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| | Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?Page 5 of 14 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14) | Although it is presumptive of me to speak of this subject for you ladies fair, I might offer this...sex is such an intimate, physical, mental activity, and mutual arousal is as much mental as it is physical. As when men are oral with their partner, and hear/feel her response to that stimulation, so it is, I suppose, for women. I would guess that the baser instinct takes over, and to know, to hear, and most definitely feel their partner respond has to trigger the juices (so to speak) and increase the want, the desire, the passion. I know as the recipient of such a gift, it is my express desire to share the intensity of the passion, and if I know she is reacting and it is not a chore, I am more than happy to share the depth of my enjoyment...and the more intensity two people share, the better the experience. I'm just sayin'  | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/11/2010 12:56:46 PM | All I know is that I crave it and I want it so I like to make sure the man I am with knows how much I want and crave him, and I show him that orally. Its a huge turn on hearing your man moan in complete pleasure as your are giving him a blowjob (and playing with his balls if he enjoys that too)
*sigh* being alone is no fun!  | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/11/2010 10:37:04 PM | [qoute]If you think about it, there is no physical reason for a woman to be aroused by giving a blowjob, any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.
So why do women become so aroused giving blowjobs?
(And don't tell me they don't!)
Well any porn I've seen would of been drastically boring if not funny if the woman looked totally bored while doing oral.
Sarcastic wit aside....it's 50/50 between these two thing...and some will lean more toward one or the other.
1. it's more exciting to see someone who looks like they are getting into it.
2. Some people are actually physically into doing oral. Basically the more excited one gets...the other goes up in excitement at almost the same rate. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/11/2010 11:39:51 PM | | For the benefit of someone above-as a family we went to the zoo in Sao Paulo one Sunday.The kids were old enough to be on their own and I noticed that a crowd was building where they were. When I went to see there were 2 orangutans engaged in oral sex! Funny, the kids had no questions about that exhibit! | |
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Posted: 1/12/2010 12:09:54 AM | I love going down on woman because
1- I like it & love it
2- To say thank you for being a part of my life
3- To show that I care and am giving
4- To say that I love her just as much as myself or maybe more .
5- to make sure that she enjoys making love to the fullest. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2010 3:17:30 AM | *closer*....I think your wasting your time on cats eye's......I'm thinking she's a nutcase.....
But thanks for the erotic, hot juicy details....the seeing him get pleasure/control thing is okay....but its so much better when you know they are really getting off on it, because they truely enjoy it. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2010 6:46:12 AM | | I absolutely adore giving a blow job to my man, in fact its one of my sexual specialities, the feel of his penis inside my mouth is so good, and it is nothing like sucking on a sausage! It's lovely to deep throat and roll the tongue every which way but loose, it sends my man into ecstasy and makes me look forward to the delights to come when he reciprocates. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2010 6:53:17 AM | I don't know about stimulating to give a blowjob... But stimulating to get one!!! ;p
All jokes aside, I feel that if a woman is truly stimulated by this, it is more the fact that she knows she is stimulating him. She enjoys giving her guy/girl pleasure and it stimulates her because of this. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2010 8:33:09 AM |
I will NOT do oral on anyone and I do NOT want it done to me. I tried to read most of this repeated boring crap on "why", here trying to understand why any self respecting lady would fine enjoyment in getting a guy off orally. Personally I can NOT see a reason for me. Please NO hate mail.
Giving a guy great sex, if that what oral does, is NOT going to make him see you again, or even stay after its done. So what's the point? If you girls get a man off with a blow job, he won't be comming in you. Perhaps you girls don't care. Perhaps him doing you orally does it for you, but it does NOT do it for me. I want a man to via of fingers and hands touch me in my erotic places if he can find them and then have intercouse via penis and vaginal and I will touch him that way too. That is a more sharing way for me.
Please no hate mail. Woah. A white woman who doesn't enjoy giving blowjobs? You have GOT to be an anomaly. For many, that seems to be there absolute specialty over just about anything else. They will give up a mouth more easily than give up some poosey.
