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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/24/2005 9:09:42 AM | When your mowing the grass it is nice if a lady will bring you a glass of water or cook for you. When you are writing a book, it would be nice if a lady would help you proof read. It would be nice when you go to extremes for her to have her show some gratitude instead of acting like she deserved it. I guess guys like asian ladies becuase thier culture teaches to respect and help her husband and the gratitude that he feels makes it a pleasure for him to go all out in helping her and supporting her so that she can achieve things.
What I'm trying to say is that american men/women tend to be disrespectful, standoffish and selfish. Going to a diffrent culture where arrogance isn't a watchword is refreshing. I would probably not seek out an asian lady to date, because I think there are good people left out there and I'm more interested in finding a lady that really wants a husband for life instead of just someone that wants a mate for a while. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/24/2005 5:40:11 PM | I'm beginning..no wait..I already hate this thread so much. Yet, I keep coming back for more. It's a like a train wreck you can't turn away from. Same with that other Asian thread. PSHH PFFFFF yeah..WHATEV!
I won't even bother tell you WHY I hate it...just believe that it's worth hating. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/25/2005 12:08:15 AM | | Compared to many years ago, Asian women are becoming more agressive and are actively seeking Caucasian men. In essense the Asian woman would be the one picking up the Caucasian man. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/27/2005 12:28:13 AM | | Some men are just attracted to asain women...thats all there is to it. I'm attracted to asain women, and i think most of the men in here are also, because if they weren't then they wouldnt be reading the forum. I don't just like asain women, I also like the culture...but i also hate american culture. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/28/2005 4:08:06 PM | | I can't say for everyone, but I have dated only asain women years and its because (for me at least) I wanted to be with the most beautiful, gracefull, and eclectic woman I could find. Ove the years I have found asian women possess these qualities innately...about a 9/10 ratio I would say, so maybe theres other reasons for different peaple but for me at least I wanted the absolute best in the world and I think asian women are the way to go :) | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/28/2005 4:37:06 PM | Here in the Silicon Valley there seems to be an abundance of White guys with Asian women and the only reason is that the Asian females are tiny, submissive and make the so-called men (sarcastically) (tho not all) feel like men as they seem to cater to all their wishes during courtship and most of the time during marriage due to culture (usually 1st generation and those that came from Asian countries). THey come from another culture that promotes male dominance but that also seems to be fading in those countries. I was dumped by my ex hubby of 20+ yrs for an Asian as she gave him the looks and words he wanted to hear which I would not tell him unless disearved. How could I be like her when I knew HIS HISTORY. What I became at the end of that marriage was not only my fault but his as well. So I tend to have prejudices due to being a casuality of one of these mixes of culture.
Lordie! I tried to be nice but I was not going to be pushed to the ground like dust. I am of Czech blood and we as a nationality are rebels, verbal and agressive (you see I am catagorizing my nationality as well, tit for tat) so in the long run I am no competition for the Eastern female and a male who has issues with his masculinity who prefers them!
SIDENOTE: As it turned out the Asian who stole my ex, got dumped as well as later in their relationship she showed her true colors as well......she wanted citizenship thru marriage. This also happened to another friend of ours only that friend married her and is now miserable. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/29/2005 5:46:16 AM | | Hippychech I have to disagree with you. There are many Immigrants in the U.S. from several countries who do this. Just not Asians. A lot of Russian women do this also. And not all Asian women are submissive. If you went on to submissive web sites. YTou wouls see it dominated by white women. So you are just genralizing women. I think your just hurt because of what your ex did to you. And we all get hurt by this. I think he would of cheated any way because thats the way he is. It didn't matter what race the women would be. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/29/2005 9:52:58 AM | of course it hurt me.....and also from knowing other men personally who have selected Asians as wives etc, my ex is not the only one I know who chose a more submissive Asian. But think of it this way why does the "Thought" exist if some part of it is not true. If it were not at least a tiny bit true than the thread would of not been written initially.
Yes I am aware of Rthe Russian women as a coworker was so desparate to get married that he'd be looking there. (THis guy was 5'4" and just as wide around with a poor personality so no woman would even look at her so he thought. So this 40yr old guy married a 19 immigrant, such an age difference.) I just think us American women are just more freer or "used to" to doing & verbalizing what we want. The culture is so much different here 7 we have acclimated.
