| Over 30 and still hitting the clubs?
Posted: 6/14/2009 9:32:10 AM | This is a complicated question...
Is she going out every night or just the week ends..
If its just wekends its fine, after all she is a mother and needs the me time
If she is going out during the week then it may be an issue with her relationship.
As for going to a bar there are way more than two reasons...but if she is at home with the kids all the time why would she want to drink at home... | |
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| Over 30 and still hitting the clubs?
Posted: 6/14/2009 2:06:37 PM |
Yes, and you see no correlation that you have your boobies all out and are half naked in your profile pic, have no kids, are 30, are single, yet defending the stance on a scenario that doesnt apply to you.
This statement gets the prize for women-hating redneck statement of the month. | |
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| Over 30 and still hitting the clubs?
Posted: 6/15/2009 12:31:43 AM | | some(women and men both)do it to keep that young feeling.some do it because they like.some it seems are addicted to it.as long as theres no cheating why not. | |
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| Over 30 and still hitting the clubs?
Posted: 6/15/2009 1:59:44 AM | | Op, I think you are far too judgemental, and it's awful to be told that after a certain age you're too "old" to do anything. Age is a state of mind and you sound narrow minded and about 80. | |
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| Over 30 and still hitting the clubs?
Posted: 6/15/2009 5:51:48 AM | | iv just read your post and to be honest i think that is really silly, my mum is 40 years old and she can dance me off the dance floor ... i think you can never be to old to go out, you might not belive this but were i live their is 2 night clubs and my grandma has been out with be a few times. yes i agree with you some what, if shes out most nights then tbh i think she might be getting bored. she might need some space and time out. but i aslo think you are being hypercritical, you never to old to go out and enjoy you life while youv still got it. | |
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| Over 30 and still hitting the clubs?
Posted: 6/15/2009 6:44:51 AM | Actually I wanted to agree with you one several parts of this, but when I realized that you were just doing what you were accusing me of, I changed my mind. Also, I do not "think" I am better than them. I know it. You are speculating on a situation you have little evidence concerning, other than the tidbits that I gave you, yet it hasn't stopped you from speaking to me with delusions of grandeur that you have some keen insight as to who I am. You wouldn't happen to know something I don't do you?
Also, before you attempt to speak condescendingly to an individual, you should comprehend the terminology before you use it as if it were always a part of your repertoire.
This is not an attempt to understand her Psyche. Everything I've stated here is on the forefront of her behavioral patterns.
You really know that you are arguing just to argue when you are defending a person you know nothing about, aside from the few things I stated. What is it with this site? It seems that if one can not be snippy, or snide when they give their advice, they feel of little worth. What ever I said to you miss, or did to offend you I am sorry. Also, stop personalizing. It is not my fault that you are still hitting clubs with no luck. | |
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| Over 30 and still hitting the clubs?
Posted: 6/15/2009 6:46:37 AM | I never went to the clubs several nights week even before I got married and had a child.
To me, if someone feels compelled to go that often, they are getting something out of it, that is lacking in thier life? Like attention or something? I dont know, I dont understand it myself...also could not afford to live the way I do and go clubbing all the time.
My g/f's and I head out dancing probably 4-5 times a year. Thats enough for me. I enjoy many things-most of which dont happen inside a club.
I dont think there is an age where it becomes unacceptable-I would just expect someone my age to have better things to do with thier time and money is all.
If a couple isnt doing these things as a couple, I would be pretty concerned. | |
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| Over 30 and still hitting the clubs?
Posted: 6/15/2009 7:10:02 AM | I disagree with you brown-eyed-woman
I go to few a bars/clubs where the majority of the crowd is 40+(closer to 50 in some cases) and they have a great time. The same faces can be seem quite often. These people are generally affluent too so they obviously could be doing some better with their time I guess? | |
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| Over 30 and still hitting the clubs?
Posted: 6/15/2009 7:15:27 AM | | Most of the events I've attended, whether POF or otherwise, are at clubs, and the majority of the people are not only over 30, but over 50, 60, 70, even 80. On the other hand, as far as I know, most of them are single, not married. I tend to agree a young married woman and mother going out A LOT isn't a good sign, for her, her marriage or her children, but I do NOT agree clubs are only for people younger than 30. | |
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