Nice to 'meet' you cat*eyes. And I agree with you on most aspects of your posts. And you're right, a lot of the responses are very redundant. Most of the girls I know do it because the guy likes it, don't think they themselves got very much from it.
here trying to understand why any self respecting lady would fine enjoyment in getting a guy off orally. Ol skool. Use to be back in the day (where I'm from) oral sex was what 'bad' and 'slutty' girls did and nobody in their right self-respecting mind would say they did it (lot of 'em did it on the sly, but they wouldn't SAY they did it). But we don't live in a vacuum so what comes around goes around. Now many 'self-respecting' women will not only do it, but freely admit up to doing it. It's so prevalent it's not even considered 'dirty' or 'freaky' anymore. I do take note still how very few black women and women of color will freely admit to a love of sucking****as freely as these white chicks (same for black guys and men or color who lick and eat pu$$y - they do it, maybe not as much or as often as white guys say they do, but plenty of them do it. Just that the only person they usually freely admit that too is their woman). Yeah, we suck****and do all sorts of other thangs but we still don't go around announcing that that shit to the world. And a lot us of still don't do it or care for it (more black probably, but a lotta white women still don't either. If you're a white woman who doesn't suck dlck, I didn't think you'd ever be able to get a white man. But surprisingly, several white men responded to a thread to say they just weren't that into it. Must be another anomaly, but not a bad one).
And nobody better not dare say that's the prudish nature of black folks to not prefer or do oral because that certainly doesn't vibe with the whole 'sexual lascivious' stereotype that goes around. But then again, 'sexual and lascivious' doesn't necessarily mean 'freaky' so maybe that's two different things.
Things have changed. Use to be that a woman would vaguely feel out of place for admitting she sucked d*ck. Now it's totally the opposite. People are often surprised when you say you don't. Well you need not feel alone in your aversion to dlck sucking or oral sex in general. You have plenty of company even tho they probably won't post in this thread.
I'm probably gonna get some hate mail but I don't give a dam. Of all the racist and gender degrading stuff I been reading, they got a whole lotta gotdam nerve to be sending me hate mail. Whomever got anything to say, need to post it and don't send me a dam thing to my inbox that isn't in agreement to what I said. I don't send stupid and negative stuff to anyone's inbox when I read the stupid and negative stuff they gotta say. I post it. You get any personal messages from me, it's usually something nice.
Anything else?
Oh yeah, dlck sucking.
Been there, tried that - possibility of doing it again with the right guy. Can give you a reason that doesn't match ANY of the reasons givin here. I don't give a dam about submission, domination, power, or even pleasing him. But what the hell, I've said enough already so I'm sure you're not interested in my reasonings for dlck sucking/licking.
Smootches.   | |
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Posted: 1/12/2010 9:47:20 AM |
Nice to 'meet' you cat*eyes. And I agree with you on most aspects of your posts. And you're right, a lot of the responses are very redundant. Most of the girls I know do it because the guy likes it, don't think they themselves got very much from it.
I think you and cat eyes should make a fine couple.........now, don't get pissed at me....just kidding and you have a right to your views, but you shouldn't look down on others because of their views...
Curious can anyone get in on this race discussion sex comparison, or will it be like the other phases of society where only people of color can say anything without the repercussion's of being called a racist....ever watch.... def comedy jam?....funny but racist as hell. I can only imagine if white's had a show like that..
Your welcome to have your opinion, but leave the racism and hate you have out of it.
You are stereotyping all white people....and telling them they better not stereotype blacks...
Stop and think about that.
Oh me....I've been on the streets in the big city, been to the hood, been to Carson and Compton, back in the day....So, I don't exactly get my info. from the 6 o'clock news....I know whats going down.
No hate mail from me, no battling each other....but I am free to express my thoughts too...like it or not.
Be cool, don't be so bitter..... | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/12/2010 10:23:37 AM |
but you shouldn't look down on others because of their views... Now if you read closely, I don't look down upon anyone who does oral sex. I just expressed surprise that a white woman would say it is something she doesn't prefer, that would be seemingly contrary to the ordinary. And I said what it was considered to be back in the day... but I never said that I hold any of these views than women who have oral sex are indeed slutty, trashy, non-self-respecting, or dirty.
