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 PirateJohn09

Joined: 1/7/2009
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Posted: 10/29/2009 9:33:26 PM

If men really want to love women then try to understand what they go through and how they are treated. Show compassion instead of sarcastic, mean spiritied inconsiderate babble.

Yet you are blatantly refusing to give men the same consideration and understanding that you demand we give women.
 gentle whisper

Joined: 9/6/2009
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Posted: 10/30/2009 3:09:20 PM
lol you guys are still talking about me??????????
gosh guys get a life.
 el.metaleiro

Joined: 10/18/2006
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Posted: 10/30/2009 4:52:37 PM

gentle whisper: lol you guys are still talking about me??????????
gosh guys get a life.

True, why feed the trolls???

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troll_(Iceland)
 Glen4U

Joined: 7/28/2008
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Posted: 11/1/2009 5:26:34 PM
There are some decent guys but where. The last, what I thought was decent, guy that I have been talking t0 on POF for a month sent me a vulgar video the day before I was to meet him in person! So what is your opinion on that? I was appalled!!
 PirateJohn09

Joined: 1/7/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 9:28:22 PM

The last, what I thought was decent, guy that I have been talking t0 on POF for a month sent me a vulgar video the day before I was to meet him in person! So what is your opinion on that?

My opinion on that is that there are still lots of decent guys out there even though he is not to be counted among them. There are, after all, about three and a half billion guys in the world. One doofus doesn't count for much among such a large number.
 gentle whisper

Joined: 9/6/2009
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Posted: 11/2/2009 11:13:57 AM
come on now John One doofus???? lol that is like me saying there is only one **** in the world dah. be real. Women get vulgar emails all the time from men. Men constantly wanting to web cam so they can jerk off in front of you, or show off their man tool. Please, I wish you could be a women for just one week and see what we go through. Now the men who are not pigs God bless them and I bow to them. But too find them is one hell of a task.
 OpenWaterCaptn

Joined: 2/14/2009
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Posted: 11/2/2009 11:40:11 AM
all decent men are non existant, only rude obnoxious wanna be guys mess with women. the Men are in the garage/huntin club/track/garden/pasture. there is no such thing as a decent person anymore....a man can provide physically for a family but be broke as a window in a hurricane and that wouldnt be enough. its all about money to the majority of women, preppy/thug/starving artists/power brokers they get everything and when women are trampled on by them they seek comfort in a southern minded guy's shoulder but hes not good enough for her to be a husband.
 Outsideofthemiddle

Joined: 10/6/2009
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Posted: 11/2/2009 12:57:11 PM

all decent men are non existant, only rude obnoxious wanna be guys mess with women. the Men are in the garage/huntin club/track/garden/pasture. there is no such thing as a decent person anymore....a man can provide physically for a family but be broke as a window in a hurricane and that wouldnt be enough. its all about money to the majority of women, preppy/thug/starving artists/power brokers they get everything and when women are trampled on by them they seek comfort in a southern minded guy's shoulder but hes not good enough for her to be a husband.


Very true. They (women) always go to the ***holes who treat them like shit and then go and complain that all men are like dogs. They always forget the guys who are always there for them...you know, the ones that are "just friends" because they are not husband, or boyfriend matteiral.
 el.metaleiro

Joined: 10/18/2006
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Posted: 11/2/2009 1:10:13 PM


all decent men are non existant, only rude obnoxious wanna be guys mess with women. the Men are in the garage/huntin club/track/garden/pasture. there is no such thing as a decent person anymore....a man can provide physically for a family but be broke as a window in a hurricane and that wouldnt be enough. its all about money to the majority of women, preppy/thug/starving artists/power brokers they get everything and when women are trampled on by them they seek comfort in a southern minded guy's shoulder but hes not good enough for her to be a husband.

Very true. They (women) always go to the ***holes who treat them like shit and then go and complain that all men are like dogs. They always forget the guys who are always there for them...you know, the ones that are "just friends" because they are not husband, or boyfriend matteiral.

Or:

"He's a nice guy, but I'm not attracted to him."
"He's everything I want in a guy except that he's not tall enough."

