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Posted: 10/28/2009 4:38:59 AM | | Something is not sound right. Web cams guys are usually pervs anyway. Do you know how old the picture is? Sometimes we leave dated stuff on our computer. If it is fairly new he is playing games with you. Move on and try to find a more mature man. | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 4:42:04 AM | naked on cam! LOL
he is a perv. dump him.
i do not understand for one min why people need to be naked on cam? so 1990's. | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 6:27:15 AM | | oh come o n ! he's sending his package to every horny on the planet | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 6:36:31 AM | ok, let me tell you about something similar that happened to "a friend "
Whilst on her b/f computer she clicked on history. Up came the address of a swinging site. Asked him what it was all about, he said that he looked out of curiosity. She let it go. Then he bought a web cam. He never spoke to her on the web so she was a little suspicious. He said it was to take pics of the cars he sold. This time she accessed his msn account, she knew his password. He was a full member of "NO Talk Just Sex". Name says it all ! | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 8:29:09 AM | Firstly OP you need to decide on what YOU consider cheating?
At the least your bf is sending pics of himself to girls online.
At the worst he has some sort of regular online perhaps even (but unlikely) offline friendship/relationship going.
Once you are clear what is acceptable to you. Explain it clearly to your partner. He is lying to you, but he is doing it because he doesn't know where he stands. Online flirting, voyeurism is harmless, if the effect on your relationship is harmless, if it causes loss of trust and intimacy then you have to be clear, give him to opportunity to understand and stop, otherwise make a relationship choice.
Keep in mind their is nothing wrong with his choices, but there are consequences for his actions. Just as there are with all of us.
BOL
Shmeg | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 8:36:49 AM | | Sounds fishy. See how old the phots are, ie when they were taken, if more than a week old, then you didnt get them, he would of hinted to you of any unusual mail. Seondly, why would you need a picture of him? You see him on a regular basis and know what he looks like. Maybe he is sending lude photos to others. Sounds like a perverted person | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 10:02:27 AM | Why the hell would he think anyone wanted a naked picture of him unless they specifiacally asked for it?
He's full of sh1t. | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 11:03:40 AM |
It may be an innocent case of voyeurism.
Disagree. It was behind her back and mentally cheating. I don't believe his story either and neither do you or you wouldn't be checking up on him and asking this question in a forum.
Lack of trust this early on in a relationship is reason enough to move on. | |
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Posted: 10/28/2009 7:34:02 PM | | Everyone is so paranoid, this is like the "Plenty of Low Self-Esteem Fish". Who cares , it's his computer, his webcam, and what used to be his privacy. Take some nude pics of yourself and you can both trade. | |
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| Is he cheating or not.
Posted: 10/28/2009 8:34:19 PM | What were you doing on his computer and why?
Since you confronted him instead of talking to him you automatically put him on the defensive. I honestly don't think it would matter what he said or didn't say.
Everyone gets the benefit of the doubt before you start accusing them. But don't turn into a snoop to do it either.
Because if you have to ask then you believe he is cheating and aren't going to take anything at face value as the truth.
If you trust him then go with it. If not and it appears not, leave. | |
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Posted: 10/29/2009 1:36:08 AM | you are the biggest DUPE in the world!!!
ditch the guy. if not, make t-shirts with your picture and the word "DUPE" underneath it. | |
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| Is he cheating or not.
Posted: 10/29/2009 7:55:55 AM | Next time , just for effect, walk up to him with printouts of the photos in question and start laughing vehemently, at which point you cup your forehead with a well formed "L" sign and your tongue hanging out the side of your mouth.
Then walk away giggling and singing some song with the word loser in it.
If confronting them doesn't work, maybe humiliation will.
If it were me, I'd be shopping for a new boyfriend. | |
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