| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 12:00:25 AM | | A women that smells really good nice clothes friendly smile eye contact etc... I would think so as long as your being yourself you will be a worthy catch... its really all about what you want my dear??? | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 12:13:38 AM | I love being happy and that is all anybody wants at the end of the day along with passion. I love my job, i love my life at the minute, i have an amazing daughter who makes me smile every two minutes with her antics, i have crazy friends, i am ditzy and quirky.
I love the summers, i just want to meet someone one day who i will feel like i had known them all my life, i want every kiss to be like the first my toes curling, someone i can be playfull with, go away on holidays, spend winter sunday mornings in bed and then cook lunch together, go to a late night movie and eat popcorn. When i wake up in the morning and his dosey face is staring at me because he winded i want to be able to kick the crap out of him - playfully. Someone who wont mind if i play the music loud and dance like a mad woman in the house. I want a man i can have a partnership with. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 1:35:09 AM | Ultimately they want sex! just like us women, it's natural.
Some will work for it, charm, date and make a woman feel special first, then some just expect it to be handed to them on a plate.
No way is right or wrong, if the chemistry is there anything can happen and it's down the the individuals involved. | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 1:47:52 AM | as the old response to the question (sort of) goes:
A lady in public
A cook in the kitchen
A whore in the bedroom
not too difficult is it ;o)
oh and there's nowt wrong with tatts on a woman | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 1:58:45 AM | Can I book an appoointment, do I need a prescription?
As msg 85 said, if it's there, nothing will stop it, all this annylising and pre booking arrangements is very clinical and sanitary, a bit off putting really... | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 2:01:48 AM |
Well I'm after a little romantic company and good conversation, followed by a bloody good shag ............once the deed is done I would like them to leave me alone and fcuk off home, making me a cup of tea on their way out. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 2:08:24 AM | Gawd the aggro in some of these forums LOL. Here's the deal -
1. Men like to chase women
2. Women like to be caught
3. Everyone's idea of the "right moves" is equally correct and different, its just working out which buttons to press for the individual in question.
4. People who form happy fulfilled relationships with someone they've shagged after a drunken night out or a first meet aren't high in number.
5. Why can't we just take the time to get to know and like one another to the extent you know you're going to be happy when you wake up in the morning next to the person you just decided to take as a lover?
6. What's the big rush?
~~Dilleass seems to just hate everyone equally - don't think he's just getting at women, he's just chosen to use that big brain of his to dislike everybody and everything - he's just Mr. Happy basically. I love a man who believes in equality... LOL. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 2:11:03 AM |
what is it men really want?
I think it's unfair to answer this with a sweeping generalisation. Yes, some men are looking for the instant gratification of an easy lay, just as some women are but there are many who want something a little/lot more cerebral & substantial. We are all individuals with different wants/needs & the only way to discover what those are is to ask.
Mac, make yer own bleedin tea!  | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 3:13:30 AM | | Well I can't speak for all men, but I like very laid back women, not lazy just easy going. | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 3:19:11 AM | Well this man really wants to know where the post button is,
without having to quote people to answer. | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 3:27:48 AM |
what is it men really want?
i find this type of question ridiculous... there is no answer.
assuming i were, by some miracle, to find out what a particular man actually wants. am i prepared to change myself to achieve that? not a fecking chance....
this is what i offer, take it or leave it.... | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 3:36:27 AM | If we knew the answer to that question they wouldn,t need to write books likeMen Are From Mars,Women Are FromVenus!
What do i personally think men want? A quick shag,followed by a post coital fag! | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 3:37:25 AM | @msg 54
Being as you asked, my personal preferences are somebody who'es confident, funny, outgoing, energetic and good looking. She must not have any issues, i.e. low self asteem / jelousy, ex problems. If she has no financial contribution then it's only fair that she helps out occasionally with the running of my businesses.
I like someone who dresses like a woman (i.e. wears dresses and make up), is good with people and makes the effort to get on with friends / family.
Someone that can fit in with all of that, to me, would be classed as girlfriend material rather than just a shag.
I know I'm coming across as a bit of a twat as it looks like a shopping list, but you did ask. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 3:44:09 AM | travarn:
and might I add to that, women's general response to romance, chatting them up. or men generally coming on to them is either to take the p1ss, or make out we're some kind of perve!
Actually to be fair I've never enjoyed the chase. I don't believe in persuading you to give me what you want as well.
Be adult about it girls at least :)
Depends how you do it. All women appreciate the sloooow seduction  | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 3:53:45 AM | What is it men want - fecked if i know!! I dont think the majority of them know either in all honesty 
There are some genuine guys on this site- its just unfortunate that the few who arent ruin it for those that are seeking what it states on their profiles & are as they describe themselves.
Hence why im just seeking friendship & here for the forums xx | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 3:58:07 AM | Msg 97
What do i personally think men want? A quick shag,followed by a post coital fag!
I don't smoke, so i can spend more time shaggin'   | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 4:06:30 AM | having read the forums for a short while there is one thing that puzzles me and that is if a man is single and the woman of his dreams turned up and started talking in the forums would he be speaking in the same way in the forums as he does now?
because to be honest i've thought maybe..
but in real life i imagine things would be different especially if he was trying to impress her | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 4:27:15 AM | Kat was partially correct in her listing but a few exceptions on my part...
I don't like football, I hardly drink, don't do DIY so not fussed about tools, tend not to get man flu-usually quite healthy, conversation? Well your mouth is full?
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Posted: 6/14/2009 4:41:26 AM | On the topic of pursuing... why should it be down to the men? I think a lot of men have given up that tradition years ago, I can't be bothered myself... why should I waste time, money and efforts pursuing a woman who just wants attention, to be wined, dined and treated like a princess? *gags*  | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 4:49:20 AM | | I reckon we all want the same thing companionship, leg over, and romance. However when you put this dating site in the equation it makes it all a bit more complicated because people, even the most decent of people tend to hedge their bets a bit too much due to the factor of choice that most of us just dont get in real life. One has to take that into consideration and dont write people off as players, just staying friends can sometimes guide things along.... if its meant to be. | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 7:13:11 AM | | Well....It's not gonna last if you can't maintain a decent conversation between shags....lol | |
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