. If she is not be sure you get the cab liscence or work for the manila international airport. Let me know if she is not picking you up in Manila. I have some friends that can meet you in Manila to get to you way to Bacolod. Keep in touch, I am worried if she not meeting you in Manila. Take care and be safe

Hi Luci,
Thank you. But yes, she is meeting me there in Manila. I bought her ticket for Cebu Pacific. And yes, she will pick the cab because I know she can spot a dishonest one. We will stay at a motel we already picked out together then go on Superferry for a nice boat ride to Bacolod. And no, it's not that I prefer asians but when her & I looked at each other for the 1st time we both said I love you at the same time. Never happened to either of us before. I know there are many scammers out there and I'm so blessed by God to have found a good one.

Keep in touch my friend,
Steve & Myrlita
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