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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/13/2007 2:45:57 PM | response to msg 1822. Hey dude, hope you realize you are describing a different culture with different traditions. Do you believe we have lost valued traditions in North America? Ladies please take a breath before you respond.
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/13/2007 2:59:48 PM | I believe that Causasian women are stronger than ever! This scares Causasian men into looking elsewhere for relaxed intimacy, I believe. Asian women are sometimes called the 'last stop', that is, for men with strong homosexual tendancies .. that is .. Asian women sometimes resemble boys in their small, fit, tomboyish bodies. This stirs latent homosexual ideations in men that may have seeded in thier brain in puberty.
Caucasian men fear strong women. Latino women are not only VERY strong but epitomize femininity. This combination probably sends most Caucasian men running! Causasian men are so sweet and so quickly hurt!!!! They NEED to be heros and they NEED kindness and gentle ego strokes from women more than any other group type of grown males! They cannot dance or express themselves easily. I just love them all! | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/13/2007 3:01:54 PM | I'm a white guy without a defined preference for anything other than intelligence and looks. (Not that I'm picky, hehe.)
The two asian women I've seen have been rather to-the-point; both said size (I'll stop there) and attitude.
I'm not sure which is more important, although both said that the sex/lovemaking was usually a lot better.
My only two cents on this subject. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/13/2007 3:09:42 PM | | Msg 1832: For one, I think that's a minority. You also need to take into consideration that some will say what they think people want to hear. I used to work with a short White man who was married to a Chinese woman, possibly taller than him (based on a photo he showed me, but they may not of been on level ground). He fancied himself as being somewhat of an Asian lady killer. The Korean escorts he would visit on the side probably told him whatever horse sh*t they knew would feed his ego. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/13/2007 3:15:20 PM | Ok, 2 more cents...
One of my asian "friends" is a great deal more curvatious than the "average", is married, and tells me her husband fits your profile, thus needs fulfilment elsewhere, i.e. me.
She also tells me that when she goes to strip clubs with him, he picks the girls who do look like boys, especially asian girls...
The other is a former model; she, too is rather curvy.
So maybe stereotyping really is useless? | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/13/2007 3:28:46 PM | It seems to me more Asian women value intelligence & creativty and intelligent and creative persuits. A friend of mine is dating a Chinese girl. She's into anime,she likes to draw,likes to learn and findout about something not in her repetitively dayly routine. She try's to know more than she needs for her life,is truly open minded,doesn't just say it. She's truly creative,doesn't just say; " Im intelligent and creative because I have a new tatoo and piercing and because I said so. Therefore it's true. " She asked me if I've ever read Stephen Hawkings The Universe in a NutShell. Then she said she's going to try to download it off the Internet. How many women do you know who are like that ? I read other womens profiles and it seems like they don't want to grow up and face adulthood and open their minds up to anything a little more challenging than taking Salsa or belly dancing classes or getting another tatoo. I was watching something about artificial intelligence and they showed a woman who designs robots at MIT (Massachusets Institute of Technology), Her favorite movie is Star Wars because it had the robots R2-D2 & C 3PO. That movie got her into designing and making robots. What are the odds of meeting any woman who's interesting and has a real unique hobby or interest like that ? She's asian American or half Asian looking. Who ever married her must be one of the happiest and luckiest guys in the world. Then I meet or see what some young caucasian women are into; Girls Gone Wild stupidity crap & watching Sex in The City,drinking & partying and nothing else besides getting all kinds of ugly body piercings and tatoos that even Marines or prisoners wouldn't get. I realize that there are a lot of Asian prostitutes in Thailand and other Asian counttries. So,not all are highly intelligent or creative and not all have good morals. But the ones who live here are different.