Now if I'd said that... I would have to include myself in the bunch of them... and I don't find myself to be in the slutty, trashy, non-self-respecting or dirty category. And I take all of the women at face value that they like oral sex and the reason they give for liking or loving it. I do not discount their comments.
I only concur with cat-eyes in her comments and let her know that she indeed is not the only one doesn't find oral sex 'stimulating' in the least or any of the aforementioned adjectives for it.
And like everyone else, you are free to make whatever comments you like... barring POF admin and mods ofcourse.
No hate mail from me, no battling each other....but I am free to express my thoughts too...like it or not. Indeed. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2010 12:08:15 PM | Damn girl, it took you this long to get back at me...lol, I'd a been here sooner, but this machine crashed...lol, right after I wrote a long thing back at ya...bad timing, had to write it again.
What you said here and wrote above came across different....you might not have meant it that way, but its how it looks..but I don't think we are much different, I post shit and don't always see how it looks to others...half the time I write something, look back and can't believe I said that.
I didn't read all the stuff here, so maybe you were defending her(catseye) cause it did take guts for her to come out with that., and some came down on her.
So, I'm not going to pick this apart and cut and paste to show if you were saying this and that. It don't matter, but it gets my back against the wall, to hear about stereotyping, black this, white that.... cause I was the little white kid in a school where there were only a couple of blacks, and I was one of the few who made friends with them...... later in life, I was the one who was invited to go to the hood, when it was the otherside of town, and no white had been there, I went there on a Friday night, saw my friend....he smiled and couldn't believe I came, while everyone else stared at me like I was the plaque. I was the one who's best friend in Long Bch, Ca. was black ..not just some black at work crap, and we loved each other and went thru hell together.
Hell, I say things on forums people take a certain way, cause of the way I wrote it....doesn't mean its what I meant....so, no hate here, but you did stereo type white girls, then asked people not to stereotype blacks about oral.....but, no big deal....I've heard all the stereotyping too.
I just think it looks a certain way, cause on these forums, people can talk about things easier than they do in public.....there are white girls that don't like it and black girls that do....there's just not enough black girls here to hear what they have to say. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2010 8:12:21 PM | Just like a man giving a woman oral (or any kind of) pleasure, it's about control and manipulation, but GOOD control and manipulation, because your own pleasure comes from driving the other absolutely insane with pleasure! It's a win-win!
The question "why" then becomes..."why NOT"! | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/12/2010 9:08:48 PM | oh hell it is NOT about control and manipulation. It's about loving on his penis. It's about good sex. It's sharing your bodies with one another. Sometimes a bj is just a bj, othertimes it's part of a longer "sex session" that includes intercourse, foreplay, etc. Either way, it's part of lovin' on each other and having fun touching and tasting.
It's absolutely no different to me than any other form of sexual pleasure. Do you suck on a girl's nipples to manipulate her? no, you do it b/c it turns her on. and maybe it turns you on as well b/c of how it feels in your mouth. Or maybe it turns you on when she moans while you do it.
My guy's c0ck...looking at it makes me wet. As does looking at his cute butt, or hairy gorgeous chest, or beautiful deep brown eyes. Touching it and sucking on it, licking it, all of that makes me even wetter. As does doing the same to his chest and nipples. (ok, I don't do that to his butt though, although I LOVE squeezing it and grabbing it during sex or bjs). Why? it's not because it controls him. It's because I love his body. It "does it" for me. Sucking on his c0ck turns me on b/c I love that freakin' c0ck. I love the way it feels inside of me. And I love the way it feels under my tongue. Slick and smooth and hard and soft all at once. And I love hearing his moans when I do it just the way he likes it.
But I think, perhaps it's one of those things that is impossible to understand if you don't feel the same way. Like music. You might love country and no matter how hard you try, I'm not going to "get" why you like it because I just don't feel that way. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2010 1:02:24 PM | If you think about it, there is no physical reason for a woman to be aroused by giving a blowjob, any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.
So why do women become so aroused giving blowjobs
Wow and just think if all woman thought like this. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2010 6:31:57 AM |
... I don't give a dam about submission, domination, power, or even pleasing him.
