| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/18/2009 11:44:54 AM | Zekestone, I think her profile fits her age. Her age......And yes I do think someone would date her because of her job and interests. Her job is special. Only a certain special kind of person...one who has these qualities...caring, patience, comassion and empathy, honesty and loyalty, can do this type of job. And I am sure there are alot of men whom love horses and will appreciate her passion. She has education and personality. So a young man who wants these qualities in a girl would like her. She has the time to grow as a person. She has her whole life in front of her and is headed in the right direction. It sounds like she knows what she wants and she respects and loves herself and bless her for not giving into her beliefs.
Now, some woman will like the qualities you put in your profile and some won't be into you. Same with everyones including myself.
I have made my opinion clear so I an no longer into proving you wrong nor into your opinion regarding this beautiful young lady. For some people once a good opinion is lost is lost forever.
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/18/2009 11:56:47 AM | | Whatever it is that you're lacking, you tend to think about more often. Money, sex, food, etc. ... all things that if done without over a long period of time leaves you longing. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/18/2009 12:01:54 PM | | Sex is not important to me anymore. I would love to be in a romantic relationship but that seems to scare of women these days. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/18/2009 1:31:33 PM | oh damn i had a good answer for this but i forgot it because my mind wandered to sex.
maybe later i'll remember it.
what was i going to remember?
oh yeah, to have sex. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/18/2009 9:43:06 PM | Thumperitis,
Find me a guy who will date her for her horse, job or interests she has listed WITHOUT caring about the potential for sex at all and I'll agree with you.
As for caring, patience, compassion and empathy, honesty and loyalty.... guess what? You just described a FRIEND, not a date.
And guess what? Her profile says she's here for DATING, not friends.
So why is it so hard to understand why she's regularly meeting guys who are thinking about sex? | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/18/2009 10:41:36 PM | No, i'm a chocaholic so the majority of my time is spent wondering when and where i'm going to get my next sugar fix! I could be lured into thoughts of sex if a woman wandered by covered in melted chocolate though but thats highly unlikely at this stage!  | |
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Posted: 6/18/2009 11:07:22 PM | Zekestone...you are becomming a pain in my arse!!! First of all, fair is fair right? find me a lady that will date you for your...riding a bike...job or interests you have listed....practicing environmentalist..politics...economics..social interaction...  and CARES about you wanting a lady for her sexual personality, sexy body and a fling. Ohh let us not forget you are married and living with your wife...oh wait you are separated and she accepts and approves you being on this site. Now mind you I am in no way judging you nor bashing you. I am sure you will find the type of lady you are looking for cause there are all types of people out there. Just as I am sure our young subject will find the type of man she is looking for as well.
For all the ladies reading this and looking for the man of your dreams...These are not my words mind you....he stated he doesn't want a woman he is dating to be patient, comassionate, empathetic, honest nor loyal cause only a friend can be these things and he is here for dating . I don't know, I'm just wondering....WHAT do you want your dates to be? Forbearing, cold blooded, forcefull, dishonest and disloyal and in no way a friend? I think you are getting closer to finding the woman of your dreams. Honestly, I wish you the best of luck and a long and happy life.
As for why she's meeting guys that think about sex....read this forum and you may find your answer cause I'll be damned if I know the answer....hahahahaha I will admitt I'm beggining to like you...the pain in my arse is getting worse and worse and worse!!!! | |
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Posted: 6/19/2009 6:35:30 AM | Not to get too philosophical and sound like a sex therapist or a shrink but......
sex will all ways be a factor in our lives we where born to procreate. We have all experienced the dry spells (whether married or single) and then yeah! Iam thinking sex all the bloody time and lack off it...... So then you have your sex maniacs Nymphs lunatics that came about by circumstances molestation incest products of their environment which is very sad but true. or (not... if you like that sort of thing)
Also stages in life are a factor your age, pressures of life determine your libido desires......... work kids money you know what Imean
Bottom line is this young lady is what!!! 23 I have underware older don't sweat it babe you have miles and miles before you sleep ...... with many guys men good bad indifferent just stick with your truth find some one who respects loves and truly wants to be with you and remember every thing is subject to change especially as you grow older.  | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/19/2009 9:39:09 AM |
For all the ladies reading this and looking for the man of your dreams...These are not my words mind you....he stated he doesn't want a woman he is dating to be patient, comassionate, empathetic, honest nor loyal cause only a friend can be these things and he is here for dating . I don't know, I'm just wondering....WHAT do you want your dates to be? Forbearing, cold blooded, forcefull, dishonest and disloyal and in no way a friend? I think you are getting closer to finding the woman of your dreams. Honestly, I wish you the best of luck and a long and happy life.