I don't think race alone is the quality that attracts various people to date or mate. It's more about common interests, I.Q scores that kind of thing. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/13/2007 3:38:16 PM | Asian women are submissive and will not talk back. And this is not meant as a deragatory or negative remark. Men I think are a little leary of women that are independent, strongwilled and know how to take care of themselves. A lot of asian women come from families that do not teach them to be independent. They still live somewhat in a timespan where the man was the king and what man does not want to be treated like that. Even though I have a friend (white man) that was in a relationship with an asian woman and it did not last because in the bedroom she was very frigid. She did not really know how to please him (his words) so in the long run he preferred someone else. He liked the submissiveness of his asian lady but did not like some of the other aspects of her relationship. Mind you this is only one case and does not mean that ALL asian women would be frigid. (but I have heard it before - I am just repeating what I have heard men say). Hispanic women are very emotional and bossy (another man's opinion -lol) and a lot of white men do not like that and I guess therefore they would prefer a more quiet asian lady.
Ok, guys - let me know if what I wrote above is right or wrong or a little bit on target. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/13/2007 4:07:35 PM | I believe Asian women are exotic looking and the few i have met are very intelligent and in good shape.They know the roll of a woman and are not out to compete with men.They seem to value family and understand the meaning of loyalty and also demand the respect they deserve.Lets see someone like borneuropean are lucilou,hummmm Ok i'll take lucilou | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/13/2007 5:14:33 PM | Asian women are submissive and will not talk back.
Talk about silly generalisations ......
If you honestly believe that there are a fair few that I can introduce you to that will prove you very very wrong.
Men I think are a little leary of women that are independent, strongwilled and know how to take care of themselves.
There is a difference between what your thinking and what they are, angry man haters is what most are, how ever much they claim to be what your saying.
Being confident in yourself is one thing and people love that, attempting to put men down to make yourself stronger is repulsive and weak, which is what a lot of the women your describing are.
Mind you this is only one case and does not mean that ALL asian women would be frigid.
100% of the ones I've met blow that theory out of the water and seeing as it's based on one and from 3rd hand information, that isn't surprising.
Ok, guys - let me know if what I wrote above is right or wrong or a little bit on target.
2-5% I'd say, just about all of what you wrote I would and do disagree with completely.
It seems to me more Asian women value intelligence & creativty and intelligent and creative persuits.
Indeed, there is a marked difference in self respect and intellectual direction, until they become americanised then its all over !
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2007 11:09:32 AM |
It seems to me more Asian women value intelligence & creativty and intelligent and creative persuits.
Indeed, there is a marked difference in self respect and intellectual direction, until they become americanised then its all over
and so many 'caucasian' guys saying that ASian women tend to be in physically better shape.
well, question for you.
do these same things tend to apply to Caucasian MEN?
(intellectually lazy, fat, out of shape, etc.)
if so why exactly should Asian women want YOU so much?
maybe they should go for Asian guys..? maybe discriminating Caucasian WOMEN should go more for Asian guys? (according to your racist & prejudiced theories, anyway..) | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2007 11:20:51 AM |
I believe Asian women are exotic looking and the few i have met are very intelligent and in good shape.They know the roll of a woman and are not out to compete with men.They seem to value family and understand the meaning of loyalty and also demand the respect they deserve.Lets see someone like borneuropean are lucilou,hummmm Ok i'll take lucilou
interesting how many of the observations about 'intelligence' seem to come from men who can't spell or construct a lucid thought in words; and how many of the observations about Asian women being 'petite' or in better shape and Caucasian women generally out of shape come from guys that look to have rather generous guts themselves..? | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2007 12:59:47 PM | | Hey sugar daddie,,First let me say that you always begin a sentence with a capital letter.I know my spelling is correct so i will try and be lucid enough for you.It is not about discriminating caucasian women but about preferences we all have and certain qualities we look for.In my eyes caucasian women are absolutely wonderful and in America we have the right to pursue happiness with whoever that may be.After reading your comment i couldn't help but open your profile all along thinking this guy must be a brain surgeon but to my surprise you are a wealthy investor looking for intimate encounters with young girls.Why do you feel the need to say you are wealthy?Oh, you have to pay for a date.You mean to tell me a man of your caliber has to pay for it even when you are good speller?I am 46 and have no pot belly and in very good condition.I'd like to see you in 10 years from now Killer.Also do not discriminate older women and limit yourself to young girls.You never know that older woman may be the best thing that ever happend to you.In conclusion,next time you feel the need to write crap always remember to begin your sentence with a capital letter. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2007 2:33:00 PM | Hi this is my first time to join in a forum and my English still not very good. I just hope that everybody will understand what I am trying to say thank you. I am not offended but just curious of your comments about Asian. There are different type of Asian women. I am a filipina from Philippines.
