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Jemue
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Joined: 1/26/2005
Msg: 1852 | |
| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2007 6:48:32 PM | Pointless miss-capitalisation aside.
do these same things tend to apply to Caucasian MEN?
I have already answered that in a previous post and my reply in the last one was social opposed to racial as your trying to make it, I could say the same about most Latin countries, with regrades to Americanisation., though the thread here is about Asians and why some men prefer them.
The key word there is preference, not discrimination as your suggesting.
if so why exactly should Asian women want YOU so much?
That's none of my business, that's up to them, as it is for everyone regardless of race, colour creed, nationality etc.
maybe they should go for Asian guys..? maybe discriminating Caucasian WOMEN should go more for Asian guys? (according to your racist & prejudiced theories, anyway..)
Calling me a racist for making a social defence then comparison, even though it's just defensiveness, is hilarious as well as completely wrong. You have the wrong context and are playing devils advocate with the wrong person.
In this day and age, I do not even know why it is an issue worth mentioning.
There are still a lot of people with prejudice about it would seem, combined with a lack of understanding that some people prefer one thing over another, some guys like red head, others really long legs etc, C'est la vie. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2007 7:29:37 PM | Gem13Girl Wrote:
Hi this is my first time to join in a forum and my English still not very good. I just hope that everybody will understand what I am trying to say thank you. I am not offended but just curious of your comments about Asian. There are different type of Asian women. I am a filipina from Philippines.
I am 46 years old ,yes I am old but I don't think I look like 75!???? My colleagues at work said that English men only married Asian women, because they want a slave??? I totally disagree about that before. Now I am going through divorce after 9 years of marriage. And I think, its partly true?
Your English is very good. Where in RP are you from? I am joining my fiancee in 28 days there whereas I am moving to Bacolod with her. And no you don't look 75. Filipinas don't look their age. Mine is 53 and looks 33. Am I nervous? Yes, but it will be worth it. I just got my visa last Fri. As for this BS about submissive slaves? Just that, BS. As for your divorce, I am very sorry. I hope it works out for you.
God Bless,
Steve & Myrlita  | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2007 8:41:21 PM | LMAO lucilou!! Do you have trouble comprehending? And your over usage of smileys certainly indicate I DID struck a nerve. You keep bringing up my age as if I am a child(27 years old), if age = wisdom, then maddam you got ripped off.  Its pretty clear you're trying to promote Asian women as some sort of G0d' gift to man. Furthermore You're trying to pass yourself off as an well rounded educated person, but from your previous posts, you're far from it.
As to my dating experience, you wouldn't have a clue as to how well I do. I've never had any problem with the ladies...do you know why? Because I've always treated women with respect and not just an object, something you're accustomed to. But that's ok right?, cause you like being labeled so long as it benefits you. Seriously you've not only disgraced yourself, Asian women, but also Women kind all over.
I can learn something from Asian women????? HAHAHAHAHAHA, sorry I like my women to look like women. Since you like stereotype so much, here's one for you..... I LIKE WOMEN WITH CURVES......nuff said!!!!!!  | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/14/2007 10:24:51 PM | The idea of Asian women being more docile, obedient, loyal, or healthier because they age better is pure Asinine.
I have never found any of these to be true ...
As for this BS about submissive slaves? Just that, BS.
Yup, complete BS.
Asian women are submissive and will not talk back.
Not so.
... it did not last because in the bedroom she was very frigid.
Yup, never seen otherwise.
Asian woman know how to satisfy a man. They have far more respect, and loving for the caucasian man. They also have been taught the Kama-Sutra techniques.
Lol ... too fixated on Numbers and Material Possessions .. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/15/2007 12:30:49 PM | | U are right!!!! asian woman are clean, not judgemental and high standard of moral value , and interms of relationship they are trustworthy and honest.. and they value family. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/15/2007 1:02:02 PM | U are right!!!! asian woman are clean, not judgemental and high standard of moral value , and interms of relationship they are trustworthy and honest.. and they value family.
