| | Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?Page 9 of 14 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14) | With a real loving couple.....one never has to ask for anything in return.
It is natural to give and recieve because both parties involved love to give pleasure to their partner.
It is when a person is only expecting to recieve without ever reciprocating that pleasure that it becomes a selfish act/lover.
There are numerous women that love to give their man head to completion for no other reason than to bring him immense pleasure.
But those women do expect, at some point, for their partner to return that pleasure.
When a man absolutely refuses to give a woman oral.......he diminishes her desire
to keep on pleasing him. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/18/2010 12:56:38 PM | i think it affects a girl psychologically, knowing that sucking a guy off turns him on and she is the cause of it. Personally I absolutely love the physical sensation when a guy is laying down naked and I am kneeling, sucking his hard****and feeling it growing bigger as I put the whole thing in my mouth, I love to get it a bit wet by licking it also. Its so warm and good, and I get so turned on I always end up trying to deep throat and I'll swallow it all for sure. I love to hear him gasp and moan.wow!
O_O
HOLY SHIT!
I havent checked your profile yet, please tell me you live in florida...
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Posted: 3/18/2010 1:45:42 PM | there is no physical reason for a woman to be aroused by giving a blowjob, any more than if she had a big sausage in her mouth.
I wonder if women who think this far out of date, selfish and essentially clueless about sexuality believe attitudes like this isn't what keeps them forever alone, without any sort of companionship or someone interested in them sexually? Even without saying it the obvious answer would be SOME women get SOMETHNIG from it otherwise the practice would have died out years ago---perhaps about the same time normal every day women become all those "strong, independent...." types too? Gosh this opening had me slightly disappointed but only for a moment---I knew the smarter, more in touch with themselves women would eventually prevail! Thank goodness not everyone is so uptight........
So why do women become so aroused giving blowjobs?
It's a known fact endorphins are released when MOST women make physical contact with another human---something as plain and seemingly nothing special like a hug brings about a good feeling that is measurable and has been, over and over. Science doesn't need to tell them that though----they've know it for years and years. What seems to be a missing clue to this OP is the mouth, lips and tongue ARE highly sensitive areas very subject to excitation from kissing etc etc. Making out isn't something we do to pass time dammit---we do it because it's unbelieveably great feeling! Our sex organs do NOT become excited by accident---its WHY kissing has developed over the years.
Probably most women here have already said the very touch and feel of their lovers penis in their mouth, how they can manipulate not only their lips and tongue further enhancing the foreplay, it also exciting them. The mental aspects aside of "control" or providing pleasure to their lovers is one thing----that oral sex on a man is physically stimulating for the women too is just part of it all.
Yes knowing you're sharing something they might desire and appreciate more than words can say is a powerful reason too but hardly the only one. Its a completely UNselfish act which might escape someone with the attitude such as shown by this OP---again that being alone thing comes to mind. Sure feeling powerful with the most physically vulnerable part of a man in your mouth, teeth so close to being almost "dangerous" is incerdibily sensual as well but again it goes right back to how damn great it feels, how it can and does produce an orgasm in the giver far more often than the cluess could ever imagine.
Same question could be asked why a hand job for the man or manual stimulation for the women is stimulation----short answer is because it feels so damn good!!
I'll repeat that women with such a poor knowledge or outlook on sexuality probably remain single, lonely and frustrated forever---probably have been the better part of their lives as well too. Sad for them, sadder for the guys who've endured such poor attitudes about sharing, giving to one another.
Is this really 2010 (2009 when this was first posted) or 1900?  | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/18/2010 1:54:01 PM | Oral sex never works one way for me. Besides my first few times it has never gotten me off.
I wont get off just eating out either
a 69? ZOMG INTENSE. once you mix the more physically inclined pleasure of receiving with the more mentally inclined pleasure of giving, all forms of sex are equally pleasurable (to me at least.)
as far as giving without receiving, i halfway agree with tony. I would do something that dosent give me pleasure for a woman, like biting or whatnot, but I wouldnt do anything that gives me negative pleasure expecting pleasure in return, Like I wouldnt let a woman puke or expel waste in my mouth or on me at all, when I bleed my boner goes away so none of that bloodletting stuff. I wont eat a girl out on her period. neutral things that neither please nor displease me, however, sure. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2010 3:33:59 AM | Most of you Forum people all know I am "THE ANTI ORAL" person. I am very proud of this fact.
