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 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 301
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its hot to have something long and hard in your mouth and something that will explode on the inside of your mouth
its just hot to suck on something
 FixedVariable
Joined: 10/17/2010
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/29/2012 5:07:53 PM
If I knew, I'd tell you.

My suspicion is that knowing how much fun he is having has a lot to do with her arousal. My own experiences tell me that ain't the whole story, but it's definitely part of it.
 lovinlacrosse
Joined: 2/11/2011
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/29/2012 6:36:06 PM
Hope no one judges me. I'm gay, but I definitely love giving a bj. Love seeing the look on his face and pleasing him. I love the reward at the end, and always swallow.
 ezman2plz
Joined: 12/20/2011
Msg: 304
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/29/2012 6:42:25 PM
I agree with fixed, its that way, the other way around too!
 graytemplesandeyes
Joined: 3/14/2012
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/30/2012 11:17:36 PM
I think at least a small part of it for women is that at some time in their lives, providing sexual pleasure for the guy in the traditional way, carried some concern of pregnancy. That was especially true when they were the most fertile and so it made for a challenge to be uninhibited.

Providing oral, or receiving it took away that possibility. The sex could go on for as long as possible, with as much creativity as possible, and so the control is doubled. First the lady gets maximum control over her guy's pleasure, and secondly, she had this without any working about conception occurring.

For any of us who get great enjoyment from providing that great pleasure, the opportunity to be totally focused on that task, with nothing to sidetrack that endeavor, only adds to the fun and fulfillment.
 Sportsfreak89
Joined: 12/28/2010
Msg: 306
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/30/2012 11:20:00 PM
I was completely unaware that there were that many women who do find it stimulating.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 307
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/31/2012 12:03:53 AM
OP - HUH ???



why would men find it arousin 2 go DOWN on a woman ?







for the pleasure/ego of satisfying a partner....







ie


knowing that I can satisfy most/all/any woman I am with sexually whether via intercourse, orally and/or anything else is a MAJOR turnon....
 bbwiam
Joined: 11/18/2011
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/31/2012 12:14:19 AM
Being able to give your Man all the pleasure is such a turn on... I will do anything
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 309
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/31/2012 6:12:53 AM
When you have someone's genitals in your mouth, you pretty much own 'em- the genitals AND the human.
Besides, pretty much all your senses come into play when you mouth your partner. It's, well, sweeeeet.
 indigotwo
Joined: 2/15/2010
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/31/2012 8:10:37 AM
I never used to enjoy giving a BJ but with my last partner I really did! It was just so smooth and clean, so lovely to lick and suck! I got some good techniques on line and tried them on him - he loved it! Hard to explain but felt so good to give him pleasure too.
 dulyman
Joined: 1/26/2012
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/31/2012 8:54:32 AM
chemistry whoremons and the promas of a erect penis when I get a bj it make me want inercouse
 indigotwo
Joined: 2/15/2010
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/31/2012 10:00:39 AM
dulyman, surely you mean 'hormones', 'promise' and 'intercourse'?!
 wildlifelover1979
Joined: 2/11/2011
Msg: 313
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/31/2012 10:02:51 AM
Stimulating? What stimulating? blowjobs? what blowjobs? LOL! Seriously I can't find a single woman who will do that for her man. They all say it is gross, discusting and it doesn't turn them on. They say it turns them off and makes them not want to have sex. But then again most of my community is mostly religious women from different christian denominations.
 bbbbala
Joined: 2/13/2009
Msg: 314
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 4/4/2012 2:18:51 PM
wish u lived in canada lol
 Mfforal3
Joined: 4/25/2010
Msg: 315
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 4/4/2012 3:01:26 PM
Creating pleasure for your partner at hand can be a turn on for most peeps. Just as I get rock hard by orally and phalangesly pleasuring a woman. The sounds of her pleasure, the goosebumps created, the arching of her back, and the shaking of her legs after an intense Orgasm is a great turn on.... So I can understand the female being turn on by giving oral...

Cheers!
 imtrue2heart
Joined: 3/25/2012
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 4/4/2012 3:12:37 PM
the pleasure is in GIVING pleasure.. It is for the same reasons why men absolutely LOVE to give oral sex to their woman. watching a woman squirm, groan and violently climax before even removing your pants is extreamly satisfying!!
 chatindude
Joined: 3/4/2012
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Posted: 4/4/2012 3:25:35 PM
We men find it very stimulating to go down on women too! I enjoy there loss of control.
 RedElectric
Joined: 11/8/2011
Msg: 318
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 4/4/2012 5:30:08 PM
"We might be on our knees, but we got him by the balls."
-Samantha Jones, S&TC
 Italianpaul1258
Joined: 11/28/2011
Msg: 319
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 4/5/2012 8:07:48 PM
Well some women think the bigger it is the hard it will be to suck on but hey ull **** it befor putting it in your mouth. Hey I say ladies suck away
 Elgalawaat
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 4/5/2012 10:12:06 PM
It is the same way we enjoy giving her oral. Seeing the emotion on her face and how she open her mouth. The way she pays with her finger tips in my head. It is the joy you receive from the fact that your partner is aroused and happy. I never ejaculated giving oral. My experience tells me give her a good oral and she becomes totally submissive and willing to do any thing.
 PartPopsicle
Joined: 8/22/2012
Msg: 321
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 12/16/2012 11:44:49 PM
The joy and thrill of turning a man on not very popular with a lot of the ladies I see. lol Why am I not surprised? If money is involved then it's all about it.
 KER6969
Joined: 12/16/2012
Msg: 322
Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 12/19/2012 7:55:59 AM
Because it's controlling a partner's pleasure and seeing and hearing that pleasure is erotic!! That's why it's a turn on for me to give.
 lonelyheart04
Joined: 9/10/2009
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 12/20/2012 6:42:51 PM
i believe that they get aroused because they are giving pleasure to someone...i know that is a big turn on for me...to know that i am giving someone pleasure...
 CNJSWP
Joined: 8/26/2012
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 12/28/2012 7:24:18 AM
I would think the stimulation a woman would get from giving a BJ would be more mental which would lead to something physical. I know for me, when i go down on a woman it's no the act that makes me feel good, it's mental from watching her facial & body expressions as well as the thought of pleasing her, that makes me physically aroused.
 KatieVN
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Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 12/29/2012 5:09:48 PM
OP asks why a lot of women like it, yet I hear more stories about lots that don't. Either they're immature and think it's gross; or they don't have any true interest in pleasing their man. In either case they're both pathetic reasons!

I must admit that it's probably my favorite thing to do for my man. When I enjoy it he can really feel that energy; just as most guys can tell when a girl is really into (or not into) what she's sucking on. If you don't like it or aren't good at it, don't do it, you're (sort of) ruining it for the poor guy.

When he's happy, I'm ridiculously turned on.
I think the ladies that don't partake in bj's are just being selfish - my opinion.
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