| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 4:30:50 PM | me wonders the same thing guitarman,, however i know an i have fallen victim too an so have many other ladies that some women will put up wit almost anything when it comes to a "so called man" an the whole care an love an emotions bit.. down to stinky assed ness to cheating infront of the face...
but i had to jump in an say my goodness emruld you is too cute 20 years s hit i don't know how?? i couldn't stand 20 days or 20 minutes from how an what i read from you about this so called man of yours..good riddens the sooner the better you'll be a much happier person an lighter on your feet since you wont have that 20 year baggage dragging behind you anymore... | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 4:40:04 PM | As others have said, it's not always the weight, but more likely the hygiene that would keep me from going down on a big gal. I've dated/been with big and small. Unfortunately, the ones with the bad odors were always the big ones. All ladies have to pay close attention to hygiene downstairs. Obese women really need to pay attention. Hard to believe they can't smell it themselves when it comes wafting out when they open their legs.
Funny story; I was with this big girl once and she was bragging about how "sweet" her stuff was. That particular night, it wasn't! I could smell it. :sick: She stuck her hand down there and smelled it herself as she was saying that. The look on her face was PRICELESS! She tried to play it off like she didn't smell anything, but her face turned red from the embarrassment. How'd we get on that topic, you ask? She was asking how come I didn't go down on her! Needless to say, the topic of conversation quickly changed. Admittedly, she didn't typically smell bad, but if her 2-minute baths/showers were any indication, there was no way I was going down there to get close enough to verify!
Put it this way, ladies (and gentlemen, too.) If you don't use a washrag when you bathe, it's a pretty good bet that you stink down there. Rubbing a bar of soap, loofa, or those nylon puff thingies across your body does not get you clean. So, big girls, get a rag and soap, and scrub-a-dub down there. (The underarms appreciate love and attention, too.) | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 4:55:20 PM | tayl0rd
see i don't know why some people men an women in general big or small don't use wash cloths gliding soap or warm water anit cleaning nothing you got all those dead skin cells an areas that soap or warm water alone is not going to to get scrubbed clean..
it's the same with men you play with your penis all day or whatever your doing an you mean to tell me you can't smell your own balls an d ick an s hit just as well as women you know you smell urselves don't pretend like you don't.. | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 4:59:20 PM | | am leaving him.. he said leave .. so . i am lol 2 months for the place i want... so im stuck here till then... stayed because of kids.. and.. financial reasons... and others that i dont care to go into on here.. (i can only post 2 times ever 10 posts so.. i dont respond quick so i f u w ant to chat.. mssg myprofile lol) | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 5:49:58 PM | OP
No...actually it doesn't. It depends on the man or woman and yes cleanliness. There won't be any sex at ALL if things don't smell fresh. Size doesn't always rule. Being a big girl most of my adult life, if a man's into that he's into it. My size is part and parcel of who I am and he is obviously attracted to it.
I think sometimes it does but then one has to wonder why that person's even with the other if they think they're too fat? I saw your response about who you're with and who you f**k and get that BUT if a guy is going to f**k me then he should be willing to give me the tubesteak with ALL of the trimmings ya know? | |
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Posted: 6/13/2009 6:47:39 PM | That_girl*, you're so right. I've had to introduce more women than I care to think, or should ever have had to, to the washrag. Thankfully, they were all susceptible to starting to use one. My best way of making my case was the undeniable "white towel test." Take a white towel or rag and firmly rub (not grind) their skin immediately after a shower and show them all the dirt they neglected to remove. Was a real eye opener every time! Never was an issue after that.
Well, oddly enough, the big girls didn't even want me coming at them with a rag. Go figure. | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 9:08:05 PM | | I wouldn't consider myself thin nor would I say I'm fat. I have curves and I have a boyfriend. He is VERY giving in the pleasure department. There are times he won't even let me take care of him, he just wants the night/time to be about me. He has no problems with my weight. | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/13/2009 9:22:19 PM |
My question is, if he was that much of a slob why would you be with him??? hmmm
me wonders the same thing guitarman,,
If you are aiming this towards me.. my answer is simple. I was young, dumb and had some major self esteem issues and didn't think I could do or deserved anything better. I tried to lead by example.. showered daily, brushed my teeth infront of him, everything.
And for those of you who are advocating the use of soaps, etc.. I don't/can't do it. I have very sensitive skin and it causes me to break out and get a rash if I use soap on my girlie bits. I've been like this since I was a little girl. Never had a single solitary complaint about my stuff. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 6:40:11 AM | to no 1 bby
theres baby soap? my son had to use that for quite some time as he got exema exp on his hands... also my sisters daughter has to use that... soapless soap ( dont know what thats all about) i think.. the most part why guys dont like bigger women tho is the hygine..... when you have.. rolls? folds? air cant get to it.. creates a funk faster than women who dont have.... so.. ye we have to be more aware of things... thank god for babywipes (which i taught my boys to use also after bathroom) and body sprays...in.. stratigic areas if needed esp on hot days if your going out... i find tho.. trying to tell a close (heavy) freind about the... smell when she sits cross legged..... was offensive to her.. but.. well.... she was being offensive to me :P and eventually forgave me :P tho things didnt change :( | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 9:39:03 AM | LOL...man, you know...I figure I've seen the grossest posts ever on here and then I come to a new thread to realize that people can get even grosser than that!
I had a laugh about the "white rag" post...so disgusting that you would even entertain going near someone that "greasy" but equally funny that you'd bother to go to all the trouble to "demonstrate"...LOL priceless. Can anyone say "SHAMWOW"?!
