| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 7:18:43 AM | | Depends on the man , I have a mate called Mac , he relishes in breaking hearts , then theres Tex , he just likes sex with no strings , pricey , out and out commitment , hes been with same girl since school and then there's Stu , say hello to him and he'll fall in love with you , sod that ! look in his general direction and he'll fall in love with you . All men , all after different things , just like women | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 7:54:58 AM | Aitch Em said " I think it's unfair to answer this with a sweeping generalisation. Yes, some men are looking for the instant gratification of an easy lay, just as some women are but there are many who want something a little/lot more cerebral & substantial. We are all individuals with different wants/needs & the only way to discover what those are is to ask."
I don't believe we can just ask...a lot of men don't know what they want and will tell you what they think you want to hear. Good woman have learned that they need to spend time with someone and get to know that person because we all know talk is cheap, back it up with actions....this is why the people come here to complain about their dates or relationships. Woman have taken what a guy has said and "Voila" he turned out to do/be the exact opposite.
Woman need to take responsibility for what they allow....we teach people how to treat us.
You are bang on in the first part of your statement I agree whole heartedly | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 8:07:43 AM |
Right now, a cooling poultice for my penis.
Funny you should mention that, I was down the sunday market this morning and they were selling them 3 for the price of 1.
Have you been nude sunbathing again? | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 8:25:30 AM | Malemodel would have us believe that the women are happy just to meet him for sex after he makes it perfectly clear that is all it will be and even gets messages from women who aren't looking for players and they don't do one night night stands, this sounds like hypocrisy but it really isn't. A woman on a dating site is probably looking for companionship, a lover and a future and doesn't want to blur those lines by falling for players and men just after sex, even if she would like that in the interim.
Men on the whole are also after the companionship and relationship scenario, but would have their cake and eat it whilst they find the one, it is the fact that men and women view dating differently. There isn't an easy answer and unfortunately it isn't about what men want but more what do men from you? they may see you as shagging material, dating but nothing heavy or the one,and when it is the one I would imagine the sexes pretty much want the same. Just don't expect a guy to be honest how he sees you, and remember that views of people change. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 9:59:08 AM | NOTTHEONE
So sorry to miss your question last night I thought it was just an opinion so didnt reply.
Well my pics represent the way I dress in real life I like showing off my body and I work hard to maintain it.
The beach pics have a bikini none are topless or anything and I would wear that on the beach. Its a numbers game here, I want a bigger pool to choose from so many people do actually click on the profile because of the pic. Ok some read it and some dont but of the ones that do read it I have had good feedback on the whole.
Ok now you can make the argument that any woman that wears a bikini is looking for sex or any woman that poses suggestively for a pic is looking for sex. Perhaps she's looking for a sexy partner who is also deep like her?
In fact what I would ideally like is a man that accepts that women can dress in a way that is revealing becasue they enjoy it but they are still allowed to have high morals, and he doesnt make the instant snap judgement Short skirt= Shes gagging for it | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 10:07:14 AM | Dilleas I have an inbox of mail about you and some run ins you have had here with people and about how your profile is fake but I said to them what if it is fake? He's still a human being that is obviously deeply troubled.
I sincerely meant my last post to you there is no reading between the lines. What I wanted to say is what I wrote. I don't know you and you don't know me or in fact probably anyone on this forum in real life, but for some reason you want to come here and show you are sick of the world sick of everything sick of yourself even, all I am saying is that you are welcome to be here and where I see or feel pain I respond to it and I don't care how you take it.
What is important is how I meant it. | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 10:13:58 AM | Men on the whole are also after the companionship and relationship scenario, but would have their cake and eat it whilst they find the one,
Maybe its time to step out of the cake shop ......and realise quantity does not equal quality and although I understand you have to kiss a few frogs etc......this pond is running dry and I draw the line at newts n toads
MaleModel - types words onto a screen nothing more and the Grattan catalogue pics are circa 20 years ago .....is he real ? who really cares his posts are entertaining enough . | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 11:23:59 AM | Ok, I read the first page ish - then my eyes started to glaze over.
