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The woman who REALLY love to give head are the opposite direction. I never met one who didn't also like to cook and try to feed you in the same manner. I think its kind of an insecurity with keeping a guy happy and around when younger that over time turns into a fetish for themselves.
Oh good lord.......an insecurity turned into a fetish??!!.
How about you just read all the comments from the women that explain why they love giving oral........instead of making crap up!!
We love giving oral......because we love the control we have over our man's pleasure.....and we love being able to give him toe curling, legs trembling, moan our names orgasms. We love the feel, the taste and the texture of a man's penis sliding in our mouth. We love making him hard.....and we love to make him throb.
We don't feel "used" or "degraded" when we are doing something we love to do.
We are not insecure......actually the complete opposite.
We do not consider it a "chore" to do to keep our man.
And I guarantee you.......any woman that feels tht ^^ way......isn't giving good head! | |
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Posted: 6/27/2010 8:14:14 PM | | ^^^^^ What she said. I think that kind of thinking reveals some very negative ideas about sex. Good sex is about give and take, good communication, pleasing your partner and allowing them to please you. Good sex requires you to feel good about yourself and all your body parts, good about your partner and all your body parts. It is not denigrating. I *never* do anything I don't want to do. Ever. And I would not expect my partner to do something they don't want to do, either. It's supposed to be fun and if it isn't, don't be doing it. That said, if our preferences were incompatible, then we aren't going to stay together. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2011 3:44:37 PM | It is way more complicated than that it mainly has to do with the human's or mental state, the deal is that the chick doesn't get pregnant that way and does not have to deal with other biological issues, "being clean inside" there doctors tell them this all the time and give them the tools to do so and all that.
It is a lot harder for a girl to have sex than a guy!
Also there is the satisfaction that she had got her guy off good personally I don't really care for a blow job it is just not satisfactory I just like banging my girlfreind properly and getting the job done whether she likes getting off totally or not I don't let my girl try to restrict what is natural as that is just not natural besides they need to release the stress just like any guy and makes them more stable, bottling that stuff up and then trying to contain there hormones is all bad "The nag syndrome" like for real.
Anal is really gross it makes me gag , I'm gaging right now think about fecal matter, plaugghhh that was the puke that just came out of my mouth. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2011 8:28:36 PM | I've met plenty who want very little to do with it.
All of sex is one big joke on mankind. We do the most ridiculous crazy things in search of physical pleasure, giving it, getting it.
I think the pleasure of performing fellatio is a mixed bag of reasoning. There probably is the latent infantile sucking pleasure. Many people have oral fixations. There is the power turn on of causing a change in a man, causing him to feel pleasure, being the reason for his temporary insanity. There is the playfulness of it, the experimentation of differences in men. I am sure there is a brain chemical response, as he puts out pheremones, she receives. There is the pleasure of pleasuring your lover. There is association, a visual of a hard erection that has pornographic stimulation.
But really, why fuss over the question. You like or love it or take it or leave it or hate it or need it or cream your panties over it. It's not something to reason out, just something to do or not do.
I do, with whom I desire, and NOT with whom I don't. Obviously, it's not pleasurable nor stimulating when with the wrong man. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2011 8:37:22 PM | | To the person asking this question. That is a very good question. Now I will read the replies. I know, I would never understand why any woman would find this stimulating. I would never do this. It is degrading and there is no physical pleasure reward from this or any reward from doing that. | |
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Posted: 8/26/2011 12:58:09 AM |
I read this thread, because I still can NOT understand how any woman would or could find this activity "stimulating. ." I read these "oral" threads trying to get understanding as to why would any sane person do this and actually like this. I still do not understand. I do understand different strokes for different folks.
If you DO understand the different strokes concept, then why do you keep bringing up how you DONT understand? Which is it?
And most importantly, why do you need to understand it? That's what I don't understand.  | |
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Posted: 8/26/2011 3:30:35 AM | It is degrading and there is no physical pleasure reward from this or any reward from doing that.
I find it disturbing that someone calls someone else, who happens to like oral sex, as someone who either likes to be degraded, or likes to degrade someone they are giving oral sex to.
There certainly IS a 'physical pleasure reward' in oral sex, giving and receiving.
However, I find it amusing that people dress up like a Grade B movie remake of Conan the Barbarian. What physical pleasure rewards are there in doing that?
Oh, they like it?
Hmm, well, maybe those who participate in oral sex...LIKE IT! | |
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Posted: 8/26/2011 4:24:20 AM |
If you think about it, there is no physical reason for a woman to be aroused by giving a blowjob, any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.
I think there is a big difference.I`ve never heard a big sausage moan...... | |
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Posted: 8/26/2011 6:35:37 AM |
If you think about it, there is no physical reason for a woman to be aroused by giving a blowjob, any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.
