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Posted: 6/12/2009 1:20:49 AM | | Um, this is kind of obvious isn't it? You gave him sex, right away, which apparently is all he wanted if he's not contacting you much anymore. Or he might contact you in the future, but just for sex, and nothing else. Sex, does not automatically equal intimacy. I'm amazed at how many people don't seem to know the difference, though. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2009 1:28:47 AM | | You gave him an inch (he gave you 6 inches) and he took a mile... | |
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Posted: 6/12/2009 6:51:53 AM | OP, Maybe you should have told him he is now on probation after sleeping with him , so not checking in with you would mean he would have to wait longer for some nokie .  | |
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Posted: 6/12/2009 7:37:56 AM | the part of your post that disturbed me the most was when you said you were NOT on the pill and was afraid of pregnancy. you certainly are looking for trouble if you have casual sex with a stranger without birth control. that's what a 15 year old would do. do you want to become another statistic?
p.s. dump the jerk, he's a player and move on.
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Posted: 6/12/2009 7:42:00 AM |
Is this a serious question? I cannot believe anyone could be so oblivious to the obvious.
I do not believe OP is serious because she would be pretty hard-pressed to be that dumb at her age and in her occupation.
Case-in-point: She very clearly states she has no children, and wants no children, but is admittedly having unprotected sex.
She is bsing somewhere... | |
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Posted: 6/12/2009 8:15:15 AM | well, at least he had the decency to ask you,
"up the snatch or down the hatch"?
He could have shot ya in the eye or something.......
But, hey, I thought the condom v.s. pill is something talk about
before it's moments before the "money shot". | |
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Posted: 6/12/2009 8:23:50 AM | | Can you say whore. This woman has issues. This woman also has another thread that has been brought up in this thread, where she did the same thing. Have some pride in yourself. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2009 8:49:52 AM | Girl, you are beautiful, but you need more confidence and self esteem.
All im going to say is....POWER OF THE P USSY!!!
Learn it cuz a man should EARN it!!! | |
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Posted: 6/12/2009 3:31:23 PM | You can get pregnant from sperm transmitted in the lubrication that is emitted from the penis during intercourse. USE A CONDOM AND BIRTH CONTROL.
STDs. USE A CONDOM.
Sex is not intimacy. USE YOUR HEAD. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2009 4:44:21 PM | You need to ask ?
You have given him an access all areas pass simply because you like the look of his body. He likes the look of yours and guess what hes a dumb ****....
You have a degree but appear to have extremely poor judgment and very little understanding of yourself as well as men.
Even if the guy had brains why would he want you ? You are divorced and you laid it all on a plate for him so soon. He obviously didn't have to do much to impress you because his behaviour re cuming inside you is so completely and utterly irresponsible, childish selfish etc it is beyond belief for anyone his and your age that isn't mentally subnormal.
Doesnt take a degree to work that out does it ?
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Posted: 6/12/2009 8:01:19 PM | You should get off this site and get tested for STD's. Why in the world would you let "some guy" decide where your life is going. If you are in the dating world you should ALWAYS be on birth control and use a condom... I don't care what the guy says!!!!!!!!!!!
Unless you are in a solid committed relationship... ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 6/12/2009 8:08:57 PM | GOOD GOD girl....
PLEASE read Steve Harvey's new book "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment" ...
Honey, #1 you should ALWAYS protect yourself... you may as well have player “Russian roulette”....