hey Joe! you GI! me love you Loooonnng time! | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/15/2007 3:19:26 PM | | areasontosmile: Thanks for putting into word what a lot of people actually are thinking. And this has nothing to do with racism and I agree, everyone has the right to date and fall in love with who they prefer. It is totally unecessary for an asian woman to come on here and try to sell her race with all kind of ridiculous stuff that is most of the time not present in just one person. Some of the things might be present but not all. She is putting herself as though she is the Asian Godess that has to teach caucasian woman how to live a healthy, productive, and active life. LOL - Gee look around you and see how many women are doing this and have done this for many, many years. And on top of this a lot of caucasian and black women are living an independent, self sufficient life and they do not NEED a man to take care of them financially. They love men for what a man is. Not for his finances and to give them what they dont want to work for. Anyway, Thanks again for putting some of the things out there that I am sure a lot of guys are feeling. And that is nothing agains the guys that prefer little asian women. That is their perogative, but this crap about who or what is inferior has to stop - I give any woman their due regardless of race if they deserve it, but I will not give it to a woman that comes on here and thinks she can "teach" another woman to be like "her". I would not want to be that dependent and acting that superior. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/15/2007 3:45:30 PM | Wow! sugar*daddie.........you've put it all in proper perspective. A shame you're so young and so far. I am asian of course, so I strongly agree with all that you have to say.
However, let's not forget the fact that in all of life's thread, there are always exceptions.
I am proud of my heritage and the good values, ethics, and pride we strongly believe in, but that is not to say that some american women are in the same status. My daughter in law is from Indiana, who my son met at Purdue. She is the epitomy of grace, beauty and great upbringing, thus strong family values as well. So to put it bluntly, wherever you may come from, you are a product of three influence:
1) heredity or your genes
2) environment
3) education
There are white trash and there are black trash, and there are asian low class, and there are european trash. Sigmund Freud had it right all along. You are what you're
born with and exposed to. Peace! | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/15/2007 4:03:35 PM | | 1130clr: How funny that you call all other ethnicities as having trash but you classify YOUR OWN ethnicity as just having "low class". You are a trip! I have seen a lot of asian trash my dear, believe me. Its running rampant in the US. Maybe they should have stayed in their own country (and that means all the asian countries) and not bring their trash into this country. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/15/2007 4:06:35 PM | | 1130clr: Oh by the way my dear, did you read sugar*daddie's thread as it was supposed to be written. He was not complimenting asian women - he was quoting what others were saying and then putting in what he saw as a lot of the ladies saying: Oh you GI.... I loooooove you alltime - LOL - ( I know this was nasty but I just wanted to point out to you that you need to read the threads as they were written, NOT as you would like them to sound ... | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/15/2007 5:38:54 PM | | Well my dear, I am NOT dating on this site - I am participating in the boards - that is all - and your 6 years older do not make you wiser. They make you a little more viscious and nasty. I rest my case. I think it shows a little bit of your mentality. I would not try to mince words with someone that is most likely more educated and not as nasty as you. God Bless and think about how you react to people. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/15/2007 6:10:41 PM | Borneuropean,
Woman, you have a serious problem. I was not going to even post on this, even though I found the threads interesting, but your little comment about maybe they should have stayed in their own country -- ohhh well that got me going.
How DARE you suggest that other nationalities are not WORTHY of this country! I personally had no choice in the matter as a child, but I have lived in this country most of my life and I am a citizen and it is as much my country as it is yours! America is the melting pot, like it or not, so get over it. It is the diversity of cultures that makes America the fascinating and lively and interesting place that it is. Thank God there are more open minded people here than there are Nazis like you.
Oh and you do look at least 15 years older than the Asian lady you were just harrassing. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/15/2007 10:04:41 PM | | To put my two cents in , its all about acceptance. I was thinking about this the other day and I came to my own conclusion. Caucasian men date asian women simple because they feel its dating out of there race YET since they are white they will be more socially accepted especially within the family. I live in NYC and man do I see nothing but asian and caucasians hanging out/dating all the time. Which brings me to my next piont. I once asked why not caucasian and hispanics...response? Oh! cultural differences. What a load of horse shit! It has nothing to do with culture if anything the asian culture is more strict. I hate to say this BUT I believe it comes down to color, sad.....very sad. I took Japanese class this past semester and alot fo the guys in there were obessed with Asian chicks. Mainly the nerdy ones who can't get enough of Anime and some who are in love with the language. Once again just my two-cents ........ | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/15/2007 10:58:18 PM | One question: I have this friend of mine. He's attractive, tall, in good shape, intelligent and educated, mature, good personality, blah blah blah... He also happens to be Asian. And this friend of mine, he's tried to get a date on this site. But it's been completely useless; utterly dismal failure; women seem unable to care less and there's simply no real indication of attraction or interest from anyone.
Ladies, why do Asian guys get the automatic cold shoulder? Is it all about the schlong? Because I don't have a small-- I mean, this friend of mine doesn't have a small schlong. How do I know? Um, because I peeked under his pants when he was asleep.
