| | Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?Page 2 of 14 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14) | | I'm with goodguydave but to answer the sausage question. Can a store bought sausage expand and contract in and of itself. Is it self warming? Can it be "eaten" more than once and yet come back for more? Have you ever seen a sausage that provides its own mayonnaise? Sausages are just stuffed pieces of meat. When a lady gets through with my sausage she can use it to stuff herself. LOL | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 8:47:39 PM | | I think the bigger question might be how many times did it take you to figure out it was arousing? Did you get the right encouragment, was it from mass media? did your girlfriends tell you it was the right thing to do? obviously sometimes things don't go quite right, did you give up after the first time? | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 8:59:35 PM | | sex is significantly psychological, I agree with alot of what women have posted here. It's totally NOT submissive at all, though the opposite, because when you are in the throes of being pleasured you're vulnerable and totally at the mercy of the one giving you pleasure. It is SO hot to see a man you're with writing and breathless. And provided he's clean the penis actually tastes pretty good, like all skin. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 9:11:47 PM | You do realize the same can be reversed and turned on men?
Either way I would hope the answer is obvious. You enjoy giving excitement to your partner, and therefore give excitement to you. It's incredibly fun to be able to be on the "giving" side of the fence and watching your actions create mind-boggling pleasure for your partner.
Next time you give oral on someone who isn't just a guy you picked up on the streets (not saying you do) and is probably going to mean something to you watch his reaction and tell me you don't get joy from knowing you caused that. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/10/2009 9:24:01 PM |
For a period of time they get the pleasure of knowing they are in control of his pleasure...
Not only does she know this, but he knows it too
and for some strange reason, many people like helping a partner achieve the heights of ectasy.
I would think that any person would like helping their partner achieve heights of ecstasy. Perhaps this is not important if its just a fvck, but if you are making love to someone, their pleasure is as important if not more so than your own. At my age,
Blowjobs are an incredibly intimate and erotic way to accomplish this...
I think the sensation of a limp pen1s going from flaccid to fully erect just with just oral contact is highly erotic. Of course feeling a man's member get hard from the touch of my lips is incredibly arousing.
whether it be between his legs (only he is getting satisfied), T-boned off to the side (gotta love the ability to caress and play with her erogenous zones, or 69 (where we get to be fully involved with reciprocating at the exact same moment)
Of course all three ways are erotic but oh so different. Personally, I find 69 to be too distracting. I prefer to be able focus fully on him or he on me. I can't do it justice if he is going down on me at the same time. T-boning I can handle.
Whether you consider it pleasuring, being in control, or simply fulfilling his need to be adored, it's good. When isn't it good? I can tell you when it isn't good for me. It isn't good for me when I don't care for the man. I won't do it unless I have strong feelings for the man in question. What a wonderful concept, using this gift to show a man he is adored. I like this thought. I have often felt it was worshipping a man with your mouth, but I like the concept of adoration better. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/11/2009 6:34:44 AM | Lets see... what is there not to like?
Love the taste of his skin, having him in my mouth. Its probably that it is such an intimate part of him and I get to please him.
I just love every aspect of it, how every lick brings a reaction and a moan. The reaction that he has to my body, and the fact that I can fully satisfy him in such an intimate erotic way.
I'd have to say giving head is by far my favorite thing to do with a man, I absolutely love it! | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/11/2009 6:47:29 AM | Giving a man oral pleasure is hardly what I'd compare to "having a sausage in your mouth"...I chew sausage LOL! Can anyone say ouch?
Not sure what the turn on is, except it probably has something to do with the idea that I'm fascinated with the male genitalia and I love making it beg at my command LOL! So fun!
And knowing that your partner is having ultimate sexual pleasure is big time erotic...it's very fulfilling to watch his reactions.
I'll have my sausage on a bun with some saurkraut please...I'll have my penis on the side with a hunk of awesome man, thanks. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/11/2009 7:18:30 AM |
If I lived closer2u......and didn't already have a man who loves getting head.....you'd be in BIG TROUBLE MISTER! LOL Don't fret.....
that is the type of trouble I like. LOL
Why is it....I have to ask, that we have to get ours FIRST...or typically, not at all after we blow a man's socks off? When I am done pleasing him.....I need a good fvcking!And he's in a damn coma!
I'd say most men need a minute or two just for the oh god that was great factor but if I got mine first I am always more than willing to reciprocate rather I am still horny or not. It is only fair  | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/11/2009 7:35:00 AM |
I'd say most men need a minute or two just for the oh god that was great factor but if I got mine first I am always more than willing to reciprocate rather I am still horny or not. It is only fair.
PASS THAT ALONG to all men...will ya?
Nothing like a man who understands the concept of reciprocity! | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 7:47:10 AM | If you think about it, there is no physical reason for a woman to be aroused by giving a blowjob, any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.
So why do women become so aroused giving blowjobs?
OP,
Knowing that you have control over him for that specific moment is what really makes it worth while for me. Plus if a guy has been getting bad head his entire life, I always like to prove the fact that not all women are terrible at it, haha. To quote my favorite line from one of the best shows ever on tv, "If women could perpetually give blow jobs to every man on earth, we'd rule the world." | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/11/2009 9:05:23 AM | A woman that knows what she is doing orally can control about anything she wants to dealing with her man, just as a man that knows how to make love and please his woman will have her attention and desire, much more then she ever realized......
And here I thought women already ruled the world, just let men think that they did...... Giving head is one thing, but knowing how to do it well, and enthusiastically, is totally different, and trust me, most of us know the difference.
