| | Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?Page 10 of 14 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14) | | it turns me on to hear the man moaning and groaning because i always loved giving blow jobs since the age of 17.i love to act like a porn star and get as much as i can in my mouth.sorry i am demented in some ways.lol.i love to see how hard he can get while im sucking him. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/30/2010 7:15:14 AM | | I find it arouses me to know I am giving my partner pleasure. Sometimes it can be stimulating for a woman, playing with a man's penis is very fun. You can roll it around, lick it, play with his nuts, do different things. I'm sure men feel that same way about oral pleasure on a woman, the knowledge that you can arouse your partner, and explore their regions. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/30/2010 8:23:02 AM | I wonder if men who have never experienced a woman who enjoys pleasuring her man lack something in THEIR technique or knowledge.
When a couple is having great sex - both are usually into giving and receiving and enjoy it.
When the sex is not good, you just don't get the above. That's not to say that something else might be missing. Often, when a woman is not satisfied, she will not be "into" sex. I'm not laying blame, but when a sex life is not good for both parties, one person suffers and slowly begins to lose interest.
When I was young, oral sex wasn't that big a thing. Since discovering my own sexuality, that has changed and giving is just as fun as receiving. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/30/2010 11:57:58 AM | ^^^^^^ Uhhhh, that'd encompass about one-third of the women in the US. You do know that the digestive process begins in the mouth, saliva working on, breaking down stuff, right? You might make it to Florida, but that last of your johnson woulda probably vanished at the Kentucky line.  | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/30/2010 4:40:10 PM |
I'm sure men feel that same way about oral pleasure on a woman, the knowledge that you can arouse your partner, and explore their regions.
Sure enough! I don't think I posted on the thread about what constitutes great sex, but enthusiasm about bring pleasure to each other and thus to ourselves is certainly a major factor. Two huge turn ons for me are helping my partner writhe in pleasure and her being genuinely excited by the prospect of doing the same for me.
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/21/2010 1:44:04 PM |
Because it tastes good and it gives me a good sensation in my mouth and throat, especially the creamy surprise at the end
Yeah baby..women who feel that way..rock!  
Any woman who appreciates how I make them feel (which I thoroughly enjoy doing), by returning of the favor..that is a good thing. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/23/2010 3:29:48 AM |
Because it tastes good and it gives me a good sensation in my mouth and throat, especially the creamy surprise at the end
I think I know someone who just earned a whole lot of views on her profile.
Maybe it has something to do with that whole horse fascination girls have when
they are young. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/23/2010 3:43:42 AM | Not sure what planet your on but in my experiences...most arent sure of doing it....have known some who like what I call the power of pleasure....being able to give a guy good pleasure...and some never have done oral till I did it to them...then they were game and enjoyed it immensely....its what I call..if done correctly...a deep and enjoyable experience for both.... | |
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Posted: 6/23/2010 4:01:19 AM | For you ladies who like to do this, the point is, you are not sexually, physically getting any sexual stimulation, or real physical sexual pleasure from giving men this. I still do NOT understand why any woman would do this. Men just want to use us anyway for physical pleasure and not give us any physical pleasure or a real relationship. I do not see the point of you ladies who continue to pleasure men this way. Just because you are doing this, will not make a man love and care about you. They are only using you, and you get nothing pleasurable in return that you desire. I do not understand after reading all this crap why you ladies continue to do this crap. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/23/2010 6:53:48 AM |
I do not understand after reading all this crap why you ladies continue to do this crap.
You say you read "this crap," but I can't see how that's possible. Some women are saying they find it arousing and pleasurable to give a blowjob and that's why we continue to do it. How can you not understand that? Why does it make you angry that other women get pleasure from something just because you don't enjoy it? That's very confusing to me. | |
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Posted: 6/23/2010 7:15:06 AM |
I do not understand after reading all this crap why you ladies continue to do this crap.
You know Cat..you are really weird.
Anyone with any time reading here, will surely find out how much you detest oral sex.
And, you **** and moan on every thread about how YOU hate it..AND THEN..always state how it is your right to post how you hate oral sex, and if you get hate mail, you'll report the poster for it.
But, that doesn't stop you from chiding others who LIKE it, does it?
You want YOUR cake and eat it too. Doesn't work that way..understand?
Do you dress like your photos all the time? | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/23/2010 3:48:47 PM | You do know that the digestive process begins in the mouth, saliva working on, breaking down stuff, right? You might make it to Florida, but that last of your johnson woulda probably vanished at the Kentucky line.
That's not... really... how it works... You know the fluids in the vagina are much more acidic than saliva, right?
