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 thaskateguy

Joined: 1/30/2007
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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/30/2007 8:34:47 AM
Man, some folks really get wrapped up in all this Race thing I see.---I say just "Hit it, and forget it" ---then move on to the next one. What's the big deal. You lonely or something, buy a dog.
 Senor Spode

Joined: 7/11/2006
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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/30/2007 1:02:11 PM
With all these posts about White women this, and White women that; and all the posts about White Women's weight, I can only conclude that it's either;

a) Many White males have been bashed, pelted, humiliated, by White women to some extraordinary magnitude.

or

b) Many White males have concluded that they are just far more superior than White women. They've felt they had to move on.
 WonkaBar

Joined: 2/3/2006
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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/30/2007 2:24:04 PM
Little of a), little of b). In my case, it was a). Got sick of the garbage once I left college. Started dating women of color and never looked back.

Hmm, a gal like Lucilou or a raving nut like queennotaprincess? Gimme a minute, tough choice...
 lucilou

Joined: 3/18/2006
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Posted: 7/30/2007 4:11:12 PM
Wonkabar??? I cant compete with queennnotprincess, she is gorgeous with pretty long legs lol. Another thing is a lot lot younger lol. I can accept defeat, and i know where I stand when it comes to chosing who is who .
 WonkaBar

Joined: 2/3/2006
Msg: 1780
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/30/2007 4:32:10 PM

Wonkabar??? I cant compete with queennnotprincess, she is gorgeous with pretty long legs lol. Another thing is a lot lot younger lol. I can accept defeat, and i know where I stand when it comes to chosing who is who .


Not only that, but she equates men who date 'your kind' with child rapists! What a catch, eh? Bet the men are linin' up around the block for the chance to git some o' THAT.
 Timbuckedtwo

Joined: 3/27/2007
Msg: 1781
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/30/2007 4:47:56 PM
Probably because they're not as self centered, demanding and ego centric as North American women.
 Made in 1960

Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 1782
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/30/2007 5:03:02 PM
LuciLou,,,My vote goes to you hands down.Asian women are exotic looking and have culture just to name a few.Keep up the good work.Oh and by the way i am only 8 hours from Corpus See ya
 Headly-D

Joined: 5/13/2007
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Posted: 7/30/2007 5:15:04 PM
Because Asian women know how to take care of their man and want to be taken care of by their man,not like these american women (fem-a-nazi"s/ women libbers) who want to pretend they are equal to a man. My ex girlfriend was a libber and had to fix the upstairs plumbing in the bathroom herself to prove she was equal to a man. Needless to say screwed it up and caused a leak.The leak melted the downstairs ceiling and the dry wall need to be replaced. Wow...guess who fixed the leak and the drywall, me of course a man. These american libbers are are more TROUBLE than they are WORTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 SENTIMENTALMAN

Joined: 11/15/2004
Msg: 1784
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Posted: 7/30/2007 5:20:19 PM
Well I think it all comes down to what we individually find as attractive. We all have our preferences in everything, from type of food, furniture, music and especially what we see in a mate. Being African-American it's hard because I too find that Asian women and Hispanic women are most attractive. Thats not saying that there aren't any attractive American women, just that I tend to be more drawn to women of Asian or Hispanic origin. Unfortunately, very few Asian or Hispanic women are drawn to Afro-American men, which is most likely why I'm still single. Most likely I will probably stay single unless I retire to a foreign country where these women are more prevalent, which I have strongly been considering lately.
 raybabe61

Joined: 7/20/2007
Msg: 1785
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/30/2007 5:25:04 PM
Because they are nice and thin.

Too many Hispanic Women are overweight.

Fat Women are not appealing, as a matter of fact, how can you get sexually aroused with all that blubber?
 Willprevale

Joined: 10/9/2006
Msg: 1786
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/30/2007 5:27:49 PM
I can't believe this thread took up 41 pages.
 raybabe61

Joined: 7/20/2007
Msg: 1787
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/30/2007 5:28:06 PM
Because they are nice and thin.

Too many Hispanic Women are overweight.

Fat Women are not appealing, as a matter of fact, how can you get sexually aroused with all that blubber?
 steve326a

Joined: 2/2/2007
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Posted: 7/30/2007 5:40:20 PM
willprevale Wrote:

I can't believe this thread took up 41 pages


41 pages? try 72!
 paradoxdreamer

Joined: 7/10/2007
Msg: 1789
Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/30/2007 8:44:47 PM
If South Park is correct, men are afraid of having children that have red hair and freckles, the only way to avoid doing that, is to marry an asian woman. :-P
 staticks

Joined: 6/22/2007
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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/30/2007 11:03:28 PM
I'm having a hell of a time just envisioning all these white (or other) girls' bitter, bitter bitterness because everyone's singing Asian girls' praises.
 Senor Spode

Joined: 7/11/2006
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Posted: 7/31/2007 8:18:57 AM

or a raving nut like queennotprincess?

She did bring up a very valid question (that will no doubt be avoided like the plague). Why would an Asian woman reject a sound minded Asian man for some random White man? She gave a counter testimony of at least one Asian man to the normal negative one's on this thread. Notice RiverRun'sThruit's post. He just 'has' to do the opposite, and emphasize chauvinism in S-O-M-E Asian men. As if there wasn't an equal amount of chauvinism within the White male community. Talk about propaganda!
 Senor Spode

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Posted: 7/31/2007 8:39:24 AM
Got sick of the garbage once I left college. Started dating women of color and never looked back.

But even still, you're running into the problem of Americanization. Didn't you state that Asian American women tend to have a chip on their shoulder? And you've reduced your preference to 'foreign' Asian women because of this?