Much love…
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Posted: 6/14/2009 11:13:25 PM | | I would have to say! he lost interest, becuase you put out on the first date. so you have pretty much lost all respect from him. guy will never respect a woman that is easy. so I would rite him off as a looser. next time use protection. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 11:16:19 PM | | i know this sounds bad. but you shouldnt give it all up on a first date. he just wanted to **** and chuck...guys are ***holes! sorry. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 11:26:00 PM | | OP: You gave him what he wanted, so he wandered off after he got it. It was all he was looking for. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2009 9:01:45 PM | | Cuz ya let him... Not all guys are like that.. Ive had sex on 1st dates and kept a lasting relationship before. Well im not a really 1 night stand kinda guy either... But just cuz you wanted to feel close to him and not use a condom... pregnacy should be the last of your concerns... Go get checked.. Your probally not the 1st that gave it up to him on the 1st date. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2009 9:10:00 PM |
Why is the finger always pointed at the guy when it takes "two to tango"?
Will the day ever come when we all (Men and Women) can face the reality that sex, whether casual or not, is a pleasurable and satisfying experience?
In this instance, the guy got what he wanted and bailed; so the finger pointing goes to him.
She didn't complain about the sex not being enjoyable, she was more bothered of the fact that he felt her up in public, on the second date, after sex. Obviously she can have casual sex.. but sadly, she wanted sex to be the "buy him into the relationship" move.
She says she is getting mixed signals from the guy, but she isn't- He says, got what I wanted by date 1, a little extra n date 2, I am good to move on.
TIP: Never have sex with a man on the first date, respect yourself. Love yourself-- only have protected casual sex! | |
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Posted: 7/16/2009 9:11:08 PM | | ohh yeah-- being pregnant isn't the issue... you need to get screened! | |
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Posted: 7/16/2009 11:14:59 PM |
i know this sounds bad. but you shouldnt give it all up on a first date. he just wanted to **** and chuck...guys are ***holes! sorry.
Not all guys honey!!! I had a date about 7 months ago... the gal tried to sleep with me on the first date one hour into it. I do not have sex on the first date. I had no condoms. A couple days later I get a phone call, I believe from her... calling me a retard and saying I was gay cause I did not nail her "friend"
Sometimes it is the womam pushing for the sex right away.
This situation all he wanted was a quick lay. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2009 11:23:07 PM | He's a horn ball and you're desperate for intimacy.
Dangerous combo. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2009 11:37:11 PM | | You had unprotected sex with him on the first date - yet you ask why the immediate intimacy level? Because you allowed it. DUH! How stupid can you be? So now that you've played the part of the dumb blonde perfectly, you might be pregnant because he just wanted to get his rocks off without interverence from a condom and you wonder why he hardly contacts you? And women claim women are the smarter sex? Oh, and to top it all off, you're only worried about being pregnant? What about AIDS and other STDs? Are you the "it'll never happen to me" type or what? | |
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Posted: 7/17/2009 12:58:05 AM | u have quite a history that tells of ur promiscuity and irresponsible ways. i just want 2 say u r a nice looking girl and surely u r smart u did finish school. y would u have unprotected sex with someone u met off the internet, u know he has done the same with other women if he did it with u and that puts u at great risk!!! have more respect for your life. it was a really stupid move that i hope for your sake u don't make again.    | |
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Posted: 7/17/2009 2:42:02 AM | What a shame, such an attractive gal, but you're really lacking some common sense here. Suck it up and learn from your mistakes. Then be grateful that the worst you get is verbally beat on over the internet. Seriously, this is not a small deal, a bad mistake with a situation like this could cost you everything. AIDs, STDs, an unwanted pregnancy.. All sorts of things that could end or seriously disrupt your life/mental health.
If you're going to show guys that they can treat you poorly and still get what they want out of you, don't be surprised when they take the easy way out and treat you poorly. Demand proper treatment and respect! Nobody will respect you if you don't respect yourself. You're a sexy gal, it shouldn't be too hard to make a classy guy put in some time and effort for some lovin'.
You can't change what's already happened, so don't dwell on it, but now would be a good time to think how and why you got into this, and make sure it doesn't happen again. Harsh? Maybe, but having your mistakes pointed out is really not all that bad in comparison to what could have been. | |
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Posted: 7/17/2009 6:44:12 AM | | OP needs to have her dating card revoked. | |
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