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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/30/2009 9:30:23 AM |
I've never
heard of a human athlete being euthanized ON THE TRACK for a broken ankle...nor do humans in modern, reasonably
civilized cultures get euthanised because they are old,ill,or unpleasant companions.
I beg to differ , we do in the beginning, and if you look at our "new socialized health care" proposal.
Theres a very carefully worded provision that covers that very topic.
In short. "Give it time" | |
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| Why Most women want guys to come to THEM?
Posted: 9/30/2009 9:39:08 AM | V1 - why would you pull just One short line from my post and make it look as if I've simplified a 'complex' question??
The real question is why you would give that as an answer to the question of the OP, that you did and expect it to be any sort of elaborate answer, or one that has any actual merit worthy of consideration to the posters here, who have gone to look for answers much further than Grade 9.
Other people are actually putting thought into their posts, for better or worse, to try and debate the topic.
If you honestly believe that I somehow owe You my "best" .. you will be disappointed Every time.
You are what you post.
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| Why Most women want guys to come to THEM?
Posted: 9/30/2009 9:40:55 AM | I can't imagine that anyone would complain about this aspect of nature. I'd be far better off today, if they majority of women would have been just a little more difficult to catch. Some times.....we need to be saved from ourselves. | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/30/2009 10:17:51 AM |
I've never
heard of a human athlete being euthanized ON THE TRACK for a broken ankle...nor do humans in modern, reasonably
civilized cultures get euthanised because they are old,ill,or unpleasant companions.
I beg to differ , we do in the beginning, and if you look at our "new socialized health care" proposal.
Theres a very carefully worded provision that covers that very topic.
In short. "Give it time"
Rick, I thought about referencing the 'death panel' controversy,but it is not yet a fact...whereas the points I brought up about the animal kingdom were meant to suggest that we all think twice before we blindly adopt 'the animal kingdom' as a model for how human beings conduct their lives.
Cindy O | |
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| Why Most women want guys to come to THEM?
Posted: 9/30/2009 10:46:00 AM |
There's no individuality, parental, or social conditioning to influence what's natural?
Yes, there is. But you ain't gonna like it. I can't speak to how kids are raised these days, but when I was a girl, parental and social conditioning tended to support Biology 101...the male pursues, the female accepts or rejects, while infusing a few rules, standards and manners so that stalking and rape were NOT acceptable forms of dating and courtship.
Look, if you (or any other guy)prefer to be passive and wait for women to approach you, that's perfectly fine. But you need to understand that as things are now, women who approach may be (a) so self assured, strong minded,unconventional and impatient with social norms, that she COULD prove to be a huge pain in the ass to be in a relationship with, or (b) so unappealing and desperate that she feels she has no CHOICE but to be the pursuer. And if you have the *&! nerve to laugh at this woman behind your hand, after ranting that women should approach men, remember karma's a b*tch.
I'd like to think there can be a middle ground, where rational responsible adult human beings consider each situation on it's own merits and reason out what seems to be a workable methodology. I for one do not see myself ever directly asking a guy out, but I'm perfectly capable of encouraging one I'm interested in to do so. In fact for me complete passivity seems to draw guys who are just absolutely SO NOT my type, or puffed up unmitigated jerks. So I have to make myself interesting and approachable to guys that I find interesting and would welcome their approach. And that's not nearly as complex as it SOUNDS. In fact, I could go so far as to repeat the "It ain't rocket science" disclaimer.
But to blatantly approach, pursue, court a completely passive male? Not gonna happen. That just seems, TO MY PERSONAL PERCEPTION, to be too metrosexual, maybe even downright NEUTERED. Just would not feel right. That doesn't mean passive men are bad, just that they wouldn't be comfortable men for ME.
Cindy O | |
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| Why women want guys to come to THEM
Posted: 9/30/2009 11:20:38 AM | WHAT ? BEARS EAT THE BEES AND NOT THE HONEY , ? Where in the world did you hear that ? Honey you eve seen a raided by a Bear Beesnest in the Woods ? There is never any honey left.  | |
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| Why Most women want guys to come to THEM?
Posted: 9/30/2009 12:02:33 PM | cindy, are you telling me that if you were to come across a man who is both beautiful on the inside and outside, who might also very much be interested into you but doesn't approach you. (Whatever the reason is, maybe he's shy, maybe he was taught that women didn't like to get hit on, maybe he gets anxiety talking to women, maybe he's having a bad day, maybe he's just not on his game). You would simply let that man walk away, throwing away a chance for what could be a great relationship, over something so trivial and insignificant as who approaches who first? How would you know if this hypotethical man didn't in fact have everything else that you are looking for?
What "feels right" is whatever you make to feel right. I don't see how you have anything to gain by limiting your own choices based on a notion that is both sexist, ignorant and detrimental(men aren't neutered just because they are passive) | |
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| Why Most women want guys to come to THEM?
Posted: 9/30/2009 12:13:40 PM | If you want to get laid, crawl up a 40 ft chickens ass, and wait !
Now that's clucked up!
(groan, i know, i know)
OT: because it was raining and they're afraid to show 'wet-butt' when they stand. hahahaha
whereas the points I brought up about the animal kingdom were meant to suggest that we all think twice before we blindly adopt 'the animal kingdom' as a model for how human beings conduct their lives.
Nope, don't wanna use the animal kingdom as an example...many eat their offspring.
Besides, everyone was doing the box quote say a line box quote thingee, just thought I would too. lol.
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