Some men want sex, just sex. Some men want sex and friendship, some men want sex and a relationship, marriage, kids - the whole kit and caboodle (I do like that word). Some men want to dress in women's underwear and sing 'Hey, Big Spender' - I think it's best to find what a man wants on a case by case basis. Unless you know all the words to 'Hey Big Sender'.
Can we stop the 'all men are barstewards and all women are stuck up b1tches' now please?
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 11:37:19 AM | Sex, sex, sex, sex, sex. There seems to be a general obsession amongst women that men are obsessed with it and yet, if we're objective, Rampant rabbit's probably outsell male sex toys on a 50 to 1 basis. Who's obsessed?
Meanwhile........ finding someone who wants to have sex isn't that difficult is it? Finding someone you'd want to have a little snog with on the weekly shop and lie in bed cuddling with 'no agenda' and wake up with and smile just because they are there - and make plans for holidays or trips out and maybe the future, that's the difficult one. | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 11:46:02 AM |
Sex, sex, sex, sex, sex. There seems to be a general obsession amongst women......
Hahahaha wish I'd said that! Give that man a beer | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 12:02:02 PM | Well i agree with what ikabob instant brew said, or was it his brother, can't remember now, but anyway, way back in 27 BC he said ... pass me a beer, the women are drivin' me nuts   | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 12:02:05 PM | I tell ya, Men..All they want is a barbie doll type that looks good on their arm!.Wake up, thats only in the movie brothers!..They can be dumb as a box of rocks as long as there perfect!...I find this site, an group men very shallow on here!..I have been on here for a year now an all the messages I get is how there going do me up right..I ask WTF!...Does it say 'come an get you some I'm a hoe!'.Like I'm going let so jerk come to my house or where every without meeting them in person just for sex..Come the F**K on...No it doesnt!...Hell If I want a peice of ass well I would go to the local bar an get one!.I dont have no problem getting my monkey love!...GeZZZ!..I'm thinking about deleting my account!...As far as the guy saying chick with no tattoo's..Hey Bro, go to church, maybe your find a nice clean cutt chic there..I have tattoo's an I love them!...An I'm getting more!...GIDDY UP!.....Peace out!  | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 12:16:09 PM | Mostly...they seem to be looking for a leg over...some...not so much..but hey..that is a big part of a relationship..
*cough* it is to me anyway..it the sexual spark isn't there then things don't tend to work...and I'm not old enough to be someone's 'companion' yet. | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 12:26:15 PM | | Its just what women want and who you chat to0, the problem is that the girls who pick the lad who she "fancy" the most will for sure turn out, to only want one thing and I hear so many ladies moaning about guys and yes I know that most of the guys out there are losers who most of the time, girls want to date them - thats just life | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 1:35:25 PM | | some one who can accept me for who i am including my faults and not try to change me | |
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tm1971
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tm1971
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 4:56:30 PM | Seems to me that those Guys or Gals who are on here for sexual gratification of any kind, be it phone sex, msn sex, or indeed real-life sex are on the wrong site - I mean, isn`t this a `Dating` Site where people are seriously looking for Lurrrrve????
I want a man who wants `ME` and not just a `sh*g`. Once he proves himself in that respect then, given time, he might well get a sh*g, but I`d need a whole lot of reassurance it`s me he really wants first - `cos I`m worth it  | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 5:01:48 PM |
I want a man who wants `ME` and not just a `sh*g`. Once he proves himself in that respect then, given time, he might well get a sh*g, but I`d need a whole lot of reassurance it`s me he really wants first - `cos I`m worth it
Sorry, Phoebes, I smoke....lol. | |
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| what is it men really want?
Posted: 6/14/2009 5:09:58 PM | | Dilleas you do indeed have a fine intellect sometimes and that is to be congratulated. So let's see more of that talent and less of the nasty side. You are always good for entertainment value however, which ever head you are wearing. | |
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