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Posted: 6/14/2009 1:41:24 PM | I found naked pictures of my dad on the computer years ago and confronted him about them. He pretty much pulled the same card.
So I hacked his e-mail account and discovered he was having an affair..........
Yea he is cheating. Dump him. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 1:47:59 PM | You dont post pictures on the interenet unless you intend someone on the internet to see them. Otherwise you keep them to yourself in private...
Anything you do over the internet can be seen. Nothings "private"....
And in case you didnt know, once you send a picture via the internet, "other" pictures can attach itself to it too........ meaning other pictures in your files.....
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Posted: 7/13/2009 7:15:30 PM | hi, i had the same problem with a guy .he gave me a cell phone and in the cell phone was a bunch of naked pictures of himself.he told me he just wanted to know if his dumb phone camara worked ..such a stupid excuse.. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 8:05:40 PM |
i confronted him about it and he turned it around and said he took the pic so he can email them to me which i never got. I would like to get your opinion on this.
OP, my condolences regarding your situation, but it's really funny. Your dude is one slick serpent there and that's just crafty how he turned it around on you. he should major in Jurisprudence.
all i can tell you is that you're in the relationship you feel you deserve to be in.
all the best,
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Posted: 7/13/2009 8:15:23 PM | | if your asking that question then you have your answer,.... hes a cheater | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 8:25:51 PM | My ex had nude pics of herself on the computer and, aside from enjoying looking at the pics, I couldn't care less about them. Never in a million years would I accuse her of cheating because of something so trivial as that.
How sad that people are so desperate to label someone as a cheater that something so speculative is enough to condemn someone. The replies in this thread sicken me. Have fun dying alone and driving away true love with unfounded assumptions. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 8:30:01 PM | You may never find out if he's cheating or cheated.
You just have to trust ...
Yourself and your own sense of judgment. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 9:19:35 PM | "why don't YOU ask HIM if he's cheating."
The answer will be 'No'. Now what information do you gain from that? | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 9:24:34 PM | OMG READ MY POST! The same thing happened to me. Seven months into the relationship. He used the same excuse - that he took them for me. I found them a couple of weeks after he took them. Never saw them.
Also pulled up some from his recycle bin. Those were just friggin gross.
He's lied about so many other things I don't believe anything that comes out of his mouth. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 11:02:31 PM |
My ex had nude pics of herself on the computer
Thanks dude! Now all the boys are going to ask to see my pics
I found that my ex had received nude pics from a girl well we were together, and once he also received a text msgs of some chicks breasts....I never once thought he had been cheating. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 11:13:11 PM | i dont know what his intentions were with the pictures but you should sit down and talk to him and not jump to conclusions | |
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Posted: 7/14/2009 4:12:48 AM | | whats does your gut say not the heart the gut ..... he is cheating i vote dump | |
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Posted: 7/14/2009 5:48:50 AM | OP - I'm really sorry that this happened. I'm thinking that you must have had your suspicions, otherwise you wouldn't have been looking through his stuff.
I know first hand how much this sucks and I don't want to make you feel any worse then you already feel. I know that if you confront him again he's only going to lie and lie and lie. You obviously lost any faith and trust you had in him and in the relationship. As hard as it may be, I think you need to end things before it gets any worse and you have even more time invested.
Unfortunatly, with the wonderful invention known as Internet Dating, cheating has become easier then ever...
best of luck to you! | |
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Posted: 7/14/2009 6:29:19 AM | When I ask the magic 8 ball it indicates that if he is not cheating on you yet he soon will be. The magic 8 ball never lies  | |
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Posted: 7/14/2009 7:56:49 AM |
And in case you didnt know, once you send a picture via the internet, "other" pictures can attach itself to it too........ meaning other pictures in your files.....
How? | |
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Posted: 7/15/2009 4:25:22 PM | | it does sound very fishy. i would keep an eye on him and see if he does it again. look out for other clues too though. like is he distant, or anything like that, coming home late.. just be on the lookout. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2009 4:33:50 PM | | how much time passed between the pics added and you finding them ??? | |
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Posted: 7/15/2009 9:10:41 PM |
I found naked pictures of my dad on the computer years ago and confronted him about them. He pretty much pulled the same card.
Huh. Pulled the same card, you say?
And here I would have thought that in a situation like that he'd be pulling his goalie.
I kid! I kid! And sympathize. That's brutal.
I hope you've gotten over his betrayal with time. It's always a big disappointment when someone learns for the first time that their father is nothing but a big dadhole.
On topic: Eh. I got nothing. The OP has left the building after all. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2009 9:28:10 PM | One thing does not certify if he is cheating. But this suggests that he is.
I will most likely draw a lot of hatred for saying this but you need to know. You have a RIGHT to know. You need to find out. If finding out means that you need to snoop then so be it. You do not deserve to be treated like a backup or a fool. You are a person with thoughts and feelings - privacy be damned.
I have been in this situation before. What grabbed my attention was the major change in attitude, sex and time spent on the internet. I never snooped until these drastic changes took place. I will not explain my methods but I discovered that that woman I loved was planning to break up with me and run off to Nova Scotia with some internet guy.
Did I deserve that? No.
Do you deserve that? No; find out. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2009 10:18:09 PM | | He's lying. Check his Myspace/MSN/emails for whoever he's sending nude pictures to. It's not really over-doing it since you have a very reasonable to mistrust him about it. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2009 10:24:22 PM | Maybe he's just a narcissist and finds himself irrisistable........? If he starts saying his own name during sex, then my dear you have a problem.
Quit being dumb and dump the internet stud. | |
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