 OpenWaterCaptn

Joined: 2/14/2009
Msg: 584
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Posted: 11/2/2009 1:21:20 PM
lesbianism stems from the misbeleif there just arent any good ones left.....me im just sittin on the tailgate by the fire with a beer watchin the morons doin their mating rituals.
 el.metaleiro

Joined: 10/18/2006
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Posted: 11/2/2009 4:57:40 PM

gentle_whisper: come on now John One doofus???? lol that is like me saying there is only one **** in the world dah. be real. Women get vulgar emails all the time from men. Men constantly wanting to web cam so they can jerk off in front of you, or show off their man tool. Please, I wish you could be a women for just one week and see what we go through. Now the men who are not pigs God bless them and I bow to them. But too find them is one hell of a task.

Are you sure they're "men"? Now I'm sure a lot of women's definitions of a "real man" would not include: a) sending vulgar e-mails to women, or b) showing you their schlong on their webcam.

Actually, all a guy would have to do to look at online dating from a woman's perspective would be to create a fake profile of a woman in a swimsuit or bikini or showing some cleavage and wait for all the e-mails from horny guys to start pouring in. Well, according to Chinese astrology I am a Pig. In fact, I'm a Metal Pig! But I'm not a Dog. I would've had to have been born a year earlier than I was. And if I had been born at least 2 months later, I would've been a Rat.
 89*4L

Joined: 8/7/2009
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Posted: 11/2/2009 6:36:11 PM
Decent guys: are they all either taken or gay?
taken- married and fathers
gay- weak and pathetic

is that what you mean by gay?
 PirateJohn09

Joined: 1/7/2009
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Posted: 11/2/2009 6:50:00 PM

come on now John One doofus????


five days ago:

The forum scene is over for me.


Now we know what your word is worth.
 montreal1000

Joined: 10/21/2009
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Posted: 11/3/2009 5:32:00 AM
well don't believe it, and i certainly hope that its not a common feeling among all woman cos it is not the case with me as i am sure it is not the case with a lot of us, but speaking for me, i know what i want and i have a lot to give to the right woman, and its real!
 gentle whisper

Joined: 9/6/2009
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Posted: 11/3/2009 10:31:47 AM
about as much as yours John. lol Its a womans perogative to change her mind. lol I never said I was perfect. Are you?
 stargazer1000

Joined: 1/16/2008
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Posted: 11/3/2009 1:04:59 PM
Um...seriously? Is this thing still going? Here's a little concept I like to throw out there in discussions like this: "personal accountability."

That means taking responsibility for one's own actions. It also means responsibility for one's own expectations. If someone is having trouble finding someone "decent," well, maybe they're falling over their own expectations. That applies to both men and women.

Just sayin'.
 Blues1963

Joined: 9/13/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 9:03:06 PM
Just sayin it well. Summed it up about perfect.
 Not The Cable Guy

Joined: 10/24/2008
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Posted: 11/4/2009 11:45:08 PM
You don't seriously expect me to read through all twenty-four pages of responses prior to posting a reply, do ya?...

Of course you wouldn't... So forgive me if I'm only reiterating a comment that might've previously appeared on page three, fifteen, or maybe even twenty-one... I know I'm not the only one...

Truth is; and pay attention now:

All the decent guys were taken by gay aliens...

I was abducted once... Once... And promptly thrown off the ship... Permanently banned from any further contact... 86'ed throughout the universe...

I said; "Wow... You guys have no genitalia... Just like Ken & Barbie... Just like all those weird drawings I've seen in tabloids and on the Sci-Fi channel... So what do you clowns do; just mind-fvck?"...

No humor, as well as no balls...

Wearing only socks; I regained consciousness in a wheat field roughly six hundred and forty-three miles from my home...
 FL CO

Joined: 12/23/2008
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Posted: 11/5/2009 8:51:13 AM

all decent men are non existant, only rude obnoxious wanna be guys mess with women. the Men are in the garage/huntin club/track/garden/pasture. there is no such thing as a decent person anymore....a man can provide physically for a family but be broke as a window in a hurricane and that wouldnt be enough. its all about money to the majority of women, preppy/thug/starving artists/power brokers they get everything and when women are trampled on by them they seek comfort in a southern minded guy's shoulder but hes not good enough for her to be a husband.