I am 46 years old ,yes I am old but I don't think I look like 75!???? My colleagues at work said that English men only married Asian women, because they want a slave??? I totally disagree about that before. Now I am going through divorce after 9 years of marriage. And I think, its partly true? | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2007 4:23:51 PM | Hey Southernguy1960!!!;
Haven't seen you for a long time, thanks for the compliments, there will always be debate about different races, dont take it seriously, it will just give us ulcer lol. To those men who downgrading Asian women, I thank you for giving your opinion, maybe some are true but dont generalized all of us.
About being frigid? lol I would be frigid if I am with the man I dont like, but give me one who I wanted most and I will the wildest asian woman you can deal with in bed lol 
Being slave?? and submissive, nope maybe the uneducated ones are submissive, but not the professional ones. We have many kind of women in Asia, uneducated one will keep her man who is supporting her, and nothing wrong with that. Staying at home taking care of her family is her main goal, is that not nice?
Well, thanks Caucasian men for those who prefers Asian women, but please don't attack caucasian women, in result those women attacks us. I do have caucasian women best friends, I lead them to stay fit and eat healthy and they are thankful for my help to make them to be a healthy women.    | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2007 4:52:32 PM | lucilou: I must have struck a nerve with my last post, haha. To answer your question, no I have never been hurt by an Asian woman, but I did date some in High School. I think you took my post especially hard because you think I am bashing AF/WM relationship, however you'd be wrong. I think IR is a great thing, but a lot of the AF/WM relationships I've known were based purely on stereotypes, and ideological.
If you don't agree with my point of view, I would advice you to read this entire thread again. All the guys on here have stated their reasons as to why they'd date an Asian women, and none of which is actually seeing the person for who they are. The idea of Asian women being more docile, obedient, loyal, or healthier because they age better is pure Asinine.
It's very strange to me how you didn't find any of the other post offensive, but you singled me out, is this because I am one of the few in here willing to speak the truth? Perhaps it's because you don't mind being a stereotype, or maybe you want to benefit from it somehow. You said please don't generalize, but you've made sweeping generalizations about how Asian women are friendly and would cook for their man. I've got news for you, my mother(beautiful white women) made lunch and dinner for her family everyday for the past 36 years. And guess what else?...my parents have a great relationship with open lines of communications, and a solid foundation based on love.
I just hope in the future people could see pass skin color, and judge people AFTER getting to know the person. Personally, I just hate stereotypes and I will continue to fight it whenever it rears it ugly head. Good luck  | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2007 5:49:36 PM | This is for the above pof,
No!!! not really you didnt struck any of my nerve young man, and glad that you came from good functional family. Stereotype? I think you are the one who is stereotype my dear, you are just a baby, you have a lot more food to eat before you can judge any ethnicity. So then you hate yourself? You are stereotype arent you? Go to school, get married then you can judge any one you like. Go for it, you are the soul of yourself, you are not looking for any realtionship? are you abnormal? Asian woman will keep you straight lol. Lets dance young man you might learn something from asian woman      | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2007 6:01:31 PM | "Perhaps it's because you don't mind being a stereotype" Stereotypes aren't limited to culture, could be hair color, astrological signs...pretty much anything.
Stereotypes don't promote understanding and relating.
I don't know what the intent of the OP was, but everyone would be so much better off if we would just date who we're attracted to, and quit griping about other people's preferences. We all have them, some just refuse to admit to it.
There's wonderful ladies and gentlemen all over the world. If you prefer Asian ladies, then date them noone should give you grief about it. If you feel you have to paint other cultures with a brush and run them down, that's another thing altogether.
Date who you want, marry them if you like and just be happy. If you're not, it's probably not because they are or aren't Asian. It's just not the right person for you.  | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2007 6:10:33 PM | " In this day and age, I do not even know why it is an issue worth mentioning. "
Thank God!! A sensible post at last!!!
As for labeling it "Yellow Fever" well, that's just indicative of sub-optimal frontal lobe function. | |
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