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 sunkissedlotus

Joined: 10/2/2009
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Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 10/18/2009 9:21:42 AM
Well, true. Sex for women isn't a high priority unless she hasn't had some in a while or her libido is not pretty high. But a woman can get turned off pretty quick even if she was planning to have sex. If I notice desperateness, and the chemistry isn't as high on my part, he acts like hes don Juan, his cell is blowing up and is aloof, not focused on me but acting like a hornball, no - hes not getting none that moment and beyond. When on POF I get repeated how you doing sexy, and can I marry you lines without getting to know ME as a person, no matter how hot they are, they lost their friggin chance. Like the other poster said, there are plenty of other ****s around for them to get into. But from personal experience, once I am caught, they dont want to leave, I have boot them out. Once I am settled in, sex is awesome. And fear of a man wanting sex shouldn't dictate your dating scheme, in general yes they want that, but some guys there actually take time in courting you, interested in getting to know you, are attracted to you, and like the dance it takes to seal the deal. But think about this, you wouldnt want to get stuck with a bad lay either, its better to test out the chemistry in the sack, just in case you get the romeo who is clueless there. Because sorry men, there are some of you can talk the talk but not walk it.
 aaamm

Joined: 7/5/2009
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Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 10/18/2009 9:28:21 AM
Oh no, seems many men think about how they don't want to pay for a date and want to blame a woman for taking advantage of him. Some men worry about being found out about emailing more than one woman and professing their love. Some men worry about how they will sneak out on their wife to have sex with a strange woman that he lied to and said he was divorced. I guess you could say he thinks about all of his lies and how he can keep up with them. Some people worry more about the person posting than what their question is, they want to judge and project their evilness on the poster. Of course you can use women in place of man.
 2Irish1

Joined: 9/1/2008
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Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 10/18/2009 12:20:09 PM
^^^^Some men never even think about doing all those things....sounds like your pickers is woefully messed-up...
Oh no, seems many men think about how they don't want to pay for a date and want to blame a woman for taking advantage of him. Some men worry about being found out about emailing more than one woman and professing their love. Some men worry about how they will sneak out on their wife to have sex with a strange woman that he lied to and said he was divorced. I guess you could say he thinks about all of his lies and how he can keep up with them. Some people worry more about the person posting than what their question is, they want to judge and project their evilness on the poster. Of course you can use women in place of man.
 aaamm

Joined: 7/5/2009
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Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 10/18/2009 12:33:58 PM
^^^^^Happily engaged Irish. I was writing from the forum perspective, what I read on the forums and what has been directed at me on the forums.
 808 syndicate

Joined: 10/13/2009
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Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 10/18/2009 4:49:26 PM
I know OP, it's sad isn't it?

Men are starting to act like sex-starved teenage boys. Maybe the younger men are looking more for an LTR? I know the 40+ year olds I've dated from POF seem to be looking for FWB only.


^^^Wow, so just because some people think about sex constantly, that's sad to you? how so? And if these sex starved teenage boys are to much for you, then maybe you should consider switching teams then...
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