Don't mean to sound bleak, but feminism is rising among minority women, Asian women no exception. Perhaps even outdoing White women, as noted once by a French feminist activist. Feminism is something I've never felt too positive about, and no doubt it's partaken in problems involving family life, etc. But, I'm beginning to see more of a positive side to it. I also think some of these 'other' individuals who bark the loudest about Asian women, will be the first to 'bash' them once they realize they're not the submissive tools they think they are. If they shamelessly bash White women (and Black and Hispanic in some cases), what makes one think they won't take it to Asian women once they get jilted or have 5 or 6 bad experiences?
 thaskateguy

Joined: 1/30/2007
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Posted: 7/31/2007 9:12:19 AM
Some folks grade their food by it's "presentation" Others just want a good tastin meal----Some folks play with their food to much. ---Just dig in, it's all pink on tha inside.
 staticks

Joined: 6/22/2007
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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/31/2007 9:41:03 AM
Why would an Asian woman reject a sound minded Asian man for some random White man? She gave a counter testimony of at least one Asian man to the normal negative one's on this thread. Notice RiverRun'sThruit's post. He just 'has' to do the opposite, and emphasize chauvinism in S-O-M-E Asian men. As if there wasn't an equal amount of chauvinism within the White male community. Talk about propaganda!

Well, he's clearly an idealistic retard for a) speaking as though there's a single unifying "Asian" culture for all Asians, and b) ignoring the fact that any cultural difference, and any such "Asian chauvinism" that comes with it, is probably going to be completely white-washed over anyway, more so after each successive generation of being in America.

But in all frankness, I'd say that white guys as it stands right now have a pretty decent shot at getting Asian women. Like I said, we live in a pretty white-washed country overall, and Asian women and women in general are wont to buy into societal ideas of whats attractive and desirable. No, Jet Li movies and Jackie Chan in Rush Hour don't help. That is, they'll have a shot if white guys don't manage to screw it up by displaying sheer stupidity and immaturity. Like making threads about how much Asian women just luuuuuuuv white men.
 WonkaBar

Joined: 2/3/2006
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Posted: 7/31/2007 11:35:06 AM
But even still, you're running into the problem of Americanization. Didn't you state that Asian American women tend to have a chip on their shoulder? And you've reduced your preference to 'foreign' Asian women because of this?


Yes, I did. Truth be told I haven't met any Americanized Asians that have the same kind of entitlement complex Caucasian women seem to have, although I do occasionally run across their profiles here. Worst of both worlds, so I pass. Nah, the chip I speak of is the "you only like me because I'm Asian," chip. Where the moment you say "hi" to her she snaps "I'm not going to be your Sailor Moon fetish, otaku boy!".

While I can kiiiiinda see where the second one comes from, I still don't like being slapped with it when I'm not the one what's done anything - and it's a chip you can overcome... by proving it's not her pretty eyes or your love for House of Flying Daggers that drew you to her. Feminism, on the other hand, teaches women that men are "the enemy" and are not to be catered to - where every relationship is a struggle for dominance where the women must win or else she's being "oppressed" - which makes for miserable men... but who cares what THEY think, they just can't handle a "strong and independent" woman.

Yes, I know about the rise of "feminism" in other parts of the world. My ex was definitely one of them, as were most of the women she knew. The difference is, they didn't hate men, didn't pre-judge them, and accepted them as they were. My ex's attitude was, "this is the way things are. I can either work with it, and we can both win, or I can fight it, and we can both lose." I never once heard the kind of disparaging remarks come from her, or any of her friends, that I see on these forums on a daily basis. Culture does shape people - and given my experience on both sides of the fence, I'll stick with the imports. At least they smile when they see me, and pay me the occasional compliment.

And any valid point notaprincess had went right out the window when she started raving about Asiaphiles and pedophiles being lumped into the same camp. Oh, and what the guy above me said.
 lucilou

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Posted: 7/31/2007 3:06:35 PM
Senor spode, I think you belong to both a&b, it does sounds like you fit to both category that gave on this forum.
 Senor Spode

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Posted: 7/31/2007 3:09:51 PM

That is, they'll have a shot if white guys don't manage to screw it up by displaying sheer stupidity and immaturity. Like making threads about how much Asian women just luuuuuuuv white men.

Good point! I've seen some of those, and it's pretty incredible what some of them say. Some do it to cause some friction, but some are actually serious.
 Senor Spode

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Posted: 7/31/2007 3:19:41 PM

Feminism, on the other hand, teaches women that men are "the enemy" and are not to be catered to

You no doubt have that. However, if you remove the negatives, it's initial intent is positive. One of the positives in regards to Asian, and minority feminists, is that they tend to be ethnically conscious as opposed to just gender conscious. An Asian female feminist in general will be more apt to fight against ethnic problems for both males as well as females of their race/ethnicity. Generally more so than the Asian women who concedes to being a token newscaster for the sole purpose of self prosperity. I'm sure there's exceptions no doubt, but this seems to be the general trend.
 Headly-D

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Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/31/2007 3:58:33 PM
Because Asian women know how to take care of their man and want to be taken care of by their man,not like these american women (fem-a-nazi"s/ women libbers) who want to pretend they are equal to a man. My ex girlfriend was a libber and had to fix the upstairs plumbing in the bathroom herself to prove she was equal to a man. Needless to say screwed it up and caused a leak.The leak melted the downstairs ceiling and the dry wall need to be replaced. Wow...guess who fixed the leak and the drywall, me of course a man. These american libbers are are more TROUBLE than they are WORTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hey my photo is posted where is yours spode boy?
 Senor Spode

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Posted: 7/31/2007 8:31:37 PM

Hey my photo is posted

Ahhh! So it is!


where is yours spode boy?

No worry...no worry at all. My photo is proudly displayed at every post office in the country!
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