For a counselor, your comprehension and listening abilities are surprisingly poor.
For one thing, I never stated that I didn't want someone who is patient, empathetic, loyal, etc, etc... But if I'm going on a date, I'm thinking of the possibility of intimacy down the road with the person I'm meeting. If I'm not thinking that, then it's not a date and the person is merely a friend. And about a fling... didn't I say that "it's not really my kind of thing"?
You must not only Look at the words. You must also *read* and *comprehend* them in the context that they are written.
It's not my problem if being truthful gives you pain... | |
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Posted: 6/19/2009 11:39:49 AM | Zekestone....These were your words......As for caring, patience, compassion and empathy, honesty and loyalty.... guess what? You just described a FRIEND, not a date./////But if I'm going on a date, I'm thinking of the possibility of intimacy down the road with the person I'm meeting. If I'm not thinking that, then it's not a date and the person is merely a friend./////For a counselor, your comprehension and listening abilities are surprisingly poor.
Blah blah blah blah 
I deal with the MR and Bipolar...I give possitive advise not negative....we have a room available  | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/19/2009 11:48:15 AM |
Verity, you make it interesting to note how in one thread I can completely agree with you yet in another think totally different. Whether it's "brilliant" or not isn't the issue in my mind but whether the OP was addressed decently and accordingly. Two totally different subjects really.
brilliant post.
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/19/2009 11:53:33 AM | Yup thumperitis... and my point was that a date would have some or all of that PLUS the possibility of intimacy down the road. Nowhere did I say that dates should be devoid of those attributes.
Consider this... would you rather have a date take a look at you and lose all thoughts of intimacy/sex... or would you rather have your date look at you and think "Hmmmm... "
As for having a room available... thanks but I don't need it. I already have a nice house.
And if you're insinuating that I'm either MR or Bipolar, it seems that your knowledge of those disorders is as poor as your reading comprehension.
How's the pain in your Arse doing? | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/19/2009 11:58:38 AM | | It does seem to us that all humans think about is sex. We have never seens anything like it. Being asexual, we spend our time pursuing more productive endeavors. We do wonder what is the average number of offspring is produced per sex act. It seems a very low ratio. It is incredibly inefficient. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/19/2009 12:05:30 PM | There are some people on here that are here only for sex. Those are the ones who will bring up the subject and inquire as to interest either immediately or very shortly after communicating. I think the modus operandi is the more you ask, the better chance you have of hitting the jackpot.
So Majestic, consider yourself lucky, not degraded, that the particular young man let you know right away what his true interest is, rather than color your world with hopes of a love relationship where there is none. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/19/2009 12:15:30 PM | Zekestone...You said friends have those attributes not dates...I copied your words for you so you could comprehend what your words said now if you would have put it that way in the first place then you wouldn't have been misunderstood!!!
I want my date to look at me and think...woww she is beautiful outside as well as
inside. I do not want my dates to think she is someone I would have intamacy/sex with and I don't care what she is on the inside.
No, I don't think you are MR or Bipolar I was just being an arse!! Speaking of arses...the pain isn't so bad after all!!! But you can kiss it for me and make it all better!!!!
Now, can you please say one possitive thing about this young lady? | |
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Posted: 6/19/2009 12:33:11 PM |
Zekestone...You said friends have those attributes not dates...I copied your words for you so you could comprehend what your words said now if you would have put it that way in the first place then you wouldn't have been misunderstood!!!
I know what my words meant... the problem is that you don't.
Now, can you please say one possitive thing about this young lady?
Absolutely... given that the guy wanted to have sex with her, she's probably good in bed...
No, I don't think you are MR or Bipolar I was just being an arse!! Speaking of arses...the pain isn't so bad after all!!! But you can kiss it for me and make it all better!!!!