I am Vegetarian and have been all my life since when I was a little kid, so I would NEVER have a sausage, or any meat in my mouth, but that is not the reason, I am anti oral.
I read this thread, because I still can NOT understand how any woman would or could find this activity "stimulating. ." I read these "oral" threads trying to get understanding as to why would any sane person do this and actually like this. I still do not understand. I do understand different strokes for different folks. | |
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DP372
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/19/2010 5:34:25 AM | I once dated a woman who could have an orgasm from giving a blow job; not always but sometimes. I guess with her it was more mental than physical.
Years ago in South Florida we had a scandal involving a sheriff's deputy whose wife was a call girl. She claimed she could have an organsm while driving down the turnpike just thinking about sex. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2010 5:44:48 AM |
Most of you Forum people all know I am "THE ANTI ORAL" person. I am very proud of this fact.
I am Vegetarian and have been all my life since when I was a little kid, so I would NEVER have a sausage, or any meat in my mouth, but that is not the reason, I am anti oral.
OMG this ^^^ is hilarious! I don’t know how someone can or could relate oral sex to being anti-meat in their diet!! Holy cripes---UNLESS you’re consuming said meat the connection is so ridiculous it defies even the most crazy things ever poster anywhere on this whole site!
Again could it be such a closed and stuffy attitude about things is one of the reasons people remain forever alone? I think there is a connection........
Wheres my pedestal.....
.<<<<<.gets off on giving pleasure
Wonderfully open minded women like this are a great find AND I’ll bet they enjoy equally great sex lives if only because they’re more giving than expecting something in return for each and every little thing they do for their partners!
Ma’am I don’t have a pedestal but might I offer as long as I have a face you’ll have somewhere to sit? Just people helping people!!  | |
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wcis4u
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/19/2010 9:57:55 AM | Hulu and cuban,
I can't just go by what you say,sorry but i've learned not to believe what women say.I will have to have proof (not someone else saying it) I have to have actual proof.BTW cuban when you asked for the pedestal,you were asking for something,sorry. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2010 10:58:02 AM |
Hulu and cuban,
I can't just go by what you say,sorry but i've learned not to believe what women say.I will have to have proof (not someone else saying it) I have to have actual proof.BTW cuban when you asked for the pedestal,you were asking for something,sorry.
Ooooh....so you want something in exchange for something? Nice.
I don't have to prove it to you (stop asking for us to give you bjs). The onlyl one who needs proof is the guy I'm with. And he gets the proof often. | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/19/2010 12:29:48 PM | Seriously, ...I think some people here need Venn diagrams. 
Sexual gratification, some think it's something that one person does to/for another, ...mutually exclusive pleasure; some prefer to participate in a way that's mutually inclusive, ...y'know? When it's something two people do together with each other, pleasure is then derived from both giving and receiving.
Those who fall into the first description, ...you have my pity.  | |
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/19/2010 8:52:27 PM | Years ago, reading the Hite Report, when it was actually *news,* I recall being astonished by one woman's description of an orgasm as a sexual "sneeze". . . . But now I suspect that that lady wouldn't prolly enjoy giving head, nor likely a bunch of other very good things one can do in bed. We're all built differently, and with different "volumes" so to speak. May each one find his/her match.
But lord save me from pedestals, lol! And the men who want to put me on one. . . .
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Posted: 3/20/2010 5:33:14 PM | | To some extent i believe it is the control factor,just as it is with a man giving his woman oral sex.And then it's the pleasure of knowing that you are bringing your partner to the ultimate hieghts of satisfaction.There is nothing more satisfying than pleasing another. | |
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DP372
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| Why do lots of women find it so stimulating to give a blowjob?
Posted: 3/21/2010 9:58:27 PM | | Because it is. I like knowing that I pleased the person I performed the blow job on. It's hard to explain.Some women hate it,and I don't know why. The only reason I would hate it if the guy began to expect it all the time, then it becomes boring to me. | |
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