For you ladies who like to do this, the point is, you are not sexually, physically getting any sexual stimulation, or real physical sexual pleasure from giving men this. I still do NOT understand why any woman would do this. Men just want to use us anyway for physical pleasure and not give us any physical pleasure or a real relationship. I do not see the point of you ladies who continue to pleasure men this way. Just because you are doing this, will not make a man love and care about you. They are only using you, and you get nothing pleasurable in return that you desire. I do not understand after reading all this crap why you ladies continue to do this crap.
I can't for the life of me make sense of this. Although I see a lot of bitterness... apparently men don't like you or something... I don't understand why you're projecting this onto anyone else... people who have fulfilling relationships with their partners and enjoy working to please each other. Other people do have people that care about them. And they do have people they care about. Your miserable relationship history doesn't reflect everyone else's.
Edit: errr... okay I clicked your profile and kind of understand now why you might be bitter. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/25/2010 7:16:21 AM | " I still do NOT understand why any woman would do this. Men just want to use us anyway for physical pleasure and not give us any physical pleasure or a real relationship. "
From my experience the women with this thought process have trauma from childhood sexual abuse.
If I had been force to eat my aunt out as a boy I'm sure I would hate giving oral too and not be able to understand it outside the context of being "used". I doubt there is any way to really get past that.
The woman who REALLY love to give head are the opposite direction. I never met one who didn't also like to cook and try to feed you in the same manner. I think its kind of an insecurity with keeping a guy happy and around when younger that over time turns into a fetish for themselves. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/25/2010 1:59:23 PM | I've been reading through this thread. All this talk about power and domination and blah blah blah. I dont really put that much thought into why something feels good. It's either working for me or not working for me.
I am curious enough to have tried many things that just didnt work for me. Okay now I know, glad I tried it once (or twice, hehe.)
The upside is that a lot of that did work for me.
I suppose I enjoy it because I think a healthy penis is a beautiful thing. Just touching it is highly arousing. When it responds to me, like whoa, fun! It's not about power, its about awe, I guess. What a cool thing it is. I dont have any body parts that act that way! Think about everything a penis does. It really IS an amazing organ. I've always thought God is an artist.
Look at the shape of it. Now look at the inside of your mouth. It's the perfect shape! Makes sense to me.
Power schmower. Who cares who's on top if it feels that good?
I must specify that my feelings for the the man attached to it is crucial. I have no interest in performing oral sex on someone I do not care deeply for. That is the key. If I'm into him I cant keep my lips off him. If I'm not into him, it's never going to happen. I'm just not going to be awestruck by every penis I encounter. Please for the love of all that is holy do not start sending me dicpics. Thanks in advance. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/26/2010 7:57:35 PM | And on the other hand... Friday I was seeing a guy for lunch time sex and we are casual and have been together casually a long time. I want more, he doesn't. I've told him I might start dating otehr guys because of this. I'm too tired of feeling frustrated, jealous, etc.
Anyway, I went on a "meet" w/a guy last week and it went well so I told my casual guy thurs night that Friday might be one of our last times together, if I end up dating the new guy. I alsot old him I was going to fvk his brains out since I wasn't going to get to be w/him much longer...
So friday arrives, we meet up... And he pretty quickly takes the lead, the power position, so that he is the one doing the fcking... And quite frankly it felt impersonal compared to our usual joining. Was this becasue he was losing me? I don't know. But it pissed me off. I have also told him if he asks me to stay I will. I don't want to leave, but I"m frustrated and don't know what else to do.
So...after he took the power position (literally, it was like missionary, him over me, rather than me on top, except he was verticalish and I was horizonal), I decided it was my turn to take back control. LOL
Normally we dont' get into these little games at all and it was NOT conscious on my part and maybe or maybe not on his.
So...when there was a bit of a pause, I said wait a sec, and slid down the sofa to the floor, took him in my mouth, and proceeded to give it an d give it good... :) After 2 years of being together, I know exactly what he likes and how. And I didn't let up til he was ready to cum. Was a dam& good bj if you ask me (or him). He asked to cum on my face and I said yes....you could call this his power play in return for my making him cum on command (the bj) but since he knows how much it turns me on as well, I don't know if it was that or not...
I figure, he tried to be in control of his pleasure (and mine) by fcking me...so I turned around and instead fvked him with my mouth. lol
Haven't had a chance to talk to him since then, will be very interesting to see what his take on our lunch together was.
I *think* he was trying to make it more impersonal and with him in control b/c of the fact that I'm leaving him...and I don't want it to be easy on him...I wasn't about to let him feel disconnected from me. I wanted it to be as personal as possible. Because he knows this isn't something I really want to do.
Ay yi yi....I wish relationships could be simple...
Anyway...sometimes yeah a BJ is most def a time when the chick is in control. LOL | |
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