I'll kiss your arse... but I might end up biting it instead... | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/19/2009 12:48:12 PM | My answer to your question would be....pretty much. It seems that humor and intellect have left the building...perhaps for good! Sex has replaced them both, unfortunately. I mean good lord, how in the world is a woman supposed to be attracted to man enough to want to have an intimate relationship when he can't even carry on a conversation?! Blah. That's just a turn-off in my world.  | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/19/2009 12:57:30 PM | One more post....the guy is just shallow and I wouldn't give him the time of day. I mean think of it this way, anyone can just have sex....h*ll it doesn't take much of a brain for that one. You need someone who can prove to be more of a challenge to you by proving they can actually use their brain for treating you the way you should be treated. Otherwise, people just suck. | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/19/2009 12:57:42 PM | When a woman makes a statement like the header question for this post,I know two things:
1) Sex w/ her will be infrequent
2) It won't be very good
If sex isn't major issue for you,put it in your profile...and deal w/ the lack of interest that will likely cause.
The stress comes when the man thinks it's the "right time"...and for the woman,there will never be a "right time." | |
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Posted: 6/19/2009 1:48:48 PM | Zekestone...I will let your original statement about dating/friends rest in peace.  Now that you have somewhat redeamed yourself...the problem we face now is that you can not communucate anything possitive regarding this sweet young girl. Once again your words....given that the guy wanted to have sex with er, she's probably good in bed...hahahaha!
WRONG ANSWER....come on try again, I know you can do it! Dig deep inside yourself, pull out your compassion and say something nice or possitive about her.
If you bite...I might bite back... | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/19/2009 2:54:31 PM |
Now that you have somewhat redeamed yourself...
I disagree... for I am Evil and am The Prince of Insufficient Light and Ruler of Heck!
the problem we face now is that you can not communucate anything possitive regarding this sweet young girl.
Hey... being good in bed IS a good and positive thing to say. Alright... alright... Hmmm... being nice... ouch... being nice hurts... ouch ouch ouch... Hey... OP updated her profile. Okay here's a compliment... OP listens to and takes advice even if she doesn't like what she hears... and that's based on some improvements I see she's made to her profile. And she's focusing her efforts on guys who are into the Equestrian thing as a method of increasing her chances of meeting a guy who will want her for more than just sex...
If you bite...I might bite back...
Yeah but I'll leave marks...
And then what of your statement in your profile:
"I know who I am and what I want...I have spent alot of time concentrating on that...he can not be a mean man who likes to be mentally and physically abusive..."
Could it be... you, the counselor, likes to have her Hanky Panky with a little bit of Spanky?
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Posted: 6/19/2009 3:56:59 PM | Zekestone....ahhh...so you appear periodically to inflict mild punishments for peoples moderate transgressions....to annoy them rather than to torment them outright? Kinda like a pain in peoples arses!!!
I am proud of you for the compliment you bestowed on our young subject...very well done!!! 
Hmmm..."I know who I am and what I want...I have spent alot of time concentrating on that...he can not be a mean man who likes to be mentally and physically abusive..."
True however, I can appreciate a man that can bring the naughty out in me!!!!  | |
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Posted: 6/20/2009 6:01:16 AM |
I am proud of you for the compliment you bestowed on our young subject...very well done!!!
Yeah but in my opinion, her being 'good in bed' is still the better compliment...
True however, I can appreciate a man that can bring the naughty out in me!!!!
I'll do more than that... I'll bring you over to the Dark Side... or at least the side with Insufficient Light... | |
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| Is Sex all that Everyone thinks about?
Posted: 6/20/2009 6:34:27 AM | Just an observation on this topic ...... It was posted on 6/13/2009 and already had 9 pages comparing it to some of the other topics I would say its a very popular issue. The intersting part is when you have a look at the replies on this it looks like 60% men to 40% woman replied so the conclusion would be yes men thinks about sex more than woman. Well I guess that a shocker conclusion Duhhh. However I would say it depends on the kind of man you attract that also matters. At the end of the day its your choice who you want to hang out with.  | |
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Posted: 6/20/2009 7:20:45 AM | | Hummmmmm sex is overrated!! I mean hell I like it who don't?? And yes men were born to breed!! But there comes a time in your life when you look back on things and realize it's people that matter, not one night stands! If you are doing your job as a man, she will give you the sex! And I have found out if you do your part, she will give you all you want or can handle! | |
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