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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 9:31:05 AM | | Welllllllll...there we have the answer and it wouldn't have had to take this many pages to explain it all. The age old question of "Why women want guys to come to THEM"...it's all about the balls. So, for all you men who would like the women to come to you...be sure to check under the skirt. | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 10:07:26 AM | Check under the skirt ! It's funny in a way, why because when I was younger a TS actually tried to pick me up ! Luckily I noticed the obviously male throat, so I avoided being traumatized that night !
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 10:19:02 AM | ^^^^^seeeeeeeeeee...it's obviously true then!! It's all about the balls!...and adams apples!
(am aiding Wishes in her quest for more pages) | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 10:38:22 AM |  .. You guys Rock ..
Everybody rumba .. 
 No matter who comes to who.. bouncy ballzzzz are the funnest.
If my aunt had ballzzzz, would she be my uncle??? I wonder if he came to her or did she go to him? It was during the Great Depression, who pays when neither of you have money?  (things that make you go hmmm) :0) | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 10:43:14 AM |
It's all about the balls!...and adams apples!
PLEASE tell me there's no correlation between .............. Aw , never mind........Even i'm not going there !........... | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 10:49:27 AM |
It's all about the balls!...and adams apples!
PLEASE tell me there's no correlation between .............. Aw , never mind........Even i'm not going there !...........
Agree, some things shouldn't be uttered in the same sentence. 
OT: because she split her pants and he has a jacket that is long enough to cover it. | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 10:58:49 AM | Dahling....I have love.... and he loves to give to me as I love to receive.
Why then is your profile headline "Seeking Man who is looking for Forever"? Why doesn't your profile mention the fact that you're not on the market? One would think he's worth that. | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 11:13:45 AM | | Sigh... using masculinity(or any part of the male anatomy) as the symbol of choice for confidence and assertiveness is part of the very same sexist mentality that this thread and some posters, such as myself, are trying to challenge. I think there are a lot of people here who are completely missing the point. | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 11:21:38 AM | ^^^ You're exactly right and I think we need at least 20 more pages to try and figure out what our point is. . .
Please  this worthy cause by continuing to contribute.. lol
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 11:45:14 AM | OK...forget the male anatomy (it wasn't my choice of lingo in the first place but that of some other assertive/confident FEmale). You have to have the "jam", whether you're male or female to ask someone out. If you don't have it, you may well lose out on Mr/Ms right...too bad so sad.
There. Another poke to the eyeballs in an effort to stay OT and keep Wishes happy. | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 11:47:09 AM |
People stayed in marriages because the stigma for divorce was greater, not because of money. Oh that isn't true. I remember looking up the statistics before and the majority didn't get divorced because the woman would not be able to find a job to support her children.
It isn't just the apple or the nuts, the muscle and bone structure is different. Men have no hips. The muscles in their arms are differently formed and in their legs. Men's calves hanging out of a skirt look like men's calves. I often see a profile of a trans and wonder why they don't state that they are. Some do, but some don't. I guess they figure that it is their business and just as there are medical conditions or challenges, let the person know on their own terms and time schedule.
There are some very attractive men and women on this thread that don't want to date and some that do, I don't care if they do or don't, that shouldn't effect what they post or their opinions on this subject. I hate reading someone bringing up off topic comments about someone's relationship status as if it disproves their opinion...gahhhh
Ok, did I help the pages? | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 12:15:41 PM | Obviously from other threads, my preference is for men with Moose ballzzzzz. Well, one anyway.
As someone who was raised within the confines of what "nice girls do" and broke free of the social construct, I have approached men. More often, men have approached me. Either way, in my experience who approached had little effect, on whether we were compatible or not.
I certainly did not find it an indicator as to whether a man has or does not have ballzz or moxy. How ridiculous to equate ballzz with whether a man has broken free of certain social constructs. | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 12:44:12 PM | Margo, aren't you glad that your Moose-balled Saggie decided he liked you because you put yourself out there for him to notice you? He decided to check this lady out.
That is why he has moose-ballzzz, not ant ballzz.
He is a cutie.  | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 12:45:04 PM | ^^^I hate to inject a serious question when everyone is realxed and having actual fun...but....
Is there some kind of requirement or rule that says everyone has to break through social constructs? Are all social constructs bad? How does one decide which are and which aren't? Who decides?
I just have a hard time wrapping my mind around any theory that requires that all people think/act/relate the same way...or, that freedom of choice doesn't exist....or that creating new socail constructs, doesn't, by virtue of it having been done..make them any more "right"?
Peace loving idiot that I am...I would like to believe there is room for everyone: I just don't understand the concept in this venue of: there is only one right....
Done philosophizing...
I don't care how big a man's balllz are...not the part of the anatomy that actually has any utitility for my purposes?...teehee...
devil:
Helping wishes also ...I love cooperation... | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 12:48:19 PM |
You don’t have to protect her, Cindy. She amply stated over and over again she thinks almost all the guys
that post in here are losers that don’t deserve her respect.
One more time...I'm not defending or protecting Savona...I'm not defending/protecting ANY poster in this case. What
I'm trying to protect is a principle...that if you are going to debate,be it real time or in cyberspace, you debate the issues...you don't go off and try to undermine your opponent(s) by mounting a personal attack,suggesting that
their point of view has no merit because of their age,physical appearance,personal self image,or manner of dress, unless the topic under debate is clearly related to that. The principle of proper debate is the only thing I'm trying to protect. Granted, this is not a formal debate website, and we all get a little wound up from time to time...but to imply that someone's opinion should be dimissed because of their age, appearance or the ATTACKER'S presumptions about the attackee's personal self image only damages the quality of a thread.( and this THREAD needs all the help it can get, in that respect!LOL!)
never told anyone how to behave, as you claim, but merely suggested that if they stopped MISbehaving,
No, from all I hear, wellbehaved women seldom make history. So why would we stop misbehaving?