So, if you have no interest in pleasing your man, one can easily infer that you are selfish and only interested in your own pleasure. You then become what you accuse all the guys of — being selfish for wanting pleasure. If you disagree with my assessment, it can only mean you're not really interested in sex due to anger of some past issue. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2010 11:02:48 AM |
If you think about it, there is no physical reason for a woman to be aroused by giving a blowjob, any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.
So why do women become so aroused giving blowjobs?
(And don't tell me they don't!)
Well, a dyk is warm, has that oh-so-soft and smooth skin, can be easily hurt, so it's kinda fragile and helpless, in its own way, he swoons when you move your tongue, there's that moan music in the background. 
And you probly know what's coming next.
It's his primary sex organ!!! You have it in your possession! It does tricks for you!
btw, the converse works pretty well, too. Sneak up on your guy, say, while he's working (not porn!) on his computer, take him completely by surprise, swing your leg over him and present your pvssy to his mouth, run your hand through his hair, do a couple pelvic thrusts, count to 10 (1001, 1002, etc.), then check his pants. Sprong!!!  | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/18/2010 6:41:18 AM | Glad I read most of this post. Kudos to the ladies who know how to be mutually pleased with a man while doing what they love with their mouths. It's how you keep a relationship going, compatibility, loving the same thing in your intimacy, especially those who said they love it more than conventional sex.
Saying what only you want, what you will and will not do has made more women single than any engine I know. Those who love his pen!s and lavish affection on his c()ck and balls know that it's in the love for it that they do it. About as much passion and affection a lot of men want to expend on a woman's breast and are subsequently slandered for their passion and affinity for them. Of course anyone into their own thing isn't going to see someone else's attraction to it unless they approach with an open mind. I am not talking about delving into deviant sex. This is intimacy between a man and a woman which a lot of women don't have a clue on how to get done other than to grace men with their bodies to ravage. Few women I meet even know the nuances of a man's c()ck and balls. It is so gratifying to see that there are those on here who do and love it to the point of orgasm. Gives me hope for a future relationship based on that very premise. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2010 7:35:00 AM |
I will NOT do oral on anyone and I do NOT want it done to me. I tried to read most of this repeated boring crap on "why", here trying to understand why any self respecting lady would fine enjoyment in getting a guy off orally. Personally I can NOT see a reason for me. Please NO hate mail.
Giving a guy great sex, if that what oral does, is NOT going to make him see you again, or even stay after its done. So what's the point? If you girls get a man off with a blow job, he won't be comming in you. Perhaps you girls don't care. Perhaps him doing you orally does it for you, but it does NOT do it for me. I want a man to via of fingers and hands touch me in my erotic places if he can find them and then have intercouse via penis and vaginal and I will touch him that way too. That is a more sharing way for me.
Please no hate mail.
I'm not trying to sound harsh or insulting, but I can even begin to make sense of your logic or reasoning. Your post makes you sound selfish and controlling. You have your list of sexual "do's and don't's", but how do you handle a guy who has some of his own? Do you just completely disregard them?
Furthermore, if you determined long ago that you have no interest in oral sex, why would you opt to click on a thread and read posts about it? I have absolutely no interest in knitting, and certainly wouldn't read a word about anything pertaining to the "boring crap".
Giving a guy great sex, if that what oral does, is NOT going to make him see you again, or even stay after its done.
No, it won't "make" him see you again per se, but it would certainly increase the odds of seeing him again. But letting a guy know beforehand what he absolutely WILL NOT be getting would probably guarantee you won't be seeing him AT ALL.
Let me also state that I don't believe anyone should subject themselves to things they don't want to be subjected to, but I'm struggling with your reasoning, and wondering just how far you expect to get in a relationship when you've seemingly slammed the door on the concept of compromise. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 1/31/2010 10:10:53 AM | Wow, so that's why they aren't sticking around. Who would have thought they actually like it.
I'm kidding, I've been with a few women who had said they actually got off by giving head... however this was also disasterous to our relationships. Previous VERY bad experience makes me very iffy about recieving. | |
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