I hear ya. The true man won't get the same attention, because he probably has calloused hands, a few scars, isn't babyface smooth all of the time, doesn't alway fit in with the latest hairstyles and clothing. He know how to treat a woman, but they're not used to it, so they run back to what they know. True gentlemen are concidered pushovers in todays world. I can do everything that a hopeless romantic would want, and still be willing to trade blows for her. Unforunately, since I won't wear something that I don't like just to fit in, or make a lot of money, I'm often overlooked for someone who does, or atleast at like he does.
 wild heart

Joined: 10/14/2007
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Posted: 11/5/2009 9:09:10 AM
^^^HA! The type of man I'm used to has calloused hands, a few scars, I love a dark shadow, fishes, hunts etc. I grew up with those men, yet all I get all rich salesmen because I'm blond and thin and not what the average guy wants. I act like what they want, but I don't look like what they want. The men I grew up with were strong men, but are also able to cry. I've had VERY good men in my life and they have created a very high standard for me (this means in how they treat people, not how much $ they make). Plus, not only were they decent, but they were good looking too. And these decent men in my life? They made good enough money to support their family. No big extras, but you get what I'm saying. I cannot relate to rich salesmen, I don't come from there.

But yes, if I go to an event, I want him to be able to dress properly - not show up in some jogging pants - common sense. And besides, each woman has their own individual taste.

I've discovered that men in general are more easy-going than women. Women have their faults and men have their faults.

Maybe you guys are just as guilty of picking the wrong women as women are at picking the wrong men.
 FL CO

Joined: 12/23/2008
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Posted: 11/5/2009 9:30:31 AM
^^^of course dress for the event, but speaking for me personally, I could never get into the skin tight jeans, pastel colors, too small polo shirts, long hair hanging down into the face, etc.

We are probably just as bad about picking the wrong women. I've been looking for awhile now, and can't find any that meet my standards, because I'm being much more picky this time around. Those that appear to aren't interested in me, so its been tough. I'm sure will will turn up when I least expect it though
 el.metaleiro

Joined: 10/18/2006
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Posted: 11/5/2009 11:39:55 PM
This is a good satirical book for men (and women) to read. I read a previous edition of it and it's really hilarious (while still on track).

Nice Guys Don't Get Laid (ISBN: 0963582682)

I haven't read this book, but one reviewer said, "I'm going to do what Kate suggests. Multi-date and date all sorts of men, just not my so called 'type'. My so called type hasn't worked very well and I'm still single."

Not Tonight, Mr. Right: The Best (Don't Get) Laid Plans for Finding and Marrying the Man of Your Dreams (ISBN: 1600940625)

Happy fishing!
 valenciacityx

Joined: 3/10/2009
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Posted: 11/6/2009 1:07:58 AM
Neither taken, nor gay. But I am off the market, I am done fishing in local waters. Only casting my lines to the East.
Eclu Bbi Govorite No-pycckuu, mbi mojsem znakomutb nobolchshe.
 wild heart

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Posted: 11/6/2009 8:19:12 AM
I try to avoid reading all those "self-help" books....unless it's the one that I'm going to write and make gobs of money on
 el.metaleiro

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Posted: 11/6/2009 9:30:45 AM

valenciacityx: Neither taken, nor gay. But I am off the market, I am done fishing in local waters. Only casting my lines to the East.
Eclu Bbi Govorite No-pycckuu, mbi mojsem znakomutb nobolchshe.

I understand that all too well! Recently I watched "The Irony of Fate" (or "Enjoy Your Bath!") and that was a good Russian movie. For those who haven't seen it. The main guy is about to get married on New Year's Day. The evening before, he meets his friends at a bathhouse. They get drunk and go to the airport and drink some more. They forget who's really supposed to be taking the flight to Leningrad (now St. Petersburg), so the main guy gets pushed onto the plane. Arriving in Leningrad, he has a taxi take him to his home address, only it's in Leningrad instead of Moscow.

Eclu Bbi Govorite No-pycckuu, mbi mojsem znakomutb nobolchshe.
If you speak Russian, (then) we can talk further.

Говорю чуть-чуть по-русски. ("I speak a bit of Russian.")
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