I swear that some of you folks miss being married or in a toxic relationship!
You might be onto something here...people coming to the forums to find the dysfunction that is their comfort zone.Mostly I started coming to the forums to try and figure out whether it was REALLY as ineffective as I was experiencing(because the concept looks GREAT-on paper!) or maybe it was something to do with me.When I see so many women who are better looking and more accomplished than I, and THEY are having difficulties making worthwhile connections, I felt a little better. And when I started seeing the "oh I'm scared I'm gonna get hurt/used/not get enough sex"mantra being chanted by men of all ages,geographic locations, occupational and educational levels,THEN I started to get a whole hell of a lot calmer and more patient/philosophical about finding a love for the 2nd half of my life.
What men are simply, simply, very simply asking is why do SOME women think that a woman's role is to be passive in dating. when other women don't.
Probably because it's been a fairly common cultural conditioning...nice girls don't chase boys, call boys, ask boys
on dates, and that doesn't change when girls become women. Look, we've FINALLY gotten people who mold our childrens minds and characters to STOP steering little girls into "proper" feminine occupations. It may take more time for complete gender equality to become common in dating and courtship.
As for the women who HAVE ditched(or think they've ditched) the old cultural norms, maybe their mothers and grandmothers' were either very progressive or maybe they just didn't give a rats' ass how their daughters got dates and boyfriends. I suspect a fair number of women who are not conventionally attractive have decided that they'll
have to take the bull by the horns. I'm sorry, but I think it's gonna be a mighty long time before all women feel perfectly free and comfortable with asking men out.
If one hated women, then he would seek to destroy her, not treat as an equal. I have to disagree...I think men who hate women want to rule and control them, punish them,etc.If a woman hating man destroyed women, he wouldn't have a warm place to put his weiner, would he? Whatever else you guys may or may not be, you certainly aren't STUPID. Any sexual assault counselor will tell you that rape is NOT about sex, it's about power, subjugation,humiliation. We women can only WISH that men who hate us were seeking to DESTROY us, hell, that we could figure out and FIGHT. It's the constant effort to control, punish,confuse that some men seem to practice...often under the guise of looking for "love",that becomes confusing and difficult to deal with.
Do any of you actually want to date???
Speaking strictly for myself, all I'm interested in is being positioned to find the 2nd love ofmy life, if that's to be granted me. Since I've always believed that the Lord helps those who help themselves, I find it necessary to participate in the dating scene.And I for one do not feel "disenfranchised." I'll admit there are days when I feel
like men ought to be better than what they are proving to be,but I remind myself that many of them have been subjected to much suffering at the hands of women and "the system". However, my compassion stops short of letting ANYBODY throw me under the bus.
We all take this Internet thing a little too seriously. I think the problem is when we read posts we hear the words in our head as we read them. WE put inflection on words and phrases that the writer may not have thought about or intended. We add weight to one sentence when the writer was wanting the weight on another phrase.
Personally, I think all people who participate in online dating sites THINK too much. That doesn't make them, or internet dating, all bad, it's just something to be aware of and be prepared to deal with.
And of course the most obvious one, when you show a man attention and affection their balls pull right up into their little cave, the man thinks oh my god I am not going to be trapped in to a relationship and runs for the hills.
As hilarious as this is, it's also often true, and can occur even if the guy was more or less the initiator...
Cindy O | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 12:50:48 PM | Personally, i prefer a man with no balls. That way i dont have to lug his balls around in my purse. So i guess i will do the approaching.
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My not so amusing contribution to 80 pages. | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 1:47:47 PM |
Hah, I was amused!
Why you hot little stud muffin you. If i were only a few decades younger i would gladly lug your balls around in my purse. LOL
Excuse me, i was just practising my approach | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 1:50:48 PM | LMAO !! If i were only a few decades younger i would gladly lug your balls around in my purse.
Now you know why i call them "Man purses" ............ | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/29/2009 1:51:43 PM |
Look, we've FINALLY gotten people who mold our childrens minds and characters to STOP steering little girls into "proper" feminine occupations. It may take more time for complete gender equality to become common in dating and courtship.
Do bears think about being the same in their courtship rituals? Do dogs? Do cats?
Do monkeys? Do horses? Do cattle? We are all from the animal kingdom. We all think to a certain degree and we all have instincts.
In their world there is equal opportunity. How can it not be?
For bears, if the fish is good, both male and female get in there. In fact, they fight for dominion. Usually the boar wins. But, watch how each has their own way of attracting and mating. Nothing the same in the dance there. She's quite the hag until he courts her enough to get the job done. Then he leaves! The cad!
This morning I went to see my granddaughter. The next door neighbour's female cat was on the steps rolling around, swishing her tail frantically and meowing in a frantic voice. A male stepped up to the plate hesitantly. She looked at him and then rolled seductively up and down the steps. He sat there and was silent, intensely watching her. Just twitched his tail. Then he advanced to her. She turned and hissed at him and swiped a paw at him. Then went back to her rolling. Apparently, this went on for about an hour before he got lucky.
Again, we have equal opportunity in the neighbourhood, but the female/male rituals are different.
I may sound like a broken record, but some people just don't get what equality really is. YES! Equality regarding equal opportunity, but, please, do not try to make the male and the female do the same dance in the courtship ritual. Do you not think we are confuddled enough? Try telling that tomcat to roll around seductively all over the stairs meowing, while she sits and watches him in heat. Uh...what?
Well? What do you think some idealists are trying to do?
Just get into the game and do your best with what is there. Quit whining and may the best win. | |
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