Just like getting laid is wonderful, but getting laid by someone that is awesome at it, and you enjoy from head to foot, can and does make all the difference in the world about your attitude and desire for that act and person.
What becomes very difficult is when you really care about someone, love them, desire them, etc., and they are not very good in bed, or not as enthusiastic about it, as you are, and teaching them just does not bring them around because it just is not in their makeup to be that way, and you sit there wondering what to do.
If one has above normal desires, needs, and abilities in bed, but their partner does not, it can be a significant dilemma for all involved, especially when you care so much for them and all their other good qualities.
Just my opinion.........   | |
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HSJS
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/11/2009 10:16:24 AM |
If you think about it, there is no physical reason for a woman to be aroused by giving a blowjob, any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.
So why do women become so aroused giving blowjobs?
(And don't tell me they don't!)
OP you seem a bit cynical about fellatio. Maybe you do not have a concept of what eroticism is or means. Many sexual people are very aroused, not only by receiving pleasure, but also by giving pleasure. Many times giving pleasure can evoke a torrent of sexual excitation, as much as receiving pleasure can.
Remember the Christmas admonition, and apply it to the giving of sexual plasure; “It is better to give than it is to receive." | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/11/2009 1:15:36 PM | Totally agree with wild red. There is nothing sexier to me than the feel of my lover's c*ck growing, throbbing and pulsing in my mouth, listening to his moans. I love to stop, pull back a little and flash him some bedroom eyes while my tongue swirls around his c*ck to let him know how much I am enjoying him. I get wet just thinking about it. Mmmmmmm yummmy lollipops. When his legs start trembling and he's about to blow I like to stop, give him a little break, show the boys some attention, maybe do a little lapping, gently circle the pee hole. Once I know he's good to go, it's time for a little more swirling, and hard sucking, getting a nice rhythm going, lots of mmmmmm and when he's shaking again hit hard with the deep throating while he blows his load, swallowing it all up. Mmmmmm. A man who has been eating his pineapple. Yummy. I love a man who can go with it and let me do my thing, indicating what really works for him with his moans.
Better get back to POF and find me a lollipop!  | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/11/2009 9:10:52 PM | | I have known women that get off with nothing but a lollypop in their mouth...thats how much that they are into it.I have given this considerable thought and have come to the realization that women are not as unlike as we would put forward.We all share the fact that we are sexual beings and male and female alike want the best sexual experiance for our respective partners. "IT IS PLEASING TO PLEASE".........Turn the tables and the man in most cases wants to please his woman in the same fashion....I know I do. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2009 10:02:39 AM | I'm with Lollipop. Yes indeedy, tweety. Give me an alllll day sucker!
Totally agree with wild red. There is nothing sexier to me than the feel of my lover's c*ck growing, throbbing and pulsing in my mouth, listening to his moans. I love to stop, pull back a little and flash him some bedroom eyes while my tongue swirls around his c*ck to let him know how much I am enjoying him. I get wet just thinking about it. Mmmmmmm yummmy lollipops. When his legs start trembling and he's about to blow I like to stop, give him a little break, show the boys some attention, maybe do a little lapping, gently circle the pee hole. Once I know he's good to go, it's time for a little more swirling, and hard sucking, getting a nice rhythm going, lots of mmmmmm and when he's shaking again hit hard with the deep throating while he blows his load, swallowing it all up. Mmmmmm. A man who has been eating his pineapple. Yummy. I love a man who can go with it and let me do my thing, indicating what really works for him with his moans.
Yes to this, too. It certainly is Pleasing to Please. In fact, I can't get off unless he does.....
I have known women that get off with nothing but a lollypop in their mouth...thats how much that they are into it.I have given this considerable thought and have come to the realization that women are not as unlike as we would put forward.We all share the fact that we are sexual beings and male and female alike want the best sexual experiance for our respective partners. "IT IS PLEASING TO PLEASE".........
Life is good! 
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ohio07
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 6/12/2009 11:09:08 AM | Dammitt (45) I thought my GF was the only woman who felt like/does this! I can vouch for your statement and have had this totally awesome experience. And as for guys not going for the next round... I certainly haven't had any trouble getting going after I climax through oral. Once I get started, I tend to get going. And going... And going... Sometimes the dry O's are even more intense than when I'm shooting buckets. I shake like a leaf, moan like crazy, and my voice gets just a little higher. And it totally turns her on. Knowing she can get me there.
You actually feel good when you get your lover off. Your satisfied that they are satisfied and that in itself is enough. And you don't even need them to reciprocate, although they always do.
Recently I even learned that I could have extended O's during sex, and that's after I already got great head to start. If she moves a muscle after I cum, I shoot off again, and again, and again. She just loves it. It's like she's controlling my O and extending it, it's a complete turn on, and I'm beyond ecstasy....
And man does she get wet. Jee-zus! All I have to do is feel her after she's blown me, and she's dripping wet... So this get's me going and I need to have her for another round. Definitely one person's pleasure can create the other's. Especially if you are in a legitimate caring and loving relationship. This kinda stuff beats all of the meaningless casual sex I ever had.
You just don't get to this level of trust and intamicy in a one nighter. It's entirely differen't when you can learn to push somebody else's buttons and take them over the edge; and do things they've never done or tried before. Being able to trust somebody enough to surrender to them totally, and be in the moment, makes for some DAMN HOTT and very pleasureable sexual experiences!!! How can you ever tire of THAT!?! | |
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