Okay, so some dude has taken the trouble to go through some thread with the topic of women who aren't getting oral sex and meticulously went through all the posts to determine whether they were fat?
Humanity never ceases to amaze and astound me!
This place is truly destroying any redeeming qualities I thought most men had.
OP...why don't you just avoid fat girls. You'll be doing them and yourself a big favor. Trust me on this one.
Then you have the threads that denigrate and put down those who are meticulously clean when it comes to having sex. Ohhhh, you're afraid of your own B.O. they say...what is wrong with people who have such an aversion to their own "aroma" they call it LOL...aroma?
Ugh...good thing I already had my breakfast digested a while ago. This post is yet another "ewww factor" to add to the many I've already experienced on these sex threads. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 10:50:38 AM |
to no 1 bby
theres baby soap? my son had to use that for quite some time as he got exema exp on his hands... also my sisters daughter has to use that... soapless soap ( dont know what thats all about) i think.. the most part why guys dont like bigger women tho is the hygine..... when you have.. rolls? folds? air cant get to it.. creates a funk faster than women who dont have.... so.. ye we have to be more aware of things... thank god for babywipes (which i taught my boys to use also after bathroom) and body sprays...in.. stratigic areas if needed esp on hot days if your going out... i find tho.. trying to tell a close (heavy) freind about the... smell when she sits cross legged..... was offensive to her.. but.. well.... she was being offensive to me :P and eventually forgave me :P tho things didnt change :(
Nope... can't use it... and won't use sprays, especially *there*. Those are not at all necessary if you have good hygiene. Not to mention they are irritating and can cause more problems than they solve. As I said.. I don't have an issue with it, never have. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 11:41:33 AM | i love all the lil sprays an powders,, there really nice to wear to smell good an keep you fresh as well as sexy...
an douching is your friend an keeps things in order..
however i know everybody is differant an doesn't use those things an never have... | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 11:50:12 AM |
i love all the lil sprays an powders,, there really nice to wear to smell good an keep you fresh as well as sexy...
an douching is your friend an keeps things in order..
however i know everybody is differant an doesn't use those things an never have...
I never have, never will. There's no need as the vagina is self-cleaning. I know alot of women rely on those things... wonder how frequently they have a yeast infection? Last thing my guy likes is a mouthful of some detergent or chemical... | |
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/14/2009 11:51:03 AM | Well, I'm a big girl - in the 200 lb range and fairly tall. I've never had a single complaint in my life about my p***y taste - quite the opposite actually. As most posters say, hygiene is #1.
And I love big guys and I've never had a complaint about any of them. I love the musky taste and smell of my men over an overly perfumed genital area. But man, clean is clean! | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 12:05:10 PM | ew dont douch it screws up the ph ballance.. and once u start u have to keep doing it... shower head... works great.. the. take down type.. and... well you dont spray the deoderants on the... bits.. just.. the creases... but yay to those who dont have to... or dont want to :)
ive never had complaints either... even when caught off gaurd one morening.. and hadnt showered that day yet | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 12:50:40 PM | lotta small minded people round here...been with woman of all sizes and none have ever complained about oral,weight or otherwise...and if she said lose weight...I would expect to loose her...and the same goes other wise too....but my mind doesnt work that way....did I say mind?
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Posted: 6/14/2009 1:16:10 PM | Wow, I dont think that using a douche is wise sometimes as I had a friend who douched with vinegar regularly and was a clean freak when it came to her lady parts. She douched during her period with vinegar and then used a tampon, only problem was the tampon was the kind that they advertise that contains baking soda to kill the smell. Well anyone who has had four grade science will tell you that the combination of vingar and baking soda will cause a reaction. Remember this what is used to make the eruptions on children's volcano science projects. My friend rolled her tampon in even more baking soda thinking she would improve it. >>>>>>>>Well lets just say her lady parts had an eruption of their (like the kind science volcano has). She freaked big time it took awhile to get her calmed down and to stop errupting.
bottom line cleaniness is great and needed by all not just bbw woman and men. But when doubt it test yourself by taking a unscented tissue and rubbing your genitals and then smelling them. I for one think everyone should taste there own sexual body juices to see what there sexual partner will experience.
No1 bby... we all do thing we dont that arent exactly wise for us, when it come to self esteem, wanting to be excepted or for love. You are wise now, but that learning experince helped bring you to where you are now a wise and awesome person as i have read many of your posts. That Girl and Emruld you both are awesone woman in your own rights dont settle for less that what you deserve.
Does weight matter, IMO NO, but it is diffucult to tollerate bad smells no matter what your feelings may be towards your partner. It does not matter if the are rail thin or extra large when you stink, you stink. ........ But being open and communicative can solve some of the hyigene problems. But be gentle no one wants to be told that they stink. Asking someone to lose weight and dangly sexual pleasure over there head is unfair and manipulative. You should get oral gratication and be accepted as you are.
Take care!
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| Does your mate/FUKC buddy's WEIGHT determine whether you give ORAL?
Posted: 6/14/2009 1:24:01 PM | | I have never been "skinny" or had the model type figure, but have a few x-tra lbs. on me..I have also never had my man complain about anything down there and the last man I was with it seemed he couldn't get enough of it so I don't think size has anything to do with it as opposed to good personal hygiene.. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 3:17:52 PM | I agree.......weight is not the issue..........hygiene is.
and I guarantee you.........if a man looked at me and told me I had to lose weight before he would perform oral sex on me......it would be the last time he'd ever see me.
and I would go eat a brownie w/ Gigglemepink. | |
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