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Posted: 6/10/2009 10:11:29 PM | GAWD! If she's THAT naive (read: imbecilic) with a one time first-date-first-sex, sex partner can you just IMAGINE the stories she hears (and BELIEVES) from bad guys every day? 95% of criminals are idiots which is good for society - they'd be a LOT more dangerous to the rest of us if they weren't such twits BUT if they know one thing it is how to pick and manipulate a SUCKER. The OP has that NEON SIGN embedded in her forehead.
The discussion should have ignored her question on sex and the "relationship" she thought she was nurturing and switched to the possible weaknesses apparent in the Probation System!!! Let's just hope she doesn't get a promotion to the PAROLE BOARD. She'd release CAHRLES MANSON himself !!
and probably date him too ....
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Posted: 6/10/2009 10:12:07 PM | People reading this post can't be this naive, as first date sex happens a lot.
They act like having unprotected sex is rare, it's far from that.
If it was HIV/STD's would not be so prevalent. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 7:50:22 AM |
Um...was there a condom involved? I sure hope so!
OP you posted this in another thread? Concerning a BJ, can't follow your own advice?
Trolling perhaps?
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Posted: 6/11/2009 10:52:49 AM | she also posted this
shouldnt have on first date.. Posted: 6/7/2009 2  42 PM So this guy from this website aggressively pursued me on the phone for 2 weeks. He knew I was really vulnerable too, that I'd just gotten out of a bad relationship. So I finally agreed to go out with him last night. He was all over me, kissing me, hugging me, which made me think he was into me, right? He also took me to an expensive dinner and then to the ESPN zone and even bought me a shirt. BUT...here's the kicker. I agreed to go to a hotel room with him at the end of the night and of course we hooked up. And it definitely was not bad sex. But today I texted him saying "call me" and that was 6 hours ago and NO response, whereas before we met, he was texting me like 50 times a day. Why do you think he spent all this money and effort and then dissed me? I feel like S**T.
In another thread.
OP...is this a trend? If you want respect, stop what you're doing. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 11:14:08 AM | has to be a fake surely ..... or a really cunning way of advertising for touch ups in the pub  | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 11:15:59 AM | | i think someones a little desperate to be loved here - damn the quality of probation officers across the water, sounds like shes dating her clients! | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 11:24:00 AM | You were an easy lay!! He went for it and you gave in!! Now he has moved on.
You say you are getting mixed signals?
Since he hardly contacts you, this should be a very good signal that he only wants you when he needs sex with no questions asked!
You should show some dignity and not give in to men on the first date
Just checked out your profile....should have figured...a blond LOLOLOL
Well I just checked YOUR profile and I would like to know what YOUR excuse is. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 11:31:08 AM | | This is just too fkn tragic to answer. What I really want to say would get me in trouble. So I won't. I am just glad I am not stupid. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 12:26:30 PM | I have to be honest...
You look like some cross dressing dude if you want to know the truth.
I looked close at your profile and felt it was all a big act with you posing like a woman in all of your pictures seriously
you just look like a guy getting off acting like a woman | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 12:37:28 PM | | There is no intimacy. It's a booty call. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 1:03:46 PM | I just wanna clarify. Is everyone accusing this girl because of unprotective sex on the first date...or sex on first date in general?
May be someone want to share how long he/she knew his/her partner before they had sex | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 1:16:34 PM |
May be someone want to share how long he/she knew his/her partner before they had sex
8 months 5 days 6 hours and 10 minutes
Is everyone accusing this girl because of unprotective sex on the first date...or sex on first date in general
No, they're commenting because she thought they shared intimacy in 15 minutes. Commenting about the fact that she let him go ungloved the first time. Commenting on the fact that she doesn't understand why he's not all clingy to HER like she seems to be with him. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 1:41:33 PM |
Why this immediately level of intimacy ?
I'm too stupid to stop it
There's your answer.
first date..no condom..bad move I know
I'm too stupid to stop it
he knows I'm not on the pill or anything
I'm too stupid to stop it
I am getting mixed signals and would like feedback.
Here's your answer.
because NOW, he hardly contacts me?
The only thing I have to say is go get checked, your chances of having an STD are about 90 percent. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 1:42:25 PM | You really sound like a total dipshit, you know that?
You THINK that this guy doesnt really like you, huh?
Why? Cuz' you let him pork you on the first "date" and couldnt keep your legs shut? You THOUGHT it showed a "level of intimacy" between you two?
I'll watch for you on an upcoming Maury Povich show.
Enough said.
I betchya........
10-1: The "POF guy" is.......NOT the father!!!
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Posted: 6/11/2009 1:48:15 PM | | Next the OP is going to put in her profile "no players." | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 1:52:53 PM | I really hope this is joke OP!
Cheese and rice woman! At your age you should know better than to ask why he isn't calling after hooking up on first meet. From your other posts this is not the first time this has happened to you, yet you feel the need to post about how its happened again?
You are the common denominator, as well as the town bicycle! Wise up! Use birth control and condoms or just shut your damn legs!
"Issues" for you is a definate understatement! | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 2:02:40 PM |
From your other posts this is not the first time this has happened to you, yet you feel the need to post about how its happened again?
You are the common denominator, as well as the town bicycle! Wise up! Use birth control and condoms or just shut your damn legs!
Superglue might just do the damn job.
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Posted: 6/11/2009 5:37:22 PM |
I just wanna clarify. Is everyone accusing this girl because of unprotective sex on the first date...or sex on first date in general?
May be someone want to share how long he/she knew his/her partner before they had sex
I'm not above hitting it on the first date. However, I can differentiate between relationship potential and a booty call. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 6:21:19 PM | | its not casual sex if she wore a tophat. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 6:25:18 PM | Why?
Because you let him already.
Is this a serious question? I cannot believe anyone could be so oblivious to the obvious. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 6:29:49 PM | I hate to say this but someone has to...
You're a moron. This is the second thread I've seen you start where you pretty much just admit you have sex on the first date and put yourself out there too fast and too easy. It's really sad because you want respect but don't respect yourself enough yourself to earn it from anyone else.
At the rate you're going you're going to be pregnant and still trolling POF looking for another date, sporting an entire ESPN Zone wardrobe and filling up on herpes medication.
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Posted: 6/11/2009 6:36:23 PM | | It wasn't anything but casual sex. He wanted to get laid and you were willing. End of discussion. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 6:49:24 PM |
sounds like shes dating her clients!
....was EXACTLY what I was thinking. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 6:54:19 PM | I figure you acted appropriately. If this guy doesn't want a partner who is willing to hit that level of intimacy fast, then HE's the loser.
As is....do go get checked for STD's, pregnancy and try t be a bit more careful. First date sex...nothing wrong with that. Unprotected? Now, there we have an issue.... | |
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Posted: 6/11/2009 7:22:21 PM | GTFOH!!! Your 34 years old sounding like a 16 year old. Where is the intimacy when your sleeping with someone on the first date? He doesnt even know you! Grow up lady and make better choices. Protect yourself and have sex when you want to not because you think he will like you. Didnt your parents have the sex talk with you?
QUESTION: WHY DID HE?????????????????
ANSWER: BECAUSE YOU LET HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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