| are we all here because we hate the opposite sex???
Posted: 10/30/2009 2:06:25 PM | i don't hate women,my personal story without too many details is that i've been too nice.if all you find is self centered folks that are spreading hate keep moving on til you find the right folks.i don't believe everyone hates the opposites,i got faith. | |
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| are we all here because we hate the opposite sex???
Posted: 10/30/2009 2:23:58 PM | i notice it more in the forums than when i talk/meet women from just the dating portion of this website.
seems like forums are for venting a lot, and many people have deep seated anger towards the opposite sex that manifest here.
i catch a lot of examples of women trying to demasculate men... the notion of what a 'real' man is? how ALL men are filthy, perverted, bad.... Or are bad lovers.
and of course women deal with the topics of weight, looks, etc.
If I had the conversations from the forum in a dating environment, I wouldn't date! but luckily the forum is virtual and discussions are between people who are from ALL parts of the world/culture/ and experience so often times people DONT get along in the forums...
In person, its much sweeter and nice, from my personal experiences... | |
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| are we all here because we hate the opposite sex???
Posted: 10/30/2009 3:23:11 PM | It's sad that "some" others let the actions of people in the past play into their possible futures or to blame all of one sex for the actions of a few of the same gender. Online dating is not significanly different from regular dating, it seems to me. There are those that you will meet and feel somewhat attracted to only to find that once you begin to get to know them that they have lost their luster; especially after you have spent some time with them.
Personally, I give the men that interest me a chance until such time as they may prove they don't deserve my time. I also try to select carefully who I will meet in person after many many phone calls and e-mails.
I doubt that anyone is here to "hate' anyone of the opposite gender; what an ridiculous waste of their time. It's probably that they have met a few people that have clouded their opinion of the others they have talked to or met.
I think it requires keeping it all in prospective. The same things that happen online happen in real life. It's just the nature of the beast called "dating'. | |
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| are we all here because we hate the opposite sex???
Posted: 10/30/2009 4:27:59 PM | We are all here because of pent up sexual aggression and neglect.
Lets face, right now, this very instant, you had the choice between going on a date, starting a relationship, falling in love and having some sex, versus posting on the interwebs...... Well the interweb would be a very lonely empty dark vacuum.
We all want something, and if you are whining, its the something you aint getting, and probably wont. (not from anybody that is discerning, can read, and has a history of being familiar with your whining)
On a side note, on rainy days the motorcycle forums are filled with whiney mopers about how they cant ride.... go get a rainsuit and shaddaup already. Same thing here.
When it reighns it pours. | |
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| are we all here because we hate the opposite sex???
Posted: 10/30/2009 10:31:36 PM | | i love men and they love me...here is why i am not married...i don't want to hear the tv blarring golf 24/7.....i don't want to hear ...hurry up when i am getting ready..and yes it does take me two hours to get ready...i don't want a man around who lives for food,,must eat several times a day...because i end up getting fat...those are my main beefs...single life is heaven...so why should i change...men love that i am so easy to get along with..and if i was married i would have to give up my pleasant,, peaceful existence... | |
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| are we all here because we hate the opposite sex???
Posted: 11/25/2009 10:34:24 AM | So you're saying, these people are here to look for people they aren't looking for?
In a way, yes - I know what the OP means. Essentially it means they expect the worst from the opposite sex, yet underneath it all really expect someone to come along and prove them wrong. It's not hate but it's a massive distrust and projection from people they once dated or trusted.
It's a weird mixed message but I see it a lot in forums, in profiles and even in a couple first meets. People who are just not over some one who did them wrong, or don't trust anyone but are here to try and connect.
"If you're a waste of human life don't contact me; I've been here 20 years and meet nothing but game players; oh, and BTW I like walks on the beach." | |
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| are we all here because we hate the opposite sex???
Posted: 11/25/2009 1:02:39 PM | There have been many gender wars going on here. IMO, it's mainly because they've got hurt from the past relationships and they feel safer to generalize the opposite sex as a whole group in a negative way to protect themselves from any future harm.
Many problems between men and women come from misunderstanding about the opposite sex and so many women and men insist the opposite sex should feel the same way as they do in terms of dating, sex, marriage, relationships etc instead of learning and understanding the gender difference.
I usually focus on what men say about certain topics to learn more about what real men think and feel. It really gives me the whole different vision about the opposite sex more than ever before and hopefully I can apply these lessons I've learn from here to real life situations of mine. | |
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| are we all here because we hate the opposite sex???
Posted: 11/25/2009 1:08:14 PM | | i don't hate the opposite sex or my sex. i have a disease- it's called being allergic to stupidity. the on start of this disease came about when i was born and i still have it until this day. when people are stupid, i just hate on stupidity. i'm really afraid there's no cure. | |
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| are we all here because we hate the opposite sex???
Posted: 11/25/2009 5:25:54 PM | | I am strongly almost to that point of hating men at 29. My roommate says I am too bitter lol. But after the way I have been treated dont I have a right to be the least bit bitter? He doesnt get it. I dont hate men at this point but I am afriad I will soon. I am one of those people who has to believe it with her own eyes and I have not met a decent man in my 29 years so kind of scary to be honest. | |
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