| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 12:38:04 PM | There's 3 standards
3 - not interested
2 - shag
1 - girlfriend material
To answer your question what men want will depend on what category you fall in, I could tell you what my personal requirements are for girlfriend material but it would only apply to me as all blokes are different. | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 12:41:42 PM |
There's 3 standards
3 - not interested
2 - shag
1 - girlfriend material
To answer your question what men want will depend on what category you fall in, I could tell you what my personal requirements are for girlfriend material but it would only apply to me as all blokes are different.
well as i am the OP and it was a serious question would you enlighten me please? | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 12:44:27 PM | We all want sex at some point men and women .....what happened to men wanting to persue , romance and seduce?? you lot have become lazy feckers ....and yeah I know I generalised there. If a woman has decent morals and standards these days its a bad thing !!!!!! why because it means she isnt an easy lay?. Being single in your 40's allows us choice and some of us intend to make good choices rather then take a lucky dip here and there.
I have a friend works in the STD clinic they have more cases of std's amongst the over 35-50's ....whats the hurry to get someone into bed...its not a criteria box to be ticked along with OHAC, job etc... | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 12:46:48 PM |
We all want sex at some point men and women .....what happened to men wanting to persue , romance and seduce?? you lot have become lazy feckers ....and yeah I know I generalised there. If a woman has decent morals and standards these days its a bad thing !!!!!! why because it means she isnt an easy lay?. Being single in your 40's allows us choice and some of us intend to make good choices rather then take a lucky dip here and there.
I have a friend works in the STD clinic they have more cases of std's amongst the over 35-50's ....whats the hurry to get someone into bed...its not a criteria box to be ticked along with OHAC, job etc...
well said hun
i just wanna meet someone that is interested in me almost as much as what i got in me knickers lol  | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 12:47:07 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
LOVE YOUR STYLE TOO BEETLE YOU GO GURLLLLL 
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LIZ it seems that they still want to check even though everyone has more or less the same!
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Sweetie no man I ever dated even remotely borught up the subject of his mother on a date but they raised plenty of other things their mum would have had a fit at! So is the choice then either lay down for every man that asks you, or be thought of as their mother??? surely we can have a happy medium like say for example SEXY AND CLASSY? | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 1:47:20 PM | | No one is advocating celibacy in a relationhip. What is being said here is being celibate until one meets the right partner not dropping your knickers for every man who is clearly not gonna be interested past getting what he wants. | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 1:56:04 PM | Aw rite...From this thread:
1) Men are predators...
2) Only men want sex....
Women aren't and don't (1&2)...They're all angelic...
But, oh, wait a minhute, women also prostitute themselves (or commit an act with their bodies which they loath) to get what they want...
MMMmmmm..... | |
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Travan
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Joined: 11/23/2008
Msg: 58 | |
| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 1:59:36 PM |
No one is advocating celibacy in a relationhip. What is being said here is being celibate until one meets the right partner not dropping your knickers for every man who is clearly not gonna be interested past getting what he wants.
Nah what I get from this thread, is women keep fcuking the wrong men and rather than admit they are crap in their choices of men, they blame it on the men.
LOL Eejits. You reap as you sow... | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 2:08:37 PM | Is it not obvious? Yes, it's true men only want sex and are unable to be monogamous. 
I suggest women become dungaree wearing lesbians and devise a cunning plan to eradicate the male species.
MSG 65 - I am a feminist. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2009 2:23:28 PM | well after reading this thread and batting off another non boyfriend material......and being here for about 18mths on and off and at first very gulible......and having a time in the sweet shop thats how honest i am......settled down and want to find a boyfriend so i am looking for boyfriend underline friend build a friendship first is that too much to ask..........at the moment i think it is no your not having a test drive first how clear can i make it  | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 2:39:14 PM | WANTED:
A rich widow with a headache and a fishing boat - must have photograph
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Travan
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Joined: 11/23/2008
Msg: 63 | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 4:03:25 PM | Please don't be so cynical, at your age it is cringeworthy to watch sometimes."