The difference is that it's NOT a sausage. It's a penis. A very lovely penis. One belonging to a man I really like.
Again, it is partially about giving him pleasure, feeling good about how he feels. And partially about loving ON his penis. The way it feels in my mouth, my hand, the texture of it. It feels good, it feels pleasurable, and it does NOT feel like a sausage, omg... It is a turn on in and of itself.
There are times, i swear, that I will love on my guy's penis for MY pleasure only. It is incidental that he is pleasured as well. Of course I wouldn't do it if he disliked it, duh. But that's not why I'm down there. I'm down there for me.
I know i'm not like *every* female, but I'm not the only one at all. And guys, you do play a part in this. Make lovemaking about more than just in and out the p*ssy. Make it playful. Foreplay isn't just for the beginning. If you are comfortable licking and touching her body all over, she will be the same way. It might take time, it's not gonna be a one night stand, but if she's open and totally into your body, she'll get there. And if you are comfortable asking her to touch you and suck you then that will help her to enjoy it. And if you praise her, that helps. And if you give her direction, that helps A LOT. I know for me, knowing that I am it "right" makes me a lot more willing to put myself out there and try new things. And then the next time we are together, it's not as "new" and it's more fun and enjoyable...etc..
Come on, this isn't rocket science, folks. Dont' assume a woman is a "prude" and she'll never love yoru body. If you love your body, she will too. If you are comfortable with your body, she will be too. Again, might take a bit of work and time if she's not already "there", but she'll get there.
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Posted: 8/26/2011 2:41:00 PM | It just occurred to me reading this old thread that men must REALLY trust women. The 'family jewels' being in VERY close proximity to the TEETH of someone that they may not know very well at all.
The fact that we can give pleasure or pain might be behind the arousal. | |
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Posted: 12/1/2011 3:10:43 PM | Going back to the original question...
It turns me on in a huge way. My favorite thing to do in the bedroom (truthfully!). I love hearing the sounds of pleasure from the man. It's especially pleasurable when the man is playing with you while you are going to town. It makes me a happy camper! lol | |
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Posted: 12/1/2011 7:20:48 PM | | Totally agree. In fact I think I probably get more of a turn on out of performing oral sex on a woman than when she is pleasuring me. Although a hot 69 is probably the best, giving and getting pleasure at the same time. My ex was a tall gal and just the right "measurement" for me and some of the best sex we ever had was mutual oral. | |
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Posted: 12/1/2011 10:24:15 PM | ^^^I always feel that is very dirty to have blowjob to husband and i think there will be some bacterium came into mouth?
The mouth already has millions of bacteria – hundreds of different kinds. The penis only has a few. We don’t go around touching things with our penis. If the penis was really that dirty, would a woman want one in the vagina? | |
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Posted: 12/2/2011 12:53:30 AM | | Lol...interesting question...well I haven't done it for all my ex's but I guess it may have something to do with the pleasing your partner thing ...not sure really!! I'm curious ...why didn't you ask your gf's?? Why don't you try and come back and give your opinion :) | |
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Posted: 12/2/2011 1:05:36 AM | To the person asking this question. That is a very good question. Now I will read the replies. I know, I would never understand why any woman would find this stimulating. I would never do this. It is degrading and there is no physical pleasure reward from this or any reward from doing that.
Wow!!! Degrading?? That's interesting......i'm wondering since you think it is so "degrading" if you allow or ask him to go down on you?? Because wouldn't that be a double standard?? Also just because you don't condone something is no reason to judge other's. Just because YOU can't or don't want to do it for your partner...there are those of us who are turned on by doing something to please our partner...and of course once he's happy then i'm going to be VERY happy!!!  | |
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Posted: 12/2/2011 4:31:10 AM |
In fact, i can't imagine how blowjob feels. I always feel that is very dirty to have blowjob to husband and i think there will be some bacterium came into mouth?
Says the Chinese lady who has a stolen picture for her profile.
TinEye shows it plastered in four different places on the internet.
Here's one;
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Have anymore scams going lav li ? | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 12/25/2011 11:33:37 PM | it is simple.
If you really love him or just really like him a lot and I hope it is one of the two since you are having sex with him, but, if you do, then how could you not get turned on?
I mean, here is the man's penis in your mouth, If you start when he is not hard, it grows in your mouth by the stimulation you provide. When I feel his big hard member in my mouth, I imagine how damn good it will feel inside me.
Just a sausage or banana in my mouth is NOT arousing, it is a part of the man I want to be with.
not arousing, just cute, but you asked.
they didn't have a sausge, so I used the banana: | |
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