Then I have been told by Asians themselve that these submissive types are only submissive till they catch their man and that was from the horses mouth.
Yes it is things like this that cause prejudice so sadly I don't like feeling like this but its "cause and affect"!~ | |
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| Why Do I See More Ca,,,,addendum
Posted: 7/29/2005 9:56:17 AM | Rocky, I also notice your voting/rating record consists of mostly Asians...does this mean that the initial post was indeed correct......hmmmmmm....so there may be some truth to something here.............. | |
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| Why Do I See More Ca,,,,addendum
Posted: 7/29/2005 10:53:42 AM | OMG....I am laughing so hard now....I even had an Asian employee for 6 years.
Its not being a push over people, she just had learned manners and respect.
She was thankful for the good in her life, just not took it for granted and wanted more.
If you were not appreciative of your hubby, and just belittled him all the time as it sounds like you maybe did, can you blame him for leaving.
respect is a two - way street....it needs to be given , to be gotten ! | |
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| Why Do I See More Ca,,,,addendum
Posted: 7/29/2005 11:02:04 AM | Okay..so my mom left us for a german guy. The german guy knew she was married. So I'm going to come to this conclusion..all german guys like to steel married asian women from their husbands. It happened to my family so there is some truth to it! It gives me all the right to hate all german men of the world!
You get my point...OVER exaggerating...just a bit.
GO ME and my ASIAN brain of submissiveness of fun!!
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| Why Do I See More Ca,,,,addendum
Posted: 7/29/2005 11:08:59 AM | | i love asian girls (ive never dated one but thats not the point) they are calssy, dont get me wrong all women are, but even if they got to the 7 11 they look great, i would love to date an asian girl, they just dont wanna date me. | |
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| Why Do I See More Ca,,,,addendum
Posted: 7/29/2005 11:21:10 AM | Grey Sea...great post...right to the point.
Seriously who cares about nationality...if you are in a relationship , respect and be respected i say.
If you bash me constantly and treat me like gum on the bottom of your shoes, yes i wil tire of it and leave.
If you are nice, please contact me...i coul care less where you live or what nationality you are.
Be it German, Russian, Asian, East Indian, its not the point.
Treat me how you wish to be treated.
I will treat you like a queen only so long, if its met with being a jerk back instead.
She was a great employee, not because she was Asian, but she worked hard, took instructions well, cared about doing a good job, and was thankful she had a good job to go to....I was sad when she quit to move 3,000 miles away because she met her dream guy.
And we still talk frequently, she will be my friend for life i hope.
And in case anyone is curious, she married a (WHITE) university proffesor, and they are expecting their first child soon. | |
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| Why Do I See More Ca,,,,addendum
Posted: 7/29/2005 12:45:46 PM | Desmo,
One can only have sympathy for an alcoholic such as my ex. You try living with an alcoholic then tell me about RESPECT! | |
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| Why Do I See More Ca,,,,addendum
Posted: 7/29/2005 2:02:58 PM | Now I am curious...
How did you handle the whole alcoholism thing. You're right though, Desmo shouldn't assume that you belittled your ex constantly. But to read what you just wrote about not having sympathy and what not..seem like you didn't deny it. I am just assuming...correct me if I'm wrong; however, one does not have to "try living with an alcoholic" to know that there are different ways to cure it. Yelling at someone, calling them a loser--that may just lead to more alcohol. Again..just what I think.
Anyway..with that said..this thread has totally gone off topic.
Since I've been told that I'm pretty "popular" in this thread-have no frickin' clue..probably perhaps there are a lot of old asian ass kissing people here that I have no tolerance for. Okay..just one..but I'm not mentioning any names. What was I saying..oh right..I'm done with this site as you can tell by my profile. I'll be only posting on forums. Sounds like a lot of girls do this..and I use to wonder why...but now I understand. | |
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| Why Do I See More Ca,,,,addendum
Posted: 7/29/2005 3:49:26 PM |
I agree with you Asian women don't care about the money.
I kinda disagree on that one.. Everybody cares about money, some even more than others. Asian women are no exception. | |
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| Why Do I See More Caucasian Men Dating Asian Women?
Posted: 7/29/2005 7:26:50 PM | | A theory I have is that because Asians are kind of considered the model minority in America, if a Caucasian man were to date outside of his own race, he'd feel safer doing so with an Asian woman. | |
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