What exactly, is cringe worthy about my postings..? And what the hell, does my age have to do with anything? I don't pull any punches, nor do I defend the sexual aggression, or recondite behaviour of men of men, it’s already whole heartedly encouraged by legions of other women here
"Reading some women babble, at the battle of holding onto an already shredded virtue, is just comical. For so many women, so keen to keep your drawers on (you claim), you spend a lot of time talking about doing so and when , why and how you will get them off...it just howls of hypocrisy.
Have met your kind before, sure you don't indulge in anything dubious? Never had cyber sex..? Never phone sex..? No tacky mails..? don’t mind doing it with whom I like you mean, unless you have been ignored, or he has got bored with you or found someone else more amusing, you blame the guy...and stagger back onto the profiles to proclaim your determination to withstand the onslaught of testosterone....and find another clique of like mined women who convince nobody, least of all themselves.
Plenty, decent, and sexy women on this site, they don't feel the need to justify any of their behaviour....and quite right too. Sweet geezuz ... some of you, make me feel like I am eaves dropping on Women’s Royal Institute escape committee meeting. "
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Posted: 6/13/2009 4:18:53 PM | message 69 and 70 like i said im honest i have indulge d in the sweet shop and of course being single for sometime im no saint but i am sick of the guys who think that just because im the other side of 40 i would be grateful to get my knickers off just for a bit of friendship ...............or a one nighter no thanks.... | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 4:22:25 PM | At least now the mystery of why one sweeping generalisation can't get into the pants of another sweeping gereralistion has finally been solved.
I'm really glad I pop in here. It's a real education sometimes. | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 4:58:33 PM | Regular BJ's
FOOD if you ain't cooking it then you're buying it
BJ
Naughty nursey to kiss it better and drive away that nasty man-flu
BJ
Beer
BJ
Football
BJ
A decent set of tools, not to do anything with just to brag to their mates
BJ
A conversation which only involves questions with the answers yes or no, at least they have a 50/50 chance of getting it right
BJ | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:00:02 PM | oh my word i never knew there was so many types of BJ
i am so gonna have some fun lol | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:14:16 PM | Dilleass
Many thanks for what you wrote it shows your thought process and is actually painful to read not for the reference to me but that anyone could be so bitter about women, and the sweeping generalisations and judgements, are just nasty.
I sincerely send all good karma out to you and hope that you will heal one day. | |
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Pud78
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Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 70 | |
| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:33:52 PM |
We all want sex at some point men and women .....what happened to men wanting to persue , romance and seduce?? you lot have become lazy feckers ....
Which was the fault of feminism, telling women they could be sexually liberal, that satisfying their sexual needs for personal gratification was a good thing and should be encouraged. Men became lazy because we didn't have to work hard for it and it was readily available in our 20's. When we get older women are used to men wanting sex and them giving it to them, on their terms and then wham the rules are changed. No longer are they going to just give it to men but make men work for it, let them seduce her and romance her and using the sex as a prize. Men don't know how to seduce as they never had to do it previously. Then the vicious circle begins and we end up with the battle of sexes on this thread. The women may of previously been more sexually liberal in their youth but when they get older their views changes, men unfortunately on the whole don't. | |
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Travan
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Joined: 11/23/2008
Msg: 71 | |
| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:37:08 PM | and might I add to that, women's general response to romance, chatting them up. or men generally coming on to them is either to take the p1ss, or make out we're some kind of perve!
Actually to be fair I've never enjoyed the chase. I don't believe in persuading you to give me what you want as well.
Be adult about it girls at least :) | |
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Travan
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Joined: 11/23/2008
Msg: 72 | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 11:41:41 PM | Actually to be fair I've never enjoyed the chase. I don't believe in persuading you to give me what you want as well.
as i said ...lazy feckers !! | |
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tm1971
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Joined: 5/22/2009
Msg: 74 | |
| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/13/2009 11:52:28 PM | I have old fashioned values when it comes to dating, i wont sleep with a guy until i feel comfortable with him which is generallyh the 4th or 5th date.
The chase if fun when it is over it can become boring and it is down to both to keep it interesting. | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 12:00:07 AM | | exactly ...there should be no time limits set it should just be a spontaneous thing that happens......and it should be because both parties want it to happen and not because they feel pressurised into it. | |
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