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 ooobaby01

Joined: 5/18/2009
Msg: 51
Broke up w/TRUE NARCISSIST - Do I tell his ex what he is?
Posted: 6/16/2009 6:54:32 PM
OMGG are you for real???? Sorry but you seem to have issues yourself to have #1 wrote about this on a singles web site for all to read about your failed 'courtship' and #2 to have stayed with a guy (maybe the flage should have been flourecent) you now claim is an NDP....
My opinion take responsiblity for your OWN actions focusing on your OWN errors rather then wasting your energy trying to label someone else....
In short 'swollow the pill and move on'

WHY would you feel you have a right to make contact with his ex WIFE???

I have met a few ppl who hit their heads pretty hard off some rocks when they flew off the wagon but I would NEVER for the life of me waste my energy labelling them or contacting their ex's once the relationship was over....

"LIVE AND LEARN" cuz by the sounds of it you were being taught a lot of lessons so focus more energy on that then on others~
 Brunette Girl 425

Joined: 11/24/2008
Msg: 52
Broke up w/TRUE NARCISSIST - Do I tell his ex what he is?
Posted: 6/16/2009 7:01:03 PM

I have no grudge or am not vindictive at all ...

Yes you are. You're also drama in a box.


The exwife needs to know WHAT she is dealing with

She's an ex for a reason. Again, you're drama in a box.

 ForumsGee

Joined: 2/26/2009
Msg: 53
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Posted: 6/17/2009 5:39:15 AM
Brunette:

..you are a beautiful woman..just the kind HE likes.. long dark hair etc., you are the right age for him, I hope to God he does not contact you (he's from your area), ..he's searching for fresh waters....

He's not someone I would wish on anybody !
 ~vhdc~

Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 6/17/2009 6:26:54 AM
FYI she is his ex for a reason. Do you honestly believe you have some great pearls of wisdom to enlighten this woman? Leave it alone and let go of this grudge you are carrying.
 MissaInVA

Joined: 5/4/2009
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Posted: 6/17/2009 8:07:33 AM
I'm sure his ex-wife is fully aware of what he is - probably more so than you. You said that he continues to try to hurt his wife. If you go around contacting his ex or anyone else, how are you any better? Be glad he's not your problem anymore, and let it go.
 Brunette Girl 425

Joined: 11/24/2008
Msg: 56
Broke up w/TRUE NARCISSIST - Do I tell his ex what he is?
Posted: 6/17/2009 2:20:52 PM
Brunette: ..you are a beautiful woman..just the kind HE likes.. long dark hair etc., you are the right age for him, I hope to God he does not contact you (he's from your area), ..he's searching for fresh waters....He's not someone I would wish on anybody !

No worries....this is exactly the reason I keep a shovel, rope and duct tape in my car. I say "bring it on!"....I've been kinda bored lately anyway.

 GuitarDana

Joined: 1/2/2009
Msg: 57
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Posted: 6/17/2009 2:42:51 PM

OP... mind your own business, plain and simple.


Isn't it amusing how she doesn't view this post as Narcissistic?
 Mercy Mac

Joined: 3/29/2009
Msg: 58
Broke up w/TRUE NARCISSIST - Do I tell his ex what he is?
Posted: 6/17/2009 2:59:30 PM

He was and still is, on a 'mission' to destroy the his ex wife. Since there on/off separation/divorce of about 6 years, he has made it is goal to make his ex wife a target of his constant manipulative and mindmessing behavior


Im sure she knows! BELIEVE ME!! and even worse, she could possible be an even more ruthless NDP than he is and u just dont know it....
count your blessings and WALK AWAY!
 Lil Brooker

Joined: 6/17/2008
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Posted: 6/17/2009 5:24:47 PM
Yes, send her the information...once... and then wash your hands of it. Many of us who have dealt with personality disordered individuals were bewildered and had no clue.
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