*Awaits for everyone to just gloss over my post, indicating yet again how invisible Asian men are in this society, and also how it's such an uncomfortable, unspoken truth that Asian guys are just plain considered undesirables by everyone, including Asian women.* You asswipes. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/15/2007 11:24:08 PM | There is another, perhaps more important question that begs to be answered - Why do Asian women choose to date Caucasian men? Or any men other than Asian men, for that matter? Another question is do the women we are speaking of here include only those whose immediate origin include the Asian countries, or is it any woman of Asian descent who happens to come from ANY country, including the USA?
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I rarely actively participate in any type of forum, this is a personal first to post more than once on any forum other than automotive. In any case, I was drawn to this thread, as I have been seeing a woman of Vietnamese decent, but from Europe, on a non-exclusive basis for several months, and we actually spoke together on this topic a couple of times.
Having dated women of every major skin color, I have found several things to be true. I have nothing to boast or brag of... I, like every other person I've ever known, have my own prejudices and often ill-fitting notions of what others "are like". I have traveled to and spent time in every region in the US, and MY experiences are limited to the US, not the world.
1. In each and every case, it was based on mutual attraction, not because of race.
2. In each and every case, it was the woman's choice. After all, a guy can only ask.
3. In most cases, there was at least some discussion, however brief, on the matter of acceptance of our obvious physical or cultural differences- by friends, family, or society in general.
4. There was only one time where skin color / cultural differences caused the demise of a dating situation. One young woman with cocoa brown skin whom I liked very much... as she was not finished with school yet, she decided (rightfully so) that it was better to have her family continue to support her education and housing than to continue to date a white boy.
Visually, I seem to fit many stereotypes: I often look like some kind of cowboy/redneck/country boy. There are aspects of each that are true. I am a country boy, though I can survive any city. I was an actual cowboy on a bona fide cattle ranch for over a year when I was much younger. I even show some "redneck" traits now and again. For some reason, there seem to be women who are attracted to that, regardless of country of origin or race. And in the interest of getting some, there have been times I've played it to the hilt. After all, horny knows no color, no race.
Funny, though, that while in South Carolina, I saw more mixed-race couples than anywhere else in the US, including California, and to top it off, it was extremely rare that there was even a sideways look, much less a comment - and this general attitude of acceptance from the Deep South? Hmmm.... Maybe a lot of people are simply willing to put aside the prejudices and differences they are taught, exposed to and expected to maintain in exchange for the pursuit of the one that fulfills them.
I'll go even further with this line of thought: there are many women I will go out with (one or more times) that I would NEVER consider taking to meet any of my family. Why? Maybe it's a one-dimensional relationship, i.e. sexual only. Maybe she's fun to out with once every month or two, but only to clubs, etc., because she's truly too unrefined and vulgar to meet my family. On the flip side, there was one young woman I was dating who wanted me to meet her father, and I was hesitant. She was Puerto Rican, and I was concerned about the reason(s) her dad wanted to meet me, especially after hearing from her cousin that the dad was kinda "old school" about men his daughter wanted to date. It went quite well, though, and he liked me well enough, so what was the real problem in that case? My own prejudices.
Again, I've not have the pleasure of really knowing ANYONE from ANY race that did not come packaged with some type of prejudices. Just keep in mind that some of these prejudices are inclusive of, rather than exclusive of. I'd like to see as many women's thoughts on this as possible - after all, they are the ones who are ultimately determining who will be dating whom. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 8/15/2007 11:49:09 PM | There is another, perhaps more important question that begs to be answered - Why do Asian women choose to date Caucasian men? Or any men other than Asian men, for that matter?
No offense, as I can certainly understand your viewpoint as a white male to want to focus on said question. BUT this isn't really an issue that needs to be discussed and answered (again), because it's honestly something that has already been answered and resolved--ad nauseam. There're some very clear and obvious reasons for why white (male) is considered universally attractive. One major reason is that America is the dominating media capital of the world, and America happens to be white. There are others, but it really all comes down to media and societal representations and exposure.
You'll have to admit, it's a bit more of an enigma or unknown quantity when it comes to figuring out just why Asian guys are more-or-less comparatively off-putting to women (not just white, but general) and get less poon on average in this country. Most women will just tell you, "I dunno, I just never found myself attracted to Asians." Not a very satisfactory or specific answer, is it? Well, they're just strange that way. It's understandable for chicks to want men who are taller, or to have package concerns, but that doesn't explain why even the taller Asian guys, and ones with big schlongs (and advertise it), still don't get that much play. So, shoving those points aside for a second, you can therefore just put it all on the look of the face, the usual racial characteristic facial features. Which leads me to my final question (for now): Are women just underexposed to Asian faces, either in positive/sexual media depictions or lack of diversity while growing up, and thus aren't socialized to be attracted to them? OR, are Asians just that plain fugly? | |
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